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Hey /adv/, my cousin was caught shoplifting three years ago from this day. He hasnt gone in to court once since then and has a single warrant out for his arrest ($200 I think?).
He's cleaned up his act since then but refuses to pay off the fine since lives off paycheck to paycheck.
Should I continue trying to convince him to get it payed off or will he be fine?
Pay it off for him.
>>17194494
I would but he has to actually show up in court. Btw, should have mentioned that he was 21 at the time of arrest. Almost 24 now.
When he gets pulled over for a minor traffic violation or they just run his plates for the hell of it he's going to be boned unless someone covers his bail.
Alright, so the title is kind of misleading because I hate most self-proclaimed "beta males" because they act like alphas, thinking they deserve every woman on earth and acting chivalrous when they just want to get their dick wet. What I'm talking about here is that I am unable to be sexually or romantically attracted to any man that doesn't fit this absurd criteria:
>weak bodied, scrawny and with very little muscle
>soft spoken and/or shy
>short (HAS to be under 5'7"...
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>>17194411
I have a guy friend that would fill your requirements. You are extremely rare, he can't find anyone like you here
>>17194411
I fit the description except the short part.
>>17194411
>name for this
Insecurity, distorted motherly instinct, life experiences where you had to take the masculine role and you got comfortable with it. It can be a lot of things.
Hello /adv/.
Currently running a VPN (private internet access) on a Windows 10 machine w/ Spybot Anti-Beacon installed and got Tails on a USB despite me only using W10.
Using DuckDuckGo on Mozilla firefox with the following extensions Decentraleyes, Disable WebRTC, HTTPS Everywhere, JS Switcher, NoScript, uBlock Origin and WOT.
All the history and cookies are erased per session on firefox, and for emails and uploading photos I use POMF and fake email generator.
Any other tips that could make my anonymity better?
Uhh... Use Tails?
>>17194359
Just to be precise: You're not anonymous with your setup. You just erased *some* (because I actually don't know the amount of information is spread while a person is using a browser) of your data which where created while using your browser. That means, only the data which were on your harddrive are deleted, but if someone else logged the data of a webpage which you have visited, it's still there, as long as the person of the webpage deleted it.
For example: If you illegally share something in...
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>>17194359
What in god's tits could you be doing that warrants your secrecy?
It doesn't itch and I've already washed it with water and soap a few times. Halp
Have you gone to the beach lately?
It's an inflammation.
See how splotchy it is?
It's nothing specific.
Just your skin going full retard.
I get them all the time because my parents blessed me with "great skin".
Let it go.
If you persists for a month, go see a doc.
But it's likely just your body going "Hurrrrr" over a small infraction
I have a gf and we had a kid together. Ever since the kid she refused to have sex with me because she said she felt too fat after the pregnancy. She goes to the gym a lot. While I work and do all the chores she has the time of her life. She doesn't have a job herself. The kid is a year old now. Yesterday I discovered she has an account on fetlife. Is she trying to cuck me?
>>17194328
How long has she had the account? Either way, yes.
She IS cucking you. She got herself a nice beta provider and she now lives the good life. No work no responsibilities, playing with kid and Tyrone's dick while having an endless supply of money. A girl's dream.
>>17194328
Has she fucked around on you before?
This morning, I woke up having a night terror. I can't remember any of it, just that I woke up flailing about and screaming until I sat upright and took deep breaths for the next few minutes. I had trouble falling asleep and got maybe 5 hours of sleep before waking up to the night terror. I also was heat fatigued from being outside all day.
Anyways, I'm now worried about going to sleep tonight. Anons, do any of you have experience with this sort of thing? What should I do, if anything? I almost feel like I'm overreacting and that it was surely a 1-off thing;...
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I have experience with that type of shit.
I've only had a few nighterrors.
But I've found that opening my eyes in the dark brings it on.
If you close your lights, never open your eyes. That helps me.
Also, being drunk as shit helps.
But I don't recommend that
>>17194333
I don't drink because of my shit-tier liver, so getting blackout drunk isn't a viable option.
I guess I'll try to not stare into the dark and see if that helps. Like I said, I'm hoping it was just a 1-off thing from lack of sleep and heat fatigue. I guess I'll just have to wake and see.
>>17194344
I've heard weed really helps, but I've never smoked it.
I started having the hallucinations a long time ago.
Do you see spiders in your bed as you fall asleep?
That used to be my thing. Until I learned never to open my eyes.
Even when sober, never opening my eyes helps me a lot.
When you can see in black and white, then you know you will start seeing things that aren't real.
If you can't ever stop seeing things, maybe try to control them. When I first starting...
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I pretend to do well at university when in reality I go only to classes I like, whenever I feel like, and I've failed the same course thrice. State funded uni, so my parents don't pay much which means I don't feel bad really. I continue to leech of the allowance I get from them and use that combined with pirating to keep playing vidya instead of succeeding in life.
I know I could do well in uni at least,but I just can't find the motivation.
I'm waiting for it all to come tumbling down.
>>17194261
>they arent paying as much as they could be so i dont feel bad
this is why no one likes millenials. cuz assholes like you give the entire generation a really fucking bad name.
Make yourself like all the courses.
>>17194264
It's not quite like that. I do want to feel bad about it, but I guess I'm not really able to maybe?
So there is this girl I used to talk to but she rejected me. Havent really talked to her since.
She was in her school show. (Shes a senior in HS). I went to show because my little brother is in it.
Should I send her a message on facebook or something saying she did a good job? Not because I want her to like me but I just dont want her to think Im a jerk or anything.
So if I say it I look like a creep but if I dont I look rude? What do?
Naw, man, find other HS girls to chase after.
>>17194252
>but if i dont i look rude
to who? did she know you were there? and even if she did, do you think she cared? do you really think shes on the secret hot girls facebook page posting 'OMG ANON WAS AT THE SCHOOL PLAY AND HE DIDNT EVEN TELL ME WHAT A GOOD JOB I DID, I ALREADY TURNED HIM DOWN BUT NOW YOU SHOULD ALL TURN HIM DOWN TOO TROLOLOLOL'
sounds to me like you are trying to rationalize talking to her with hopes it'll be different this time.
>>17194285
eh maybe youre right
Im usually pretty paranoid
Im not looking to flirt with her with anything I just want her to atleast think im a nice person who doesnt just stop being nice her after being rejected
im an atheist as fucking hell and falling in love with a religious christian person. Dude knows i am, and we're friends for 3 years already. Will things honestly work out if we by any chance start to date?
Yes, as long as you're both not militant faggots.
>>17194221
im an atheist and I have a devout catholic boyfriend.
My bf has always taken his religion seriously and personally. He never attempts to convert anyone. And religion is mostly how he connects with his family. He doesn't talk about it much either, and life just goes on.
So, I do attend religious events with his family to be supportive of him and his family. But I'm not gagging at the sight of a church and complaining the whole time.
The main thing you should have is tolerance....
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>>17194243
>devout catholic
>premarital sex
Nope
help me chose a new profile pic? im thinking bottom left or bottom right. but i think im biased. since all guys seems to have a fetish for black/white photos.
Top right is objectively the best, your face looks the best in that one. Bottom left and right both look dumb as shit desu.
>>17194202
Depends on what kind of image you want to convey. I would choose bottom left, it doesn't look try hard and shows you smiling.
Cheers
I'm lonely and I want to meet girls.
I am on antidepressants so I can't drink without wanting to kill myself for the following week. I'm taking 6 courses at university in a male dominated field so I can't commit to anything at the moment.
Before this semester I was meeting lots of people and socializing a lot, but that's because I was working and not on antidepressants. I was in a relationship with a girl who lived far away and was moving here, but she isn't anymore so we're breaking up. So basically I'm not completely socially...
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The semester has got to be nearly over, right?
>>17194254
In Canada it just started. Plus I just started the antidepressants so I can't really drink for at the very least one whole year.
>>17194194
> i cant drink
then dont? 99% of the time i go to a bar im just drinking water, or a soda if its a special occassion. i do like beer but i like to have my wits about me.
especially if oyu order a soda girls wont notice you arent drinking. just say its a rum and coke.
my best friend is a total ladies man and hes only ever had one shot of vodka in his life. he doesnt drink for stupid family semi religious reasons.
also consider the following:
tell me your opinion, and first impression about me. do I have a chance of getting a new gf? what do I need to change. i used to be really fucking fat like 240 lbs now I weigh 206.. I'm 6'1
>>17194193
ignore the blue from my monitor. I'd prefer a femanon input but I'll take anything really
>>17194193
You iight. I picture you with a somewhat charasmatic personality and an obnoxious, satirical sense of humor. Both are fitting to your looks.
First impression? Regular guy.
You don't need to change anything. At least not physically.
What's your personality like? What are your hobbies? How do you express yourself creatively? Are you capable of carrying on a conversation with a girl (in person, not online) without acting retarded?
Aside from outright lying and posting fake pictures of some other, more physically attractive guy, how do I get more attention on dating sites like OKcupid?
Conversely
How do I learn to stop being a totally pussy and actually message woman in said sites?
Take better pictures? Theres plenty of guides on how to maximize your yield rate for this shit.
>>17194150
Doll yourself up a bit, work out and immediately take a shirtless pic. Muscles swell a little bit after being exerted and it'll give you a little extra umph.
As for messaging them, what's the worst they could do, not message you back? C'mon son
>>17194159
>As for messaging them, what's the worst they could do, not message you back? C'mon son
I wouldn't even know where to begin. Hell, I can't even fill out most of my profile without putting my foot in my mouth in some way and making myself look like a pathetic faggot
I am a girl and my hair is thinning at an insane rate. It wasn't like that AT ALL a year ago.
What should I do?
(I was born with a vagina)
Will you be my internet gf
Wear fedora
Could there be testosterone in your environment?
How do I ruin my cousins PS3 without making it obvious it was sabotage? I'm kinda out for revenge right now.
>>17194120
Are you 12?
Jizz on the inside enough that it messes up
>>17194120
Depends how tech savvy he is. You can take out the hard drive.
