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ask away and i will give you the answer you need, but not necessarily the answer you desire. Scrolling through /adv/ has shown me people who just come to ask questions dont deserve to be answered and if you are in this thread it means you are worthy because you took the time to read other peoples problems. Ask away anons. I will give you the best/realist answers and will stay in this thread until it dies.
Should I break away from my current ambition-less relatives and attempt to move in with a friend who shares the same thought process as me and eventually get my own place or should I continue going with them.
I'll basically have a vehicle to my name and some income to contribute to their place.
I resent the people I am currently with after being around them for too long I suppose. I like nothing about them and they basically rely on the government for their income while I go out and actually earn every dollar I get.
Yes they could actually get the...
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How do I get a girlfriend?
I've been alone my entire life, thirty fucking years, and I'm getting tired.
>>17190813
Get a job or hobby
be interesting/a person of interest (if you're a wizard, you're either pretty fucked in the head or severely unlucky/inept)
make friends
find grill that seems chill and intresting/interested in you
be friends and ask her if she wants to go get food or something
see where it goes from there
repeat steps 2-6 until gif is achieve
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What does it mean if a guy texts you quality up from 9pm to 4am at night and doesn't text through the day? If he doesn't study or work?
>>17190495
He sleeps during the day?
I cant sleep at night ita 3:50 in the morning here
But idunno it means nothing people think too much about texting
>>17190501
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Hi /adv/ this might be strange,
I do not know how to start this, but I will jump right in and say I am a liar. I am extremely deceptive, I am extremely manipulative, and I am extremely, objectively, scary, to the point where I even scare myself to the point where I am thinking that therapy might be an intelligent option.
You might be asking why I am here, writing this, but it is because I do not want to be this person anymore. Over the last few years I have developed these extremely complex lying personality that it gets to the point where if I tell a truth, then I...
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I forgot to mention that behind this persona that I built, I am an extremely sweet and caring individual and a very good and mature man.
Shit... bump don't want to bother anyone though
Can you give some examples of the more elaborate lies you've told?
How do I beat such a deep-seated depression and lethargy that I hardly recognize it as such?
I mean really, I've tried just about everything that *I* can do myself, and the problem I see is that I know it has to come from within myself, but I need someone else to help bring it out.
...Somebody I can look up to, admire, aspire.
>>17194932
People who are happy have been happy their entire loves. Those people you see going out and being active are those who were in sports and clubs and had friends as children. They know how to socialize and live with other people who support each other because that's how they grew up; that's what's normal to them.
Think about how you grew up. Think about where you are in your life. You honestly think that, at this point, you're going to acquire traits and social skills that have been fostered...
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>>17194956
You just helped me though, you just gave me an insight I could have never seen in a million years by myself.
I'm not sure that helps completely, and I'd like other anons to reply, but thank you.
>>17194961
Kill yourself. No one will miss you.
This girl from the internet is coming over to netflix and chill tomorrow
I haven't beat off in like 4 days because my friend was in town and staying on my couch
should I not jack off or should I jack off like 5 times
>>17194889
>jack off like 5 times
>>17194889
Give her 7 gallons of cum anon
>nofap
>>17194894
she said she wants to netflix and chill, i usually wear shorts, im just gonna have a raging boner the entire time.
>have loving girlfriend but not all that attached anymore
>suddenly be social and goodlooking due to new job/working out
>have many girls hitting on me, asking for my number, asking to hangout
>want to fuck all of them but dont have it in me to cheat
has anyone been in this situation? i mean i love my girlfriend but at the same time im only 21 and still feel like i have a lot to experience, she was a slut before we were together and i didnt...
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Either cheat, or don't.
Power breeds choice.
If you love your GF, stay with her. If you're hungry and you have to choose between fastfood (sluts) or you have to wait but get mamas chistmas dinner in the end (your loving GF), the first intention of our animalistic mind is: hungry. eat. But will you feel satisfied in the end?
As long as there are no other negativ conditions with your GF, I say get hungry outside, eat at home.
Leave her and fuck at will. Or stay with her and restrain your dick.
Pick one.
Don't cheat, it's dishonest and disrespectful to everyone involved. Shows weakness of character. Your mind must control your body, not the other way around.
I kissed a married woman today. Not a peck on the cheek. A meaningful kiss.
We were at work past store hours cleaning up. Manager sent me and her to a certain section near the back to clean up and restock and such. We were laughing and messing around as we usually do. We've always been good friends and I suspected she has possibly liked me, but thought nothing of it. She has a husband, and a baby.
We were just messing around a little bit, cleaning up and making jokes. There was something she couldn't find where to put so I tried to grab it out of her...
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>>17194850
She's a slut; she sluts around.
Bang her.
>>17194856
This. You're already a shitty person for initiating it. You might as well be a shitty person with a wet dick.
Do you want to be with her? If so are you willing to break up a family for it? Is yes ask her if the kiss meant anything and go from there.
You may need to stop being friends with her if you don't want anything serious. It really depends where your priorities are.
Godspeed op
So /adv/, I need some outside opinions...
I'm apart of a club on my college campus (the president actually) and I went around speaking to classes to recruit
Fast forward a few weeks, and there's a bunch of new people one of them is this cute chick, who I find out through another one of the officers that I'm the reason she showed up (they passed this off as me being good at public speaking)
We do a few events together, and she seems to be interested in me. After one of the events, I invite her to dinner with me right afterwards and we hit it off pretty well.
I asked her out a few times afterwards, and she always said she was busy (she works 40 hours a week, so this is understandable), but she did it a few times. Finally, I basically told her: look, tell me if you're not interested because I don't want you to feel uncomfortable coming to our club anymore. She responds that I don't make her feel uncomfortable at all, and then immediately proposes next Friday after she gets off work.
/tldr/ girl genuinely interested in me, or stringing me along?
>>17194812
Ugh.. You're president of some club and you don't even understand basic human communication.
You asked her outright. She answered and reassured you, then made plans with you Friday night. Despite her busy schedule.
Sounds like you have massive insecurity issues and will fuck this up eventually anyway..
>>17194812
I don't know, women are pathological.
She may be mildly interested in you, but have other men her life.
Bang her, and forget.
Some people just suck at time management I had to deal with a similar girl. Give her a chance but know she'll be unlikely to change. If she is interested she will keep talking to you, just maybe try go more by her schedule than yours.
Would it be better for me to just sequester myself in my apartment for a year, or continue to let peoples words and opinions of me have a negative affect on my mojo in general?
I am schizo on SSI, but I will be taking online courses once I get on metro housing and have the ability to pay for them.
I like online courses myself, but I'm not sure that they should be used as a means of avoiding interaction with other people.
isolation won't do shit except give you motivation to kill yourself.
>>17194752
Don't isolate yourself, dumbass. I know it's hard to resist the urge as a schizo (schizoid myself, could say we're distant cousins, did it for 5 years until now), but don't do it.
It reduces your social skills (which are necessary for most jobs) and lowers your emotional IQ (necessary for any relationship). Also tends to make you feel useless and unnecessary, a waste of space and oxygen.
Stop caring what other people think about you. They can fuck right off with their opinions.
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