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i see this pop up once in a while, but why does it matter if a potential girlfriend has a rich family or not?
what sort of indication is that? is it just a status thing? or does it say something else about the girl in question that is desirable?
like i can get why a girl would want to date a rich guy; traditionally, men like to spoil/bribe girls for their company. but rich girls don't do the hand outs thing unless they're desperate... and they would be even more high-maintenance because they're used to being spoiled aren't they?
I don't know what you're talking about. I've never heard of guys being told to go for rich girls.
>>17102284
like in this post for example: >>17101814
>she sucked my dick and swallowed was literally best shit ever, hand jobs also on point, rich parents etc
>rich parents
why does that matter when considering a girlfriend? this isn't the first time i've seen this mentioned.
>>17102281
I come from a rich family.
It makes me care less about how wealthy my partner is. I have and make enough money for the both of us, so he could be dirt poor and it wouldn't affect my opinion of him.
Also, I do do the hand outs thing. I always pay for my friend's meals and I pay for everything when I go out on a date. That being said, it is important that a boy OFFER to pay. It's like the thought that counts. The fact that he'd be willing to sacrifice when he doesn't have a lot...
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I have a very bad habit of thinking that any girl that is nice/friendly towards me, (and as long as I'm attracted to her) that she's flirting and/or interested in me.
There's a girl I go to school with now that talks to me every day, and is always awkwardly flagging me down to get my attention and talk about stuff. She usually talks about the same stuff every conversation and it's kinda boring desu. I wish she'd talk about different stuff than school, work, because when she does she's fun to talk to.
Anywho, my first thoughts are that...
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>>17102265
>I have a very bad habit of thinking that any girl that is nice/friendly towards me, (and as long as I'm attracted to her) that she's flirting and/or interested in me.
This is common among geeks, or really any men who aren't used to gettung attention from women. I used to have it too. Got me in a lot of trouble. You wouldn't want to get out the way I did.
But you've got to decide for yourself whether or not to ask her out, and -this is the tricky part-...
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>>17102425
>This is common among geeks, or really any men who aren't used to gettung attention from women. I used to have it too. Got me in a lot of trouble.
Thankfully many of us compensate for it by assuming no woman could ever be interested in us
>>17102425
You're fucking dumb
>>17102801
You're fucking dumb too.
>>17102265
Are you telling me you don't flirt back? Ask her out numb nuts. Don't look for or wait for any signs. Just go at it.
How to learn History?
I never payed any fucking attention to school and don't know jack shit.
What websites give a good History lesson and don't censor things like Jews being kicked out of civilizations since the beginning of time.
>>17102250
Go to /his/ and buy books
>>17102250
>don't censor things like Jews being kicked out of civilizations since the beginning of time.
>>>/pol/
>>17102264
That's current events
They do talk history some times but it's not in depth
>>17102256
Thank you.
Hey /adv/, whenever I have sex with girls I can't cum. It's super embarrassing. Like I get really turned on and can keep a boner, I just never get anywhere near cumming. The first girl I ever had sex with was the only one I was able to cum with, probably because her and I had sex so many times and she knew how to "work" me. Help?
inb4 gay
Let me guess, you masterbate alot?
Do you look at a lot of porn? If so, there's your answer.
>>17102230
Do you use condoms? If so, that's your problem. I couldn't ever get off with a condom.
Every night I go to sleep wanting to wake up earlier to get some work done.
Every day I wake up, I look myself in the mirror, reassure myself that I'm not imagining things and that I really am ugly, and search through the internet for about 3 or so hours on average in hopes of finding anything to hold onto that would give me hope that I one day won't have to feel the pain and live the ugly person life anymore, filled with loneliness, depression, anxiety, and now a bunch of mental health issues that hopped out ever since I stopped being so oblivious to why it...
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>>17100691
>Every day I wake up, I look myself in the mirror
That's 90% of your problem right there dipshit. Everyone looks ugly first thing in the morning.
>>17100693
You don't actually think an appearance-obsessed person like me wouldn't know that, dipshit? Why the fuck are you on /adv/ in the first place.
>>17100742
Why are you asking for helpful advice when you are utterly unreasonable anyway?
So, I'll try not to give you guys too much to read.
My problem is basically this: I have a really weird relationship towards sex (and girls). I'm male (hetero), mid 20s.
I've given it a lot of thought (and collected some experiences / situations) recently and I've come to the conclusion that I can't solve this on my own. The reason I am posting here is because I can't afford a therapist rn (doesn't seem like I can get one for free unless I have "major" mental issues).
I'll try and give you an extremely concise...
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>I am not a man whore. I rejected sex offers from 3 stranger girls.
>What is wrong with me?
We call this phenomen: Having standards or not being slut.
>>17101027
I get what you mean and I understand how my original post might be interpreted. but this has happened even with girls I've been acquainted to and clicked with on a personal level, ie what could be called perfect circumstances
Hey I'm kind of going through a similar thing, my sex drive has almost completely gone away over the last year or so and I don't know why. Did you have a stronger sex drive when you were younger? Are you stressed out about work or anything, or busy a lot lately? Maybe you need to have an emotional connection to someone to want to have sex with them, so if you didn't know those girls well it didn't interest you. Or maybe you're just not that interested in sex! It happens I suppose, there are people who are asexual. Maybe talk to a doctor if you're...
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I posted this in the "ask the opposite gender anything" thread a little earlier, but now my suspicions have been aroused once again. There have been other things building up to this, but I'm not taking the time to explain those. I'll start off by saying that this guy lives a couple hours away from me.
A few days ago, he picked me up and we went back to his house, because I have ADHD and aspergers and fucking suck at driving long distances.
We started fooling around in bed, and almost right away he told me that he had a weird bruise that he...
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I've stayed at his place by myself for way longer than 4 hours before. He said I couldn't come with him to tech support because he talked about how huge of an asshole this guy was, throws things when he gets angry and curses people out. I don't know, it sounded really made up.
I should add that the entire time he was telling me about how he didn't know how he got the bruise, he kept looking to the left. I know that that isn't always an indication of lying, but shit's just adding up.
I asked him about it again later, he said that he...
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>>17100634
Jesus, you know when he's peeing or shitting?
I'd cheat on you too, only because you'd probably stab a guy who tried to break up with you.
>>17100634
>>17100659
You sound crazy and none of this adds up to him sounding suspicious at all.
You've already gone through his phone and found nothing. Either get over it or do the guy a favor and dump him.
How the fuck do I get over a girl that flaked on me.
It's bugging me since she is in my class at college and I just feel it's awkward as fuck.
Over thinking about has prevented me from studying properly. I just want to stop thinking about it but I can't.
Any advice?
fuck man im in the same boat
>>17100618
Tell me your situation bro
>>17100617
Don't make a big thing of avoiding her. If you cross paths, just give a polite "hi" and be on your way. If you act awkward, you CREATE awkwardness.
Tell yourself that THIS girl is not interested in you, you have a 0% chance (it might not be true, but it's helpful to think this way). Act as if she's wearing a wedding ring. Don't take it personally, don't try to analyze WHY she rejected you. Don't assume that there's something wrong with you, or with the way you...
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I've got a Bachelor of Science and a Bachelor of Arts, majoring in Chemistry, History, and Philosophy. I'm unemployed and have no clue what sort of job to look for. I can't even get a look in at retail atm.
Probs should've thought about it before I started studying, but I was always told that if you just go with your passion it'll work out for you. Bum advice in my case I guess. I thought having something mathsy in there would work to my advantage. Guess not.
Any ideas on jobs I can take that won't bore me to death / how to get one?
Buuuuuuump
The university or college at which you studied has a career center full of people paid to help graduates and soon-to-be graduates figure this sort of thing out.
They'll also know about local options if you're still living in the area.
I'm guessing you were one of the idiots who never used networking to build an advantage, right?
Building a network of people to help influence the world around you is what having a career involves. You've got to 'know a guy'. Without a network of any kind, you come off as a crapshoot, and no sensible person wants to take the risk.
Soap and water
>>17100582
WRONG
It's water and soap, not soap and water.
Take a piss you tard.
It's gonna burn though either way.
How do I become more tolerant of negative and abrasive people?
What do you mean by "negative and abrasive?"
Just go by the policy of "live and let live." If they're not trying to stand in your way or tear you down, let them be. If they're being "negative" in a way that directly jeopardizes your goals or ambitions, then confront them appropriately.
>>17100579
Inconsiderate. I keep feeling like the effort it would take them to go slightly out of their way to NOT upset me would be much more economical to take than upsetting me and then dealing with me being upset every single time, but for some reason such efforts as not stressing me out with things I can't control at times when I don't have the energy to deal with them is simply too much for them.
Sometimes I have to half-ass two things instead of just leaving them undone, and I feel like it is unreasonable...
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How do I live and let live with people who don't let ME live?
I started this new group, how do I advertise to gain more memebers?
you can join too
A meme group on Facebook? Good luck
no option
>>17100534
God I fucking hate this era
I screwed up. Last night I was tired of being unsatisfied in bed and we had an arguement. I explained of all the years we've been married together, I always took the time explore your body. But it seems one sided.
Anyways, in a heated drunken argument I said I came way more times with my ex. Now it's awkward between us. I feel like an idiot, you never bring up your past and you never compare them to your spouse.
What do I do now?
>>17100489
You're a girl, right?
Anyway, you dun goofed.
You shouldn't have said that shit.
Encourage him to explore your body in a friendly way.
Although I don't know why you married a man who's not willing to learn how to pleasure you.
>>17100489
>I said I came way more times with my ex. Now it's awkward between us
>What do I do now?
kek. are you m or f?
This is dumb enough to be bait, but I'm bored.
>>17100489
JESUS CHRIST
There's no taking those words back. You really know how to verbally rip someone apart kek
Posted this on /fa/ but got no replies lol, so trying here.
I have a red birthmark caused by blood vessels on my neck which I'm finally getting treated by pulse dye laser. This unfortunately leaves big bruising for 1-2 weeks.
I usually use Dermablend to cover it, but dermablend is shit in that it's usually either way too orange, or too red. I am veeery pale, and I used the palest product they have which is still too dark/red/orange. I can mix it with white makeup but it diluted the hold of the product and collects in folds of my neck.
Are there...
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>>17100483
bamp... pls halp
Just wear a scarf/turtlenecks?
>>17101015
I wear scarves everywhere. It's getting really uncomfortable because it's hot here now and it looks strange wearing a scarf in such weather. Plus it doesn't cover it all (bruises go up to my chin) and I can't wear scarves in the gym.
How to I get rid of the constant urge to kill myself, every moment of everyday?
There is no permanent joy in my life, I seek happiness and sadness is returned. I fear for my exams, though If I fail then I will kill myself without a doubt, even so I wish to get rid of these negative feelings that are a constant poison to my mind and a ward to the bonds of friendship I desperately crave to make with others.
>>17100432
Why do you hate life?
>>17100434
Because nothing good goes well for me. No matter how far I reach, I never obtain happiness. I have no tight bonds with people, I have no true friends. I just have me and my faith. Really, the only reason I'm still alive is that small flickering flame that tells me that one day, everything will be good, that this sadness will be worth it. But each day, it loses strength and I fear for the day the flame is extinguished.
>>17100446
It's not that everything will be good.
That's totally untrue.
But everything CAN be good.
There's a vital difference.
Whether things are good or not depends on your choices.
Give these guys a look.
And remember, pirate bay exists.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSURldy2EJE
