A bit short sighted, worried your mom will never forget when your aim is suicide

>>17161472
I'm not going to aid your death, advice is for improving life

>>17161472
Immolate yourself in a farwaway place. Or put on some cement shoes and drown in an ocean.
Or crash into a hard surface, so it seems like an accident.
Lostallhope is also a good resource.

Those methods I listed will make it difficult to identify/find/verify suicide.
Of course, I know you really don't want to die, and are just waiting for someonw to ask the obvious:
>Why would you want to kill urself anon?
>You got so much to live for!

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Now, a few months back, she started affirming herself more and more, and I, as a good gentleman, would let her passively do whatever she wanted. I did not step up. She wanted to move in with me next year, and I was scared of that, because I never worked, am still studying in college. My purpose in life was very clear when we met, and it became foggier and foggier. I completely lost myself in a codependent and needy way of being. While she completely emancipated herself from the viewpoint of me being the man. Because I gave her all the reasons to.
Now, she has met a guy over...
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And I've been rejecting her from my life, justifying this because of the fact that she didn't want me in bed, and wanted to see other guys. Which she did, at the time when I was literally waking up and going to sleep crying because of her stepping up and wearing the pants and starting to affirm herself.
I am lost now. She's disrespected me several times by calling me 'egoistical asshole' and saying she felt like the man in the relationship when I went up to see her with my sad needy feelings while she was completely void of any emotions and starting...
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She used to love coming to my home, we spent all our time together in cherish mode, and I let myself fuck up my studies, I let myself forget about my life purpose, because the feeling of being with her was just enough. Now she said she's afraid of coming because of my behavior... I was content, and I stopped caring. I stopped leading. Not on purpose, but I really got confused, because the lack of sex in our relationship hit me hardcore, and I talked to her about it, and talked, and talked, and nothing coming off from me would reignite her desire. I literally digged my own...
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hunt that orgasm that'll give you a hearth attack so you can go off in style.

I hate these type of questions.To be happy and not hurt people along the way of finding it I guess

>>17161396

to do what you want. preferably in a way that doesn't hurt too many others.

for me, i have a passion for telling stories. so my spare time is devoted to writing stories. books, radio plays, animations, web series, etc. it fulfills me and i love watching myself escalate and get better while also just putting my feelings into work that others can appreciate. it feels great when you get the one off comment saying 'wow that made me cry'.

but everyone is different.

Man the fuck up.

I met her on the phone at work and been talking to her all week so know her reasonably well for a stranger. Any ideas where would be a good place to take her?

Would a cliché date be terrible?

>>17161393

>am i right to feel emasculated by this

define 'right'? you have the right to feel whatever you want. many other men would feel the same. many would not. shes a sexual conquest kind of woman so its likely you are another conquest, the cute young puppy new to the world of sex. not saying a real relationship wont be there, but shes into you because you are young and new.

enjoy it?

>>17161390
You've already crossed the line. You are attracted to her and that can only end in a relationship or heartbreak. It cannot be avoided. So go for it. Tell her the honest truth about your feelings and see what happens.

>>17161390
If you're not good at flirting irl then do it over text or something. If you have good English and can think of words then you should be Ok with this because you're not physically there with her so any awkwardness is avoided because you can take your time to calculate you replies etc.

As for knowing what to say in these texts, a devil may care attitude is best imo. stuff like "what do you wear to bed" has a whole avenue of potential flirtaciousness. Similarly, getting her to subconsciiouslythink...
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ahh, the not-so-elusive friendzone.

Best way out of it every time is to read about how to flirt and then lay it on thick. She'll either go for it or she won't but either way, she'll start recognising you as someone she could date rather than her bestie that holds her hand through her troubles.

Women are weak so if you got that 9in you can do whatever you want

Virtually none

Good dick as in size? Or good dick as in good sex? Because size means nothing to me. Good sex is definitely an influence, but big size =/= good sex. I'd take skill with oral over big dick any day.

u up?

>>17161340
advice

>dont just hit on a woman

its no secret that women are the ones who are approached, and they make decisions on which men to keep in their lives. that being said, desperately drooling over each and every girl as if they are a potential love interest is silly.

give yourself more value by not letting a woman sway you on first impressions alone. before you ever begin to say anything remotely flirtatious, talk to the girl. see what she actually acts like when you...
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>>17161377


>only ever use dating apps as a supplement to your real life dating.

dating apps are toxic. consider the following
>people use dating apps because they arent having much luck in real life
>they go to a dating app where they are introduced to an entire smorgasbord of men who want nothing more than to bang and/or date them
>after just one day they will have seen everyone in their...
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You said it yourself.

>Have to give up.

You just want what you already know coming out of someone else's mouth.

>>17161313

give up meth. preferrably through a legitimate rehab. its damn near impossible to quit on your own. and thats okay. just get help man.

socal?

>>17161313

Give up meth. Get treatment.

Seriously, it ain't worth it.

Why do people even start meth? I can see where you start with other hard drugs but meth is the 1-way ticket to fucked-up-town

>>17161273

we all have kinks. for awhile i could not cum without testicular stimulation. good stuff.

its probably becuase you are used to jacking off, and bend your feet when doing os. i had a similar issue where i had to be sitting / lying down to cum. could not cum stnading.

keep trying to do it anyways?

Sometimes when I jack it I can't help but grab my pants and pull them up and down. Jacking off is a personalized experience

>>17161273
For years I couldn't bust a nut unless I tensed up the muscles in my legs as tight as I could. Don't think I took any positive action to change that, it just kind of went away as I got older.

>>17161269

you are retarded.

>>17161269
If she's been ignoring you for a year, she definitely doesn't want you now.

>>17161306
correct

op is a fag

Being each other's first doesn't mean shit. On top of that, the time doesn't really mean anything either. There are folks that divorce after 20 years and 2 plus kids. Any relationship either outlasts your lifespan or doesn't. Sorry about your breakup, but you should use this as on opportunity to explore thee world of other women who may better understand their emotions. Good luck man.

Move on, she is done with you. Get your closure and cut contact.

This way in ten years you can look back on the time with her fondly instead of with pain and regret.

your biggest problen here is thinking

>throws it away so easy

people break up at all stages of the relationship. two weeks in, two months, two years, two kids, two marriages.

thats a fact of life. it sucks and she sucks, but yeah, time to move on. dont let her back in when/if she comes back.

truth be told you were a first relationship so bound to fail at some point. you got together out of absolute convenience, the first time you two had something that could line up.

relationships gotta be built on more than that.

>>17161248

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It's gotten to where it's affecting my work. I'm the sole earner in the household, she's a stay-at-home mom (it's been our arrangement since about year 4) I've had to rush home to her and call-in as well and I don't know how long it'll continue because she simply refuses to go to the Dr. (I'm not being supportive, I don't believe her, etc.)

We have zero family or friends as we're in an area thousands of miles away from all family and we're...
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Take her to get medical help. Call a psychologist, or if she's that unresponsive a hospital maybe so they can be sure she doesn't hurt herself or anyone else.
All my rules for how much I trust someone are going out the door if they're experiencing some sort of psychosis.

I'm sure you have some more, but man, this sounds like a serious case of needing to pursue professional medical advice directly from a medical professional. No matter what advice you get from here, keep in mind that it may help symptomatically, but not address what is actually happening to her.

Medical.Fucking. Help.

>>17161246

>and i took it to heart

jesus christ, why? why are straight cis men so obsessed with disney princess movies? this is the only explanation i could find for why someone would truly believe that they will be together with someone forever when they've known them less than any of their friends.

>if i lose her i dont know what I'll do

what everyone else does:
>mourn your loss
>g...
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You need to take some time away, and get a little bit of clarity. Take the day, go somewhere where you can be completely alone, outside of the house, and think some shit through. If she says she wants to make it work, it means she's not ready to let you go and its really just up to you to do some soul searching and be there for your relationship. You can repair things, just take a little break for a day and remember why you fell in love with each other in the first place. do something really special for her and for each other.

>>17161253
This is basically where it is at. Agreeing to work through it. But that uncertainty kills me and eats me alive. It especially hurts when I ask if it's going to work out and she says she isn't sure.

>>17161234
Are you talking to a southeast Asian chick? Her English isn't too good.

Also, how long have you been talking?

It's most likely nothing, but depending on how long you've been talking, you may or may not be allowed to have suspicions.

>>17161441
for a year

I was trying to fix the grammar mistakes but posted this too fast to even see my own mistakes

we were not even talking about cousins or anything else. she just said this out of nowhere.

Here's the conversation right before this

>her: I may sleep early tonight, I have a headache
>me: Okay, good night
>her: Are you angry?
>me: No just joking :)
>her: I care about you, please don't be mad at me
>me: that's fine, what are you up to?
>her: taking a shower, you?
>me: not much

So...
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6.5 is fine. Shave if you want.

>>17161231

depends on the woman. men seem to care more about dick size than women do in my experience.

if you are talking inchest, 6.5 is decent. mine is 6.5 and all i ever get told is how big it is or how beautiful it is (though mines really perfectly shaped) so you should be fine.

>should i shave down there

shaving it bald might be some womens preferences, but the majority of women will find it weird. even if they did find it attrative they'd think you are gay....
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>>17161233
>>17161235
Thanks for the input! I'm just a little nervous because I'm hooking up for the first time