>>17189033
What is the problem at hand?

>>17189037
I need a sex change.

I've been needing one for eight years and they've figured I can't be in any particular hurry.

>>17189064
see a psychiatrist about you wanting a sex change. Transsexual is not normal and it never will be. You should not be feeling the need to be a different sex then what you are and it's clear you have mental health issues.
inb4 tumblr bait

>>17188995
Get a hotel, you don't want a hooker to know your address.

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>>17189031
or go to them? what would be the disadvantages?

>>17188995
>pros/cons?
Getting a pro is better than getting a con

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You think that's bad? My 28th birthday was yesterday. I worked and went home and did nothing out of the ordinary, alone.

At least you girlfriend actually likes you unlike some of the other posts hahahaha.

Go somewhere fun. An arcade, amusement park, poo, the beachl, rollerblading rink, mini golf, bowling, fishing. Somewhere you really enjoy spending time with her that's more interactive than a movie. Follow it up with somewhere to get lunch or dinner, whatever meal you'll be out for.

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Behind closed doors they enjoy hurting me and bringing me down, they laugh at me and tell me they wouldn't care if I died and they think rape and abuse is hilarious. They act as if their friends coud not live without them and clearly have narcisstic traits.

I don't know how to approach anyone about it because they've already done such a good job over our relationship with taking precautions by painting me to be the crazy one.

But here I have all this wonderful proof that I'm not, do I dare use it in attempt to be free of their...
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>>17188988
First off, stay strong.
Good on you for knowing that it's time to leave this relationship. You said you have proof, go to close friends or family, show them and ask for help. You can also try to get a restraining order on your partner.
Do you live with this person? If so, pick a day where he's out of the house and collect your things and GTFO to a safe place, like your parent's house.

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Thank you for the encouragement, I'm doing my best but it's so difficult. This sadly isn't my first experience with an abusive relationship, as much as he tells his friends it's in my head and I'm lying.

I don't live with him so that's one thing. It's the people he keeps involving that's the problem. If they knew what he was doing I feel like there's a chance they would back down...but I don't know how to approach a bunch of people who would only go...
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>>17188954

Tell us deal or shit first post

I think even if you don't dump her, things seem like they are headed towards the dumpster.

She obviously is emotionally distant for a reason, possibly shes found another guy or what not... In general the balance of power or balance of investment should be male 80% - female 20%. Then as you go through the chasing and make her fall in love with you it should be around 50% - 50%. I'd wager, a healthy relationship should always have the female as the more invested one, so maybe around 35%-45% male investment, with the rest as female investment.

From what...
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You both seem young and dumb, she seems to not even know what she wants and you seem inexperiented with women

This is not going anywhere

Playing with toys means you aren't a man

>>17188957
Playing with miniature giant robots is compatible with being a man.

And model trains and trucks.

why the fuck would you want to play with toys? that sounds boring as fuck.

i don't give a fuck about being 'a real man', we don't need that shit, but i just don't get people obsessing over their childhood. Becoming a grown up is so very exciting, and it's something i've been waiting for through some of my childhood and certainly through puberty and my teens. fuck playing with toys

>>17188753
Pic not related. Although she is hot.

>>17188753
How hard is to get into Canada being a lawyer from another country ? I'm guessing you have to get some sort of license to practice law in Canada, right? Do you know if there's any process to get this license for foreign lawyers? I'm really thinking about fucking off my country and Canada seems nice.

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I'm no immigration expert, but I believe that "lawyer" isn't an occupation /profession which gives one an advantage to come to Canada.

Once you're here you'd have to check with the provincial law society. If you're law degree is recognized as valid in Canada then you should be able to do the "bar admissions" program and write the exams to get a license in your new province.

Canada is nice, I think. But to practise you need a license from your provincial Law...
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Are you in college?

>>17188785
No.

>>17188741
I don't get the question. What don't you know how to do? Get some income, look for a vacant apartment, tell your mom, rent a truck, get some friends to help you move your shit, and go.

>>17188725
Gotta move on, ese. Forgive her, but don't fall for her moves again.

She will definitely try to be in your life again when she relizes her mistake and its up to you to accept her or not.

Peace be upon you, brother

>>17188739
Yeah. But she feels like the "One," or whatever.

>>17188784
And I've dated quite a few girls.

>few weeks
>easily

U wut nigga.

Drop it like it's hot.

>>17188773
What would you call it then? She said she didn't even love him or enjoy having sex with him, yet she still did it several times.

>>17188557
>I don't think she's intentionally gaslighting me; she was in a long-term relationship (before we met) that ended disastrously, primarily because of her ex's alcoholism, so she's super sensitive to the issue. I'm not sure what I can tell her. Help please.

Point out that connection. If you're going through a quarter ounce a year you do not have a problem. That said, if something bothers a partner this much and its this small a part of your life, maybe...
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Couples' counselling, OP.
...I speak from experience. Seems like you're being rational, she needs to be able to not view the situation from the perspective of a traumatic previous relationship; most people need a therapist's guidance to change their frame of reference.

>>17188585
Couples counselling is a good idea, but OP is still trying to pitch the regular use of a controlled substance to someone who had a relationship fail due to substance abuse AND theres a kid involved. Its not like she's asking him to give up his favorite hobby, here.

>>17188531
oh and he also makes a lot
of promises he can't keep. we've been together a year and it's new behavior

????

Sounds like guilt. Either from an unkept promise or infidelity.

>bumping

Bumping again. I know there's gotta be someone out there that wants to be heard.

>>17188514
I'm not a Christian (I'm a polytheist), so I'm not sure what exactly you're looking for here. Care to explain what you want to hear?

>>17188462
people on here often give advice that works for them with out realizing that its hard for someone else to positively apply it to their life. for example people often say shit like "meh, go outside" but what the fuck does that mean? just because they can go outside and talk to people, and form social circles doesent mean everyone can. Also, people on here like to pretend they know shit with out looking into it.

what is bad advice op?

Because it's 4chan.

>>17188437
yo, same. tis the season I guess.

wake up at 6 am tomorrow and mow your lawn.

after it enrages your neighbors maybe they'll gain some understanding and realize that other people sleep too.

>>17188443
Well I think the guy that does it early as fuck is taking care of a house that no one lives in. No one is ever at the house but there's always some fucking hillbilly over there at like 8 or 9 am mowing the fuck out of the lawn for hours

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The problem isn't that people mow their lawns.

The problem is that you fly into rages that are taking over your life.

Seek professional help.