Is there any reason to "come out of the closet" if you're a bi male with a preference for women?
If you are crying for attention, and want your life to have an extra complication then yes anon please do it
>>17347423
Only if you're interested in a relationship with another guy IMO. "Coming out" as bi is basically just telling all your friends and family that you're a turboslut. Not saying there's anything wrong with letting friends or a cool sibling know that but unless you plan on coming home with a guy do your parents really need to know what you fuck?
>>17347423
Eh not really, how often do you fuck dudes? Maybe if you were to get in a relationship with a guy, otherwise does anyone need to know? If it's just a sex thing, then would you go around telling everyone what your favorite positions were?
How common is it for people to be depressed? And how common is it to be thinking about suicide constantly?
Because I googled it and most sources say stuff like "everyone faces depression at least once in their life".
Also, is it considered "good advice" to tell someone that "a lot of people go through the same thing you are going through at least once in their life" ? Because, I don't know if it's special snowflake syndrome I have or what, but when people tell me that "a lot of people go through the same" as me it makes...
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Yeah, I can relate. Do you go ro therapy/are you planing to? And from what I've heard not everyone faces depression sometime in their lifetime, but that everyone can experience feeling down/sad.
And the "everyone goes through it advice" is probably used so that you wont feel alone with your problems, but I agree with you...it just feel then that what's a big deal to you isnt a big deal at all. Which sucks. Oh well, that's how I feel atleast.
I really suggest you to start talking to a professionel or someone that might be able to help you,...
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>>17347404
Thanks! Yes I'm planning to see a therapist.
>>17347360
>Major depression affects about 6.7% of the U.S. population over age 18, according to the National Institute of Mental Health. Overall, between 20% and 25% of adults may suffer an episode of major depression at some point during their lifetime.
It looks like 20%-25% of the population has only ONE episode of depression, but 6.7% of the population has major depressive disorder that occurs multiple times.
The bottom line is that, you shoudnt feel like you shouldnt get treatment...
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I'm thinking of starting something like a music blog where I write essays on things music-related (not reviews). Is this a good idea? My main goal is to improve my knowledge and ability to discuss music. Also, does anyone know a good site to do this on?
Blogspot maybe?
It is a good idea. Just make sure you focus on creating content you're proud of, not on marketing and making sure people are reading it.
Good work is its own reward.
>>17347341
I'd probably go on a blog like that
A few months ago I started to meet up with someone from /r9k/ because he lived in the same city and offered me to be my friend or atleast tries to be. He also offered me to introduce myself to his group of friends, but I'm too autistic to deal with more than 1 person. After a while I found out he was gay, but there were already signs for this before that because he was really feminine, did stuttertyping while we talked etc. We spent the weekend together and on sunday we got pretty drunk, my memory is still really blurry, but I can remember how he sucked my dick, which is...
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YOU WERE LEGALLY RAPED. Go to the police and tell them.
Do you live in NYC?
If so I'll be your non rapey friend.
>>17347378
Is it rape even if I seem to the be guy who did the penetration thing. The other problem is that he has friends, a job etc. and I'm just an autistic neet. I'm garbage compared to him, he is atleast contributing to society and I'm not doing anythingThey will probably also make fun of me at the police station. Nobody will take someone seriously who says stuff like some other guy raped him or something. Why did this had to happen, we were okay friends I guess, I'm not sure because he is my first...
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Depressed right now for reasons other than "hurr im a loser and ill complain on 4chan"
What can I do to make my mood up?
Learn advanced mathematics online.
The Internet is amazing, the biggest library on the world...
>>17347330
Go lift weights.
Seriously that always cheers me up.
If it's sunny and warm where you live, go outside for a walk. If you don't feel better after spending some time in the sun then you're probably not human.
>>17347330
I find that one of the best things to do when I'm feeling down is get on my bike and go for a ride, and monologue to myself. Helps me get all of my bad feelings out and straighten how I feel about things. Also if you live in the city, it's a good opportunity to see some things and people you normally wouldn't, and maybe even meet a new friend.
I'm looking for a movie to watch this night.
I'm looking for a movie that describes WWII through a point of view of a nazist family, if possible, I would like to listen some old german songs into it, like lili marleen, and to hear about hitler politic movements
Lore
Just watch The Greatest Story Never Told, if you haven't already. Education is superior to entertainment.
>>17347464
This
Hello. What's a quick way to die besides gun? Or alternatively something painless. I can't spend any money really as my girlfriend and son will need all of it.
You are a puss puss.
>>17347269
Why? Because he doesn't like black people?
>>17347261
If you don't want to screw your girlfriend and son over irreperably, man up and get to work to provide for them. Create a life for your son, don't fuck over a kid because of your emotional problems FFS.
he gets mad at me for no reason but he is a different person like the next day until he gets tilted in something he lets his anger out on me here is an example of unedited chat messages with me and him:[2:08:37 PM] Him: fuck off
[2:08:59 PM] Him: 'oh you fuckin tilted uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh'
[2:09:03 PM] Him: fucking moron
[2:09:10 PM] Him: I know what I did
[2:09:14 PM] Him: fuck you
[2:09:25 PM] Him: seriously
[2:09:40 PM] Him: you have to be one of the dumbest people ever
[2:09:49 PM] Him: I'm not joking
[2:09:52 PM]...
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Drop that cunt immediately.
>>17347211
sounds like a dick. dont let him treat you like that, thats fucked up and bad for youre emotional wellbeing
Bruh what were you guys doing that set I'm off haha, how old are you guys?
Quick question.
Ive never had sex without a condom. Fair possibility that will no longer be the case soon.
Where do i blow my load? Obviously im going to want to fill that p to the brim but generally when i have sex i cum first but stay hard, or worst case scenario get half-chub for a minute before getting back at it. In the past ive always just popped on another condom and kept plowing away.
Is hitting your own sloppy seconds messy as fuck or is it alright? Should i blow on her stomach/ass/ect and wipe it off? Or just berry my dik so far in her etc etc??Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
If she's on BC and you don't mind splashing around in your own juices, burry that dick in her. Otherwise blast all over her back, stomach, face, whatever. If she's down, have her start sucking you right when you're about to blow and have her swallow that shit.
I prefer my women much older than me: 40 to 48. Until recently i've always been using condoms, but my new partner wants me to go in raw.
What are the chances of women getting pregnant past 40?
>>17347201
If I don't cum balls deep, it is only masturbation, or practice.
So, i have a long time friend who recently started injecting steroids, he seems absolutely convinced that it is safe, ive tried to convince him and show him that it really is not, but he wont listen.
this is in its early stages but i just dont know what to do, he seems to have swallowed so much pseudo-science and "studies" he probably got from the people selling it to him/encouraging him.
i feel ive tried everything i can do, i dont know how to handle this, i cant have people doing that kind of stuff in my life. its mind altering, hugely unhealthy and...
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>>17347194
>i cant have people doing that kind of stuff in my life
You sound like a little bitch
Let him get jacked, man.
He could live his whole life with a side effect of fat and lazy, or he could live his life with a mild side effect of backne and smaller nuts while he's juicing
Let him do what the fuck he wants.
Hoy goys, there's a public pool close to me, and I want to watch girls swimming there. But the thing is, I'm really self conscious, so if they yell "Pervert! Why are you staring at us?" or something like that, what do I do? Should I put in some headphones and pretend I can't hear them?
There's a road right next to there too, what if someone comes up and asks me what I'm doing? Should I just play it cool and say I'm interested in swimming or some shit so I'm just watching for fun?
go swimming as well
wear sunglasses, pretend you're working on your tan, always be "looking" at your smart phone.
Sunglasses and headphones.
What are some nice british shows to prepare myself for a Cambridge Proficiency test? RP accent is highly welcome.
>>17347189
>>17347189
To get a grasp of some of the local dialects, try Eastenders, Coronation Street, and Emmerdale.
You might want to get a feel for what we call "the Queen's English", which is English with all the words fully and correctly pronounced, no regional slang, and (what those of us who speak it think of) no regional accent. It's the way you'd speak English if you learned it all from a textbook rather than talking to people. For...
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Sorry for the off topic, guys, but could somebody identify Ciri's accent (the girl)?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvZe8SoHWtA
If you're planning on visiting us, watch some more local shows too, the uk has a stupid number of regional accents and slang. We can tell the difference between Blackburn, Preston and Burnley in terms of accents. And all three towns are within an hour's drive.
Looking for advice as to a potential conflict between a previous employer and prospective employer. Any knowledge as to how this prospective employer might contact my previous employer would be greatly appreciated.
So basically my problem is sharing information that is sensitive - I think legally protected - between the two businesses. While I was working for my previous employer, I was screwed over by some people and ended up having to deal with legal consequences. My previous employer is aware of this, and I'm trying to figure out if it's legal for them to...
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Bump?
Trying to imagine a worse case scenario, which isn't actually so bad in the short-term.
The worst that might happen would be rejection of employment.
Will check thread in maybe 2 hours-ish, thanks in advance for any insight.
Is Jelqing helpful?
Apparently it could make your dong bigger but i'm new to it
>>17347022
apparently yes.
Tried it a bit myself but i am average so i just kinda forgot about doing it.
I can't imagine it has a massive difference.
>>17347037
OP:i'm also average (6.5), but i can't stop thinking about how it would be different if i had a bigger junk
>>17347022
phalosan
is there a HEALTHY way to lose 15-20 lbs of fat in a month and a half?
im dieting and excercising but results are incredibly slow and inconsistent
>>17346965
they say losing 1 pound of week is ideal, but this is simply a guideline. mathematically speaking you are asking to lose a pound every two days.
there is 3,500 calories in a pound of fat.
on average humans eat 2000 calories a day. so if you ate only two hundred and fifty calories a day, you would supposedly lose that weight. except your body would likely be in starvation mode.
the thing about weight loss though is there are lots of way to do things. people get idfferent results and our bodies...
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>>17346965
>>17346983
first and foremost, if you want to eat at a major decifit, (more than 500 calories) make sure you are taking vitamins. your body is less likely to enter starvation mode if its getting all the nutrients it needs.
dont be afraid to eat... vegetables. a carrot has 25 calories. keeps you satisfied til the next carrot.
cardio helps you burn even more calories. 105 calories per mile you burn. i could run a mile in seven minutes, so i could burn 850 an hour if i ran for an hour.
for best results, find a calculator that tracks how much you weigh, your height, how long it took you to run the mile, etc. and calculate that way. cross reference with say, a treadmill at your gym that claims to count the calories burnt.
but ultimately, if you can lose one pound a week for six weeks, you'll have reached half way to your goal, and whatever ur doing in six weeks you can say 'I LOST SIX POUNDS' and know that in six more weeks you'll have lost the other six. probably more than six with how much we lose when we start.
>>17346965
No there is not. But you can lose a lot. Eat three times a day in small amounts so that you almost starve every time you start eating and when you are done you shoudn't be full.
Don't fall for the exercise meme since people tend to eat more when they do it and if they don't they feel like shit and they just give up. Also you metabolism slows down and you don't burn that much calories anyway.