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>tfw found out earlier today that gf slept with 8 guys
Idk how to cope with this feel, brehs. If I knew about this from the beginning, I wouldve never got with her
I've been in the gym for two hours now avoiding her. Idk what to do.
>>17202306
stop being an insecure faggot
>>17202306
Break up with her if it bothers you that much. Nothing you can do to make her un-fuck those guys.
>>17202306
STALE PASTA, WITNESSED
I need help identifying the feeling known as love.
I am one of the unfortunate millenials fucked in the head by watching too much porn.
I have never had a legitimate girlfriend that I have had feelings for and loved. My only dates have been with girls I've known just as acquaintances before. I've known them both for a year at least btw.
I'm not sure what the problem was, but I felt nothing during the dates. I just felt as though they were friendly outings. The girls liked me, but I didn't like them, and I feel bad for messing with their...
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You think too much/over analyze too much. Your brain is just immature it will get better as you get older usually
>>17202270
Came here to post this.
>>17202259
im older than you so i know stuff. you havent found the one for you yet. she will make you feel like you have never felt before about anyone....
>use condom AND VCF spermicide together every time
>the one time where for some reason there wasn't any payload in the condom (was on, fitting, no holes) we took plan B
>2 days late for her period, she's taking a home test tomorrow
Did everything right but I'm still frightened. Now I got to go to sleep and wait to see how it turns out. What do you think?
>>17202236
Let it play out, deal with things as they happen. Make sure you think things over and make the decision you both want.
Above all, chill, deal with things with a fresh mind.
>>17202236
1: You guys are doing everything in your power to make sure she doesn't get pregnant, even though you really only need one of the three things you used.
2. She's only fertile for a short period of time, so if she knows her own cycle you guys could use the rhythm method with less protection.
3. Girls who get fucked regularly sometimes have their periods change to adjust - my ex girlfriend's period was like clockwork, but sometimes a good dicking would start her period early, which...
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>>17202236
Assess your options.
Can you realistically support a child?
If not unfortunately your best option is to abort or give it up for adoption.
This is assuming she's actually pregnant and you're not being paranoid...
Get some tests- get her in to see a doctor and take things day by day.
For those of you still reading after the next sentence clause, I haven't spoken with my ex in 6 months (CUE THE SOUND of 100s of "thread hidden" buttons being clicked), but she just emailed me a simple:
>"Friends?
>
>Best Regards,
>Her full name
>Candidate for X degree at Y college"
Semesters before I graduated, I lost my virginity to this girl, and before that we had gone on a...
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>>17202191
Not sure about the fine details in your past relationship but it sounds like she tooks advantage of you and will in the future if you let her.
Ultimately it's up to you to decide who you want in your life. If you can't handle being just friends- go on without her.
>>17202191
Sounds like she's just trying to show off and that she improved her life. She will always be a whore no matter what fancy education she has.
>>17202191
You are a provider, atleast that is how she probably sees you. I feel that she is trying to be your friend again in order for you to keep providing her with things, trying to draw you back in, a feeling of rekindling of sorts or a "change" in behaviour. From your perspective, you cut out somebody who has poor values and provides little value to you. I do not see how reconnecting with this person could possibly be beneficial to you. But you would know that better than I would.
How do I tell my girlfriend she should start looking for another boyfriend?
...In addition to me, I mean.
>>17202161
You uhh. . . wanna get cucked? Like, really?
Just here that, that's what i did.
>>17202170
"Get cucked"? What are you, 12?
And yeah, I'd love my girl to have a second guy. I've never really placed much value in monogamy, but while I obviously wouldn't cheat on her (unless she wants me to branch out too), I think that knowing she had another guy in her life would make me feel a lot better. I'm busy and I have a lot of hobbies, and she complains a lot that I'm not there for her when she needs me. She's a bit... clingy. It makes me feel secure, but it also...
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Months ago my friend messaged my gf and jokingly invited her to an orgy, ironically suggesting various ways for her to pleasure me in bed. He had never met her, so obviously he didn't know/care how she would react. I told him it was way over the line and he said he understood.
They then chatted on facebook every night.
A week later he messaged her again and said "I'm starting to sober up so this is the perfect time to finally tell you you're really fucking hottt"
I blocked him on all social media with no explanation.
Some...
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>>17202132
You was going to cuck you if your gf allowed it. You can't trust him so he was never a friend to begin with.
>>17202143
I came to the definite conclusion that I can't trust him with any future gf, so I HAD to cut him out of my life.
But it's the fact that I didn't even send him so much as a 'fuck you' note or anything. Just realized I was done with him, and so I left his life.
That's the part I'm struggling with. At the time I felt that I had already communicated where my limits were, so it should come as no surprise to him, and I didn't feel like getting involved in some kind...
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>>17202154
You don't owe him anything. I am sure he knows he crossed a line. Now if you want to give him an explanation go for it, otherwise he made his bed.
I am a 19 soon to be 20 year old girl and I have never had a relationship in my life. I don't know if I am unattractive or boring or if it is a combination of both but I don't seem to attract guys. I don't know what to do. I can't be around my best friend and her boyfriend anymore because it reminds me of my own loneliness and they are together all the time. I'm sick of people taking pity on me and saying "there is time". Time feels like nails against a chalkboard. Newsflash, no guy wants a 20 something year old virgin girlfriend with no experience...
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What's your #?
>>17202115
she's not looking for ANY kind of boyfriend obviously, you some kind of freak?
all the good boys are taken OP, you should kill yourself
>>17202115
There is zero chance that you live in my country.
Hello /adv/! To be frank this is my first time posting here so I don't know what to except but here it goes.
I have been thinking for a long time to start practicing Buddhism since as I figured a lot of people who are satisfied with themselves have some sort of religion in thier life. What sort of steps do I need to take to, for the lack of better terms, understand it better?
>>17202089
First step is not to be frank, be yourself.
>>17202089
Just google shit. Mindfulness in Plain English is a good starting marterial, even for people who aren't into Buddhism but want to get into meditation.
Thich Nhat Hanh's books are great and are easy to read. They are short too. They are all pretty similar.
Other than that, read any books on meditation and mindfulness that grab you
How do I make them stop.
>>17202040
Walk away from the screen
Just close your eyes
>>17202040
Is this faerie lol
kys
How do I stop being jealous of other women's appearence?
Be more attractive than them
>>17202022
And how do I do that
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nBSPHe1RCc
>start dating new girl
>qt
>great taste in vidya
>really smart and funny
>into bondage and sub
>mfw she tells me she's interested in the idea of an open relationship
What do I do /adv/ I have literally no interest in being a cuck but I really like this girl
Be honest. If she likes you back enough, she will decide monogomy beats a breakup. If not, she wasn't right for you.
If you're not open to the idea of an open relationship, don't do it. Or do, just don't say you weren't warned.
>>17201997
>into vidya
>into bondage and sub
>dating fat chicks
>kek
I have lost all motivation for studies for 3 years, any advice to fix it?
>>17201988
It's really up to you to motivate yourself.
Keep going.
Somethin new will pop up
REMEMBER THE TEXT BOOKS YOU BUY MUST BE UP TO DATE OR LESS THAN A EDITION
>>17201988
take a break from school
go find a job, see how little you make
go back to school, make friends/support group
just get by, you don't need great grades
graduate, hopefully you'll be doing something requiring your degree, otherwise you just wasted years of your life and money
where am i supposed to meet women other than tinder?
ever since i started using it it's all ive used. i've met up with multiple women on there and kissed most of them, but i'm tired of it. i want something real but you can't really find anything like that on tinder from my experiences. Where am I supposed to meet women? i am too young for bars and im not much of a club person.
Well, what are your interests? Girls are interested in people who are interesting. And where you go, you'll meet different types of chicks. For a wide variety, I'd say college. Bookish girls, bookstores (duh). Tomboys? Fairs, 4H, Rodeos etc. The best way to meet chicks is to make friends and meet more people that way. Start with people platonically and meet more people through them, and see who you romantically click with. Or maybe like an actual 'dating' site like Okcupid or POF. Instead of 'meet and fuck: tinder"
>i am too young for bars and im not much of a club person.
Plenty of time on your side, this is a good thing.
Do you go to school? They have shitload of clubs.
Otherwise, hit the gym/pick up some active-social hobby. You can start building up your social circle and you'll just be constantly meeting women ,it will be no effort involved outside of maintaining the circle.
>>17201991
>>17201992
so youre telling me i pick up any hobby and begin automatically meeting women who also take part in said hobby
A girl I know is in a psychiatric hospital after a failed suicide attempt.
She really really wants to die. She told me she has a plan to escape and it's very plausible. Should I call the hospital and tell them she wants to escape or respect her wish to die. Her life is really shit and has been absolutely terrible for at least 15 years.
I'm in a fucked up position. Please give some advice.
Let her do what she wants. Who are you to tell her what she should do with her life?
To be honest, it's very unlikely that she will escape anyway
>>17201975
Tell someone important about her escape attempt. If she ends it now there is no chance of recovery - if she tries recovery and still wants to die, she has all the time in the world.
Do what it takes to give her a second chance. She doesn't have to take it, but she deserves the option.
Trust me, I went through some fucking rough times, but I got my second chance and here I am.
>>17201995
>To be honest, it's very unlikely that she will escape anyway
This. If you've ever been to one of these places you would know security is pretty tight to prevent lawsuits.
thinking of killing myself because my future is hopeless as i am failing my useless degree that im 3 years into and 2 years behind in and am generally a fucking loser
i cant find enjoyment in anything and cigarettes are not killing me fast enough
is there anything worth living for desu
>buy gun
>go to ghetto
>park your car in the street with your windows down
>have your gun ready
>wait for thug to come up and try to rob you
>blow his brains all over the pavement
>repeat a few more times until the cops catch you
>put the gun to your temple and end it when they catch you
>die...
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>>17201966
just found out even if i kill myself my family will get sued by my school if no one pays the debt
sick bros
>>17201981
What's the fucking point? I get this whole idea of the romanticized vigilante suicide, but the example you gave is absolute shit. Why kill somebody you know nothing about, who may be in just as much as a shitty and desperate situation as you are. That isn't fucking heroic.
Better example: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thích_Quảng_Đức
Anyways, OP, I strongly urge you not to fucking kill yourself in the first place. Right now, you're looking at everything in a temporary perspective....
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