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I had a bad breakup with my first gf, and I said some really mean shit.
A month later, I decide to apologize, and then a few weeks later she responds
I checked her blog once and on my birthday she posted 'happy birthday'
She checks my blog sometimes, and I made a silly post saying that I'd do anything for her (not her specifically, I just said 'her')
She texted me saying 'that post was definitely not about me was it?'
I said no, and I asked why she cared about what I post and she said she doesn't know...
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>a month later apologize
>Posted about her
It sounds like you like her still and probably vice versa, but neither of you are mature enough to communicate properly.
>>17201948
Exes are exes for a reason. She might miss you but that doesn't mean things will ever be the way they were.
>>17201960
She was never good at communication, but I suppose I'm not very good either. I don't know what telling her would accomplish though, because >>17201962 is right.
>Has younger brother
>I have been using 4chan for a couple of years
>He was a minor back then
>We were traveling to Norwy and I mentioned using this site with full of Norwegiand and I knoe that they are from Norwat as all users have a falg next to their names
>Also mentioned how I came across some wacky people giving terriblr advicr on an advice forum
>Recently saw him using 4chan on his phone(not...
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>>17201947
>how would we know if your brother knows you use this website?
>>17202301
Like will he suspect that I use this site?
Yes.
>live on my own, alone
>don't actively try to get a gf or anything
>like being on my own, living my own life
suddenly:
>qt 3.14 from my childhood contacts me
>apparently she still likes me, even more now than ever
>she's basically obsessed with me, thinks I'm the shit
>has high expectations from me
>lives in...
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>>17201937
Performance anxiety. Relax.
>>17201971
got any advice or something? how do I relax? I have zero experience with these things
>>17202012
My only advice is, what would you rather have at this point in your life? Obligations, potential fun, potential connection with a live human, sex or your safe, comfortable, predictable life?
Do girls exist who don't care about penis size? I'm 18 and worry I'll never get a girlfriend all because of my penis it's 4 inches in length and I have shit girth as well. Why is life so cruel I mean I'm thankful for a lot of things I've been blessed to be born in the country I was and to have the family I have etc but this still sucks. I obviously inherited this from my dad (I asked him) but with the internet etc I feel it will be a lot harder to ever get a girlfriend or potentially a wife because why would she settle for a guy with a small penis.
Keep this low-effort shitposting on /int/, Bruce
>>17201943
It's not shit posting I am seriously concerned about this.
If you don't go after whores it won't matter as long as you aren't a pussy.
Is it wrong for a 16 yr old to feel or look at his 5 yr old sister's vagina cause he's curious ? What if he does it in a way to distract her, so she'd think it's a game or whatever ?
>>17201929
Shes gonna remember. Then when she is old enough to understand what you did is wrong you are going to be fucked beyond your dreams. Your family is basically going to disown you.
>>17201929
idk what your intentions are like why would you want to look at your 5 year old sisters vagina?
Swapsies is a pretty common thing as kids, but when it comes to family i'd definitely say no.
If your 16 you will be at party's in a few years anyway, so just be patient and before you know it you will be seeing more than you would realize.
If a same-sexed friend is jealous of the relationship you have with your SO, are they truly a friend?
>>17201915
>jealous that your friend isnt spending time with you
Hmmm I wonder why they are bothered by this.
>>17201921
I'm not saying we're not spending time together. This is an online friend. We talk almost every day. And she mainly gets upset when I mention things about us getting serious. She asks first though and I just try to answer neutrally but truthfully.
>>17201915
If they get over it in the end, then yes. But it is understandable to feel neglected after you become the second fiddle to someone you barely even know.
A friend of mine actually fell deeper into depression after I moved to be with my girlfriend, and while I feel shit about it, his happiness shouldn't ride on the availability of a single person. I even told him as much, encouraged him to get treatment, and he is now recovering, even damn near thriving.
He always was a bit odd though, so I would...
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So /fit/ was having this thread of mires you didn't realize until it was too late. I know some girls mired me and I had chances but blew them off because I had other things in my plate
Anyway, I have had an issue (or blessing) and don't know what to do about it. I give off the bad boy vibe with my looks; the kind of well groomed but will fuck your pussy raw and make you scream in pleasure vibe. The thing is I'm a total exhibit a inexperienced dude in every aspect of women, even hugs. I either drop my spaghetti or act cold and unemotional
I'm passed the university stage of my life; so there isn't a chance for me to open up to a girl. Back then girls actually tried to talk to me and get in my pants. Now I'm a working dude in a professional field that's mostly male dominated full of other stereotypical betas. Here's my big 3 questions
1) I know I have to talk more to women to get comfortable with myself. But how do I get in tune with the inner man in myself I know I'm capable of being? You know, the kind of guy they see me as but I don't have the balls of being because anxiety
2) How do you stop regretting what's passed? I hate the fact that I missed so much during college but it really was out of my hands. I can't even reconnect with these girls because I forgot their names and my university has removed all the info that used to be provided on my student account with my classes, because I graduated
>>17201906
Turned out to be 2 questions
Anyway, here's hoping you all reply
>>17201914
Last bump
>>17201955
Bump for good luck
>Shopping for condoms for the first time
I have no idea what to get. Please help me, /adv/.
I'm going to get them on Amazon.com and I have an average-sized penis.
I think I need 24 of them altogether and my girlfriend is a virgin if that makes a difference.
I have so many questions.
>why are you buying condoms online
>why is buying them such an ordeal for you
>how do you know you need 24
>why would your girlfriend being a virgin make a difference
>>17201909
1. I am going on vacation soon and ordering everything on Amazon helps me get free shipping.
2. I have never done this before and I need advice.
3. It's an estimate based on the length of my trip.
4. I don't know.
>>17201905
Don't get 24, because what if you do not like the ones you bought, and now you're stuck with them?
I'm a girl, I prefer it when my bf uses trojan enz. They fit him perfectly, they don't feel as rubbery and they don't smell as bad as others. I also don't feel them as much, they don't slip.
Also, lifestyles suck.
I'm about to give my kid his first Ritalin pill tomorrow.
He's diagnosed with ADHD.
I'm 50/50 on this.
I want him to perform better in school. On the other hand I think in an ideal world he'd be just a normal extremely imaginative and active kid.
But academia wants its fodder. The pharmaceutical companies need to sell. The whole shrink industry wants money. And basically the system needs it's robots to keep the wheels turning.
But I digresss...
tl;dr Ritalin: yes or no ?
>>17201880
Dont do it. Its literally sedating your child. You are going to have to put in extra hours at home teaching him but it can be done.
Can you imagine what its like going life sedated?
>>17201880
Just do it OP. Its not like he's going to grow out of it. Its ADHD. It will handicap his potential for the rest of his life.
>>17201889
He would be much more worse off without it. ADHD is a mental illness and it can't be treated with talking about your feelings and hippie bs.
>>17201903
I have 4 friends with adhd.
This is my experience with it. Only 1 of them actually takes the stuff, 1 never did, and the other two both quick it.
They all say its shit and literally makes things worse. There are many many things you can do about adhd that dont require medicine. Just time and patience.
This is a very common thing I see in families on whether or not to put their child on meds in my job and 9/10 times they feel like they basically killed the child because his joy is stripped from him when they do.
So this girl and I hit if off towards the end of spring semester, and after finals she was texting and chatting with me non stop. However, I'll text her now and she'll give a funny reply, but after my reply it goes radio silent. What should I do?
All good things come in time. There could be 1000 reasons for her lack of texts. Don't let it bug you. If she cares about she'll get in touch, if she doesn't then there is no reason to care about her then is there?
soooo, did you guys meet up and fuck or what? The primary purpose of texts is logistics in order to meet up in person.
Text, no response, move on.
Pushing more (sending more texts) only makes it worse. If she wants to talk to you, she will. Never stop everything for a girl, keep moving on.
Anyone know if Chuck E Cheese drug tests?
>>17201798
You need to be on drugs to work there I believe.
Why would you want to work at Chuck E Cheese?
>>17202537
Because I'm 19 and need some quick cash to pay for next semesters books
I'm at college, I hate all these stuck up stereotypical millennial cunts who spam pound symbols and make duck faces and listen to ghetto inner city black music.
I know there are cool girls somewhere on campus, there has just gotta be there are like 20k total people.
Any ideas about the best places to look for them?
What do you have to offer these girls?
