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Where do I find single gamer girls?
Playing games. Try MMOs, and building a social group in there. A lot of female gamers don't advertise themselves. Many even play male characters to avoid harassment, though harassment is less bad nowadays than it was ten years ago. If you play MMOs you probably already know some and don't realize.
"hey your voice is weird" "are you a boy?" "girls dont play this game" "are you young or a girl" "is that your real voice?" "stop using a voice changer gay man" "stop talking kid" --- all things I heard today while playing video games (literally just what people thought was important to say to me during firefights today). TLDR we are everywhere but youre an idiot
hit up a weight watchers
Roomate is grill btw
gross fingernails
and thats a birth control pill
>>17206179
Those could be anything. Even if you ask her about them, she might lie if they're meant to treat something embarrassing. I wouldn't take them.
>>17206187
I know I bite like hell
And it's not birth control you fucking tard
Kissless virgin detected
On defense trying to defend the extinction of species during deforestation, I know my team has practically lost if the prosecution has done their research but what points/ideas can I bring up to put up a fight. SOS
If the other side can do their own research, why can't you?
>>17206152
If your best defense comes from an imageboard you're fucked anyway. Go do your job and do the research on your own.
>>17206157
>>17206176
We have and are pleading insanity and negligence, other than disconnection from nature and a bit of "affluenza" theres not much that may be able to push people to our side
Hey /adv/.
This is a long story and a hell of a mess, so here goes. Really looking for help or someone to talk to. I know that I'm shitty. So, don't bother with telling me. I know.
Some background information about me- I have long term depression 10+ years, moderate social anxiety and PTSD from physical and emotional abuse growing up. Dropped out of university around 2 and a half years ago.
So, I moved to a big city from my home town with a girl that I'm madly in love with around 2-3 years ago.
We've had our problems, but we've always worked...
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>>17206144
Retarded to go back to an ex, what's the point
Some more context: We had a d/s relationship- collared and everything. So, it's hard for me not to be possessive of her. Collaring is the equivalent to marriage in the kink community. Like, I told her that I'd literally do anything in my power to make things right with us and she agreed.
>>17206160
Because she means the world to me and I love her more than I've ever loved anyone. This is coming from someone that's had around 4 long term relationships. I haven't connected with anyone as much as I do with her.
Did we consummate our marriage if I didn't cum? (He did)
>waffle unrelated
>>17206089
Yes, you fucking whore.
We all know you're looking for a way to make it acceptable to divorce your husband.
Don't be a fucking cunt, that man has probably done everything for you.
What?
It'd still count even if neither of you came. It'd just be more disappointing I guess.
i'm currently in my first serious relationship. my gf and i have been together for nearly 1.5 years. i didn't have much experience with relationships prior to this one and limited experience with women in a romantic sense.
she is taking summer classes to catch up on her academics. i'm awaiting my program to start in the coming fall. i've been interning at a local hospital for the past couple of months and may be securing employment with them shortly. prior to the internship i had a lot of time on my hands and spent a great deal of it with her. this is the first period of our relationship where she and i are on rigid schedules and don't have time to see each other as often as we would like.
in the past week since she started classes she has started doing something strange: she texts me about her male classmates. here are a few examples:
>wow, my lab table is three beefy bro dudes. send help
>oh, i met a really interesting guy in class today
>jake seems like a nice guy
>that guy from chem asked me to go to the library with him tomorrow to study and i'm going since i don't understand anything
she has done these sorts of things before but it was usually with some disdain (like mentioning a guy flirted with her and she just wanted to get away from him or how these guys were trying to talk to her and her not being eager to chat, some guy trying to get her attention while at a stop light, etc).
i feel like the tone changed with these guys. she's complimenting them and opting to spend time with them. what really got me was her comment about the one guy from class being "interesting."
i feel like she's just casually dropping these interactions with guys in her class as a means to get a reaction out of me? i never ask her about her classmates, just about how class is going. she has been doing this repeatedly now and it's striking me as odd.
>>17206084
>what really got me was her comment about the one guy from class being "interesting."
What was the rest of the conversation about this guy?
>>17206084
So she's an attention whoring cunt. Shocking. This is what's going to happen: she's going to keep hanging out with these guys and telling you about it because if I, who have never met you, know that you're too much of a lonely loser bets bitch to sack up and drop her, she damn sure figured it out a long time ago. So she'll keep flirting with them, and she'll keep playing innocent with you. Maybe she'll fuck one, maybe she won't. If she doesn't, you can bet she's at...
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>>17206094
i don't acknowledge her comments about these guys so i don't ask any follow up questions. i think she mentioned it had something to do with his upbringing or that he's an immigrant. something along those lines.
she texted me earlier today about how she and her classmate were going to be studying tomorrow. i didn't say a thing about it. i don't understand what she expects me to say or if she's just choosing to be transparent/honest?
"oh cool. i'm really enjoying...
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I'm envious of cute girls. I think about how they get everything in life so easily and can't help but feel depressed. How do I man up and feel less depressed?
I considered sex change but I like women and I don't think I'd make a cute girl. Also I think not a lot of people are interested in transgenders anyway.
the grass is always greener on the other side but that's only because you can't see the down sides, remember that
>>17206062
I can't think of any downsides, that is the problem. Otherwise I would've comforted myself with the downsides.
Periods. You don't want them.
I want to major at biology, having a career in research in mind.
However, I live in Brazil. Even our best university (Universidade de São Paulo) can't provide me a good structure.
To make things better, majoring biology here = teaching; that means having shitty salaries and an awful profession (no disrespect for the teachers, but this is my country's reality).
My two options are either choosing another course or studying outside Brazil. So I ask you: is the latter worth it?
Stay in your own shithole country, we don't need more brownskins coming in and getting preferential treatment in the hiring and enrollment process.
>>17206061
I am talking about being a scientist and a biologist.
It's not like I'm stealing jobs and causing unemployment.
I thought about this already nigger.
1st: Most unemployment is caused by immigrants who take jobs that require no high levels of education.
2nd: On the "high education" careers, the stealing of job offers happens on areas where there is more labour offer than demand (like architecture, where you have 10% unemployment). This, however, isn't the case in science and research.
>>17206197
>Most unemployment is caused by immigrants who take jobs that require no high levels of education.
This is so wrong this is really really wrong
How do I stop crushing on someone /adv/?
>>17206022
Find flaws in them
Sit in the bathroom while they are taking a shit after eating 3 day old panda express
>crush
Lolgay
I have huge communication problems with my parents, last year they cause something that destructed and ruined my daily life then i started to not call them and kept communication low, also they do not even cared about what happened me.they act like nothing had happened... I rarely visit them and call them at the moment, but whenever i visit or talk with them i feel enourmous pain, can not even sleep after get in touch them also the last time visit them, i felt stange pain in my chest that did not let me to sleep in my bad, i just waited it to be eased
So what is happening...
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You're sad.
That's all the insight that I can offer on your vague-as-fuck post.
It's very common for parents to use their children, because most parents are really shitty. I bet they had you when they were really young right?
They are probably immature and don't really care about you, so don't care about them until they respect and treat you as an adult.
>>17206003
My english can be broken but it can not be that hard
I need more insight?
Is it sad that I got more pussy in primary school than I did in highschool?
everyone peaks at different times in their life
I peaked in middleschool too, I got more as in 8th grade then I did my whole life
The fact that you had sex in primary school is pretty sad.
>>17205971
So it'd be even sadder that I didn't get any in highschool?
I'm not sure that anyone here can really help in this situation but here goes nothing.
I can tell girl I like is falling for me and I'm HIV positive. I'm considering cutting off contact with her so she doesn't fall for the wrong person but I don't want to hurt her feelings. I really just want a friend because thats where my strengths are, I'm no good for a lover. I'd be open with her but things would change for the worse.
The first time I told a girl in this situation she accepted me for who I am and it felt amazing, but at the...
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You contracted HIV, yet somehow your self-esteem is still your biggest flaw. Christ.
>>17205950
I think my self-esteem is right where it should be.
>>17205937
I want to help you OP but I'm socially awkward and would say something like "I'm only looking for a friend" and have her say something like "Who'd want to be anything more than friends with -you-? Hahaha" so no advice to give but I feel for you, I probably wouldn't be able to handle your situation.
hey /adv/,
Tiny issue has come off as of late. I am an 18yr old male who lives in Florida, I am attempting to take a solo trip over the summer to meet up with a girl in Kentucky. Here is the catch. Having just graduated high school, I still live with my parents. Therefore, permission is necessary. My dad was not a hard sell on the idea, however my mom will be. Having just beat cancer, my mom has become very over-protective. The "im an adult" card doesn't work on her. Money won't be an issue, I have been working my ass of ever since being in remission....
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How about just fucking go?
>>17205956
Worried that if I just go, Im not going to be welcome when I get back. I feel as though she would send me to a psychiatrist if she doesnt make my dad throw me out
Wait, you beat cancer or your mom?
Either way you shouldn't be scared of getting kicked out, just go.
(I'm in Highschool) I am in a relationship with someone who has changed my life and made me a completely different person. They love me for who I am and will never stop, but they are my first ever real relationship (16 months) and I'm worried that I'm missing out on other people that might be better for me. I know some people who would be super down to fuck me and what-not, I'm just really trying to avoid growing up and regretting not searching around more for what could've been. On the other hand, I don't want to leave her primarily because I couldn't...
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You'd be surprised what you do or don't regret. I have only been with a single girl my entire life and I give zero fucks. I love her and she loves me, and its been almost a decade - I quite literally never slept around or did any "normal" dating or partying, and I am perfectly happy with my choices.
However your doubts indicate you may not think like me. So you need to rely on your own judgement, which is somewhat outside the realm of advice we can give.
>>17205908
Agreed. I'm someone who had the same doubts. I cheated on my girlfriend for awhile, got that out of my system, and went on with my life. It's up to OP on what he really wants out of life.
>>17205888
realize that FOMO is for fucking chumps. Society expects young men to sleep around for no reason but it doesn't have to be that way. Some people are lucky enough to get it right the first time.
That being said, you are still really young and 16 months is like nothing. You, your girl, or your relationship can still change. If there's nothing wrong with your current relationship, just ride it out and see where it goes. It's not like you're getting married or anything.
Don't avoid...
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So I have liked my crush for about 3 years, but over the years I have became a much closer friend (inb4 friendzone). I am probably taking her out to eat tomorrow and I wanted to confess my love for her, even if it means the friendzone, I just have a feeling that I want her to know. Should I? or should I just keep it to myself? any advice really helps, like what topics I can talk of while were eating or some shit like that. thanks.
It's kinda personal though.
As for me - i never did confess love or ask someone to be my girlfriend. I prefer enjoying the heat of the moment, and by my actions and words, she gets the message.
>>17205899
Well she trust me allot on many things, but eh your right.
So your saying I should try to point it out without saying it? It really doesn't matter if I date her or not, I just like to be her friend.
>Also dubs
last bump for the night.
