>hanging out with friends >I'm a fairly skinny guy with large eyes so they sometimes call me 'Gollum' for a joke >usually can hide how much this hurts my self esteem >they have countless other names too >none for them though, and if I come back with my own banter everyone goes dead silent then calls me an ass >i make a joke Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
After having sex with my boyfriend, I just want to be alone. How do I fix this?
He is big on post-orgasm cuddling, so I try to appease him, but all I really want is for us to go our separate ways, which makes me feel guilty.
I love him very much, I don't feel any sex-related shame, I'm female, and I am usually left feeling satisfied. I don't know why I feel this way, but I want to change it. We are both normally very affectionate and romantic towards each other.
Bump out of interest. Not op here, and I'm a guy, but I get the same thing. I lose a lot of interest in my partner post-orgasm, whether or not I'm dating them.
I would see roaches in the bathroom while I'd be taking a shit so I just started spraying the little fuckers with whatever was at hand (toilet cleaner, air freshener) and found that anything with bleached worked the best.
But, as we all know, roaches are fucking bulletproof so nothing I've found actually kills them but only stands to slow them down to a point where I can squash them.
Guys, need some help finding out what in the fuck this thing is in the picture. This thing was put onto my phone at work. Trying to figure out if it's a listening device of some sort.
I'm 20 years old right now and I'll be staying with my parents for the summer as I attend to a university during the school year. Right now I'm trying to get adjusted back home and my parents are harassing me about getting a job (which I'm working on) to the point where they expect me to spend 5 to 6 hours a day searching for a job or they will not let me out of the house. I would get a friend to pick me up from my place, but my parents have a GPS tracker on my phone so I can't really go anywhere without them knowing.
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>>17158894 >my parents have a GPS tracker on my phone so I can't really go anywhere without them knowing. Is your phone glued to you or something? Leave it at home
>>17158905 Lmao yeah I've applied to quite a few places and haven't heard back yet.
>>17158909 I would but then I would have to go through them calling each and every one of my friends asking them where I am (they pulled most of my contacts from my phone as well and I really only hang out with a handful of people).
just try to distract yourself, if you can. there's really no way to get over those feelings until you've just gotten the thing over with. you'll be fine, your nervousness will give you extra energy, and if you don't get this job it's not the end of the world. good luck!
Please give me some advice, I'm desperate. This is my girlfriend, I've been with her for about 3 years. She use to be so sweet and loving but now she is insecure, slightly bitter and depressed. She has no one else but me, really. We moved in together 6 months ago and it has been a rough emotional rollercoaster, I love her and care about her but I can't be with her anymore I think it is unhealthy for both of us..how do I break up with her gently?
Tell her how you feel maybe. If she gets mad then definitely break it off. If not, maybe stick with her and see if it gets better. After all, you've been with her for 3 years
As much as we don't like to admit it, relationships are about give and take, and there is only so much a human can take.
At the end of the day you have to decide for yourself what is more important, her happiness (or lack thereof), or yours. Neither choice is incorrect. If she does anything as a result of you leaving her, it isn't your fault because she's become overdependant on you.
There is no way of breaking it off easily. I would perhaps consider voicing your feelings and having a proper discussion about it instead of just leaving flat out.
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the 'best' way to break up with her is to have a plan for you, and have a plan for her. this may coincide with the end of a lease. but the best you can do is >have a place for you to go and/or have a place for her to go >plan for her to be out of town for a day, if not a whole weekend >use her out of town time to get your stuff, and move out >pick her up from wherever she is,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
could be any number of reasons. we dont know. you are probably not the kind of person they want to talk to and a recent thing you did was the tipping point.
sucks to suck. you might not be entirely in the wrong. might be a chance to reflect and grow. or it might be a chacne to find people more in line with you
>>17158708 I'm sorry to hear that this has happened to you, but you will never know why unless and until you reach out to them. This is the first step out.
My GF made this friend in her work. They became very close. He fell for her but she turned him down and keep their friendship. They talk casually everyday online (is not hours long... But she use her cellphone and he is always talking to her). This is the first time in 7 years that i feel jealous and don't know how to deal with this. She say she loves me. And i believe it. I just feel.... I don't know. I just feel very insecure and it drives me mad. I feel that i need to compete with him and i don't feel secure enough.... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
you are the most important man in her life, and if some other person approaches you feel like all she might have for you is the sexual aspect of your relationship, and you fear she will transfer that to him.
I have a similar issue with my boss. not sexually, but i see him as a father figure / mentor, and he clearly looks at me as the 'mentee' if you will. we are extremely close. and i do have an internal jealousy when i see that he is scheduled... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
You should really talk to her, and put your foot down though. Tell her you don't think it's wise for her to become so close with somebody who clearly has romantic feelings for her when she's already in a relationship. Tell her that it's disrespectful to the person your with. Don't manipulate her, but let her know that if she plans to continue this behavior, you're going to leave her because you feel that she wants to be with him more than you.
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Most people here are probably going to tell you some variation of your girl not respecting you and you having to assert yourself. Sometimes the best way to assert yourself is by being comfortable with what's happening.
Listen man you guys have been going out for 7 years and she turned him down. She does this with others yet you feel jealous of this one in particular because he likes her. There are boundaries - she should be capable of defending those boundaries but if not for example he gets grabby and she does nothing you 1. Tell him to knock it off and 2. Tell her to do a better job
People are so scared of being hurt they sabotage future opportunities for themselves. You wont be cucked (as most would say here) if she cheats, you can only be cucked if you let yourself feel that way. If she cheats she wasnt worth your time and you can move on with your life with little to no emotional pain.
But if you don't trust your girl then there's no point in being in a relationship with her, no matter how amazing she is in other ways. This is a personal problem that can only be fixed with being exposed and becoming gradually comfortable. My gf has lots of male friends, I'm sure most of them would love to bone her, even some of my mutual friends.
I'm secure enough to know that she won't and if she does I can get rid of her in a heartbeat.
generally no. i think the saying is meant to shine light on the situations that people act like big deals but arent.
there is no reason not to go ask out that girl, or whatever.
if its dangerous and has real world stakes, consider the options. but the saying is not meant for like 'see if you can land a back flip off your roof' and anything like that.
>>17158669 I dont think so. There is no time I haven't gained either physically, emotionally, or morally by participating in life. It's been worth it every time, even in failure.
How the FUCK do you hold conversations with people, especially over text?
I have no idea how to conversate. There's scores upon scores of cute girls that have approached me, gotten my number, but only received disappointment because I don't know how the fuck to talk.
Sometimes it takes me several fucking days to come up with a response to somebody, but then once they respond it's the same game all over again
you dont. text is meant for quick little interactions. some girls make it possible to conversate sure, but its not recommended. if you are texting a girl you are close enough to ask her on a date. use texting to check in once a day until said date.
so ask her on a date.
when its other stuff just say 'im not much of a texter' when you talk to them irl
Honestly texting is pretty boring until you're good enough friends to have something to talk about. Once they give you the number, use it to schedule coffee or something, establish similar interests and then you can text about stuff you actually both like.
Ex: have you heard the new ______ album?? who's your favorite character in ______? Hows that thing with your mom goin?
My GF bruises so fucking easily it's not even funny. To make things worse, she's into rough stuff, and loves it when i kiss her neck, both of which bruise the shit out of her. Anything past gentle kissing and she gets hickeys. And living at home, this is an issue as she doesn't want her mother to see. A few times she's made this clear to me, and I keep accidentally giving her hickeys anyway, which leaves her understandably frustrated.
Save for keeping my mouth and hands off of her neck completely, how can I minimize the bruising?
>>17158544 >>17158544 I mean do you just slap them or what? She really likes hair pulling, choking, etc and a lot of rougher breast play but I've never considered the thighs
My girlfriend laid those four soul crushing words on me today.
Some background info: >Currently 22 >Dated for four years >Started dating in High School >Gf was on birth control when we started dating >Dropped birth control about a year ago.
So...yeah I need some advice.
My girlfriend and I sort of broke up today. She said she needs a break. She owes me some money and has some of my belongings,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
So today like I said she met up with me at the lake and told me she wants to take a break. it was very hard for her, she cried a lot and wouldn't let go of me when I asked her if she wanted a hug.
I went back to work and messaged her an hour or two later saying how foolish and immature I've been, how I miss holding her hand and falling asleep next to her, waking up and seeing her in the morning.
She said This is all coming too late, I have no energy left to put into this relationship, I need a break.
I said I understand, and now here I am.
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Protip - if you need advice learn to lead off with a fecking question. You ask questions like a girl and by that I mean you don't ask questions but tell a sob story.
Also, you sound like a dick (that accidentally buttfucking her is gold) and she sounds like a fruit loop.
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