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Why do women want to turn men into betas but then complain when they are? It is that they only want to turn ugly men into betas while chads and foreigners get a pass on being sexists?
>>17347656
it's because you cry so much that their maternal instinct kicks in and they start treating you like a baby. taking care of babies is exhausting, hence the complaining.
>>17347656
It's like when you stomp on ice trying to break it but hoping it doesn't.
is this emma watson? who cares what she thinks.
I got hit by a car while on my motorycle, not my fault, I have admittnce of guilt through text messages. Full incrimination on the dudes part. I did not call the police, we exchanged info and i thought it would be a regular process. This was a month ago and I find out today from laywers that he is not cooperating. I call him and he nervously tells me he does not have insurance. I am missing work opportunities and used up some funds while taking work off, what the hell do I do? What are my options?
u dun goofed m8
>>17347651
Call the cops next time. Your lawyer should know what you can do next.
The fuck you mean you exchanged info, insurance info is what you're supposed to exchange, not Facebook links or whatever you did. Retard
How should I format this idk wtf it is. English is not her first language but she's an awesome person and I want to help however I can
If u want pussy just lift
Habitat for humanity is a charitable organization that provides housing for people, but there are specific requirements before they let people get the housing, so that they know they are giving housing to someone responsible. Just write a letter saying how responsible your friend is and how she is good at her job, etc. Make sure you let them know your relationship to her as well.
>>17347636
I do a lot of letters of recommendation, here's how I usually format it.
Dear such and such,
1st paragraph- who you are, how long you have known her, through what capacity you know her. Some attributes that she has that are positive
2nd paragraph- specific example or two when she has demonstrated some of these qualities.
3rd paragraph- closing: I think she would be a great addition to your project etc etc etc
Don't over think it, just write a nice letter saying that she...
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Guy I was friends with/fancied keeps sending me snapchats of himself & his gf/girl-friend (don't know their status)
>does he do it maliciously to rile me up? Or rather bragging he acquired a gf?
>is it acceptable for me to tell him to fuck off and stop snapchatting this chick because I'm jealous/it annoys me, whatever? Or should I just keep quiet?
Does he know you liked him?
ask why he sends them or keep quiet
>>17347627
Yeah man, I told him 2 yrs ago
How do I get tired and sleep 8 hours? I keep sleeping for only 2-3 hours a night and I can't stop, this happened for almost a month. I never sleep more than 5 hours straight and I take 1-3 naps a day because i'm tired when i shouldn't be.
Avoid taking all those naps, try and power through them or they will mess up your sleep cycle.
Take a melatonin pill and avoid using any electronics an hour prior to to going to bed.
>>17347608
Firstly, go see a doctor. Sleep disturbances are a medical issue that should be assessed by a medical professional
Secondly, don't take any medical advice on 4chan.
>>17347608
Try this.
Prepare basic equipments,
Leave your house,
then go camping in wilderness for a week.
Make your own tent,
hunt your own food,
start your own fire,
cook them yourself.
after a week, your problems should be solved.
I just don't see how I'm supposed to get a girl to be interested in me. I feel as though it's a problem with my entire person, more than anything and I have no clue how to fix it.
>grew up not learning how to socialize properly. Parents kinda kept me closed off from the world
>not comfortable being direct with girls,because im afraid of being too forward
>I'm much more open and easier to talk to online and behind a screen rather than in person
>keep physicial contact with girls to a minimum unless it's warranted, such as a hug or something.
>Have no clue how to flirt,and im not funny alone. I need someone to play off of,if i'm to be funny
However, I am quite friendly to just about anyone I meet. Actually I found it quite surprising how easy it is to make friends, once college hit. I do have a bunch of female friends, But thats just it. It doesn't go any further than that. Nobody is ever interested in being more than friends with me. Everytime I ask someone out it's always something akin to "lets stay just friends." or some other excuse. Not sure if it's just me or I'm just looking at the wrong kind of girls. I'm just now finding out that i might actually be the only one out of my closest friends who wants to be in a relationship.
I dont know what to do here, I don't drink, smoke, or go out to clubs. I'm not opposed to hanging out with people who do that sort of thing, but I don't see myself associating with them regularly. Lately I've attempted to dress better, and i'm trying to get in shape, so that maybe I'll feel better about myself. Online dating in general is just unappealing to me. It seems so one sided, and I'm not that good at keeping their interest. Likewise, just meeting a random person I dont know anything about hardly keeps my interest either. I fear that if this keeps up, I won't find anybody after I graduate,because meeting people is only going to become harder, atleast for me,especially so in the field I'm majoring in.
If you try to get people interested in you, you'll end up always having to keep 'em that interested in you. Better let that happen naturally.
Besides, you seem like a genuinely nice person so it's probably not you. Just bad timing
Also ask yourself why'd you need a girl besides your fear of not finding any later on in your life?
>>17347668
Well, there is no set reason why I want one, I guess. I have a few reasons why I want one, some personal. But I guess I'd like to atleast know how to keep a gf and how to treat her right.
Suppose if i do meet the one someday? How will I know how to keep her interest, or even get her to like me in the first place? I'd hate to accidently make her hate me because of my inexperience.
That and I kind of feel a bit left out whenever, I'm around people talking about their love life, and especially...
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>>17347604
Its difficult but you have to take that step with girls that you like. You gotta make that jump from friends to more than friends. It's scary and you will probably fall a few times but the way you're doing it will always result in nothing. There will be awkward situations and lost friendships but that is the price a man must pay. Best of luck, anon.
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I'm taking someone that did me wrong to court. He will be spending a long time in jail without a doubt for a felony warrant. The problem is I don't want him to have the chance to get revenge by finding me. Will the court or attorneys give him any of my personal information/address to find me? I know the police report has my address.
>>17347596
I hate to give you a non-answer, but you should probably ask the police or your attorney.
What did they do?
If they're going to jail, how are they supposed to find you?
>>17347596
Everyone has a constitutional right to face their accuser. You cannot anonymously file charges against someone and then not show your face in court.
He will know its you filing charges, there's no way around that. As far as finding your personal information all he needs is a few bucks and google to find that out.
If you don't want to risk retaliation, don't file charges.
Moving to Chicago to attend college. How cheap can I expect a room to be if I get 3 or 4 roommates? Not really afraid of bad neighborhoods as long as it's not too deep in the ghetto shit
>>17347591
its going to be pricey
avoid the south side
>>17347602
Really? I found shit around 600 dollars. Like a lot of results. I guess that could be expensive compared to rural Kansas but I don't think that's a lot
>>17347607
is that 600 per tenant or is the whole place 600?
Yo I hung out with this girl one week ago, the day before she went on a trip with three female friends. At the end, she said she had a good time and it would be fine to meet again after she came back. She's here since yesterday night and we didn't talk or shit, I only liked some pics of the trip she posted on her Facebook. Should I text her or should I wait for her to do it?
I'm in an almost identical situation with genders reversed, bump
>>17347703
We could exchange numbers and agree on me texting you or you texting me tho
TEXT
that waiting around bullshit is for high school
How do you approach the death of your dog, /adv/? He's around 10 years old now -- a lab-mut. My family got him when I was around 13, which was for me a time when I wanted a pet, and also a time when I couldn't appreciate having one. I played with him a lot, but not enough in retrospect, being tied to video games or out with my friends, and obligations related to him were delegated to my parents instead of me.
I can already tell that I am going to regret that, and that I would never want to have a pet that I couldn't and wouldn't be able and willing...
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How do I approach death? With dignity. Have your dog put down.End its suffering.
Have your dog put down now and only leave yourself with good memories. Dragging out a long, slow, painful death over the years is shitty. A painless, quick death in the arms of a loved one gives you closure and some shred of dignity.
Do not leave the room when they do it. They look for you when you leave.
Take your pupper to the vet and get a check up.
If he's suffering then put him down, if not just make him as comfy as possible.
Something bad is going to happen and then I will have to kill myself
Make sure to stream it. Have fun anon
>>17347528
Don't forget to make a will before you die. Please ensure you leave all your rare frogs to me.
just don't do anything stupid like having sex with a hooker without a condom or riding a motorcycle or getting a spontaneous tattoo.
"I want you to WANT to do _______"
What are yalls thoughts on this phrase. Is it fair to want that, or that a sign that things aren't meant to be?
>>17347522
>"I want you to WANT to do _______"
Robot here, let me put it like this.
I want some women to WANT to have sex with me.
But lifes not about what we want/need/deserve/feel as thought we've earned. We get what we get and he have to deal with the hand we've been dealt as best as we can.
"I want you to want to do ____" is just entitled as fuck. And I hate using the word 'entitled'. It's become the buzzword of the decade.
I...
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>>17347522
I'd say it depends on the context.
Wanting people to want something can sound cunty, but I'd say it counts as encouragement with lazy/apathetic people (motivational speeches follow this pattern, don't they?)
It depends. Sometimes you're just incompatible, sometimes you've just got a shitty attitude.
/adv/, recently I've been getting evil intentions and been wanting to steal phones out of people's hands.
It first occurred to me while walking downtown and saw several people holding out their phones as if they were taking pictures. At first I thought they were just taking pictures of the local monuments, but it looks like they were playing that new pokemon app thing. They all seemed so distracted, and they all looked like weak victims. Mostly asian manlets or some fat fucks.
I went home thinking about it and yesterday I even went out scouting to find...
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Stop being edgy and a Junior in Highschool. That should clear up all symptoms.
>>17347496
/thread
>>17347478
I steal small shit and stuff at night to get my fix.
The thrill is in getting caught for me.
You're going to get your ass beat OP. dont get in the way of some autistic man child and their pokemon
Eurofag here, want to live in the States. What do? Buy a Greencard/SSN off some hoodrat in the Bronx?
>>17347468
Literally come here, and work under the table like every other illegal immigrant.
Why would you want to leave Europe for the States? Are you stupid?
>>17347468
if you have skills, apply. if you dont have skills just work under the table.
try to get married, and / or have a baby.
gay marriage is legal now so its a lot easier to become a citizen through marriage if you can stomach a faggot sucking ur dick
Hey /adv/. How do I stop being clingy/possessive of someone?
There is this guy I met online that I know for a couple of years now, we have some feelings towards each other and would probably be together if not for the distance.
He's a great guy and all, but I've found myself getting depressed and anxious when he's away for several days (he's rather introverted).
I know my feelings are stupid and I really shouldn't care this much about someone I only know online, so how do I stop myself from feeling so clingy/jealous?
Clingy girls are cute. Wish someone cared about me that much.
Sorry anon, it's hard to advise you. You care about him but you want to care less?
>>17347445
Go out more, find things that you enjoy doing, meet new people. You feel that way because it seems like he is what you are spending your time thinking about. If you had other things and other people to keep you occupied you wouldn't care as much.
>>17347540
>Clingy girls are cute.
Haven't dated much, have you?
OP, you just need to focus your attention elsewhere like reasonable anon >>17347545
mentioned. Clingy/possessive people lack a certain level of self-worth/self-esteem/self-confidence and are typically afraid whoever can/will easily move on.
Find things to help build you up.
