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>>17193820
it means you dont suck any of their dicks often enough
>charleys my friend but johnnys my BEST friend

>>17193820

it simply means you dont connect with them moer than the others do. it could be a sign of a deficient personality. it could also mean other things.

liek you dont spend enough time with one of them. or like you didnt give one in particular the attetnion to make them feel like YOUR best friend. or like you dont confide in them as much as tehy think you should. or that you always seem like you have a facade up. or like you dont listen to them when they need you. or simply that they've known each other longer. or that you are too 'different' for any one of them to think of as similar enough to warrant a best friendship.

i hd this issue a lot growing up cuz i moved all the time. im a great guy and bond with people really easily.

but when you've only been there six months and they know you'll be gone in another six months, no one wants to get 'too close' and most people already have longer deeper relationships already established. when you went to five high schools its hard for anyone to really bond with you.

>>17193849
I've been wondering if I should cut back on some of the attention I give them.

>>17193817
>Whenever I push my personality into extroverted

You're beta, stop trying to be someone you're not and live with it. You'll eventually surround yourself with like minded people. Stop trying too hard and chill the fuck out.

>people don't like me when I try to be someone I'm not
No shit.

>>17193817

this is gonna sound retarded but
1) be yourself
2) externalize yourself in a way that lets you interact with people.

we arent entirely sure what you mean by 'extroverted' territory. but im gonna work under the assumption that you mean going out and meeting basic bitches in mainstream ways.

consider taking what you actually enjoy, externalizing that and meeting girls (or rather, people) in that way.

keep in mind that there is a difference between your 'comfort zone' and 'who you are as a person'. comfort zone implies that you should be doing more but aren't. like being able to approach a girl in general. but 'who you are as a person' implies that say, you dont like to go out to clubs and bars cuz they jus arent your thing, and forcing yourself to go is not productive or healthy or this or that or the fifth thing.

>>17193810
Write poetry about it, even if it is really bad, and keep it to yourself (the poetry).

>>17193830
I'm not going to do this but I appreciate the suggestion.

tell me if you find anything that works op my life has beome one of dja vu and nightmares... I'm tired

my original plan was to
>fuck her
>act completely fine
>just be friendly
>say no feelings to her at all
>just give a friendly hug when she left and text her
>"wish you the best of luck"

i mean it kinda worked but not the most important part

while i could use advice on what to do next i dont think anything would help so if you want to just ridicule me that is fine.

>>17193767
Hey, you got one last fuck out of her.

Given that the romance WAS over and was NOT going to resume, you went out with your flag flying.

>>17193714

>Is it possible for someone to become gay later in life?

Its possible to be attracted to both men and women. I understand its a new thing and new things can be scary but you really couldn't be living in a better time to be a bisexual.

Its not a big deal at all. Think of it like this; now you're doubled your playing field. Have a ball, grab some tits, suck a dick, no biggie.

>>17193714
Sexual attraction isn't as fixed as those faggots that sort the world into "straight", "bi", and "gay" want to tell you.

That you jacked to a few guys doesn't mean you can no longer look at womens arses.

>>17193728

>>17193736

Yeah but just today I was mirin' some girls asses hard. When I had these gay fantasies they were when I was horny. I don't notice guys in public.

>>17193705
He is from the year 2100. How is this possible?

It's pretty shitty to snitch, and if he finds out it was you he'd probably be even more pissed. Snitches get stitches, and wind up in ditches.
But if you're afraid for your safety I don't know what else you can do, tattle on him to his/your parents? He's family, so it's not like you're ever going to get away from him, unless you disown him and start a new life elsewhere and vow never to speak to him again, but that's a lot of effort. I'm sorry your relative is so shitty.

>>17193705
If he's threatening you then calling the cops seems like a good idea.

>and he just forgave her until she got pregnant
he's beyond fixing
tell her to dump the cuck and find a real man

He grew up being told true love is a thing, so he is trying to create that. Tell him that people don't love eachother at first sight, that's hollywood bullshit. Tell him love grows and ages like a fine wine. Tell him that he needs to stop putting the pussy on a pedastal, women are equal to men, treat her like he would anyone else.

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>>17193683

>How do you fix a beta cuck?

There is no such thing as a beta cuck. Beta and cuck are 4chan memes and memes are not real life. Stop it.

>So, how do you guys fix someone like that?

You can't fix people. Thats fucking stupid. Leave this alone. Getting involved is just going to be a pain in everyone's ass, yours included.

It's not even confirmed to be human.

>>17193649
If penis is man
If vagina is female

>>17193649
its a cake god damn contain your food porn

>>17193643
Nope. Women have been loud in telling the world they are responsible for their own bodies.

It's not your fault. Sperm has an autonomous function outside of your control. She consented to potentially exposing herself to sperm. She is personally responsible for all the risks and consequences of her actions.

No, but it is really, really sad. Sorry to hear that happened to you guys, anon. :(

Bumping before I go to sleep

you have testicular cancer

Go to a doctor senpai

y-you too

Anytime a girl compliments me, I smile and say "thanks for noticing."

Good luck

"Yeah". Why do you make it hard.

I swear to god OP if you don't do everything in your power to make him drop this bitch...

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>>17193580

Either learn to live with your best friend's wife or lose your best friend.

He won't choose you over his wife.

Doing or saying anything will only hurt your relationship with him. If he asks for advice, tell him the truth without being an asshole about it. Don't let your hate for this woman overcome your concern for him. Your objective in this situation is helping him, not punishing her.

Trying to shake sense into a delusional person is just going to turn them against you, so if he doesn't ask, keep your mouth shut and just make sure you're there from him when he realizes he made a huge mistake.

>>17193580
This sounds like bait.
If he hates her, why the hell is he getting married?

Is she forcing him to marry her?

Should've told her, "I'm only interested in using your body for sex, you down? "

Then you wouldn't be in this situation.

>>17193548
be straight and clear things up before something worse happens

She hold the sexist notion of men as providers. Instead of making personal efforts toward the goal of emotionally seducing you or another man she internally blames you for not giving her what she wants. This is something you should talk about, and most likely break up over, since you have grown incompatible.

let her go

>>17193525
Willpower

>>17193543
>>17193544


Damn you guys suck today.

Go ahead, make yourself look like the desperate orbiter that you are.

>>17193503
Leave it. Dont overthink this shit, she doesn't want anything with you and there is no need to make a fool out of yourself

>>17193503
Just message multiple girls, so if one doesn't respond you can focus on the others. Also don't be so desperate.