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>had sex with a female friend
>we cuddled all night
>want to turn this into something
How long do I wait before writing to her? What should I write to her? Jesus christ help me /adv/ I'm no good with women
>>17100416
Don't be a weirdo.
Don't ask where this is going.
Just hang out again, flirt with her, fuck.
After having sex with her multiple times, you can worry about turning this into something.
>>17100416
Don't wait a long time to contact her, don't try to make yourself seem aloof. Just don't smother her with too much emotion/expectation too quickly.
Just text her, say something along the lines of "I had a great time last night, you free tomorrow evening? Want to get dinner after work?" (or school, whatever, you get the picture)
Don't be all like "that was magical, I really feel our souls connected," but don't hide your interest or excitement either. If...
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>>17100467
>that was magical, I really feel our souls connected
rofl
>mfw some people would actually say this
>mfw i deleted my reaction folder
How can I stop fapping? I want to stop or reduce fapping in general since I feel alot better and more energetic when I don't. The longest I went without fapping was about a week or so and even then that was a stretch. The hardest part is during the mornings when I wake up and it's difficult resisting the urge to spank the monkey.
>>17100413
she looks really familiar ..
>>17100433
FB fap thread probably
Fuck bitches and you will lose the urge to fap.
So, I found out that my boyfriend was raped when he was 12 by his uncle. I've been extremely angry since then and just want to make the life of this rapist pedophile miserable. Anyone wants to help or have any ideas?
>>17100408
If the statute of limitations hasn't expired, cops.
If it has, just let the past be in the past.
Dredging up the past will probably make things worse.
Nothing you can do but help him move past it, keeping his mind off of it until it fades.
>>17100408
How old is your boyfriend now?
Should I talk with my ex again? Or will she talk to me first?
>>17100407
No.
No, no, no.
>>17100410
Why not though
Why do you want to?
Can having another girl in your Facebook profile picture (e.g prom), be off putting to potential dates?
>>17100399
Your profile picture is meant to be as representative of you as possible. If someone has another person in there, it's generally safe to assume that that person is their partner.
>>17100399
yes omg
I have no idea why guys do that, especially in Tinder pictures
>>17100480
She inititated contact by sending me a friend request and a message request. I then asked her out. She said yes and she flaked the day after. Could my profile picture still be a contributing factor?
How do I pass UK graduate job interviews? I've probably taken part in about 30 processes for internships and graduate roles since 2013 and failed all of them (though I have passed individual phone interviews).
Almost all questions are basic questions about the company or competency questions. I know about the STAR format for the latter. I think the only reason I may fail these is due to not being a normie. I've interviewed with companies in many industries (investment banks, public sector, engineering, and more) and it seems that every recruitment process desires...
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You may know all the right answers, but how's your delivery? Do you give interviewers a weird creepy vibe?
>>17100376
Honestly, sometimes my voice gets clogged up when I'm nervous. But I don't know if it's a big deal. I talk in a straightforward way
you're still applying to graduate roles since graduating in 2013? what have you been doing since then? and what degree can get you into banking, public sector, engineering and more?
I'm not sure what my ex wants. We broke up a month ago yet recently, he said he still wants to keep in touch. He says he's not interested in a relationship though because of stress in his life and our age difference. I'm pondering whether to stick around for him or just let it go. Deep down, I still want to some day be with him. I'm being irrational aren't I?
Just let it go. Maybe someday you'll meet again, when you're both ready for this. But it's clearly not gonna work out unless he changes somehow, and you can't make him do that.
>>17100350
>No context
How can we help you if we don't even know what happened?
Alright. Well, I had been with my ex for about eight months. He's 20 and I'm 28. The past two months, however, he had started to change as school and problems in the family started to affect him. He became less loving and respectful toward me with no change in sight...
As a result, I thought it would be best if we broke up. Being the weak person I was though, I crawled back to him only to get hurtfully rejected. However, after ignoring him for a while , he decided to talk to me again recently stating that he wants to keep in touch. I apologized for acting selfish...
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i could really use some insight into my dating profile. my short summary is that while i'm not hideous, i'm also no Adonis. maybe a 4 or 5 - just average overweight guy. i've tried about 10+ years of dating and managed to fuck up one relationship, and out of all the cold starts, i get a couple half started conversations that lead no where or get brushed of. the one time it panned out i'm convinced was a fluke - she even said after we broke up that she was in a bad place and just looking to forget her ex.
because i work nights, i sleep most of the day...
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>>17100345
>just average overweight guy
Eat better, eat less, and exercise more. Care about your appearance. It's not even shallow, it doesn't make these girls shallow. It says a lot about you if you have the discipline and work ethic to take care of your body, and it says a lot about you if you don't.
>>17100352
have been for years. from 400ish lbs when i was 20 i'm down to around 260lbs now and still losing. regular activities (biking, fishing, shooting, jogging/walking) as well. i do have some thick hair that gets greasy easily, but i just shower twice a day, easy enough. my clothes are simple and i groom and shave like anyone else.
do you think that i'm not dateable as a work in progress and should just hermitize until i'm fitter?
>>17100345
>i'm not hideous, i'm also no Adonis. maybe a 4 or 5 - just average overweight guy.
This stands out to me. If this is how you present yourself, that may be why you aren't seeing a lot of success. I mean, I understand that these aren't the words you use to describe yourself to a potential date, but it's pretty clear that you don't think very highly of yourself, and that's something that can be a real turnoff. "Chicks dig confidence" is an...
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I got work in a little less than an hour and don't know if I should go in.
So, I was at work Saturday (I work retail) and customers were pissing me off because it was super busy and they were all ring fucking dicks like they couldn't wait 5 minutes while I took care of the other customers in front of them, so I started to lose my temper and towards the end of my shift some smart ass customer and his fat wife started talking shit and I was so close to snapping.
I needed a price check on one of their items and I asked this older lady I work with if she could...
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Fuck no.
It's retail and quite easy to land a job in.
>Do I just avoid what could potentially be some serious shit if I go back in?
>serious shit
Like what? At worst they'll just fire you, which is what might happen anyway if you don't go in.
Bump.
My manager said I wasn't fired but he needed to talk to me and HR. Which I assume means it's only a matter of time. And I feel like if I go in ill only be in more shit because HR is never there to help. Anyone been in a similar situation?
GF told me she cant tell me she doesnt love me.
But still has sex with me, gives me blowjob when i want, comes home on time, cleans, cooks, watches stuff with me etc.
>Been together for 4 years and some change
>Lived together for 4 years
>Neither of us has a "real" family, we have both been more or less on our own since 15 years of age
>Neither of us has good friends (i stopped talking with mine completely when or before we got together, she...
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Youre a child playing pretend at being an adult. You really only care about your own selfish emotions. And it sounds like she's significantly depressed.
Overall this feels like a really unhealthy relationship /cycle you guys are stuck in.
That's just my 2 cents as a 30 year old with a lot of bad relationships in my past.
>>17100293
My girlfriend of 4 years doesnt want to tongue kiss, go anywhere or talk about issues and i am caring only about my own selfish emotions?
She kept saying lets relax and watch something etc. as i kept repeating it seems like the only option for us is to split up.
I get a lot of attention from other women, and i have been asked numerously why am i even with her (generally she is not considered attractive at all). Its because i fell in love with her for who she is and how she acts.
Why am i selfish...
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>>17100320
Dude look at your reply. I can tell how salty and anxious and needy you are just from how you communicate.
I'm surprised she's stuck with you for so long. Maybe that's the key word - she feels stuck.
You need to do some honest self reflection
What are some cool cult names.im not good at naming anything but i really want to have an etheir creepy or cool name for a bunch of ill willed people who will kill for me.
death eaters, of course
>>17100240
Something that sounds benign can still be sinister.
Like "The Order of Eternal Peace" or something like that.
tunnel snakes
So basically gave someone the middle finger on the road today for being a jerk.
I was going the speed limit and the car in front of me slowed down sharply, so I had to do the same. I noticed the car that had been weaving in and out of traffic who was right behind me, was waving his hands around in a an anger at what appeared to be muy sudden braking. I gave him the finger in return which resulted in a 5km tailgating and roadrage incedent in which he would not stop following me and kept signaling me to pull over. He looked like an utter psychopath.
I was considering...
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He could have probably yelled at you, and maybe try and hit you. I wouldn't be extremely worried. How big of a town do you live in? Just keep a look out for people following you. And if you do see him following you, call the police and/or drive to the police station.
>>17100251
I didnt get his license plate because I was quite shocked that this was happening at all, so perhaps next time if it happens, this will be the first thing I make sure to do.
im usually an extremely nice person, i was just having a bad day and did not expect that kind of reaction.
>>17100233
You should've driven slower to piss him off more.
So, I'm sick. Like, not gonna recover sick. It's gonna be a long painful death and honestly I don't want it. How can I kill myself without making it look like I killed myself. I'd like to spare my family the horror of suicide and the horror of watching me die slowly.
Pic unrelated, it's my dogs.
Damn Anon, you could try getting into an accident like crashing into a tree while intoxicated so you're not risking anyone else's life, they'll just think it's an accident. I don't condone trying to commit suicide but what do you have anon?
>>17100219
I don't drink, so if I was drunk I assume they would know I tried it. I have endormetriosis, which is rarely fatal, however after 10 years of surgeries and treatments my doctor told me this morning there is nothing else they can do. I will just have to wait until some adhesion attaches itself to some important organ and kills it.
>>17100230
That's awful anon, the other thing I'd suggest is smoke inhalation from a fire, set from the kitchen or something. I wouldn't want you to burn to death, falling from a ladder doing housework or something related. My best bet would be a car accident, it's believable.
Sup nigz, i got invited by a friend to try weed, 3-4 of my college friends organized it,should i do it? How it feels? Any help is welcomed
>>17100120
4chan is 18+
>>17100123
I am 19
>>17100171
Suure
Pic unrelated. Needed a random pic to upload to post. im on my iPad which has no pics, so I had to take one for this.
I started dating a girl whom I'd been close friends with for the 9 months or so prior to us dating, back In June 2015. Within a couple months we had fallen in love pretty hard, and we're always together when we weren't working. We'd hang out probably 5 to 6 days per week, for almost the entire day. We had tons of fun, tons of common interests, got into a lot of trouble, and just basically had the time of our lives together. We talked about...
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OP here,
Sorry if this post is shittily detailed and has like no real structure. I'm exhausted, but too high on stims to sleep.
And yes that's my gun in the picture... No, I'm not thinking of offing myself. It was under my pillow, so it was the closest photographable thing. Fuck I'm high-.-
>>17100102
No. You shouldn't. She does not care about you. She just needs you because she hates being alone and you are her best and fastest option right now.
As soon as a better chance comes along she will dump you again. Stop being friends with her too if you can.
You know I actually started reading your blogpost but the sentence structure and general retardation was just too much for me.
Sober up and try again tomorrow
