wait 2 years. LDRs that start in meatspace don't last, and finding a partner who's going to quit their job to follow you is going to be nigh impossible. You're just gonna have your heart broken.

>>17346734
Yeah, I'd certainly put waiting on top of a LDR

The complicated thing about finding someone who will follow me is that it's not certain, and actually my wage alone would be over twice the average by then... But I guess money isn't everything

>>17346730

i think the issue here is you are 'looking' for a serious relationship with a girl you havent even met yet.

the chances are you wont be able to meet anyone. but why not just put yourself out there by going out and doing things you enjoy on your nights and days off, and just seeing what the world brings to you. if you can meet a girl and you want to take her on dates, do it.

stop worrying about whether or not this imaginary girl will last the two years.

Be professional, but be open, relaxed and fun. If you're charismatic it'll carry you even further.

I think you have what it takes. Makes sure you thank them all individually and express WHY you have gratitude; but joke around a little to those who look like they can handle a lighter side to business.

From what you're saying, I'd say be polite and friendly, keep quiet unless curious or addressed, don't be afraid to look stupid (so long as you're asking questions, not answering them).

They voted you on for a reason. Have faith in yourself, even if you mess up the first time, it's only the first time.

I am a woman tho, so my success might not act like yours, sorry. Apologies for the terrible English too.

>>17346707
>I'd feel guilty accepting the travel and hotel room while having nothing to offer but the youth they wanted on the board.
But that's EXACTLY why they voted you onto the board.l: they wanted your persective. Speak up. Ask questions. Don't automatically assume everything you say is right, but don't be afraid to fight for what you believe in. They literally asked for this. Do it, and you will be doing your job on that board as well as any other member does theirs.

bump. I get distracted on other threads too much

>>17346673

Depends what you are doing and where you work.

I did one where i just had to tell people about an update to their services. That was easy.

I had another where i hate to try and sell a program ontop of another program the customer had. That one was Scammy as fuck but not too bad.

Finally i had one where i had to sell a program insurance. It was scammy and hard as fuck to sell.

Some places will send you home if you can't sell.

Regardless its absolutely shit. And you will...
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>>17346715
It's not customer, it's business, I think. And not sales either. I'm used to cold call sales jobs (and rejecting them), but this one I feel like is a trap waiting to happen cus it sounds too good.

>girls dont take interest in me

define interest? guys like you post here a lot and the impression i get from most threads is that you may make some initial out reaches, but refuse to actually go for the girl. instead most of you will wait around for months or even a year just dropping hints and expecting her to do the work for you.

have you ever actually said 'hey anonette, let me take you to dinner tonight' ?

>all that other stuff

just post a pic of yourself and lets go from there.

>>17346805
Interest as in girls approaching, smiling, etc. I don't think anyones ever genuinely liked me and if it did come to that case, later on it probably wasn't how it seemed. Only one time I actually built up the courage to talk to a girl, after a bunch of crap we did hit off with help with a friend passing on ym number. But it ended up bs, i don't count it as a relationship because It wasn't how I thought it was. (long story).

I hear about girls approaching guys, talking about how they throw...
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shamefully bumping again

It sounds like you're insecure and don't know how to say no to any girl who gives you attention.

The first girl has obviously had some tough times and made bad choices. She will find someone more mature than you; as a child needs a father figure in its life (which is why she is so clingy you moron)

Keep plowing easy girls until you get a backbone, then have a decent relationship with a girl who's not obviously in a vulnerable state.

TLDR; stop aiming so low

>>17346670
Based on your typing I think you are, hear me out, "retarded"

>>17346670
we are not going to tell you to cheat anon.

From what you have said you are dissatisfied with he first girl so at least have the balls to tell her its over.

>>17346664
You not doing enough with your life.

Intelligence, emotions, feeling they all get numb if they are not used. But you will get your shit kicked in when you need em again.

Too little information for me to be able to advise.

Default advice: ask a therapist.

>>17346664

there are multiple possibilities.

emotions are like time. its relative. the more you have of it, the less small smounts seem.

when you were a kid a day felt like forever. now that you're an adult, a year passes by so fast its kind of scary.

emotions are the same way. as a kid and teen everything felt so extreme. not just becuase hormones but becuase it was new to you. now you've experienced all that and you've become a bit numb to the feelings.

the best things you can...
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Over-the-counter anti-inflammatory medicine for sore throat.

>>17346660
raw honey and small sips of whiskey are my go to. having kids around may make the whiskey thing a bad idea though

>>17346984
Don't have any and i have 3 kids to watch so i can't go to the store.

>>17346610

Every once in a while, yeah, but as my default routine? No, that'd be awful and boring. I can only consume so much media of other people living their lives. I want to be out building my own narrative, talking to others about life, experiencing new foods and drinks and sights and smells and everything the world has to offer.

But yeah, yesterday I spent the entire day in bed watching movies, and today I'm working from home and plan to stay max comfy. Every once in a while that's needed.

>>17346622
I don't know, like I used to be an avid go getter, from 17-22 I did a lot of self exploration. Months spent on the road, partying, getting drunk, doing drugs. And, I lost that drive completely. I have a been there done that mentality, and have no want in life except to be comfortable.

My boss asked me what I wanted out of my career last year, and I told him "I'd just like to retire." with a chuckle.

>>17346610
Well as a kid I was mostly outside with friends, and now living the complete opposite of that I do miss it, but I still like sitting home playing a good game or watching a good movie. It's just a matter of preference.

Sounds psychological. Is there some reason you wouldn't be eating?

Does something disgust you?
Are you generally fit or worried about your health?

Cramping can come from not eating or drinking enough

/fit/ might be a good board too

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>>17346612

Could it be a psychological reaction from stress when I was overseas? It was years ago tho, like I said the cramping is gone now. But even eating 3 of these Donut holes is very filling to me, and I only woke up 2 hours ago.

even food I like its hard to finish. I feel embarrassed a lot when I go out with friends and eat. hell... One time I went on a date with a girl, and we got lunch together, I couldn't even touch my food. I had 1 bite and felt full. I tried to force food down but actually started...
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>>17346597
Diet change
stress
digestive system maturing
Parasites
thyroid
Anorexic
plethora of eating disorders
Food sensitivity.

I underwent something similar to you when i was in my late 20's Cramping so bad i lost consciousness. Could only eat white rice and eggs. Did all the test you did and all came back normal. I had to slowly reintroduce complex foods into my diet from scratch otherwise i felt bloated and sick. took me about 2 years to be able to eat greasy food again. Take your time.

Bump.

No one on adv right now wants to help me torture myself?

Unhealthy obsession with health and beauty: orthorexia.

Pictures please

It's normal to care for animals with a lot of personality, animals that love you and most importantly animals that ARENT ANNOYING .

I don't think I'd miss a small curly haired piece of shit mop looking dog as much as I'd miss something loving like a floppy beagle or a goofy bulldog.

I know this sounds cruel and selective, but people have bred dogs for selective traits for centuries. They're all objectively cute- but some aren't really ones I'd ever own because I know I wouldn't feel close to them.

it just means you didn't love your dog or ever become attached to it

so its okay I guess but then why have a dog anyway?

animals can be an extremely effective type of therapy but it just doesn't work for some people I suppose

>>17346571
How long has it been since the dog died? You could be going through the emotional circle right now. Need to know what the most likely next state is.

>>17346568
More alcohol.

More seriously, "deadly" is dependent almost entirely on dosage. So you can die on only alcohol. I think most over the counter drugs that you aren't supposed to mix with alcohol are just because of liver damage though. I can't think of anything that would actually kill you in a small dosage mixed with alcohol.

Unless you are allowed to include things that'll kill you with or without alcohol. Like bleach....

Don't kill yourself anon.

>>17346568
Acetaminophen, or anything with a sedative effect, could kill you when mixed with alcohol, but neither would be a quick, clean, or painless death--acetaminophen and booze can cause liver failure, and the other would usually be a barfy mess.

Zzzzquil with alcohol. make sure you sleep on your back to increase chances of choking on own puke

Give them a chance. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman -

If they think you're worth it they will change. Although, being open about your intention to break up over shifty behavior should be brought up.

Be caring, but stern for what you think makes a healthy relationship.

>>17346544
That's what my heart is telling me, but friends disagree. Ultimately it is my choice, though

How shitty was the shotty behavior and what steps are they taking to change? It's really common for people not to give a shit until you're about to leave, then they get desperate and reel you back in with promises to change, but always revert to how they used to be

A lot of people fail their first semester of college / university. Depending on the High School you went to, the work load will be a massive increase, and the level to which you have to write will be a major step up, also.

Deal with things systematically. Understand why you failed your first semester, learn what you can do better. Keep working your part time job. Cut off all contact with your family members if they're not directly benefiting you. Communicate with your girlfriend, talk to her about what's wrong.

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Quit college, as you're already in debt for something (I'm guessing) for something that isn't working out.

Once you have the spare time from this, find a better part time job you might enjoy a little more. Look for something more open, light hearted or fun.

Dump your girlfriend, as you need a shoulder in these obvious trying times. Sometimes a positive partner works wonders for ALL of these things

Go back to school when you find something you're passionate about you won't fail at. Don't go to college when you're preoccupied,...
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>>17346518
do you want to keep doing college? if yes, then study hard so you won't fail twice.

if not, then quit now before you make more debt. evaluate yourself, apply for better jobs. the more applications you send, the more and better job offers you'll get.

>>17346493
Medicine

>>17346493
>does things to make other people envy him

you're starting off wrong.

>>17346502
I'm smarter than you, I can do it
Why do you think they bullied me? Because I was smarter than them. Soon it will be my turn

Also if I can't do this my biggest regret will be not shooting the place up