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Hey guys am a atheist in Iraq .
I used to be a Muslim a regular one
Now I realize that there's no God what so ever!
So if you could help me to know how I could live my life without any stupid Muslim telling me how great it is that he had a threesome with Allah and Mohammed I'll be grateful!
>>17205093
Fap to this atheist Iraqi
>>17205093
How hard is to pretend to be one?
Yes, it is THAT easy.
Also this is bait :-D
>>17205185
>Fap to this atheist Iraqi
Epic we'll do
>In an ldr
>sends me sexy pic
>file directory says its from Snapchat
>I don't use Snapchat
>no pic she's ever sent was from snap chat besides the sexy one I just got
> she says she didn't like the way her camera look so she used Snapchat
>I think it's a lie
>what do?
Don't get into a ldr
Maybe she put a filter on it
Maybe she has snapchat for friends.
Maybe she's cheating on you
>>17205076
Yup it's over. Might as well kill yourself.
Ye, so I used to actively identify as a feminist, and now deal with 4k cringe on a daily basis.
This phase of Hitler was mainly throughout my junior year of HS (now a freshman in college, see: actual life experience). I was depressed, suicidal and lonely as shit (inb4 "women don't feel loneliness"), and for some weird reason, I got sucked into really hardcore liberal tumblr-esque politics. I was never a downright shit person, I tried my best to be compassionate/reconcile being a feminist with somehow giving a shit about men's issues, but I just couldn't find a mediating ground. So I gave the shit up.
I'm just internally crying over all the people from my HS who to this day, are still probably lulzing at my stupid self. This issue can apply to general practise unrelated to feminism: how can you reconcile who you are today, with the person you used to be? Especially when the latter person was a shitlord deserving of death in a chemical fire?
PIC RELATED: It's Titian judging my dumb ass
>>17205014
Nigga what do you need help with? Also tits or gtfo
Are you a fucking idiot? We're all dickheads in school, you're not the centre of everyone's universe and you're fully entitled to change your mind whenever you want.
I MADE A SPELLING MISTAKE WHEN I WAS FOUR, HOW DO I GET OVER THE NEVER ENDING GUILT THAT HAUNTS ME- I BET EVERYONE ISN'T OUT THERE HAVING SEX BUT AT A MASSIVE MEETING ALL LAUGHING ABOUT HOW STUPID MY MISTAKE WAS!
>>17205191
literally reconciling past cringey memories with who you are today, p much spelled it out in my original post you aspie
I'm a >300 lbs man trying to lose weight, I've been walking/jogging 10 miles a day and I'm having a horrible thigh chaffing problem. It has got to the point where rubbing cream and powder on it isnt helping, it's starting to bleed when I walk and I'm having trouble even walking a mile now.
Are there any kind of underwear I can buy to prevent this? I was looking at the Under Armor Heatgear compression shorts but I'm not sure if that will help my issue I'm having. If it helps it is the area right below my crotch, my tighs are rubbing together there from being so fat. Thanks for any help guys...
Lol get out you dumb fatty. No one here cares about anything but sex/gf advice you fucking fat ass.
>>17204986
Seems like you should mostly focus on diet for now bro. I have lost 40 pounds just from diet alone and started at 250. Once you lose some weight you can throw exercise in. Then you won't have to worry about such terrible chaffing.
>>17204986
no idea how to fix your problem but
GG senpai you're taking the right steps, we're all proud of you. /fit/ might well have more constructive advice (and they're sure to be a lot more supportive than bitter adv neets)
Hey I need advice
should sent my dog to the hospital he got bitten a fucking pitbull
>this happen yesterday and here's his wound
>>17204895
Take him to a vet.
>>17204895
if that wound looks like you could fit your finger in it, then that is a good sign to take your dog to the vet. pour some hydrogen peroxide carefully around, but not in, the wound to prevent infection.
>>17204901
>>17204913
He's also got another wound
What worry me is that he mostly an outside dog so he on dirty cement and I think he needs stitches so that any infections can't occur
Is this normal?
>be 19
>living with my parents, working a wage cut job
>pay my own bills and 250 in rent to them
>constantly fighting with my parents, get told nearly everyday how much of a piece of shit I am, how I fuck up everything, etc
>one day my parents told me I'm not a good role model and should stay away from my little brothers
>and how my parents always fight because of me (this one hit me hard)
I don't have the money to move out right now, and I can't deal with this shit. I constantly feel worthless and have no motivation to do things I enjoy like go to the gym and play video games. I figure I'm a man I should be able to handle myself but I've del like this for so fucking long.
>>17204890
the only thing that is not normal is how the parents are insisting that you stay away from your brother, you would have to have done some bad things to have that happen, trust me, I'm 19 too, and in similar position.
but have patience, think of it in a way that your parents are trying to care and look out for you, but they just don't know how to express it right, trying to care for a 19 y/o is frustrating for a parent, no matter what, and they always say things they shouldn't say.
while your dealing with it that, save up your money, find and/or move into better job opportunities, so that when you feel you have to, you can find a place you can move into.
if you are thinking about it, be careful with mortgages and loans, the interest comes from a percent of what you owe for that month, and added onto that month, but as you pay it, the interest will get lower gradually.
hope this helps
Blackraptor out!
>>17204890
Sounds like your dad isn't your true dad and this makes him aggressive towards you.
Have you tried to ask them:
>How would they like you to improve?
>What can you do to make them happier?
Until they give you clear instruction what to do or why are they mad, they shouldn't behave like that. Maybe they see you are starting living their shit lives all over again.
>>17204890
>living with my parents
>pay my own bills and 250 in rent to them
Are you mentally challenged or what?
I can;t comprehend this. If you are going to pay rent!?!? get your ownfucking place. What kind of terrible people will take money from their child to live in their fucking house!?!?!?
Low All-Stars or Toms for gift to a 39yo man"?
All stars
>>17204881
Those look like grandpa's slippers.
>>17204881
Older men tend to like this design.
/adv/, how do you get a girl to like you if she doesn't already?
>2007, junior year of high school
>girl sits down with me at lunch because I always eat alone
>we become best friends
>she calls me her platonic soulmate at times, and I fall deeply in love with her
>I confess my feelings for her in 2008, 2009, 2011, and 2014
>rejected every time because she has no romantic feelings
>January 2015
>complaining about how I feel like a loser living with my parents at almost 26
>she offers to let me live with her at her apartment
I've been her roommate ever since. I plan to ask her out again soon.
>>17204880
>I've been her roommate ever since. I plan to ask her out again soon.
DON'T. DO. THAT. YOU. FUCKING. IDIOT.
Get over her, or find somewhere else and make more futile efforts for a girl who you can't attract.
You don't love her, she is the only girl who ever spoke to you and you think that is love because she is a girl.
If she rejected you, you should have cut ties with her.
If you failed a second time, you should have learned your lesson and gave up on her.
If you are living with you parents at 26, that might be why she isn't interested in you
If you are her tenant, she won't have any interest in you, you are a man child OP, you are the bargaining chip she uses when she meets other guys, it will go something like this:
>chad: who is that guy you are hanging out with sometimes? your brother?
>QT: No! that's anon, he has been my friend since forever!
>chad: orbiter?
>QT: haha yeah, something like that, he has asked me out a few times
>chad: well, how about we date and he gets the message?
>QT: haha ok!
*a few months later*
>chad: You need to get rid of anon
And that's where she makes her demands.
You are a shoulder to cry on at best, she will never show any interest in you, I'm sorry, I dated girls that had guys like you around them, getting rid of you will be "a massive compromise" on her part in exchange for him doing something she wants.
Get your finances in check, join a gym and a hobby club, get your own place and meet other women, she isn't healthy to be around and 8 years of her fucked over your expectations of women.
>>17204935
She's a genuinely good person that cares about me... not all girls are vain, shallow, awful people.
>>17204963
I never said that they were.
What did she say when you creepe- sorry asked her out?
Is /adv/ into physics? The question is: How much closer will the man get to the land if he goes at the other end of the boat? The answer should be by 0.5 meters. I know it's some basic ratio problem or what not but I am not sure how it works. Could some smart anon explain it to me? Thanks.
>>17204869
If he walks 2 meters than he is 2 meters closer.
>>17204878
The thing is the boat is on the water so it won't stay stationary it goes the other direction so the distance is less than 2 meters
>>17204869
Okay new question. can someone tell a good website where I can ask math questions?
Got some great pictures of this big tit milf getting a massage at resort if anyone wants to see them. Was in Fiji for holiday with family last month, this shit was the only good thing about that awful third world fuck hole.
Sorry for low quality, iPhone
So my question is, should I post them or respect this random woman's privacy?
>>17204864
post, she'll never know it was you
>>17204909
More?
Where do I get a qt clingy gf?
>>17204858
You cant, get an ugly shy girl and she will be your pet. Who knows? Find a qt shy girl, tell her she is a qt, she will cry tears of joy and be your pet for all eternity.
>>17204858
at the Q T Clingy Girl Store
>>17204858
>qt
>clingy
Pick one.
Would you stay friends with your best friend if they had been convicted of 1st degree murder? Like would you still talk to them on the phone or write them?
>the birthday card he mailed me today
Yes I would, but you might not be like me. I think I have to be vague saying this, if I start comparing personalities I'll offend a bunch of people.
dont have to. they stop talking to me eventually
this is very tough to say because it just fully depends on what your best friend is like. He is evicted, but is he wrongfully evicted or is he guilty? Can you trust this friend after the eviction?
How much did you know about his ''activities'', did he lie to you or does he still pretend nothing happens? (so, does he show psychopatic/sociopathic behaviour or not?)
Furthermore, it might be good for your friend to have a friend on the outside. I reckon it will get very lonely in there and a safe harbour might keep your friend on his feet.
So this is pretty stupid I feel and I'm a bit confused at what to do at this point.
So me and my brother used to watch Game of Thrones together before he moved out of state. I haven't seen him in like a year and since I last saw him I got into a serious relationship with this girl and now he is back in town. Me and him want to watch some of it again like we used to since I only watch the show when he is around. The only problem is that my girlfriend really does not approve of me watching it because of all the naked chicks in the show, which I guess I can understand a bit.
The problem is that she is a bit self conscious when it comes to me seeing other naked females, be it in a game, show or just porn all together. I've tried to help her and I even told her she can watch it with us if it makes her feel better, hell I've even snooped so low to saying i'd cover my fucking eyes.
What should I do to let her let me watch the show? Sorry if I triggered you with my grammer, my first language isn't English.
You're going about this all wrong. All this trying to be nice, and trying to make her comfortable, and saying you can "kind of understand" is WRONG, because when you do this you're validating her absolute insanity.
What you're supposed to do is be a fucking man.
>I am watching this very popular show with my fucking BROTHER. And if you don't like it you can go suck eggs. If you want to dump me go ahead, but I don't want to hear another word from your stupid whore mouth on the subject ever again, or I am dumping you myself.
Every inch you give her on stupid shit like this just ensures she will try to exert more and more control over you. Lay down the law, you are a fuckign adult. Holy shit.
Watch whatever the fuck you want. If she sees people in TV shows as competition or gets jealous over that kind of shit, she's not well put together mentally. That's totally not your problem.
If she's like that with TV shows, imagine what will happen when if you work with girls, or talk about a female coworker or fellow student or someone you pass in the street. Think of what will happen when you want a female friend.
Don't let her control what fucking TV show you watch. That's pathetic
>>17204745
It's GoT, not even porn for christ sake. Tell her you'll watch what the fuck you want.
>Want to live a fully life, but too scared of the world to go out and experience it
>Have very little self-control in terms of eating habbits and money management
>Freeze up around new people, especially women, usually end up going silent and just listen to the conversation everyone else is having.
>When I do find it in me to talk I can barely carry a conversation, can never think of anything to talk about
>On the rare occasion a women does take interest in me, I become attached super fast, a lot of the times coming off as clingy and scaring them off
>Extremely picky eater, dislike most new food I try, most foods I do like are absolute garbage for me
>Have absolutely zero backbone, but everyone else before myself even if it means hurting myself because I can't stand hurting others.
>High stress levels, find myself absolutely losing it when I get stuck on college work, expensive shit get's lost/broken.
>Only thing that really makes me happy is approval of others.
I'm just hitting the tip of the iceburg, I feel like nothing but a list of problems most days. I'm tired of living like this, but it all feels so overwhelming I don't know how to fix it.
Help, please.
>>17204742
Prepare for walk of text Senpai
I'm 22 and I have been the exact same way for as long I can remember, until I met up with a friend from highschool around 2 months ago.
She gave me the most basic advice.
>I know it's difficult, but try to learn how to stop caring what people think about you so much
She said this to me multiple times over the past 2 months, until it finally stuck with me. And over the past few weeks, things have slowly started to get better.
Obviously, you can't change self-consciousness that's been engraved into your personality for years, in the blink of an eye. You can't magically just say you wont care anymore, then open your eyes and be a different person. But you can change it, as long as you push yourself to take the initial steps to get out of that box. After you get over those first bumps in starting the process, progress comes easier with time.
One of the biggest bumps getting past is over-thinking everything about how everyone thinks of you. You have to stop yourself from doing that, at least on a constant basis. If you start worrying about that shit sitting alone, just do anything to push it out of your mind. Pick up a hobby, play games, anything as long as it's something that takes your mind off things. Out in public/with friends and those thoughts come? Fuck it, don't think about what could or might be true, and focus on the reality happening before your eyes. Because every moment is fleeting and won't happen again.
As for going out and experiencing stuff and overcoming your fears of new things, same basic concept. Someone invites you out to do something new? Go with them, do it. If you start feeling apprehensive, notice it, catch yourself, and tell yourself this is something you need to do. As you go out and try new things, you may like or dislike some of them. But each is an experience - ones that will help you get used to being in social situations and make you more comfortable little by little.
>>17204742
Oh boy, why does this sound like something I could've wrote...
>>17204966
I've heard a lot of this multiple times, but I think this is the best I've ever seen it put.
The problem is, I can never seem to pull off whatever mental gymnastics it's takes to distract myself/remove my anxieties from my mind. Once I start thinking about these things it feels like there's nothing I can do. I feel kinda powerless to my own mind.
No amount of "just do it" has helped me, even though eventually it seems to work for everyone else.
My fiancé hasn't been affectionate at all recently. Nothing has changed in his life. Would it be clingy to confront him about it? What's going on? He is usually super mushy.
>>17204659
Communication
Have you tried initiating affection?
>>17204659
no, feel free to talk about it
its better to communicate than not to
you cant go wrong with it desu
