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Is it a good idea to start a website dedicated to revealing the real names of women on seeking arrangements and other sugar daddy/baby sites? I just want to help out the poor guys out there that have no idea their girlfriend used to be a fucking whore in college. And also make lots of money myself!
Why would someone pay for this?
You'd prostitute yourself if you could. You sound mad jelly.
if you think someone is going to pay for this shit youre out of your mind
Over the last 10 months or so, a little after I started grad school and living on my own, I have noticed some really negative changes in my life, despite my life prospects only ever increasing.
I get exhausted very easily; I used to be able to go to the gym and enjoy myself, enjoy the feeling of a good pump, etc. Now it's just a chore, and an exhausting one at that; it sucks productivity away from me for hours after I go.
My memory has sharply declined. This is most noticeable in my current relationship and with regards to my friends. I forget conversations,...
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>>17206906
Oh, and I also tend to avoid problems and stressful situations, rather than approaching them head-on as I used to.
You sound burned-out. Take some time off so you create some distance from your normal life and reflect on it and change the things that cause your shit.
>>17206906
I have the same shit from my junior year for biochem. I literally have been working nonstop without even an hour to myself for a year, im so burnt out and now that life has gotten easier and im moving up in my lab, etc etc. I don't give a shit about anything snd absolutely everything is a chore. I know the feel OP, I just don't know the answer. The other anon suggested a break, but if you're the same as me all the hard work has caused a work ethic/addiction where you feel like you should punish yourself...
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>tfw ripped
>tfw 6'2"
>tfw game is ok
>tfw girls show interest
>tfw dick is small 5x5 inch
Makes me insecure as fuck and avoid female attention. I've rejected five girls and it made them feel shit, they thought they were ugly.
How do you fuck well with a small dick?
What's the best size?
>>17206874
>>tfw dick is small 5x5 inch
Stop watching porn and comparing yourself -.-.
Get off the internet.
>>17206894
5 is below statistical average and my height makes it look even smaller
>>17206874
I'm no expert on dicks but isn't 5.5 completely average anyway? Guys worry waaaay too much about dick size, if you think the only way you'll ever please a girl is having a big dick, it'd suck either way.
I know that's basically incomprehensible to a lot of men, but your dick isn't the most important thing in the world, and certainly not the most important thing in the bedroom. 75% of women don't even consistently orgasm from penetrative intercourse, regardless how awesome your...
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I'm in an LDR. He's the nicest person I ever met and was also the nicest person irl the one time we met, but I don't feel like conversation comes as naturally from me with him for some reason. We just small talk and never really talk about being in a relationship other than when we confirmed we felt the same way for each other a few times. Is that normal? I don't want to stress him out with unpleasant talk, he's busy with exams for a while... I'm not sure I can handle an LDR. I feel like a complete asshole. But he still hasn't told his family...
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Sounds like thehoneymoon period is over, or he's nervous about it. Is he confident in general?
>>17206880
He's not confident, no. A bit of a doormat at times, from the way I've seen him interact with others online.
>>17206884
Than that's it. Doormats are nervous, and are afraid of talking openly and steer conversations towards small talk because they lack self confidence and give way too much weight to others' opinions about them. They want to please others and appear nice.
is it even worth doing a degree in English literature? I don't wanna end up as a high school teacher and die at 60 from a stress-induced heart attack.
What does 'worth it' mean? What do you want to do after the degree?
>>17206840
think about what you want to do with your life or at least the field, then do everything necessary to achieve your goals.
>>17206840
You'll be more stressed if you do this shitty degree cause you'll have to pay debts and never have work.
Just get a trade or stem degree and don't rack in overtime
Here's the problem, I noticed my taste has gotten more degenerate over time and if I keep going this way, I will eventually find myself being into something illegal or risky to search. Now I know I can stop myself from looking for that kind of stuff because i have self-control, but does anyone know if you can relapse back to regular porn to avoid getting to that point in the first place?
I find that if the vanilla porn features a girl I have never seen before, it can hold my interest.
Sure. You can't control 100% of your sexual preferences but you can choose what you masturbate to and it does have a long term impact on your sexual preference.
>>17206831
Yes,
You can go back to vanilla porn.
The easiest way is to go cold turkey for a week (that's right, seven days), or however long it takes for the urge to fap to reach critical point and then taper off. Then, when you feel like fapping, you can do so to vanilla porn. Not that it is easy, but easier than just trying to fap to vanilla right off the bat.
I always caught him stalking other girls..
should i just break almost a year relationship?
he always said he loves me.
When i try to leave, he wont let me.
what should i do? im tired..
He stalks other girls, and will stalk you when you leave him.
>When i try to leave, he wont let me.
Explain.
>>17206828
i try to leave him cuz he always stalk other girls.. i know him's crush.. he cry when i leave and ask me to stay. Im tired
Hey, I need some help
>Be me
>18 virgin
>gf is rape victim
>she's bi
>she had sex with one of her friends who's a girl
>also had sex with one of her boyfriends
Why am I having trouble to accept she's not a virgin I keep thinking she is to make myself happy but it hurts me deeply since she's been thru a lot same goes for me so that's why we...
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Bang her in the ass.
>You'll thank me later.
>...and she'll thank you later.
>>17206808
Op here , I'm serious I'm falling into a depression that I don't want to get worse I might do something stupid please
You feel bad about two different things. One of these things is okay, the other is not. It would be a mistake to lump together that big ball of feelings. You should try to separate your feelings.
>Why am I having trouble to accept she's not a virgin
Because of social conditioning. We are pressured to think that the worth of a person is defined by sex, with girls being socially shunned for being sexually experiences while boys are socially shunned if they are not. It's stupid and you should try your best to not judge people based...
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Whenever I smoke weed, I feel very, very intense emotions. I am not in a good place in my life / emotional development. So when I smoke, I become overwhelmed with negative emotions.
This sucks. I am already struggling sober. I see people running from their problems by doing drugs; and then I try to escape like them and I get hit in the head with my problems magnified x1000.
What the fucking fuck!
>>17206757
This is the case for a lot of people with drugs (including alcohol). Eventually you learn that the negative effects aren't worth it.
>>17206760
My roommate has been smoking constantly for six years and seems happy...
Should have prolly used a sexy pic
Hi /adv/
When I moved into my current room I was coming from across the country with no money (unemployment ran out the week I got here) so I just sort of accepted whatever it was like. Now I've been here awhile, got a job, saved up some, settled in, and I'm pretty sick of the room. For one thing, it really needs a new coat of paint. I checked with my housemates and it's OK for me to paint the room.
BUT how do I do that when I have to, you know, live here? Is it possible to, like, paint one side of the room, then the other? Will I die of paint fumes...
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Just paint it all in one day and sleep on the couch that night
>>17206754
move your furniture into the center of the room and cover them with plastic or shitty sheets. Then paint.
>>17206754
As a decorator who's spent the best part of the last 15 years surrounded by wet emulsion I can promise you it won't do you any harm.
Sell me on Keck fags
Well, the first keck is on me, because I actually go there for undergrad. -_-
>>17206713
praise keck
I've only been there to visit someone with a brain tumor. Really sterile, I felt like I was in some big budget movie. Like the plot of that movie with Ben Kingsley and Ryan Reynolds.
My own pcp and specialists are at LAC + USC next door. I felt like a poor loser out of place at Keck lol.
Alright here's the deal. for an assignment we have to make a song acoustic/soft, our schools music program is horrible and since im the only one in the class who can play guitar I can pretty much do anything. So I need a song that is not to offensive but is most unorthodox. thanks for your help
>>17206700
Achilles Last Stand by Led Zeppelin. Good luck.
>>17206700
>>17206700
Pick some track from an anime OST.
>>17206715
Typical normie.
>>17206721
Autistic weeb.
My girlfriend insulted, teased, and threatened me while i was working this evening. After I couldn't take it anymore I went to leave and she stood in front of the door and begged me to hit her. After 5 mins or so of this i managed to get out of the room. After that she grabbed my got on her knees and kept screaming at me to hit her, I ran outside and she kept screaming fuck you.
How on earth am I supposed to handle a situation like this?
>>17206661
I don't get it?
>>17206661
Get a lawyer and/or tell the police so it's on record in case she tries to accuse you of something.
What should I try messaging this girl? Anyways, when i sent her the first message on April 26 here, she had not logged in since like April 10th. So then its a month later in May and I figure she might not be logging on again in a long time, so I messaged her again to give her my email on May 18th. Then on May 30th she logged in and viewed my profile....but didn't respond.
Am I fucked? What should I message her? I at least want to try something. Maybe she's shy right? Or did I sperg out and dig myself a hole here? She's really cool...
>>17206659
>but didn't respond.
She's not interested, move on.
>She's really cool...
No she's not. Her profile is cool, you know nothing about her irl.
Why are men so pathetic
I'm a dude and yeah, just don't do anything. Move one, obviously she would have responded.
She could respond to you on the off chance in the future down the road, but if she had anything to say, don't you think she would have said it by now?
>>17206692
Not really sure, mother issues? Low self esteem, betas and not knowing how to talk to women.
I'm so sick of girls. I get curved more than a boomerang. Is there any way I can be happy? I'm not very religious but can God do anything? It's stupid that I'm so upset over a girl, but I'm just sick of it. Why do girls change their minds so often?
Bump. If anyone wants to know the story.
I took this girl I've been liking for a while to lunch today. The day after she supposedly broke up with her boyfriend.
Lunch went well and she said it was really fun and that we should do it again sometime.
But now she's back with her asshole of a boyfriend. Who was snap chatting me telling me that nobody liked me. Ive never had a girlfriend before and I was really looking forward to hanging out with her more.
It didn't help that a few weeks earlier the girl I asked to prom also rejected me. Which sucked...
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Pls
Is there anybody on this board?
