>>17198720

Perhaps you're just not photogenic, OP. Sorry.

>>17198720
You absolutely have the right to be angry. If she's embarrassed of being seen with you, she's not serious about you. Confront her, but DON'T say it's on purpose, and don't try to make her "recognize what she did wrong", but emphasize how it's making you feel that she's fine with people seeing her as long as you're not in the picture.

>>17198726

Lol that made my night anon. I don't think it's that.

>>17198704
been there lol

Don't let yourself get fooled. She'll break your heart if you have serious feelings for her. Move on. If you can keep it casual, stay friends and hookup when u guys are drunk. Hope that helps

>>17198738
Yeah that's what I'm kinda trying to do but she's always like half asleep and wasted while I'm pretty sober because I'm a big drinker, so it always feels kinda rapey even though she's doing half the stuff herself

>>17198704
Stay away from the slutty drunk type. Those people should seriously learn either to NEVER drink, or only drink in private with their SO.

t. years of cheating phonesex that was promptly forgotten, least i never fucked her but the guilt destroyed me. positive she did it on purpose to get off guilt-free.

>>17198674
who told you that nonsense?

you get a shitty mcjob so you have some money in your pocket while you look for something better

>>17198674
I applied while entering. Mc.Donalds is the most suicide inducing job I've ever worked. Between the pay, the stigma, and the actual WORK itself combined with the fact that at mines you either ate their shit for lunch or dinner or you didn't eat during your 8 hour shift, it's a purgatory, unless you lack ambition or are a high school kid.

>>17198674
approx 2 months is enough to put on a resume

although >>17198683
is right of course

>>17198673
>Can someone falsely accuse you of rape after a year since you last had sex with them?
yes

>>17198673
look up what the statute of limitations is, I think it's more than a year but she'll have a hell of a time proving you did it after this long, even if you did do it.

basically she's feeling shitty about her decision to have casual sex and wants to put the blame on you now. do not say anything at all to her.

sure, you can accuse anyone of anything

kinda hard to prove though

>>17198654
Just rape her,

Most women like to be raped, its a fact.

>>17198662
dont tempt me

>>17198654
By not being a child. Lean in and allow her to close the gap. Social cues are not complicated.

>>17198646
Ask her why she lied.

It's fine she doesn't have feelings for you, but if she was a real friend she would have been honest.

>>17198646

Take the red pill and go down the rabbithole of depression and social anxiety like the rest of us.

>>17198712


this. don't overcomplicate things and drop the histrionics.

and if she's a flake, better to find out now.

>>17198638
Rape and kill her,

Its the only way, you know this to be true.

>>17198638
Fucking hilarious..sorry um tell her it iis normal..? Everyone masturbates to weird things or people

>>17198643
No, it normal, at least what I was masturbating to.

Buy some booze you fucking idiot.

>>17198612
And Google exit bag. Are you too stupid to live and too stupid kill yourself? Do you just want attention? The fuck is wrong with you. Please actually kill yourself.

>>17198605
1. don't kill yourself
2. pills can certainly kill you, you just need to take a massive dose of some pretty fucked shit. drink a lot of alcohol too when you're taking the pills
3. helium tank+gas mask, but they have started to put oxygen in the mix so you can't do it a lot anymore
4. don't kill yourself

BTW 22, lost touch with highschool friends after highschool

>>17198593
Become a hooker,

Start sucking dick and before you know it everyone will want to be your bf. Bitches that don't put out become old maids.

>>17198593
>>17198598
job? school? hobbies? there are infinite ways of doing this you just actually have to look and try.

also from what I have learned, highschool is highschool. don't expect to stay friends with those people; many will move on and find their own paths. look for new people girl, and maybe stop worrying about a relationship so much?

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Yesterday however, in our friend group chat I had joked that a certain game was shit,and whoever liked it had shit taste, which he replied by saying that dating my girlfriend proves that I have shit taste. and he later kicked me out of the group chat (we usually kick each other out for fun).
I didn't like his comment so I PMed him telling him that I do not appreciate him saying those disrespectful comments about my girlfriend and I would appreciate it that he stops saying those things because I find them in poor taste and I also said that I did not call him out before...
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I tried to refresh their memory about it, and they said that they remembered and that I should've handled the situation better and I should have never had called him out and they also said that getting mad over this and PMing him over something so minor is stupid. It seemed to me like my friends were siding more with him.
Regardless, sorry for the long post, I just wanted to know, if I should talk to all of them in person, specially with that guy to clarify things, right now I believe that they have a separate...
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Jesus man, there's more? You consider maybe typing all this out ahead of time and posting it in chunks when you're done?

Dude is a douchebag, plain and simple and if he respected you as a friend, he wouldn't have kept talking shit after the first time.

Don't hang with him anymore 1w1 and only speak to him in a group as necessary (yes and no answers). If he talks shit on your girl again, bust his fucking nose in.

... or knowing them from somewhere else) but I'm not originally from around here so I only know work people.
Is this atmosphere difference something I can get over, or is it just too far a mental bridge to cross at this point? I'm by no means a random hookup sort of person and I can't usually strike up conversations with strangers, so it seems a different world to walk into. I just want to be able to enjoy the time I'm out with friends, most of whom are the going-out type rather than come-over-and-play-vidya or film night friends (at least, not with me).

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>>17198491
Do you drink enough to feel drunk OP? I find I'm not particularly social when I'm sober, but after a few beers it all gets pissed away. But I will agree I don't like late nights or at least not 5am late but if you get drunk you could care less about the time

OP, sounds like you're trying to socialize in the wrong place.

John Rockefeller said "A friendship founded on business is better than a business founded on friendship."

It sounds like you want a relationship that's quite personal. Start socializing at work, I think, so that there's an organic reason for people to talk to you. Once they're comfortable with you, then they'll welcome you to their bigger circles.

therapy is alright but it depends on the therapist a lot of the times. When I go I am very blunt on how I feel and think, and my therapist helps me understand why I think the way I do and do the things I do. It is very cathartic and helpful in stopping the habits that hold me back from being a person.

I don't understand what you mean by, "I'm worried that getting help for my faults will somehow get rid of the things I like about myself". If you don't like your faults, especially ones that can be changed, why would you not get help? I go to therapy...
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I guess I'm just reluctant to part with any part of myself, even if it's bad. Like a game of Jenga or something, I can't help but think if one part of me is pulled out, the rest of me will have to find a new way to sort itself out. And that new self won't be me. Not to mention I'm so used to things working themselves out, or finding ways to be happy, that I'm not entirely convinced I need therapy. Or at least, convinced enough to actually look for a therapist. I don't know, I'm...
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Change the word lazy to "Being afraid of running out of time" and it applies to your circumstances.

It's not too late, but you gotta focus on getting out and off this site, it's a poor substitute for what you really want and need.

>>17198474
How old are you? What do you do when you are not working? You say you feel alienated, but how are your interactions with people?

More importantly, how do you want to change?

>>17198503
I'm 25.

When I'm not working, I generally ride my motorcycle. I'm very proud of it, even though it's not an especially nice one. That's the only thing I have that could really be called a hobby. I do it a lot.

My interactions with other people always feel forced. Like I'm somehow intervening something by diverting their attention. It never seems like anyone just wants to talk to me. This has gone on long enough to where my default rhetoric is somewhat cold, almost short and to some, seemingly snippy.

I think I have a pretty balanced and stable personality. I don't think I lack that. Tiny, tiny things used to completely set me off, but I don't really do that anymore. I've learned to let a lot of things go, which was hard for me and took a significant period of time.

What I lack is someone. Someone who sees and relates to my eccentricities without the need to view them from afar, only ever really tolerating them. Someone with whom I can sit and talk about nothing, doing nothing, for an undefined period of time without a mutual fear of judgement or offense. Someone to lean on when I need it, and someone who trusts me enough to lean on me when they need it.

And it's easy for me to say that; that I'm just fine and that the solutions to whatever sorrow I have lie in another person. And it's just as easy to say that happiness is to be found within oneself and not within another, and that's probably true. But if that's true, I have no idea why any of us ever feel lonely at all. What's the point? Why is that even a thing?

this isn't r9k 2.0, far from it really. there are some dicks but generally people on here give advice or are at least people that will give a new perspective.

sorry to hear about your gf, but what is it you want to do about it? being there for here is one thing, and being a person she can talk to about it is a good thing too. how bad is she because of this trauma?

ur gf is a roastie gtfo my board normie reeeeeeeeeee

>>17198476
>but what is it you want to do about it?
Not sure exactly
I would at the very least like to see the fucker leave her world one way or the other.
My gf is 17, I'm 22, I have been barely 2 months with her.
I just don't think it's... wise to meddle with her family, but I still want to help her.
I guess simply beating that fucker or getting someone to do it for me won't help her. Would it?

She has a sister, she believes her sister is aware of what happened.
But they never talked about it, and she doesn't want to talk about it.
She lives with her mother and her sister, her father cheated on her mom and her sister will be moving to Germany this year

Firstly she can be feel a bit uncomfortable having sex sometimes and I can't really tell when or when not... But that's kind of normal for grills I guess.
She appears fine normally, but I'm certain she's wounded. I have told her before I had this impression she was left wounded.


Im not even sure what the fuck am I supposed to do now. I feel useless.

Maybe try slicked back.

Go to a stylist and ask. Not a barber.

It's my last option :'v