Just move on.

>friends don't invite me out because i'm too depressing to them

Jesus man, I get being stuck on a girl far away, but if its effecting your life this bad you need to distance yourself

>>17097839

>how can i deal with this.

your life is exactly the same as it was an hour ago. this girl wasnt in your life, she still isn't. nothignto deal with you just keep living your life, but perhaps iwth the focus of other girls

>>17097832
>so I should just get over it?

she said she's not interested. what are you going to do, pull some huge romantic gesture? You gotta get over it

just play it cool and focus on being her friend and maybe MAYBE she'll come around later but not for a while and only if you don't make it worse by pursuing it even further

>>17097869
Would it hurt to ask her best friend about it when I see her (in a few days)? (About what they were talking about on that festival for example, or if she knows anything). They are bff's (also just came back from vacation with her), so whatever I tell her might also reach her, but if it's over anyways then there shouldn't be a problem to casually bring it up, right? She might already know about that I asked her on a date anyways.

>>17097888
honestly? yeah, it would. you know that if you asked her friend that shit would make it back to her crush.
it's won't come off as "romantic" it would come off as clingy and insecure that you asked this girl out and now you're badgering her friend. you just gotta relax homie :^)

expect to be there all day.

What kind of questions will they ask me?

bump

I'm nervous.

>>17097787

being a recovering addict is all about second chances. youd want one. give her one. this isnt to say you should date her. id maybe leave that where its at. but its okay to talk and get closure. ask a friend to be your 'self destruct' button and prevent you from getting into deep

i don't think just talking to your ex is a bad idea in itself. it could be a worthy risk to take, and like you said, you're curious about how they ended up.

i think what the other anon said is a good idea. have a friend know the situation and tell them to look out for you if it looks like you're getting into addiction/an unhealthy relationship again. good luck OP!

This part of your greentext concerns me:
>leave ex because they're a fucking horrible person
You don't owe your ex anything. Nothing at all. I'm not telling you not to get back in touch with them, but if you do, it should be because you want to have closure and catch up, not because you feel you owe it to them.

>Translation: I'm jealous of this girl and I don't want her to get more attention than me
Don't even try to deny it. We're not stupid here

sheena oum

>>17097776

if ur all in agreement you just stop hanging otu with her and doing your own thing. never invite her. when at a social event and she comes up, disperse and re group. or just tell her.

>>17097770

we get 30 thousand posts a day about how people dont know what they do. and despite college attendance adn graduates at an all time high, theres still a large majority if people who cant even consider hte possibility of secondary education.

i knew what i wanted to do since i ws about 8 years old. i had two very strict rules
>i wanted to do something paranormal
>i wanted to make movies

i do both, though the latter independently.

I don't see what you expect us to say. You have to decide what you want to do on your own. We can't do it for you.

However, one thing I want to point out:

>Family company
You should take a moment to be grateful for the fact that you have a family situation which is strong enough to actually guarantee you a job. You say you "don't like it," but millions of people in the U.S alone would kill for that kind of stability. You probably get paid relatively well too.

>>17097770
>getting married before 30

why

It's not your interests. It's the fact that you're a fucking bore.

>>17097747
That's what I meant.

>>17097745

its a complex issue because you arent giving us much information to go on. the major issue is essentially that you are dating the wrong kind of people. you are apparently attractive enough to get dates, but would you mind posting a picture of yourself? and if possible a recent girl you were seeing? if not that just a picture of yourself and some of your known hobbies and itnerests would help. describe how you spend the average weekendi f you can. also job?

its a complex issue so the more information the better.

>>17097717
>Obviously i'm not going to be able to study for the subject a few hours before.
What?

>>17097717
Dude the IB exam are pretty fucking easy. Chill. Just go back over the material. If you've been paying any attention in class at all then you'll get a passing score

>>17097719

Not OP, but IB exams, similar to AP exams, can be very, very specific in their questions. You have to exhibit a lot of mastery about the subject in question to be able to answer the very narrowly focused topics they're asking you about. Depending on the topic, it could be an essay prompt asking about something that is the equivalent of about four paragraphs in a textbook that you used the entire year.

That said OP, I have nothing for you but a good luck message. Don't panic - you've been...
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Who says work is supposed to be fun?

>>17097697
and stand up you fucking pussy.

>>17097684
Get a standing desk.

And yes, a job will burn you out and you won't enjoy it.

>>17097673

you shouldnt really model your career around your boyfriend. he is something to consider, but you shoudl also consider yourself obviously. you will always need a job. but you can't guarantee your boyfriend will always be there for you.

my suggestions is to talk to him. you're doing a lot of gymnastics before even asking his opinion it seems. show him your offers. show him where you want to go, then suggest some locations that have jobs in his field. say you want to go together and make this big...
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>>17097673
Personally it took moving a few times to realize that moving wouldn't fix my issues. I have to fix them myself. Also I learned that I wanted to be closer to home.

So while it might be a good opportunity for positive change, he needs to take advantage of it, it's not a panacea.

>>17097673
What's your job OP?

27 here with the same problem. Although I'm even worse off and don't have any real close friends anymore, due to me moving around lots like a nomad over the years. My closest relationships had been with girls online in long distance relationships. I mean I'm not a virgin, I've had girlfriends I've lived with, but the closest connection was online. Actually, most of my best friends are online.

>>17097618
>>17097618

>how did you meet your significant other

i met my most recent girlfriend at the 'no pants' train ride. she was wearing some nerdy looking shit tucked into her panties. i was just wearing really plain boxers. we checked each other out the whole ride. went to the same bar for the after parties and i was working up the nerve to talk to her, started by nodding at her from across the room. she came right up...
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>>17097638

>dont just hit on a woman

its no secret that women are the ones who are approached, and they make decisions on which men to keep in their lives. that being said, desperately drooling over each and every girl as if they are a potential love interest is silly.

give yourself more value by not letting a woman sway you on first impressions alone. before you ever begin to say anything remotely flirtatious, talk...
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No matter what you do in life, you need to work hard. Time flies mate just fucking do what you need to.

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>>17097541
>17
>Thinks he's got it all figured out
Sounds about right.

>>17097635
OP here.
I don't know shit, I don't know what I want to do, but since most good jobs need university degrees it only makes sense to go to a good uni.

Well, it really depends on what you want. Girly girls are okay but they generally don't fuck as well. My girlfriend is for sure crazy and sassy and she fucks like a maniac. I had a friendly one and it was OK. Tomboy one fucked pretty good. But crazy and sassy fuck best.

Girly girls are more favored because they are considered more flirty and make it easier for guys to talk to. Also they exude more sexuality by being.. girly.

Girls who wear makeup are not automatically better, but guys get fooled by makeup so not using it really disadvantages your looks.

Your questions are so ambiguous lol

Personally I'm iffy about make up, as some girls look so ugly without it, and some girls look so ugly with it. I'd rather girls not wear any make up, I feel like girls who do are dishonest and insecure, which are two qualities I dislike.

Can't say for other parts of the world, but I think North America has advanced far enough that a girl can still be feminine without wearing dresses or things with frills on them.

Get a planner and plan every hour of your day, leaving room for breaks and a little free time. Stick to it religiously and wear a watch.

>>17098029
Funny , I just got into watches. I will try this.

>>17097447
Have down time to decompress after studying. I used to run after studying and the content would mesh a lot better. I hear there are studies on this but I'm way too high to confirm.

One of the major indicator that both Stalin and Hitler signs of lack of empathy is their relations with their family. You should research about Stalin's son. He got kidnapped by the Americans I believe and Stalin didn't even give a shit. There were lots of stories of how Hitler and Stalin mistreated their family.

>>17097386
They were thinking about greater good and had to sacrifice family life for their duty.

hey thats the guis from the memes!! XD