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GF of four years just told me she's not sure about loving me anymore.
My soul is crushed.
What do ?
>>17204627
rape her
>>17204627
Take it as a lesson learned and move on.
Give her a reason to love you. Remind her why she loved you in the first place. Have you grown complacent in your relationship? Or do you put in legitimate effort to make it work?
I never thought I'd be asking for advice here, or anywhere online for that matter, but here I am.
I'm in a serious relationship with my long term girlfriend(few years), we are both in college.
I love her, she is honestly the best girl I have ever met. And I'm not saying this in the screaming-hormones, 14 y/o way. I am a very logical and goal-oriented thinker, and I have repeatedly spent considerable amounts of time just trying to find a flaw in her, with no success, neither physically or mentally.
I could see myself marrying this girl and...
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especially because we are both good ar communicating and telling each other how we feel straight up and supporting our points of view. A few hours ago I found out why. Here comes the kicker; she has a mild kind of leukemia and she was basically told that it will be a miracle if she lives past 26. I knew she had a problem with her white cells, but she never said anything beyond a mild defficiency, that could be kept in check with very rare blood transfusions and medicine. Now I find this out. She broke down and told me all about it. That's why she wanted to get married,...
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>>17204605
Actual cont, sorry.
It always seemed strange to me how she couldn't give more of an argument why she wants them so early, especially because we are both good ar communicating and telling each other how we feel straight up and supporting our points of view.
A few hours ago I found out why. Here comes the kicker; she has a mild kind of leukemia and she was basically told that it will be a miracle if she lives past 26. I knew she had a problem with her white cells, but she never said anything beyond...
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>>17204629
cont
And I dont even want to talk about the kid. I grew up with only one parent and it fucked me up big time because too much of one thing is always bad, including the presence of only one kid of parent. Kids need both a male, more stern, goal oriented, logical, presence, and an empathic, motherly presence of a woman. And what will happen to the kid is exactly that, it will grow up with one parent, a not very good one at that, both because I am still going to be fresh outta college myself, and because...
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How do I deal with my non religious roommate? They don't openly confront me, but they know I have strong Christian faith and they have discussions with their friends in the other room calling Christianity "a fairy tail" or "mythology" and even more disgusting, "faith can't fight science". It makes all engineering students look like atheist freaks. My student appartment has already been paid for and we're both staying for summer classes and my parents can't afford to switch me rooms (ofc there's a fee)
Walk up to him one day and tell him he's right. Then every time you see him say some 3edgy5me shit like "Nothing matters. There's no God. Life is suffering." Try to stare through him and look dead inside.
>>17204554
That's absurd. I don't want to seem like a loser myself. I just want her to stop talking about things that she knows upset me
>>17204564
Is she a legbeard or fat?
23/f here! I took off like a whole week of work to go to comicon downtown with my gf and a bunch of our friends, how do I make the most of the con? I can't really take a real vacation this summer so this anime shit is like IT for me. We're all dressing up which is fun, but what else can I do to make the week fun enough that it's worth missing out on the $$$$
>>17204481
Standing in lines.
>>17204578
That does sound pretty fun
do mdma
How do I got about using Torrents safely again when Corporate money-starved old geezers have their hands on nearly everything we do?
Im paranoid of every torrent website I find, don't want to get myself in jail or paying a fine or whatever.
What do?
>>17204477
Don't torrent
>>17204510
then how else will I get my programs illicitly?
>>17204518
Normal non torrent download links uploaded on pages like media fire, uploaded and mega.
general files is a good page to search stuff ...
Is 36 and 50 an inappropriate age difference?
Who's older?
As long as you care for eachother equally and its legal who cares what others say?
Just expect natural resistance from outsiders...and ensure u have the same end goals...
>>17204454
Just a number. Honestly maturity has much more weight in a relationship than age and since you're both well past your "primes" you should be gucci
When should you give up on trying to grow a beard? I'm 20 and I'm letting my stubble grow out for the first time. It's a pretty decent length and thickness (haven't shaved in two weeks), only problem is it doesn't really "connect" from the sides to the goatee. What I mean by this is at the intersection of the cheeks and jaw, there's practically no hair growing other than a few strays here and there. The goatee, sides, and moustache all look fine, but I'm not sure if I should keep it going if it doesn't connect. I haven't...
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>>17204417
I'm 32 and mine still doesn't connect. I just keep it short.
SHAVE SHAVE SHAVE. im 17. ive been able to grow a beard since 16. alls you gotta do is have. with a razor, even if there is no hair, if you shave, then it will irritiate the skin and force hair folicles to grow. i had a bald spot on my chin, kept shaving, then it grew in.
>>17204848
it didn't grow in because you shave it, it grew back because you developed. The whole "shaving makes your beard grow thicker" is absolute bullshit. "It irritates the skin and forces hair follicles to grow"? Did you read that in fucking Cosmo or something?
Just googling that will show a plethora of info on why that's false: https://www.google.com/webhp#q=shaving+beard+grow+back+thicker
As for OP, I would recommend going for about a month before you shave so long as it doesn't...
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Hi, 4chan. I have been with my boyfriend for several months now, and have given him oral on many occasions. I have worked so hard to get him to come through a blowjob and I did once, but it took about thirty minutes and hard, hard work. Lately, even with working just as hard, he can't come. I ask him what he wants and he says that I'm doing perfect and that its just hard to come this way. I feel bad because when he goes down on me, he makes me come in 5 minutes or less. I feel selfish. Basically, my question is, do any other guys have this problem? I'm getting...
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>>17204406
I dunno. I've never cum from a blowjob, but I came in pussy all the time. I just find it better, I guess.
Maybe he's like that too?
First, you need to stop blaming yourself and feel selfish. You put in all the effort you could, so you're not selfish. You were selfish if you were enjoying what you get and not try to reciprocate it. Guys have different sensitivity. How is it easy for him to cum?
Difficult, apparently. Takes him like an hour to come when he masturbates.
If my boyfriend fucked his ex the day before we got together officially, was it wrong of him or wrong of me to be upset?
We weren't officially together, but we had sex the day before and had said we wanted to be together. It was clear that the intentions were there.
>>17204348
Leave him and don't give it a second thought. Your relationship can't be salvaged and you're doomed for failure. If you got one you can get another.
It was wrong of him. If he told you he wants to be you and fucked you, sidefucking an ex tells a lot about his personality and how he manages things.
Leave him and find soneone honest and respectful.
>>17204369
>honest and respectful
>implying OP's BF isn't
Men sleep with women all the time. Doesn't mean there was any emotional backing to it. It's clearly not cheating since they weren't official either.
OP it's fine you got upset. But you should forgive him on one condition: no contact with that ex. And you're golden.
It seems like everyone in life is, living life. Everyone has their friends, experiences, memories, it feels like I'm watching life happen.
At what point can I say "I am a true X, I am good at X, or X is my niche, ask me anything about X", I feel like I'm just a pathetic nothing. Which I am, and poor at that. Living on the charity of someone else in a one bedroom apartment with five other people.
The doctor said I'm suffering from general anxiety disorder and possibly Bipolar, I always feel like I'm in a dream, I've only had...
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Comedy. Why do you think so many of the best comedians have had a lot of mental suffering? Because when you hate yourself and everything looks black, comedy can pick you up and change your day around.
I'm not saying become a comedian, but just get really into comedy. Laugh your ass off every day, you'll feel better
>>17204311
It takes 10,000 hours at a certain skill to become really good at that skill.
If you apply yourself for two hours a day, 7 days a week, that's 14 hours a week or 730 hours a year or 7,300 hours in a decade.
and that is not much at all. Fuck you probably do more shitposting in a day than you would practicing in a week.
If a decade is too long for you, simply up the number of hours you need to work a week. You can probably do at least 30 hours+ if you really wanted too, which is the 10k...
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>>17204327
Nigga it's 1000 hours. 10,000 hours is like 417 days worth of time. No one spends that kind of time doing something.
What are some good ideas for dating site usernames?
HUNGdudeInCali
Sirloin69
Here are my shitty brainstorms:
>redhead hunter
>snazzy&jazzy
>vocab brocab
>6 million jews
>entrepreneur_guy420
I don't like sexual humour. It's just creepy and awkward.
There's some people who make sexual jokes way too much. How do I tell them I want them to tone it down without seeming like a prude?
By the way I'm a guy ;)
A bi guy ;))
>>17204142
epic
Grow a pair.
Posted this earlier but got caught at work and it 404d.
Just broke up with gf of 5 years and I'm fucking dreading being single.
I dont get depressed or shit, there's people a lot worse off than me I get that.
I'm so used to my routine and all I can remember about being single is being lonely and going out with mates all the time.
Any tips to keep myself occupied or how to bounce back?
Bit of background:
Was a totally clean breakup, both still friends. Things got stale after a while and we both agreed it would be best to break up.
She's within my extended group of friends (that's how we met) so I'm inevitably going to see her out so I'm glad it's still pleasant, but have no interest in being in a relationship with her.
I work 9-6 but used to see her 2/3 times during the week in the evening and used to be together all weekend (unless either of us went out with work/friends.)
I'm going from being with someone...
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>>17204094
>clean breakup, aka still friends.
have fun with this. imo the worst method to break up. in a few days/weeks/months you will want to have her back b/c the reason why you broke up will be forgotten by you, but not the female partner. at this time she will already have a new dick (bigger then yours).
try to get her back until you or she break up in a big fight (unloyalty is a good reason). you will hate her and get over it much sooner and easier.
or try to find as soon...
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>>17204267
I'm good with people and my job keeps me busy enough but this was my biggest fear...
We totally lost interest in eachother and desu the only reason I didn't break it off earlier is I was scared of being single.
Is it really that bad?
>boyfriend wakes me up at 9:30am
>says we have to run errands and leave now
>getting annoyed and douchey when I don't wake up right away
>acts like I'm being a child for being groggy and not in the mood to immediately get up and do that
>whatever, get up, get shit together
>be ready
>been sitting here for 20 minutes while he makes phone calls and scrolls...
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>>17204069
How fucking hard can it be to get up at 9:30 you lazy cunt? Just tell him to get his shit sorted before he has a go at you for sleeping in.
>>17204092
This.
Not exactly hard you lazy bastard
>>17204069
Your boyfriend sounds like a douche.
Here's a question to break from the usual melodramatic post. What board should I try to use? Besides /b/. It's cancer.
Whatever board is about something you're interested in.
>>17203929
right now im mostly on /r9k/
Much appreciated anons.
