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Is it normal that my dad is flirting with me?
Well i'm a gay guy 19 years old, he's been doing it since i was 16, It makes me really uncomfortable to be around him, i can't even eat dinner with him. But i mean dads do that with their daughters right?
Maybe i should mention that he has a alcohol problem/addition that he's had for years. He drinks daily and is often drunk on weekdays, but he works everyday. I read somewhere that alcoholism can lead to ''dangerous flirting''
All in all what i want to know is if it's normal?
>>17208592
You should let him hit that, as he has been understanding. Be a good son! Hell, he'll probably just take it anyway, if he is stronger than you.
Seriously though, I wouldn't stress it, as it is normal, if disconcerting, behavior. To a point.
>>17208601
wtf
no its not
Pic not really related but I could use the advice.
My GF has gotten really over sensitive and obsessed with me. This relationship has gotten way too paternal, she called me 2 minutes after leaving my apartment in tears crying about how she missed me. What're my options here? How do I approach her about it or let her down easy if I have to?
>>17208569
Sit her down and explain how you're feeling.
Tell her that it's cute that she wants to be around you all the time, but you need your own space.
See how she handles it.
Is there anything going on in her life that might have caused her to act like this?
>>17208590
She still lives with her parents (she's 21) but her mother acts like a tyrant. She's allowed to see me once a week for four hours that day. The rest of the time she wants my attention whenever she can get it. Thinks if I have free time I should use it skyping her. She doesn't really have to many friends besides myself and she doesn't really ever leave her house because her bitch mother won't let her
>>17208569
she seems very insecure, being without you probably gives her tons of anxiety. She should go to a therapist because she probably feels anxious in many parts of her life. Dating someone with anxiety is difficult because you will have to reassure her a lot, but if you really care for her and can take this on it is worth standing by her as long as she makes the effort to improve her behavior. Just avoid enabling her, if she gets scared and starts taking away your free time do not reward the behavior by complying with demands, just say no. Saying no to her demands will get her more comfortable with being scared and she will eventually calm down in the face of anxiety with time.
What do I do if I literally sweat from my armpits all day long. It depends on my mood but I'm always depressed and anxious. I literally can't do anything or go anywhere because every time I lift up my arm I feel a cold shock when I put it back down. I mean I felt great today and then I almost ran a stop sign and all of a sudden i kept sweating. I remember one time I had sex and felt really relaxed and good I didn't sweat all day the next day. Once I start sweating I get more anxious about it and I just start stressing and it makes me sweat more. I literally can't...
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Sounds like it's probably just an anxiety issue if there's no problem when you're feeling chill. Maybe talk to a doctor. Hit the problem at the source, don't treat the symptom.
You may have hyperhidrosis. If you go to a dermatologist they can help you control it. Im sure the anxiety you have doesn't help it either though.
cauterize armpits with a hot iron
or just go to the doctor
I was in the bus, a girl was sitting next to me and we never talked because we don't know each other, in the moment she stands up to get down the bus, she gives me a paper with her number, that's badass.
I need something funny to tell her, I was thinking of something like "You're the first girl that gives me her number without asking for it first" Idk, something that could give her a good smile.
>>17208449
Trying to say something clever could backfire and make you look silly, it's a lot safer to just be a normal person and tell her that you think she's incredible.
If the pick is related consider the following.
I want to ram my dick in your ass and pull it out your mouth.
Or you could say hi.
>>17208458
>>17208449
Please for the love of god do not tell her you think she is incredible. That is the most autistic thing I've ever fucking heard in my whole life.
Any advice on keeping a convo going? I know a great convo needs 2 or more active, interested participants, but im tired of sitting next to someone i want to talk to and i have nothing on my mind. I also kno trying to force a convo just to clear the awkward silence is just as bad as no convo, but fuck i hate feeling like i could be really developing a connection with someone and im just stuck thinking about it instead of just being able to do it.
Am i just str8 up autistic? Introverted? Sometimes i just feel like I'm too constantly self aware and in my own head to get...
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Maybe you should be less of a fag.
If you've got nothing interesting to talk about with whomever you want to talk to maybe you're just not interesting and should shut the fuck up.
If both parties are interested in eachother a convo will happen regardless of how socially retarded you are.
Find out whatever the other person is interested in and get interested in that aswel and just bring it up. A really bad pun often helps.
Your welcome
U want it?
Obligatory: OP is a fag
I kinda feel like I'm going crazy.
A couple years ago I discovered LSD and since then I've done it probably less than a dozen times.
I have a few friends who've done LSD with me, but recently we've started drifting apart. I feel like the friends that I have now cannot empathize with my psychedelic experiences because they've never had them.
My girlfriend has never done LSD and I've been very open with her about my experiences, and she's very understanding, but part of me knows she will never truly know what I've seen.
It...
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>>17208394
Psychedelics aren't as special as you think they are.
t. former heavy drug user
Anon, as someone who has been sober from psychedelics for over a year, I can say that they have given me permanent anxiety. I got /really/ far out there this one time and died, and was awoken in a field of light and ecstasy by close friends and family of mine. It was like a near death experience.. where I saw everyone I knew around me saying that if only they could've helped me cope with my drug and alchohol abuse I might have lived. After waking up I decided it was essential to sober up. Although nobody will ever understand my experiences, it has been an important journey...
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>>17208394
I don't understand. If the experience was worthwhile for the experience itself, why do you need others to understand it?
If it has any relevance outside of the experience, then why do you struggle to portray its relevance to those around you?
2 months till wedding, something's off. She's staying all nighty with her female "friends", not coming home.
Looks like a cuck pro situation, go for asshole move and check her facebook.
Lots of gold material, she talks with her female pal that she fucks some other guy, that she's making a mistake marrying "nice guy" gamer. That his devotion is cute and lovely. Female friend says she has to fuck the guys she wants not the guys who are nice.
Save whole conversation on desktop, she will find it once she gets back.
Go to work like...
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oreover she posed a suicide threat on me through phone and I had to call police and firefighters from workplace.
Of course, all was alright at place.
So much drama, how to play it cleverly? Any ideas?
She's a liar and is only worried about her reputation and not you. Her first response shows you the type of person she is. She will try to turn things around to make it seem that you're the one doing wrong. I hate these kind of people.
Cut your losses.
