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Is it possible to just, stop having friends? It sounds retarded, but I really find myself better without friends. Like I can do more, feel better, and be happy without any friends. I do have friends, and i think they like hanging out and shit. But I really don't want to be friends with anyone, no matter how good of best friends we/they are. I know I sound like a attention seeking loser, but it's a serious question. Any ideas?
i thought this same thing and totally disconnected from my friends. it feels good for awhile but soon you just get lonely. stick with your friends man
>>17193213
It's very possible to stop having friends. Just flake on them, don't return calls. It can get a bit lonely though.
>>17193213
some people yes.
if oyu believe you can be happy iwhtout friends, take a month off. if you go through the month not feelign sad or yearning, consider keep going.
for some people its not that they dont need friends its that they need different friends.
how do u talk to people
>>17193200
Open your mouth and speak. Nice dubs.
1. walk toward person
2. but don't walk too close
3. walk just close enough
4. open mouth
5. but not too big
6. just enough
7. expel air from lungs
8. try using a known language
9. keep it cool cause you got everything under control
if you want to practice talking to strangers without making a fool out of yourself and everyone laughing at you, try going to omegle. You're anonymous there. Tho i have to warn you, there's a shit ton of perverted people out there looking for boobs and females. Just be patient enough, and you'll find a decent person.
Tip on omegle: Usuall the horny ones normally ask for your name age and location. If they don't they want someone to talk to. And dont be shy to tell them you're nervous since its anonymous. It usually starts with a hi/hello
if you get comfortable enough, you can try doing it to someone you know in social media.
Then if you get the hang of it, go irl
goodluck!
Since normie girls don't give Asian guys a chance. Where does an Asian guy go to approach girls with a higher rate of success?
Asia
>>17193180
Correction: normie girls don't give unconfident, self defeating asian guys a chance.
Cosplay at anime conventions
nice activities to do with girl when weather's bad.
she doesn't like cinema.
>>17193105
Hide and seek
Checkers
Duck, duck goose
Have sex
>>17193105
find out if shes into any particular shows. i know you said no cinema, but if she can find one show she likes, being able to have mini marathons of that helps.
bad weather doesnt really mean locked inside, so you can always go for a walk in the rain, thats pretty romantic, eh?
or go out and get some hot coffee or hot coacoa at a coffee shop.
or go to any local events of course, or just out to eat.
if you can draw, do somethign cheesy and ask her to model while you draw her, etc.
My pits sweat. All the fucking time.
I'm healthy, I'm /fit/, wear breathable clothes, bath regularly, but no matter what, no matter the temperature, even when I'm fucking naked, My armpits leak uncontrollably.
What do? I've tried shit loads of different deoderants
Are you going for the dry deodorants? Stay away from the gel or spray on stuff
>>17193110
I've tried all of the above, the spray is the worst but the other two don't seem to be much different.
I have heard it is possible to have your sweat gland removed from the armpit if they produce excessive sweat. I do not know your exact situation but it is possible for sweating to be so excessive that it becomes a serious medical condition.
How do you kill time while having your life indefinitely on hold over matters you have no real power over?
I can't date, I can't really travel, I have a shitty 3-shift job I go every day that keeps me from doing regular hobbies/socialising. All I need to do is to remain calm, not lose my shit and not kill myself, and it's getting hard.
>>17193070
>i cant date
why?
>3shift job i go to every day
>need to kill time
what?
more context about your situation would be nice
>>17193070
read classic books
shit that you shouldve read in high school or college to culture you to the level of the average (pseudo)-intellectual
either that or become an amateur film buff and watch all the great films of the last 50 years and make it a ritual to go to the cinema once a week
>>17193080
My condition drops me so low on dating ranks that I literally could not stomach settling for someone who'd settle for me. I'm not worth anyone worth dating, so there is no point to bother.
I work 8 hours per day. Sometimes it's from 6 am to 2 pm, from 2 pm to 10 pm, or 10 pm to 6 am. save for sometimes humbly requesting having some specific day in particular free, I have no power to decide which shift I am assigned to.
Other than that, I sleep for eight hours.
That still leaves...
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Hey Adv recently i've made peace with my BPD ex and I can say we are sorta friends now? but she keeps on telling me that she's getting married soon to her bf and I keep telling her that's good with a plain reaction. she also told me she's going to a psychiatrist soon I told her she had BPD like two years ago so hopefully she means it.
I've only known her to be BPD does anyone else have experience with BPD women to tell me what her game is and if she is what to do next
Why the fuck does it matter to you what she does next? You sound like you're still in love with this bitch. I think the problem is with you, you gotta let go, this bitch is getting married and you're still trying to figure out her problems. Move on
>>17193066
yes those of us who've experienced BPD relationships have trauma so I'm just trying to get answers to her behavior
>>17193066
What he said.
Hey /adv/
It's the first tie I come to this board of 4chin
I'd just like to have some advices on how to get my f to try anal? She isn't into it at all and don't even want to consider it
Let her fuck your ass with a strap-on, then she will realize it's not bad.
>>17193055
if you really want to ease her into it start with fingering and eating her ass. dont ask for permission to finger just do it while you are eating her pussy and fucking her from behind. >remember to stop it if she tells you to stop ou pervert
Ask her what her fantasies are. Offer to fulfill her fantasy if she fulfills yours. Increase your offer until she accepts or until you give up. Does she dreams of fucking a boy in the ass with a strap on? Offer yourself as volunteer in exchange of getting to tap her booty. A relationship is all about proper negotiation and mutual pleasure.
Is it true that if I have not had sex by the age of 20 im a peice of shit? And Im this day and age is it just me or do men have to live up to women now?
Every from of social interacting has turned into a judgement fest, or maybe im just a peice of naive trash.
It's not just you. Pussy is about $150 a barrel right now. Work on yourself.
>>17193034
I'm 21 and a virgin, and I'm not a piece of shit (at least in my opinion) so no.
And yes "judgement fest" is a good way to describe quite a lot of social interaction. Personally I solve that by simply not participating in it.
Remember that you can't change other people, but you always have the choice to do whatever you damn well please.
>>17193034
No op its fine
I turned in my v-card two nights ago and since then it has be the absolute only thing I've been able to think about. My question is when can I expect my brain to return to normal? Don't get me wrong, it's good to mentally relive the moments when I gave her orgasms, but it's like eating cake - I don't wanna do it ALL the time!
>>17192976
grats dude. all in all it is not that important. stop putting it on a pedestal and you'll go back to normal
how old are you
i need a fuel pump for a 89 Toyota,2.4L 4 cylinder ,engine is a 22RE
Preferibly cheap.
>>17192928
I don't know but if you ask on /o/ I am sure somebody will know there
>>>/o/
br/o/ here. try rock auto or a junk yard. or find a part number and just search Google for the cheapest place with your part
>Ask a girl out during the semester (In grade school)
>She says, "Naw."
>Go soft no contact
>Month later on summer break
>Sends me 7 Snaps a day
>Says she is going to come up and visit me the last week of July
>Says shes living alone next semester so I can come over and watch movie
>Ask if I wanted a +1 to my sisters...
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>>17192900
In grad school
Ask her out again. That's it. Ask her out. Don't assume she is playing games, don't assume you also need to play games, go straight to the point and say exactly what is on your mind. Something like this:
>oh hi!
>It's nice to see
>I'd love to ask you out again
>There is a [INSERT DATE SUGGESTION] happening this weekend
>Would you be interested in a date this time or are you just contacting me to...
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More common than you think. Asking her out got her thinking about you, then moving on with your life with zero fucks given made you attractive.
About a year ago a sucked a dude's dick and just recently I've started to get a mild burning on the tip of my penis. Is it possible that I have an STD and the symptoms are only just showing? Tried to Google but if you type anything about sexual health then it suggests you have HIV.
Oh yeah and I've had no other sexual encounter since then.
Maybe you have HIV
how about going to a doctor? did you get checked after sucking dick?
i have this rich asshole "friend" that always brag about his expensive stuff. To be frank, he really doesnt buy them. He's in a rich family so he makes his mom buy him stuff. He recently got a car and annoying the hell off me and my friends. Idk why other people see that he's fucking annoying. Im fucking close to wreck is car. Should i talk to him about it or should i just wreck his car. or both
Spray on the car that I'm a useless mama's boy with fluorescent paint.
>>17192783
doesn't sound like he is a friend at all. why do you care? wrecking his car probably will not teach him a lesson.
he will learn when he loses his support one day.
that spray paint is a good idea. Id probably do that. I wanna wreck some windshields while im at it
....and slash tires
As for teaching a lesson, yeah, he's a bit of a moron to be honest. I bet he wont survive in the real world. Still, i wanna blow steam off him if you get what im saying. He doesn't deserve half of the shit he has.
Im a 3d animation student and can barely afford a pc/laptop which i really need for school/work. But him, a fucking fast pc, and just plays minecraft nd shit(not talking shit about mc players here just so to clear). I would...
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Why do you give advice on/adv/ anons and anonettes?
Coming up with some of the answers is a nice exercise in introspection and raises social IQ.
>>17192773
I like to help people, and I can't do it in real life because all the people around me (med school) are normal and well-adjusted and don't need any help.
Makes you think
