>>17208940
Faithfulness

The fuck kinda question is this? Doesn't matter how cute you are if you aren't 100% loyal to your man
My ex was a 9/10 at the worst and she turned out to be a big fucking slut so she had to go

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Physical would definitely be green eyes. As long as she's not fat and has green eyes, I'm in love fampai. I don't really know why.

>>17208940
my 10/10 girl is:
no alcohol / cigarets / drugs
wants and is able to have children
emotionally stable even during period
an active person who will force / motivate / help me to be better person myself
loyal enough to never cheat me / clever enough to cheat me without me EVER finding out
as the physical appearance goes I am not that picky (I discriminate only towards gypsies and obese)

Either you're a headcase and you're a constant nag and it's been slowly striping him away.

Or you two didn't keep the relationship interesting, socially and sexually.

I'm sure if you sit down and think hard enough about your past relationships you'll find the correlation between their failures.

>>17208938
>guy falls in love
you have just made bad choices so far. next time don't go for the guy that falls quickly (or says they are in love but likely not) take your time, date casually, get to know them and they you before you commit.

>>17208938
Maybe the things that intrest you just arent intresting to the guys you meet?

The only reason i ever bother with women are:
A) is she aesthetically attractive
B) is the sexual chemistry there
C) is she good at, enthusiastic about, and willing to be sexual
D) does she pluck at my sympathetic heart strings
E) does she make me proud of her or proud to know her
F) can i have deep and/or engaging conversations with her
G) can i learn new things from her
H) does she keep me pushing myself...
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confidence
ambition
charm

>>17208931
Firstly you gotta be powerful physically. Being fit, taking care of your face and hair, wearing good clothing, all of this will make people judge you as a stronger person when they first see you.

Personality wise, don't be clingy, don't be a dick, don't argue too much. Don't over talk but when you do talk, make it relevant.

And make sure you go outside often and socialise as much as possible.

>>17209039
passive clingy 36yr old skeleton manbaby here, where's the culture whose women would love to cuddle with me all day?

>>17208904
Everyone does dumb shit. Well, most people anyway.

I called this girl fat in her face and then tried to blame it on my best friend at the time. I had to sit facing a wall at lunch time for 1 hour and then they called my parents and said what happened.

That was a pretty bad day. My friend kinda stopped talking to me after that.

I don't dwell on it though, because she was fat and I pride myself on telling the truth.

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>>17208904
>Is there any way to dispell this feeling or is it there forever?
pic related.

>>17208904
>Don't have autism but seconded
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xjPzci894Wg&list=PL19BB19C25E358494&index=22
How does Jeff not kill himself

oh and I was there for her her entire school career while this fag just showed up 3 weeks ago and I kind of want to see him

Perhaps you can compromise. You did make a card but that doesn't mean you have to bother showing up. Can you give the card to some other random person who can then give it to her? A mutual friend maybe.

>>17208901
Your post makes so little sense I'm answering twice

>her graduation is in two hours
Don't go. No point, you'll hate it, it will suck.

>Your graduation is in two hours
Go, this is an important lifelong memory. Don't miss it for a whore

>>17208787
(cont.)

I still think a lot about him, and the thought of just kissing and cuddling with him feels very arousing; in fact, I did have an erection (sorry if this is too much, I just had to mention it) while we were talking, but I'm sure it was caused by his flirting rather than anything else. Although I feel no sexual attraction to his body, I'm convinced I'm in love with the motherfucker. I'm really, really confused.

tl;dr: I'm not sure if I'm bisexual or not. What do?

>>17208787
>I'm not sure if I'm bisexual or not.
The easiest way how to find out is just let him "do" you. You will see if you like it or no and which side (up/down) you like more. Invest in condoms and lube. In the worst case scenario you will run away screaming or raped.

>I'm in love
Yea mate sure. You are just excited that another human being can be interested in you. First date, kiss, sex whatever is always more intense.

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>>17208864
First of all, thank you for replying! It means a lot.

Now, I didn't literally mean I love him; only that he strikes me as a sort of "perfect partner" (he's handsome, funny, smart, we have similar tastes etc), and even if I didn't enjoy his company (and I most certainly do) it felt really weird to "reject" him. I like him, and telling him I wasn't attracted was, in retrospect, a pretty bad move.

And yes, I think a sort of ingrained homophobia may be the reason...
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>>17208752
b8

have you tried kissing them you autist

I hate instigating things.

>>17208751
You are right get some experience. That means take things as far as they will go. If she wants to fuck then you fuck. Stop being afraid of everything and lose your virginity. You have nothing to lose, except for your virginity of course.

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whereas my type would be someone like this

>>17208765

Well that's a good point and that's what I thought as well. But the more I started thinking about it the more I feel like I'm not attracted to her physically at all. Essentially I'm wondering what the fuck is wrong with me, when I can clearly tell she's super hot.

Yes. You're going to die.

>>17208710
Shave your balls, bro.

>>17208723
Not my balls

Sperm dies in contact with air.

You're good man. Sperm dies quickly if it doesn't go into something that is body temperature or above body temperature without special precautions like they do when freezing sperm

>>17208706
Flush it down op, always. Wrap it in something and save it in your pocket for a later flush if you have to.

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One bump.

what career did you en up getting into?

>>17208804
Welder.

self disgust

A good ass kicking from life

Passion

>He can't ever be completely sober.

and you're worried about the fact that he's fat? he's probably gonna kill himself before he dies of a heart attack, it sounds like he's going through depression or some other mental illness. not caring about how you look when you previously did and acquiring a casual drinking habit is pretty blunt as far as symptoms go.

>What should I say to him that will finally sink in?


>The thought of fucking him grosses me out. Whenever we do fuck, it's a chore, and I only do it to satisfy him. I close my eyes and think of other men to get through it.
>I don't want to hurt his feelings but I'm losing my attraction towards him.

You have to hurt his feelings. Some hurt feelings are good now and then.

>>17208664
Of course I'm worried about this as well. It bothers me just as much, if not more, than him being fat. I've talked to him about him always needing to be on something and he always dismisses it. I've mentioned that he should go on an anti-depressant but he just makes excuses about "not being able to get off work and go to the doctor," which is bullshit. He could easily get off of work if he wanted to.

>>17208618
you need to actually tell her because you're not lying to anyone at this point the next time she brings it up. and just tell her how you feel about her, like actually make sure you use words and emotion in your voice and body language.

also it gets better in college

here's a recording of Anna singing "hopelessly devoted" from Grease:

http://vocaroo.com/i/s1R3imtAtTvu

Is she the worst singer you've ever heard or is she decent?

>>17208618
the correct response is:
i like your singing better than hers.
Take it from someone who's been married a long time. Don't fight it, don't say what you think. It's not worth the fight.