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I have a fantasy that i want to see my girlfriend fucking other man. I opened up to her and she was surprised. She asked me questions about it and why did it started. She wasn't mad but she doesn't want to do it. How can I convince her? Is there a chance that she will say yes in the future?
>>17196349
>How can I convince her?
You don't.
>Is there a chance that she will say yes in the future?
Yes.
>>17196363
Hmm. Should i still talk about it with her?
>>17196349
I'm black and have a fairly large penis. Can I fuck your girl?
So, lately my girlfriend of about three years has been dropping the "maybe we shouldn't be together" for what I think is a pretty dumb reason. I'm 26, she's 22, not sure how much of a difference age makes.
I wrote out this whole thing but it really just boils down to different political beliefs that we always said we'd get around but lately she doesn't think she can overlook mine. None of it's about hot button issues, just really minor stuff. We're both technically democrats, but we believe in different ways to treat people...
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>>17196309
Sounds like she has her mind pretty much made up. If she's using political beliefs as a pretext than that's pretty weak. Most couples don't have identical political beliefs.
>>17196336
Yeah, this was a couple weeks ago and she hasn't said anything like this since, but I'm still worried. It's less political like "democrat vs republican" and more that I've always been into 'treat everyone the way I'd like to be treated/with respect' and she's always been into 'only treat people with respect if they have personally done something worth respecting'.
I'm not like a communist but I really believe everyone deserves some basic level...
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She's either retarded or lying
Im about 55-60% sure this girl at my class likes me (
>inb4 no she just bein nice stop thinking wymoen owe u secks
That's not what I want this thread to be about. But if I wanted to show interest back, how can I keep her being interested in me? I don't talk to her a lot but she acts shy and nice to me when we do talk. This happen to me before with another girl, but she rejected me after months of hanging out. How can I not make the same mistake?
>>17196269
don't b urself
Good idea, but how should I act around her?
bumpity
I was given some good advice to have "grinding sex" with my gf, though I don't know what this looks like or how to perform it. With gif related I can easily picture how women would grind, but what about a man, especially with PIV sex? I can't find any good examples or instruction. Help please! Thank you.
>>17196222
I don't think the guys do anything, they just hump the girl to thier rhythm.
You just go balls-deep, and kind of roll and push your hips without actually moving your body back and forth. So your bodies should pretty much stay in contact, your dick should stay all the way in, but you're just kind of moving and rubbing together. It's hot.
But don't think of it all black-and-white like "tonight we're going to do 'grinding sex,' honey." Just add it to your list of moves. Don't stay in the same position the whole time, keep it active and spontaneous, you know?
>>17196222
Don't wear jeans or thick skin tight clothing.
A lot of people will tell you grinding is stupid and childish but it can be fun foreplay and teasing for a new couple that hasn't yet had sex.
Long story short, i have been dating quite few times in the past but this time is different.
I literally can't guess what that girl is thinking. We met irl, talk went smooth but she said she don't know.
Then again she talks to me keeping up conversation. Then I talk to her and she suddenly vanishes just to say few hours later "sorry i had accident here".
I asked her straight whats wrong, or did she just lost interest. She said she didn't but she needs some time (she lost her job few days before we first met).
I really don't...
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>>17196200
Why do you think she was more interested in you?
>>17196234
She seemd pretty excited when talking with me, I can't actually tell but it seemd so. Touching my hands, stuff like that.
Basically this girl seems like emotional rollercoaster.
I had thoughts of breaking relation with her but then she writes to me and asks whats up with a smile. I just don't know what to do, to pursue this relationship or not. We both have 27 years.
Are "hair transplants being shit" a thing or has technology evolved to the point it's acceptable?
I've been shaving my head for a year already but yesterday I saw an old pic and damn.. I want that back.
I'm 23 by the way so yeah, it's shit.
>>17196184
They do work, but it's not easy to find a good doc and get the money for those transplants. But as far as the technique is concerned, everything is alright
They're pretty legit if you've only got temple recession / some diffuse thinning. If you're a Norwood 7, though, your only hope is probably scalp micropigmentation.
HT's rarely yield the volume people desire. Also, if you don't want to take medications like Avodart, be prepared to visit your transplant Doctor pretty frequently for touch-ups. Alvi Armani has a stellar reputation in the hair loss community, but they charge a LOT per graft - doctors in places like Turkey can give you good results at a lower rate.
>>17196212
Right now I'm a 3, but I wouldn't be surprised if I become one those in the future. That's also the problem, I'm still balding so I don't know.
Does this sound like a stupid idea?
This guy left me this week but I still have his stuff. We go to same school. Summer break starts next week. I could give him his stuff there or I could wait until he asks to come to my place to take it.
I promised him I will leave him alone. But if I keep on waiting for him to message me about the stuff I will keep hoping that maybe there is a chance that something will happen when he comes to get his stuff. All I really want is to get over him.
So is it best to wait for him or ask him to meet at some place at school tomorrow and...
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>>17196169
Time to respect yourself and your own emotions by taking control of the situation. Text him, "I put all of your stuff outside my room in a box. Get it if you want. I'll toss it if it's not gone by tomorrow."
That's it. No inviting him in, no other messages to him. Don't give a shit if he replies or not. If he does reply, don't say anything back. You said what you need to. Continue to never speak to him again or see him again. If he never gets his stuff, throw it away.
Don't wait, just do it. You're a good anon for wanting to give him back his stuff. I wish my ex had been like that, he refused to give me back the stuff I lend to him, fucking asshole.
>>17196169
Throw it away. It's not your problem he doesn't come to grab whatever shit he left at your place after dumping your ass
Is it really that hard to meet an upper-class girl?
what kind do you mean? spoiled? pretentious? one that lives in a little bubble?
>>17196163
Good question. I guess that a highly educated and cultured one. Also, more money means less physical flaws and better dressed.
>>17196160
Not really. It involves going to college. Private colleges are even better. Higher chance of finding a wealthy, intelligent girl there.
I'm poor as shit and my family sucks ass, but I managed to wrangle down an upper class girl at school. Met her my senior year in an accounting class.
how do I improve my status to be good enough for a virgin
You don't, women are different. Some may like some traits, others may not. Virgins are virgins for a myriad of reasons.
First questions: are you a virgin yourself, and how old are you?
>>17196191
Yes
24
6' tall white
Skinnyfat, working on getting fit, lost 70 pounds over the past year
Factory job 30k/year, saving to go to a 2 year trade school to avoid debt
How far does good sex go?
I fear my bf might have broken up already if it wasn't for the sex.
Would you stay with a girl just for convenient and frequent sex?
>>17196106
yes
I have a friend who has a fat gf, he says he is bored of having sex with her.
lol op's reading this and crying
men are terrible at giving reassurance
I'm feeling more and more depressed with the idea of going to university and getting a job as the sole plan of my life. It seems like there's no alternatives.
What could possibly be done instead? Not going to school just results in a shitty job, and no job results in homelessness.
All I really want is to grab a backpack and hit the roads. Wander the world until I find a place where I can be at peace.
>>17196102
u sound miserable. it's because you're low on serotonin and that happens when you have a leaky gut. fix your leaky gut so you can absorb all the nutrients you need and produce the serotonin. that will make you feel normie enough to wanna go to school and get a shitty job just like all the other normies out there.
>>17196102
if you simplify it to such extremes then yes those are the only things in your plan. However, if you look at it this way: University will let you meet like-minded friends and discover hobbies/interests that you might not have done otherwise
Getting a job provides you with a steady income that allows you to fund those hobbies (such as road trips), not every job has you working from 9 AM to 9 PM 7 days a week with no downtime. There are plenty out there with very reasonable hours that give you a lot of time...
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>>17196102
Create an alternative path. Yes, you need a job to make money, but that doesn't have to be your sole plan. During my time in uni, I have found a very like-minded person who plans to enter the same career field as me. We plan to work for roughly 10 years to compile enough money for a startup plan for a business.
Want to know where this begins? It starts by majoring in a certain field and choosing a career to get experience.
A year ago I had the same attitude that you did. I didn't know what...
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How do I know when a friendship is over?
>my friend's buddies are back in town for summer
>spends all his time with them and doesn't even talk to me
>posts on snapchat all about the fun he's having with them
>doesn't invite me to hang out even though I know them too
>this happens whenever they come to town
>even when they're away he just texts them while we're...
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>>17196098
if you know them too ask them to join in. Seriously , odds are they dont want to exclude you they just have no reason to text you and include you when they are busy having fun
>>17196530
This is false and clearly comes from someone who knows nothing about friendship
>>17196098
A friendship is over when you give up on it!
How should I kill myself? I'm a 21 year old manchild NEET who has ruined every opportunity that life's dealt me. I'm already so far behind me peers in every aspect that it's impossible for me to catch up. I may as well end it soon so that I can save myself from having to experience what it's like to become an even bigger trainwreck.
>>17196080
Life is not a 100m sprint, but a marathon against yourself. Do not give a shit about what other people do. Everyone has their own cross to carry.
>>17196080
>How should I kill myself?
You shouldn't.
>I'm a 21 year old
>I'm already so far behind me peers in every aspect that it's impossible for me to catch up.
Not true. People have caught up starting at twice your age or even later. It takes a little more hustle, but you've only lost about three years, not the whole 21.
21? You're no man-child, you're a boy who can drink. You've got 9 years of your 20s left, and about 10 more years of good times before anything starts to roll downhill. And even then. Get back into school, get your degrees, and forget about "catching up", pave your own path.
Does putting in just the tip (like one inch in) count as losing your virginity?
>>17196065
there's 327 peer-reviewed scientific papers on this issue in the harvard journal of sexual science
they all agree that a depth of 1 centimeter (0.393700787 inches) must be achieved for the act of virginity loss to occur
no you fucking dip, who the fuck quantifies losing your virginity?
>>17196065
I'd say so. But please, for the love of God, don't tell me you actually did this.
>>17196131
there's actual people with genuine concerns out there just like this one, anon
had a friend with phimosis (that's where you can't peel back the foreskin) and he didn't wanna have the surgery so he just said "fuck it i'll just insert the tip and be done with it"
First of all let me say at the very least I am bi sexual. I love girls. But at the same time for almost my whole life as a 20 year old I have had gay urges. I stick things in my butt. I masturbate to gay shit. I hate it though. I hate being gay and I think it is a greasy and indecent thing. I hate myself for the things I think and do. I hate the urges that I act on. How do I stop having gay urges? It is hard to accept myself as gay and just live with it because I don't like being gay.
>>17196041
>it is a greasy and indecent thing
It's not. Try having MFM threesomes if you're lusting for it. The great thing about those is anyone's down usually.
take a chance and act on them one day. but be smart about it. don't want to go get beaten up when you ask the wrong guy out. if it's not for you, then maybe you were never gay and just curious. maybe you'll like it, though
>>17196047
If it isn't greasy then how come I can find a MFM threesome in a second an not a WFM threesome?
>>17196048
I don't want to act on it. I feel like I will regret it the rest of my life.
