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I have a lot of close friends I can talk to about anything, but not one of them considers me their best friend. What does this mean?
>>17193820
it means you dont suck any of their dicks often enough
>charleys my friend but johnnys my BEST friend
>>17193820
it simply means you dont connect with them moer than the others do. it could be a sign of a deficient personality. it could also mean other things.
liek you dont spend enough time with one of them. or like you didnt give one in particular the attetnion to make them feel like YOUR best friend. or like you dont confide in them as much as tehy think you should. or that you always seem like you have a facade up. or like you dont listen to them when they need you. or simply that they've known each other...
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>>17193849
I've been wondering if I should cut back on some of the attention I give them.
Whenever I push my personality into extroverted territory in order to interact with people, I feel as though I become obnoxious, conceited and insufferable. I can tell I'm annoying my friends. How do I attract women? I'll get nowhere staying in my laid back comfort zone.
>>17193817
>Whenever I push my personality into extroverted
You're beta, stop trying to be someone you're not and live with it. You'll eventually surround yourself with like minded people. Stop trying too hard and chill the fuck out.
>people don't like me when I try to be someone I'm not
No shit.
>>17193817
this is gonna sound retarded but
1) be yourself
2) externalize yourself in a way that lets you interact with people.
we arent entirely sure what you mean by 'extroverted' territory. but im gonna work under the assumption that you mean going out and meeting basic bitches in mainstream ways.
consider taking what you actually enjoy, externalizing that and meeting girls (or rather, people) in that way.
keep in mind that there is a difference between your 'comfort zone'...
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How do I reduce dreading and thinking about shit? The actions I take are the right ones, but I can't help remembering and thinking about stressful shit in the past.
>>17193810
Write poetry about it, even if it is really bad, and keep it to yourself (the poetry).
>>17193830
I'm not going to do this but I appreciate the suggestion.
tell me if you find anything that works op my life has beome one of dja vu and nightmares... I'm tired
I want to die now, ive posted here like every day with the same shitty story, but this is the worst yet
>girl dumped me 3 yrs blah blah blah
>tell her to come get her shit today
>first says she cant come then calls and says on her way
>she comes inside
>we got to my room
>she sees her stuff on my bed
>gets wrapped in my blankets
>i...
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my original plan was to
>fuck her
>act completely fine
>just be friendly
>say no feelings to her at all
>just give a friendly hug when she left and text her
>"wish you the best of luck"
i mean it kinda worked but not the most important part
while i could use advice on what to do next i dont think anything would help so if you want to just ridicule me that is fine.
>>17193767
Hey, you got one last fuck out of her.
Given that the romance WAS over and was NOT going to resume, you went out with your flag flying.
Lately I've been getting really horny and jacking off to gay porn. I've been having gay fantasies a lot and am fucking scared. I've never been attracted to men before and I've always been staring at female asses, not male asses. Is it possible for someone to become gay later in life?
>>17193714
>Is it possible for someone to become gay later in life?
Its possible to be attracted to both men and women. I understand its a new thing and new things can be scary but you really couldn't be living in a better time to be a bisexual.
Its not a big deal at all. Think of it like this; now you're doubled your playing field. Have a ball, grab some tits, suck a dick, no biggie.
>>17193714
Sexual attraction isn't as fixed as those faggots that sort the world into "straight", "bi", and "gay" want to tell you.
That you jacked to a few guys doesn't mean you can no longer look at womens arses.
>>17193728
>>17193736
Yeah but just today I was mirin' some girls asses hard. When I had these gay fantasies they were when I was horny. I don't notice guys in public.
Should I snitch on my cousin to the cops? This dude is psycho and threatening me of slashing his friends tires and saying he's going to smash my face in. I know he probably has warrant for his arrest and he is a drug dealer. I just want to get revenge on him threatening me, falsely accusing me and shoving me. Pic is of him you can see it in his eyes he's pure evil.
>>17193705
He is from the year 2100. How is this possible?
It's pretty shitty to snitch, and if he finds out it was you he'd probably be even more pissed. Snitches get stitches, and wind up in ditches.
But if you're afraid for your safety I don't know what else you can do, tattle on him to his/your parents? He's family, so it's not like you're ever going to get away from him, unless you disown him and start a new life elsewhere and vow never to speak to him again, but that's a lot of effort. I'm sorry your relative is so shitty.
>>17193705
If he's threatening you then calling the cops seems like a good idea.
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Ok, so I need help on this case because I have no idea on how to fix this guy
Ok, so my best friend got a boyfriend and everything seemed to be good for the first two weeks. Yesterday she told that she's getting sick of him.
When I asked what the problem was she said he's waaay too annoying. He would constantly text her every ten minutes saying how beautiful she was, how much he loved her and so on.
Also he takes her out for breakfast everyday and with that he already managed to annoy all of my bff's friends at school
Also, she already talked with...
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>and he just forgave her until she got pregnant
he's beyond fixing
tell her to dump the cuck and find a real man
He grew up being told true love is a thing, so he is trying to create that. Tell him that people don't love eachother at first sight, that's hollywood bullshit. Tell him love grows and ages like a fine wine. Tell him that he needs to stop putting the pussy on a pedastal, women are equal to men, treat her like he would anyone else.
>>17193683
>How do you fix a beta cuck?
There is no such thing as a beta cuck. Beta and cuck are 4chan memes and memes are not real life. Stop it.
>So, how do you guys fix someone like that?
You can't fix people. Thats fucking stupid. Leave this alone. Getting involved is just going to be a pain in everyone's ass, yours included.
Before I smash need to know if it's really a female?
It's not even confirmed to be human.
>>17193649
If penis is man
If vagina is female
>>17193649
its a cake god damn contain your food porn
-got a girl pregnant
-told her to do what she thought was right and I'd support her
-girl got abortion
-abortion went wrong
-girl can't have kids
Simple as that, is it my fault?
>>17193643
Nope. Women have been loud in telling the world they are responsible for their own bodies.
It's not your fault. Sperm has an autonomous function outside of your control. She consented to potentially exposing herself to sperm. She is personally responsible for all the risks and consequences of her actions.
No, but it is really, really sad. Sorry to hear that happened to you guys, anon. :(
I was doing some pushups last night and as I was reaching my limit I felt a sharp pain in my head. It went away after resting for a few minutes.
Today too I felt a slight pain when I was doing pushups but I stopped before it was big.
Im turning 21 soon and on my health checkup a year ago everything was great and I had perfect blood pressure.
What is happening and should I be worried?
Bumping before I go to sleep
you have testicular cancer
Go to a doctor senpai
What's a good alpha suave comeback when a woman tells you "you're amazing" or other such compliment?
"So are you" wouldn't work, and "I know" sounds douchey. Any other ideas?
y-you too
Anytime a girl compliments me, I smile and say "thanks for noticing."
Good luck
"Yeah". Why do you make it hard.
Sup /adv/? I'll try to keep this short.
So one of my best friends is getting married in a month, and he has chosen me as his best man. The problem is I really hate his fionce. They're been together since 2010 when we were 18 years old and for the most part they've been happy. However, in 2015 she went to Australia for about half a year to study, and during that time she met some guy she desperately wanted to fuck. Instead of simply breaking up with my homie she forced him to agree on "taking a break" so she could cuck the poor bastard agaist his...
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I swear to god OP if you don't do everything in your power to make him drop this bitch...
>>17193580
Either learn to live with your best friend's wife or lose your best friend.
He won't choose you over his wife.
Doing or saying anything will only hurt your relationship with him. If he asks for advice, tell him the truth without being an asshole about it. Don't let your hate for this woman overcome your concern for him. Your objective in this situation is helping him, not punishing her.
Trying to shake sense into a delusional person is just going to turn them against you,...
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>>17193580
This sounds like bait.
If he hates her, why the hell is he getting married?
Is she forcing him to marry her?
So I have been hanging out and fucking this girl for the past 4 months, and now she somehow thinks that she is my girlfriend or something.
Yesterday we were going from her apartment to go get pizza, and she holds my hand while we are walking. I'm like "wtf are you doing?", she said something about "that's what couples"
do" or something like that. I'm like "I'm not your boyfriend." She got offended, can you believe it!
For a while it was kinda weird and I could tell she was upset. What's going on here?
Should've told her, "I'm only interested in using your body for sex, you down? "
Then you wouldn't be in this situation.
>>17193548
be straight and clear things up before something worse happens
She hold the sexist notion of men as providers. Instead of making personal efforts toward the goal of emotionally seducing you or another man she internally blames you for not giving her what she wants. This is something you should talk about, and most likely break up over, since you have grown incompatible.
BEST WAY TO LET GO OF A GIRL YOU LOVED?
let her go
>>17193525
Willpower
>>17193543
>>17193544
Damn you guys suck today.
It's been 2 weeks since I messaged this girl -- who I kind of like -- on FB and she hasn't "seen" nor replied to me. She hasn't been very active in FB lately, but I've seen her 'liking' shit around my news feed so I know she's occasionally on.
I know for a fact that she's on her exams but she could still reply, I reckon.
Do you think I should message her again? Or is this a hint that she's not interested and I should leave it at that?
Go ahead, make yourself look like the desperate orbiter that you are.
>>17193503
Leave it. Dont overthink this shit, she doesn't want anything with you and there is no need to make a fool out of yourself
>>17193503
Just message multiple girls, so if one doesn't respond you can focus on the others. Also don't be so desperate.
