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How do I know if I am a sociopath or just a generic autistic guy?
>>17189895
If you're asking this, you're probably autistic.
>>17189895
If you're thinking about it, you're just an autist
Based on what you asked you are just 13 years old and neither of these
I think I have a problem. I'm starting to feel very obsessive about someone who's precious to me. They're my only friend in the world, and the only thing I care about anymore. I've spent a lot of my life around the wrong people, getting backstabbed and betrayed far too often. It's gotten up to the point where I keep my pool of friends small and don't even bother meeting new people, or acting as friendly as I usually would when others approach me. And whenever I don't get to spend time with this person, I feel horrible. All kinds of negative...
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>>17189885
I can't figure out what to do, so here I am. If anyone thinks they can guide me in the right direction, I'd appreciate that. I apologize in advance for this massive wall of text, and there's probably more I'll need to talk about before anyone can help me. But I'm desperate to get this pain to stop so I can spend less time being a sad sack of shit, and more time doing anything else. And uh, I don't have any friends in real life. Never really had the chance to connect with anyone like...
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I remember hating, breaking up with a clingy friend and getting jealously insane with another one (a bit romantic though).
Yeah, that, "if he didn't text me today, he must be laughing with the girl he recently added or his besties" and it was crazy. I thought 24/7 about that possibility, cut all contact, while numbing inside, because I am a hysterical bitch. That guy had a sort of "hate being alone" mindset, got upset, I regretted that heavily.
Well, I told you some unrelated shit, because I love being alone more than anything else. Talking...
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>>17189956
You bring up some good points. Thank you, I'll try my best. And I suppose childhood and family issues were some factors, when I reflect on why I'm like this. I'll tough it out and try to make myself a better person. I understand that it won't be easy and I can accept it. I'm probably still gonna cry like a bitch at night and suck at fighting anxiety, but it wouldn't feel right to just give up completely. Deep inside, I'm better than this and I know it. Even my few friends know it,...
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what would I ask my barber for in order to get this haircut?
You could just take him the picture.
>>17189873
"Gay me the fuck up, senpai."
>>17189873
He is a fuckabee
I always feel sad in the background. No matter what I'm doing, even if it's fun, it kind of just stays there and whatever I'm feeling couples with being sad. I'm still doing stuff, I finished school just recently, but I don't really feel any sense of accomplishment. The sadness just kind of stays there in background.
I saw a therapist for a year, didn't help. I even went on meds but it simply wasn't worth it and brought up other problems.
What could be a reason for feeling this way, or what's some advice that could help?
Bump because I know other anons must feel the same
>>17189860
You are likely a deep thinker, like myself.
>>17189960
Iktf bro
Are long distance relationships possible?
I really love my girlfriend, we promised each other we wouldn't break each others trust while we both go to college (we're like 5 states away) and i really want to make this work. We talked about marriage but we both agreed to do that after we finish.
I trust her not to do anything because she's always been someone who would rather sleep at home or study than party (unless her sister or friend makes her go out with them). The only thing im afraid of is that shes almost overly-friendly with strangers. When...
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Op,
This issue concerns you now fresh out of high school. After four years of college you will not be the same person. She will not be the same person. Can a long distance relationship work? Yes. In the right circumstance, however, for two horny 18 year olds? No. It will not work. You will only hurt yourself, and your girlfriend if you pursue this. If youve both decided that college is more important than marriage, maybe that should be a good indicator that your love for her it not as intense as you think that it is.
>tl:dr youre young...
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Why did you go to separate colleges?
>>17189894
Different interests and grades. obviously i wont disclose where im going , but its for astrophysics, and she wanted to do medical things.
I have never orgasmed, nor have I ever been horny. I have masturbated regularly since I was about 12, and had sex with several experienced/good men but to no avail. Why am I like this?
>>17189777
masturbating wrong is my guess. change it up. Some girls just can't cum though, so you may be one of those unfortunates.
>>17189777
Have you been in a relationship with these people. It doesnt matter how experienced you are, if you dont have time to know what a person likes and dislikes then its never going to be great.
>>17189783
People who know what they're doing can't get the job done either.
>>17189795
Only one, but that was for about 2 years so that should've been long enough.
How to get over feeling like an oddball, feel like you don't belong anywhere, everyone is out of your league? And that people talk with me only out of politeness?
How do you fix it?
I hate bothering people, and I feel like I do and I waste their time.
>>17189776
I know this FUCKING feel. OP of >>17186275 here.
One solution is to find someone that seems to appreciate you strangeness. Made some progress on that today, actually.
Another is to embrace it. Watch movies. See the freak characters that go around making everyone uncomfortable on purpose and enjoying it? Start doing that.
>>17189776
What specifically makes you feel like such an oddball?
a few things
>feeling like an oddball
its okay to be odd. it feels cringy to describe myself as odd, but there isnt a better word. but that being said,
>you dont belong anywhere
not true. society isn't homogenous in any way. were all different. a lot of people have one really weird thing but htey slowly introduce you to it so you dont think they are weird.
recently i met a girl off tinder, she came over to my place. in one night i let out ALL of my crazy due to a brain disorder...
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Hello /Adv/. I would appreciate any advice on where to find decent women. The culture in my city has made it really difficult to find half decent women, in regards to personality. More or less all the women i speak to dont do anything but go shopping and clubbing, im aware that good women but exist in my city but i have no idea where to find them. The women in my city look good but i cant stand talking to them.
Is one who only sees shitty people around them also shitty themselves?
>>17189773
not really. thats like saying Nietzsche was a shitty person because he critiqued Europe.
How old are you? And where do you usually talk to women? There must be some in gyms, universities, libraries. Try foreign language courses. Yoga. Or any kind of self-improving courses, which aren't a scam or sect.
Don't friends or relatives know good chicks?
Hi guys,
Sad story bla bla. So, my girlfriend of a year broke up with me almost 3 months ago and so far, it's going okay. I guess it will still be a while before I really forget her or she keeps popping up in my head.
I was just wondering how you experienced heartbreak and what you did to recover from it? Has it changed you in anything positive? Perhaps negative?
Just wanna hear some stories, honestly.
Pic related: it's how I feel like doing sometimes.
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