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I'm thinking about moving to my brothers house which is 6km away from my school. As well as school i am hoping to get a job soon and im asking what /adv/ thinks about longboards for transportation. i'll only be getting a crusing board because ill be traveling mostly, but i will get a kicktail. please share your opinion with me.
any input please??
bump
Do you live in an area with lots of hills? If not, consider getting a regular skateboard and some soft wheels instead, or.maybe a pennyboard.
Skateboards are slow as shit, get a bicycle
adv can i just have someone kinda, like, make sure im not dead. it sounds wierd but im scared to talk to my parents or brother and im worried ill do something stupid. so like, can i just kinda stick around here and chat about my issues for a while. i had a friend a while ago, my best friend, she was perfection, like an angel. but nothing is perfect. we all have skeletons. may 8th is her birthday and i cant handle it coming closer. she killed herself maybe a year and a half ago and i just cant deal with it right now. ive attempted suicide once but my brother found me and called paramedics so i guess im still here. i hate that i exist though, i still wish it worked, and i dont know that ill ever be safe to be alone. i dont know what im rambling about anymore. i dont even think this helps. i just dont want to go out like this, as much as my mind tells me to. are there any like, anonymous help lines or something. i dont think 4chan can keep me safe obviously i just want someone to talk to and sit with.
Probably not the best place. But I can confirm so far that you're not dead
Would you like a contact? I have to go to work soon, but normally I'll be always around to talk. Email or skype or something
I've been dating different girls for awhile and I'm tired of it, I hate it. Every single of of them but one ghosted me. The one who didn't friendzoned me but its whatever because she's almost asexual. Every time I meet a new girl she seems so nice, and seems like she won't end up being a bitch, but they all are. If it's just one date and and I never hear from them again, its whatever, I don't care. But all my dates seem to progressively get better and better, and my last one I actually got a second date and she spent the night and fooled around with me, then ghosted me the day we were supposed to have a third date. I fell pretty hard for her, not only was she a mega cutie, she was actually intelligent and just a blast to be around.
Been talking to tons and tons of girls on different dating apps to keep moving forward, got lots of numbers, lots of dates set up, nothing but flakes.
My friends tell me the secret to happiness is just fucking and conquering any girl I can, no matter how fat, ugly, or stupid they may be. How the fuck is that a good thing? My friend always falls into a depression after one night stands, feels all hollow and empty, yet tells me its stupid to want to have a girl to cuddle with while watching movies, to go hiking or whatever, just having fun and enjoying each other's company. He said nobody wants to do that shit.
If its true that really depresses me. I would rather have a qt partner for the long run then fuck brain dead druggie bitches in the back of a car every weekend. Is love dead?
>>17099237
From my experience most people use "dating apps" as "hookup apps" instead. Love is not dead, anon. You might just be trying for the wrong kind of girl. Your friends sound like the stereotypical American college students who just want to go to the bars every weekend to find a new qt to fuck then never call again. I wouldn't take too much advice from them. If you want to find a girl for the long run, look in other places besides those apps. Go out to a library or something, and talk to them in person.
>>17099237
stop using dating apps, go out and meet people
if you hate them, you aren't going to befriend one and date her successfully. you'll resent her because anything she does will be the result of her being female rather than the result of her being a person.
the lowest common denominator of -people- are shit sucking scum, male and female alike. some women are sitting and irrationally wondering the same thing. "why are ALL MEN such assholes?"
put aside this ridiculous way of thinking and just keep trying. there's nothing more rewarding than a long term loving relationship.
>>17099237
I really don't get why you hate women for being women, they evolved to be the eay they are. I'd say indifference would be a better attitude. You sound really whiny when you say "women don't wanna be my girlfriend/fuck me, stupid bitches"
I know you didn't say that exactly, but man you will hopefully start to realize that women are just how they are. Just stop dealing with them. Focus on your friendships, your family, and maybe even interests.
If you find your self getting sexually frustrated just jack off dude. Is chasing after a woman really worth all of the manipulation, and trouble?
Either way you will realize its not worth it.
Keeping women out of your life will make you alot more happier. My life has really turned around for the better after I just started to be indifferent to all of the women around me except close family.
Well dude I hope you take care.
Hey /adv/ feels are pretty fkd right now. So gf was on with this complete dog of a manager who has done nothing but tried to get me and my gf fired. From what she said before I always though she didn't like him either until she came home last night later than expected. When I asked why she stayed back she said she chose to, which doesn't make sense. When I told her I couldn't comprehend why she would stay back for that dog she started yelling saying she could do what she wanted and why I hated him so much....she knows all the things he's tried to do, what do ?
>tfw mind fuk
She fucked him dude
>>17099255
this senpai, im sorry
>>17099261
>>17099255
But she seems loyal
Sick and tired of being lonely, relationship wise, while all my friends have nice girlfriends.
I don't really think I'm ugly, and I've been working out. I'm trying to just lay back and not "try so hard" to get a girl, because I've heard that's a big turn off for girls, but recently this girl I went to prom with turned me down, which sucks because she was really the first girl to show interest in me, but I guess she wasn't really interested in me like that. I feel like there's nobody out there for me. Can anyone cheer me up?
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Same situation, considering suicide. But whenever I wanna do it I feel more alive and want to explore the world and do crazy shit.
My advice is not to worry, because it's only gonna get harder!
/adv/ i'm getting annoyed.
i've been with my boyfriend for about two years now and recently he's been on my ass to get tattoos. we listen to metal and i guess we're part of a local scene around here but i guess his friends were picking on him for dating me because i don't have tattoos or piercings. since then i've been catching him looking at tattoo magazines and showing me pictures of chicks with tattoos.
i told him when i met him i'd probably never get one. i think they're cool and all but i just don't want to waste the money on them and i don't really give a fuck about body mods.
he keeps pushing the issue, do i tell him to drop the subject or find another girl with tattoos?
>>17099151
Jesus, what a fucking loser. Who gives a fuck about if you have tattoos or not? Are you in highschool or something? Your boyfriend and his friends seem like total poser faggots
>>17099155
This x1000
>>17099155
OP here, this is one of the biggest reasons i don't go to shows and shit anymore because of how obnoxiously into themselves these people are.
my boyfriend wasn't like this when we met them. he had three tattoos when i met him and now he is trying to get a chestpiece of a centipede exploding through his chest (not fucking kidding)
That aside, the social circle is a huge popularity contest and my boyfriend is wanting in for some reason which is bizarre because it's unlike him to care so much about "belonging" with a bunch of assholes.
My dick isnt big enough to ever please a woman
Im an average 5.7 inches and 2 of my exes have told me my dick is small, its fucking me up more than it should because its obvious shes only saying these things because we broke up but still, it means something. If TWO people have said my dick is small just about every woman thinks the same and obviously wont tell me that in the middle of sex.
Its futile isnt it? Ill never fully get to enjoy sex now. My existence as a man is fully flawed and pointless. No woman is going to tell her friends about the time Anon fucked her and it felt good. Fucking me would be an actual chore and after the first time no woman would enjoy being with me. It would almost be an obligation if she has sex with me again.
Am I overthinking this?
5.7 is pretty much average. Which is fine. Your exes were size queen bitches or something
>>17099143
Come back to us when you're 3.5 inches, kiddo.
Uh. My boyfriend of 6 years has a smaller dick and is enough to please me. You might have come across some chicks who have been using objects around their house as dildos or something. Don't worry about it anon. Not all women take dragon dicks daily.
How can I get good as at many things as possible?
Make a deal with satan I guess
>>17099116
Become a hot child in the city
A jack of all trades is a master of none.
Ok /b/ what does this mean? So I'm dating this "good Christian girl" she hasn't actually said no to sex but I just assumed she would. But she keeps sending me snspchsts of her cleavage. Like not just her cleavage. Never just a chest shot, she always includes her face. But I notice that in some pictures she'll adjust her shirt. What should I do? Pic semi related
Speaking from dating "good Christian girls", she most likely believes in sex after marriage. I think she has confidence in her body and wants you to recognize and compliment her in a respectful way.
I doubt she's actually a "good christian girl", since most christians aren't good christians, and most girls who describe themselves as such are pretty slutty.
She's dtf
The overwhelming majority of Christians do not wait until marriage
What kind of bites are these?
Flea.
>>17098992
Honest?
>>17099009
When my brother was little he got simmilar marks to yours due to the fleas of the dog. But if it feels too itchy and if your skin is hot, you should totally go see a doctor. Take care.
What i need to travel by foot?
Context: Just got 18 years old, before starting my university i want to travel alone 720 km by foot alone, i dont know what to say to my mom, but i want tips, and opnions about this plan.
If my mother didnt accept what's the plan? go anyway?
My country is not popular doing that, i know is strange doing that on your own country btw.
Planning doing like a "Into the wild movie" for just 1 mouth, have a ride, meet people, walk a lot, but nothing like isolation.
Idiotic plan
Sick and tired of being lonely, relationship wise, while all my friends have nice girlfriends.
I don't really think I'm ugly, and I've been working out. I'm trying to just lay back and not "try so hard" to get a girl, because I've heard that's a big turn off for girls, but recently this girl I went to prom with turned me down, which sucks because she was really the first girl to show interest in me, but I guess she wasn't really interested in me like that. I feel like there's nobody out there for me. Can anyone cheer me up?
>>17098961
>but recently this girl I went to prom with turned me down
>I feel like there's nobody out there for me
You're still a kid. I know getting a girlfriend seems like the most important thing and your biggest failure in life right now but you literally have the rest of your life to figure out women.
There is nothing you can do but gain perspective and experience as you get older. You're doing fine. Being young can be confusing but get this idea out of your head that there's "no one out there" because you hardly have the years or the experience under your belt to make such a statement.
>>17098973
It just sucks though, for now.
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so i'm in need of a new laptop. will be my only computer after i donate my macbook air to a friend in need. initially i was thinking i would wait for the new macbook pros (which should happen in june), but after looking at prices and things i'm like maybe not.
used to be all about regular windows PCs as a kid, but after buying a macbook pro in 2009 i was hooked just because of the badass trackpad. nothing worked as well before and i was extremely impressed. since then i've been only OSX/Mac.
do gaming laptops have trackpads that work as well as macbooks now? does anyone evern know what i'm talking about? Better Touch Tool makes it massively customizable and you can do the four finger swipe stuff. like in different directions. smooth interfacing is a must. so is a zoom feature? damn i'm not explaining this well. but yeah trackpad must be amazing and i hope that's a thing beyond apple now.
so here's what i need:
>gaming laptop maybe 13" or 15" that has a massive SSD or two (for recording gaming sessions) that can run like fraps or whatever alongside games without any hitches
>badass trackpad similar to macbooks
and i guess that's it. does this exist? where can i buy it? what does it cost? the macbook pro i want would be around ~$1.5USD + $250 for apple care (3 years of free labor and parts if something breaks or i spill beer on laptop)
so $1.75k for what i want including the apple care. PCs are supposedly cheaper for similar quality shit. is this true or a lie?
Gaming laptop is an oxymoron
>>17098951
Not really, no. And anyway it's what I need for my active lifestyle :/
Wtf 4chan. Don't tell me I'm the geekiest person here right now?
What is the most socially proficient way to deal with verbally toxic people that have a problem with you?
Two examples:
A) Played LoL with a friend's friend who immediately started shit talking and trolling me. Got real personal so I assumed my friend told him about me. I got angry not because of him, but because my friend told him personal shit about me and not once told him to shut up.
B) Overweight co-worker that's been trying to get my fired since she was demoted and then reinstated due to being a lazy obnoxious fat fuck. She doesn't get paid more than me, yet is in a position just above me that lets her ride me and work me like a dog when nobody else is around at work. Recently she pulled some bullshit rule out of her ass to piss me off, and when I went around her she tattled on the boss, exaggerating the situation to antagonize them against me.
I understand these types of shitty people exist everywhere and getting a new job or friends won't change much. How do I deal with these people without resorting to murdering them in their sleep?
you have to do things to those people that make them not want to fuck with you.
Well, your friend is clearly an asshole to let some random asshole have knowledge about things to use against you. Stop being friends with that person.
As far as the coworker goes, you could bring up how they throw everything on you personally, but be sure to have examples of these cases and explain whats going on.
>>17098942
If they're coworkers, you just have to deal with them until there's enough to report to HR. If you have a toxic friend, remove them from your life.
>>17098955
No you don't. Some, no, MOST people are in still in the high school mentality and will do shitty things and try to mess with you because they think you're weird or don't like your face.
so, hey /adv/
so, i just semi-recently got these scars on the right side of my face. they're not raised but they're obvious, one on my jawline and the other across my cheek.
i don't really know how to get over them - i hate talking to people even more so than before, and find myself contorting my face so the people i'm talking to don't see them.
and worse so, if they see them and ASK, i have to hurry and come up with an answer (which, really, shouldn't be hard but i get anxious).
so question 1: how do i get rid of scars/how do i get over having them in such a visible area?
as for the rest, the reason i have the scars is due to a family "altercation" with my father. it's happened on and off since i was a child and the weird thing is, there was this inkling before this incident that i could "forgive" him to some degree but ever since, i can't even look at myself without thinking of him and i get irrationally angry.
my mom tells me i'll get over it, it's cold of me to be upset still, or wish i had when he dies, and, of course, i don't believe that but i thought maybe talking to some anons about it would help out. i want to cut contact with them both when i move out and i guess i'm looking for some advice - am i being coldhearted? is cutting contact the best decision?
* or wish i had forgiven him when he dies
i was typing too fast and made a lil mistake
i agree with you
bump bump pls
