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Should you cheat? Why would you cheat?
> inb4 22
> inb4 never cheated
> inb4 having gf that have cheated me first year
I can cheat on my gf any time I want to, only reason is I do love her, not that I don't. I've given everything I could give her. Even doing surprises she knows how to ruin them.
She is leaving to work out side of the country and she seems so cold no emotions showing that it will be hard. It bothers me.
once you cheat you can't go back anon, you will be no better than the person who cheated on you. I have friends who have been cheated on and it destroyed them and they start an ugly cycle of cheating on their next partners. Tell her how you're feeling anon and if it comes down to it and you still want to cheat dump your gf.
Almost cheated on my girlfriend yesterday, but then when it became an actual possibility I started feeling like shit and stopped.
Yeah sometimes when I can't think of the answer and I know I'm not gonna be able to get the question right, I consider looking at my classmate's test, but I just can't bring myself to do it. I probably haven't cheated since elementary school. I would at least try guessing the answer first as opposed to cheating
About half an hour ago mom came home from work crying, stormed straight into her room and won't open the door, I have bashed at the door trying to talk to her but she just says I love you and I hear her crying.
My father isn't answering my calls or texts and is always home before her, I called his work and he left at mid day. I have a feeling this is connected to him but I don't know how ;-;.
I'm seriously thinking about knocking the door down, it's only a crappy interior door and I'm really worried about her being alone.
doors can be replaced so smash through that fucker and give your mom a hug
I would at the very least not leave the door, talk to her.
make her food
> i like this girl
> she's across the country but i have met up with her before
> we share a common interest, both are musicians and make the same genre of music
> she has flirted with me before
> nice girl, cute, good sense of humor
> my FRIEND lives in another state from both of us
She tell me tonight she has a crush on my FRIEND. She asked if I could keep it a secret....
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You're an idiot because you didn't tell her you liked her or ask her out. She thought you weren't interested and felt like she could confide in you as a friend.Literally no reason to get butthurt at someone because they can't read your mind. I bet you didn't even tell her why you're bothered
>>17191406
You aren't attractive or just not her type. You're angry because she hurt your self esteem by not reciprocating your actions. Don't show your jealousy or hurt. Just slowly phase her out of your life without being a dick to her.
Your goal is to eventually not care about her or who she likes. Let the friendship fizzle and die out.
>>17191414
"hurr durr im a stupid caveman fuck who assumes". rage more at your own issues. I told her plenty of times, she gave me mixed responses but none were negative
>>17191418
sounds about right. I'm sure she'll hit me up in the next few days and wonder why she's getting no response
I used to be the happieist go lucky person in the world, very charismatic.
After a few friends killed themselves, break ups etc. I became the most bitter cynical, insufferable person. I don't have much excitement for anything aside from music SOMETIMES, im a musician and i'm in bands, but my excitement is fleeting even for my number one passion. Im often told, go for a walk on the beach, go try new things, meditate, exercise. However I just can't get excited about anything. I've been through every anti depressant in the book and have been through therapy.
My...
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>>17191259
bump
>>17191259
eh, well pick a hobby I guess, I read novels, at least that keeps you from killing yourself, do it for 23 days, could be painting or art, someone crazy enough might buy it, I do not k now, try new things, that's what I've been doing, it's hard, but you never know future is unknown to all.
>>17191286
true true, i have a hobby. Been a musician since i was 4. Andn thats kinda my problem i dont see much for the future. Can't get stoked on it. You work then you die. Thats okay, but I'd like to at least have some happy instead of existential cynicism
So /adv/ let's have a talk.
I recently got out of a relationship that lasted just over 2 years, and while I was the one that ended it I felt heartbroken for a while. I'm now in a new relationship that has been going on for 2 weeks or so, she's nice we get along and we connect really well. However, I fear that feeling of heartbreak and it's stopping me from showing as much affection as i'd like to show for her.
Does anyone have any similar situations / advice? It'd be much appreciated.
>>17191073
Bang her in the ass.
>You'll thank me later.
>>17191073
Yeah, I think a lot of people have made that mistake of getting into a new relationship too soon and being emotionally distant out of fear. And if they keep up the emotionally distant act it only ends in one way: hurting the other person to the point where they become emotionally distant as well and the relationship implodes.
There are two possible fixes to this: 1 - Admit to yourself that you're not ready to jump into a new relationship because you haven't worked on yourself enough yet, and you'll...
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I appreciate the advice. Also, she is an extremely nice person, her ex keeps texting her and to my knowledge (i've seen her do this) she ignores or tells him she doesn't want to talk. However, she never really blocks him or deletes his number. Do you think this is something to be concerned about?
I've been thinking of dumping my girlfriend, I'm 20 and we've been together for 3 years now.
I live at my mom's house, she sleeps here often. We have sex loudly when no one is home, as well as quietly at night if possible. There's not too much I can do about it.
Tonight she told me she didn't have a condom and she didn't want to give head, so I would have to masturbate. When we get in bed she surprises me with a condom, we start kissing.
I start kissing her and playing with her breasts, she tells me to stop because I'm...
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Yeah, you both are inexperienced doofuses.
>>17190962
Why the fuck do you live with your mom if you make 28$ and hour?
>>17190989
New job as of January and it's piss easy to save money when I'm only paying 250 a month for rent.
Do any other anons suffer from maladaptive dreaming? I literally can't go without a minute without frantically pacing around my room while blasting music or gazing into a wall just fantasizing about literally anything, from being a famous musician or porking my attractive gril worker in the ass. I've had this for as long as I can remember and I can never focus my attention on basic shit like conversing or studying without iniating these thoughts. Ffs I can barely go through writing this post without relapsing into these autist thoughts. Only discovered theres actually...
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Sounds like a real condition. What do the doctors say?
Yeah, it sounds as you can't control it by will, scary.
Go to doctor.
At least I succumb to dreaming spinelessly, but willfully.
>>17190963
Debating if I should go to one, desu I think they'll just chalk it up as an add like symptom and just prescribe amphetamines or some other adhd medicine (which I'm fairly certain I don't have) which idk if it'll help
I apparently shoot lots of cum. One of my girlfriends found it disgusting and a lot to clean up. She was also a clean freak. Another was somewhat intrigued because she had a large head, one that required specialty sized hats, yet I could coat her face with a single load. She also found it degrading when I'd cover her face in jizz, but seemed fascinated by body shots and when stroking me as I came.
Every woman is different so I expect a lot of answers. What do women think about guys who shoot big loads? Is it attractive? Is it a nuisance? Are they fun to watch? Do...
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get a life faggot
>>17190969
I'm curious.
>>17190956
Having cum on my body is hot but also a nuisance. It's hot, but then you gotta clean it up and that sucks. So more cum would be both more hot but also more of a nuisance afterwards. The moment would be worth it though.
They're fun as shit to watch though. One time my guy got close enough to orgasming that when he tried to take a break, he couldn't help but let a few spurts out. Then he was like "fuck it" and jerked himself off to orgasm right there. Seeing so much cum come from him,...
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I need some advice.
Well I've got a girlfriend who's sick, she's got Fibromyalgia, which is a muscle disease which gives her a lot of pain.
During our time together, I've done some bad things, I used to still be on Tinder during our relationship, just to chat, I'm a pretty lonely person and I don't have any friends.
When she found out she got mad, which is understandable, after the third time, she left. I was feeling angry and sad and I thought it over and.. well she was my first 'real' girlfriend and I wanted her...
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But I want someone I can rely on, someone I know will be there for me, on every level, emotionally, physically and financially.
I want a solid foundation as a partnership, one where we are both equals, right now I'm not feeling that.
So.. what do I do /adv/, I'm dreading talking to her about this, because she got so pissed at me for being honest.. but if I can't be honest, is the relationship worth it?
Help me out here please.
Nobody has any advice.. seriously, come on I need some help here. Please.
bumping again.
Yeah so I just got cucked by a drug dealer who killed a guy.
Women are disposable flesh socks for dick. I tried to do the understanding gender equality thing. I really did. Fuck it. Girls are sluts. I just slapped the shit out of her and the slut probably liked it the fuckign degenrate.
All of you whores just want pain and domination, so I'm going to give it to you.
>>17190837
says OP who is a 20 year old virgin neet with no social skills. come on buddy, nobody believes you.
>>17190837
Whoa guys watch out! This dude is edgy as fuck! He deals with drugs and strung out whores. This guy is real and edgy. Let's not question him!
>>17190837
Ignore the haters OP, they're either cucks, or bitches trying to justify a system that gives them an unfair advantage over you and lets them ride the penis carousel for free. They can't know what you've been put through, nor do they care. They will never understand of feel justice from words...
There's only one thing left for you to do
Is it honorable to die for ones country?
Do people still even care about honor?
>>17190796
>Is it honorable to die for ones country?
If you believe in what you're fighting for.
>Do people still even care about honor?
I do, I imagine I'm not the only one.
>>17190796
Is your country Israel?
>>17190810
Israel is a based country. Anyone who says otherwise is a sjw or a terrorist sympathizer.
I really want new friends because I'm in a new place but I'm kinda weird and Im an adult now I'm a bit shy and i don't really know how to play sports and everyone seems adverse to me its been a couple months and I'm still pretty lonely and now I'm broke i like to skateboard but it seems like only kids do that I'm just generally confused wut do
>>17190722
You're a man child.
Grow up and stop being a pussy
>>17190724
uh that doesn't really help.
>>17190722
where do you live?
Hey guys, I come to you today with x options. I know I'm going to double major so don't even tell me not to. I've been thinking about this long and hard, and I'm really close to coming to a hard conclusion, just want to bounce some shit off weirdos on 4chan first (jk senpai).
>Math and Physics
Likely would minor in philosphy, economics or computer science. I want a computer science type job, but want a broader education than just CS.. I think math and physics are most interesting, and I've heard many times over...
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Some reasons to avoid CS:
> market is over-saturated
> out-sourcing
> tough job, a lot of people (seem) to be dissatisfied with it
Could still be worth it though if you really like computers. More advice is needed, my words aren't nearly good enough on their own.
Major in sucking dick
>>17190697
Thanks for the response.
>market oversaturate
I know there's a lot of CS majors, but I think a lot of them are retards who got into the field because they "like video games", and things like that.
>outsourcing
when pajeet codes, it breaks. People have been claiming outsourcing will happen for years now but they still keep going back to college educated coders.
Just what I hear, I used to have the same feelings.
And...
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My girlfriend just texted me and said she had plans to hang out with someone she works with - as far as I know, that means getting coffee or something along those lines. If I remember correctly, the person she's hanging out with is a guy from her work that has asked her to hang out a few times before. He knows she has a boyfriend, and I told her once before that I'm not totally comfortable with it. She asked if I was okay with it, but I'm not really sure what to say. These kinds of things worry me, because in the past they've never turned out well.
>>17190671
Tell her you're not comfortable with it, which is the truth. She can either respect that or ignore it. Her decision will show you how important she considers your relationship.
>>17190671
>She asked if I was okay with it
That's her way of avoiding guilt should something happen. B-but you said it was okay. It's not my fault. I wove you. And if you say no then you look insecure. It's a lose lose.
>>17190688
>It's a lose lose
Yeah this is mainly what I'm thinking. And it's a triple lose because I already told her a while back that I didn't feel comfortable with her hanging out with this dude.
Hey /adv/, took a girl on a date yesterday and I'd rather not go out with her again. She was pretty nice, but the date was felt awkward and I didn't feel much romantic or sexual attraction.
She seemed to enjoy the date, but I'm not sure if she was just being nice. It's possible she also felt the lack of attraction, but I can't be sure.
My question is this:
> How do I communicate my lack of interest in going on another date?
I know that I could probably just stop texting her but that feels cowardly...
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Bump?
I passed some time helping out one of the other folks in the catalog.
If she asks to go out again, just be like
"Though I really enjoyed talking with you & we had a lot in common, I felt like there wasn't much of a spark"
Best to be straightforward
>>17190800
Its simple
Hey xx, im sorry but i dont think this works out.
