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Advice on how to stop gambling
Run out of money, it's for life
- Never start.
- Learn statistics.
- Learn about investing, risk etc.
Stay away from places that allow you to gamble.
If you died today, how many people do you think would come to your funeral/memorial?
>>17192293
Often ask myself that, mostly at random times. But I would advice avoiding this dumbass negativity scenario plays in your head. Just live. LIVE.
And why does it matter the number of people who come to you burial.
I don't care, I'm not an attentionwhore. I live for life not for others attention.
My family, my friends
probably around 30 people
How to make the most of fleeting youth? Should I just get absoutely hammered?
how old? occupation?
>>17192405
18
I flip burgers
have any goals if yes what are they?
I think I've become Don Jon.
I can't seem to cum when I'm with a girl, and sometimes even getting excited is kinda hard, but when I do, it's like I could go on forever. I could seriously fuck for like an hour straight and not cum. The girls always cum before me and then I just have to stop and then jerk off to porn afterwards. Yesterday I brought a girl home and we did it two times in a row and I didn't cum. Even raw, no condom, I can't cum. I don't feel much.
However, when I'm masturbating alone, I can cum in like less than...
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Try it with guys.
stop masturbating
>>17192265
Like for good? But what if the nerves are fucked up or something? How do I fix that?
What's the explanation for not feeling the inside of a vagina?
I seem to be "that guy" that every girl (not literally every girl) wants to date, they get infatuated for like a month and then leave cause it wears off and they leave.
I'm used to it now so I have my fun and move on pretty quickly, but I want something more, you know?
How do I not boring
>>17192243
Fuck.. I'm the opposite mate.
Definitely not boring, easy on the eyes and smart.
i struggle just getting to a first date.. Most of the time chicks will just stop talking to me for reason and stop replying.
Maybe I'm boring to people who can't put in the time to see into me. The few women and friends that try to understand me adore me.
Anyway, looking for proper responses to you. Maybe I can apply the reverse to myself?
Try hobbies, or find something to be passionate about. I may be a massive nerd, but without those nerdy obsessions I would be the most vanilla and boring person imaginable. Even my sense of humour is informed by my interests, which shows how integral my choices and interests are to my personality.
You would be more attractive as a complete nerd who has passion than a vanilla nobody that does nothing of interest.
Take it from a guy in a steady relationship, being someone interesting will attract someone. Being nothing attracts nothing.
>>17192253
I think it's partly cause I have weird interests. I really like politics and trolling shit, as well as really bad movies but most of it does not even interest them
my girlfriend of 18+ months just broke up. we are both in college, i am 19 and she in 20. she recently decided she wanted to graduate a year early so she will graduate in 1 year and i will graduate in 2 years. we have always kind of put the relationship on the back burner and our studies first but we have had a very happy relationship with little fighting/arguing. I am studying for med school and she is studying for law school. I love her and i know she loves me. When the relationship first started we agreed that we did not want anything too serious. the thing is after 18 months...
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Stop holding on to the past
Go smash some new pussy
I think we owe it to ourselves to at least enjoy our time together instead of just calling it quits. OR "start over" and really appreciate each other. We have never had the type of relationship conversations that we just did and i think Coupled with the pressure of the limited time we have together I think really trying to appreciate each other could make the relationship work in a long term sense opposed to just a college relationship.
so should i try to move on and just be friends with her in the future or should i keep fighting for her? (my gut tells me...
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Chasing her will only push her further away.
Get her to chase you. Cut all contact, disappear from her life.
In a few weeks she'll start to miss you and will start chasing YOU. She might even message you in five days of not hearing from you.
But you can't convince an ex to get back with you. If you do, you'll just break up again very fast. You have to get her to want you back.
Do. Not....chase...
No contact is the #1 rule of getting your ex back.
I'm scum
Best way to comit suicide?
Little bit drunk so forgive typos
>>17192177
by commiting suicide.
do it.
This board blows massive amounts of ass.
>>17192180
Look at this idiot.
I'm not saying he should kill himself, but being non-specific is the lamest attempt at humor.
It's also the lamest attempt at being helpful.
Be specific.
Got myself prescribed some Prozac. I don't think I'm depressed but should I take it?
Are you Doctor?
Why did you get it prescribed then?
>>17192205
>>17192190
I didn't. Doctor gave it to me and I never did once mention I'm depressed, just had issues sleeping. I heard Prozac or ADs really fuck you up in the long run.
Is it normal to be going grey at 22 when you're a girl? Like am I healthy?
no and probably not. Go see a doctor
>>17192161
Not normal. Something's wrong. Is this a genetic thing in your family?
>>17192161
Are you under a lot of stress? It can cause premature greying.
Look at this.
This girl has done this afew times.
What does it mean? Simply, what is the motive behind ? Some friends say i read into it too much, She says because she changes her mind, i say because shes fucking attention seeking..
>>17192149
Maybe she has some sort of anxiety problem? That doesn't read like a typical blowoff to me.
We're not mind readers, we can't tell you exactly why she's doing it. She might just change her mind, she might find something better to do, she might enjoy fucking with you, who knows.
What we can tell you is that if someone does this regularly then they're a piece of shit and you shouldn't hang out or talk with them.
>>17192149
Fucking cut that bitch off
How soon is too soon to know that you want to be with someone?
>Met a guy online
>Start talking all day everyday
>We are into the same things
>He is adorable even though he has his flaws
>Want to meet him
>He says we're exclusive
>Be still my heart
How fast is too fast? I've never felt so drawn to a person like this!
Have...
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>Have any of you anons ever gotten into something quickly? Did it work out?
ROMEO
O, let us hence; I stand on sudden haste.
FRIAR LAURENCE
Wisely and slow; they stumble that run fast.
>>17192123
This made my smile. Thanks anon.
Wouldn't running fast lead to a positive end goal faster?
>>17192082
Wait. Make sure you really know the person first. Make sure he's not an asshole who is just infatuated or is just looking for fuck
Dr. Man-the-fuck-up-and-quit-being-a-bitch is in the house. Tell me your problems and I'll tell you why it's petty and to man the fuck up and quit being a bitch.
>>17192066
So there's this asshole thinking he can give advice by being a douchebag... what do
>>17192073
That pretty shit, you don't have any real problems if some guy on the internet is the source of your woes. My advice is quit being a bitch.
i just prolapsed from anal sex wat do
i'm a software engineering student,and lately i've been working on a final year project of two other students(boy and girl from another university).
when we first talked,i was supposed to get paid 200$ for the application.but as the time went by,they asked for more and more complicated features,so the price increased a littre and they knew it.
yesterday i gave the final version of the app(more 90% done which is more than enough to validate their intership.and for a final price i asked for was 400$ (300$ for the app and 100$ are extra expenses because i used...
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Smash them. And do it hard. Don't let those fuckers get in the way of your hard earned cash. Is there a written agreement that you can lie back on as proof of the agreement you made with them?
>>17192069
there is nothing written because we are all students,but they are too dumb to understand to code i've written to make the application (JAVA,JEE),so i have more than one proof that i'm the one who did the job.besides in educational system in my country,universities don't tolerate the kind of shit-cheating they did(bringing an application made by someone else) so in all cases they will get fucked too hard
Why did you give them the rest of the app? You could of held it for ransom. I would just let them fall honestly. They knew what was coming for them if they didn't pay you. If you have not threatened them yet or blackmailed them. Don't cause that could lead to legal shit. Just get your money's worth of laughs and be on your way wiser than before.
girlfriend of 5 years dumped me for a total faggot , trying to make her regret letting me go. im19 almost 20 and my mother works at the county school system and can get me a job being a tech assistant at the middle and elementary schools for 15/hr and benefits everything but one problem my gf got me hooked on weed and the only thing that makes me feel like not a total pos is getting high so how do I stop by July -august? been smoking almost everyday for three years usually 3x + a day.. I have no friends or anyone I interact with besides my parents which is the shitty part. haven't...
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>>17192035
Join the military.
>>17192039
my dad was a navy seal (legit) whole family was in the military..
>>17192039
i only have a ged and a year and half of college . i was supposed to start classes in the fall but not sure yet
>Want to become the /ecce homo/
>The ubermench, Völkisch, "All that you can be"
>Friends are holding you back
This thread is for those that understand the concept of the greater self and have been living a Stoic life. In my experiences, I rely on asceticism and discipline to achieve my developments and attain in life. I maintain conviction and produce positive outcome for 5/7 days of the week, giving into degeneracy and tire on the crash days.
The problem...
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>>17192034
this is my life story. most people dont really give a fuck about self improvement. i assume you're young too from the sounds of your friends? im 22. once people actually start working full time, they dont rarely have time to improve themselves, especially when they have kids to look after. its hard enough to study philosophy on top of uni. The only time people really have the time is when they our around age, normally a bit younger and that is obbviously only due to the labor of their family who provides for...
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>most people cant comprehend how important self improvement is at a young age
>philosophy of slavery
One silly thing I believe in is "hereditary spiritualism" - i.e. if your ancestors were slaves you have the spirit ("spirit") of a slave. I come from a family of nobles and feel like I'm a natural leader, which gives me confidence in my abilities and nurtures my success. This is obviously not true but a nice esteem mechanism. Looking at my friends and other peers, it dwells on me that...
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>>17192094
Society HATES exceptional people, and will do anything possible to tear them down to sea level. You'll learn this more and more as your life goes on. Give up on the idea of having "friends." Your best relationships will be with business partners and collaborators.
