I'm so sorry to hear that... can't imagine what to do.

Are you referring to a terminal illness or just death in general?

Ignore it. You're not going to give a shit when you're dead either.

Rational time.

It's Tinder. She matched you. You matched her. You are both attracted to each other. This much is fact.

You talked with her. She talked with you. You both enjoyed the conversations and decided to meet. She likes your personality. This much is fact.

She likes you. This much is fact.

>>17272118
Well I know she likes me, just trying to figure out in what way is freaking me out

>I kinda lead all our conversations, she never really asks about me
>Responses to everything tend to be short "dammmmn" "lol nice" "I have geez"
>Always message her first (she tends to sleep in) because I've convinced myself if I wait for her to get to me I'll never hear from her again

I must be autistic or something. There's no way anyone normal can overthink this much

I used to play Dofus 2 with one of my girlfriends back in the day. It's pretty fun if you like RPG's plus it's got a "cute" look to it that girls usually like. It's a turn based RPG by the way which gave it extra plus points for me.

>>17272077
TF2
Girls love that game.

you could play twister and the one that loses has to drink a bottle of bleach

>>17272060
Check fb before asking maybe.

I did everytime

>>17272060
have you taught maybe they are lying to you? also, rookie mistake, always find out if they are tied before asking, unless they are obviously flirting with you in which case, fuck them

You're not going to find any cushy jobs that don't require any qualifications because they're already in high demand from other lazy shits like you. Try actually using your artistic skills and freelancing. It's not too easy to find a "freelancer needed" site for your area. What can you do?

>>17272026
From the hundreds of job threads I've read on advice, security guard (graveyard shift ) seems the best choice for you.

From what I know, you just sit around for hours on end.

You could also work reception at a small business and sketch in the downtime.

Watch this. And entry level fast food/retail/service industry work is going to the easiest work you ever find because the lack of one thing; responsibility.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CVEuPmVAb8o

your a dead man...KEK

jk..il give you a pro tip:
> buy some seeds
> bury them blow your dick
> grow some balls
> ?????
> enyoj GF and friends

>>17272019

Things like can seem like they get harder over time, but they're the furthest thing from impossible.

Believe it or not, self help books actually do help.

Even though it's not necessarily a self help book, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance has helped me a lot with shit. Puts things in a simple and optimistic perspective. You can start anywhere, that's what makes it so hard to start for some people because they're too concerned about where to start.

>>17272113

aren't girls going to see the virgin thing as a huge red flag and take off?

good stuff attracts more people.
the more people you have, the more chances you have of finding the wrong people.
more wrong people, more chances of fucking it up.
people are more likely to turn stupid than smarter and are easily influenced by the majority.
once it's fucked it's fucked.

All the good oldfags left and now it's flooded with 18-22 year olds.

>>17272018
This desu baka senpai. I can barely tolerate coming to 4chan entirely.

take saw palmetto. Stop eating food that makes you horny like chocolate and mangos.

>>17272006
the best way is to distract or exhaust yourself. are you a worhless loser that spends all his free time in front of a computer screen by any chance?

go somewhere you would never fap (backyard, the kitchen..) and and focus on things you actually like until the feeling goes away. boom.

She sounds like a bitch lmao.

>>17271995
She's also very sexually inexperienced, if that helps. She's cute, but she barely knows how to kiss, let alone do anything else. At least I know her intimacy issues aren't just confined to me - there's no way to be that bad if you're getting any sort of regular practice.

>>17272002
>being this naive.

I refuse to believe that this isn't bait, but just on the off chance that I'm wrong: consider going on dates with guys you already have some feelings for. Or do you refuse to make a move even when you've got a crush on someone?

>>17271990
Those guys don't like me back, I've failed whenever I've tried seducing them I've failed

>>17271964
It's better to be alone than to pretend you like someone who likes you.

Most men aren't going to be competent to become a husband or interesting to you, only interested in sex with you. That's just life.

>>17271955

If you're really interested in a relationship with this girl, wait it out.

If you're not, move on.

Risk and reward. Thats it.

>>17271965

She told me she got dumped three weeks ago. Could it be that in this time she warmed up to me? Because there have been subtle hints (i think, i still have a penis and could be reading it totally wrong), like "i'm going to watch the footy after my exams" while she knows nothing about it and she knows i like it.

and

"i'm going out wednesday, thursday and friday"

Fucking conflicted m8. I guess i'll wait and see

>>17271955
Dude just be open about it. Ask her basically what you asked us. Is she over it? Is she ready for something? My advice is just wait. If she friendzones you then she's not right for you and she was using you as an emotional buffer

>>17271912
Well for me, hitting rock bottom was a relief. The worst had happened so thing's couldn't get worse. Now I can only go up.

>>17271912
I watch maury, and then I'm like all good... moving on

Leave 4chan and get your life together.

>>17271876

are there any career opportunities at all ofr you in japan?

why do you want to live there? i lived there for awile and its great dont get me wrong, but do you really want to live in japan or do you want to live in some idaelized version of japan you think about due to anime and movies and other shit.

have you ever even vacationed there for more then a few days? or at all?

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>>17271881
>have you ever even vacationed there for more then a few days? or at all?

Not at all yet. I suppose I should go on a trip there some time before I make any hasty decisions.

I don't have many friends, so even being alienated there as a foreigner wouldn't bother me, I don't really hang out with people often. I love their architecture and city design. I would feel so comfy walking through places that look like pic related after a long day of work. If I get...
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>>17271899

>should vacation before i make hasty decisions

yes. and i dont mean exciting fun rush vacation, you should take an extended stay thats entirely casual there. see a little but get an actual living experience there

>i dont have many friends so wont feel alienated

no. stop. trust me, you do nto know hwat you are talking about. 'dont have many friends' and complete isolation cuz you cant truly understand anyone or anything...
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>>17271797
It's a hit or miss thing. Alot of girls use it as an ego boost, but it can work. My friend met his girl on tinder, and they've been together for 2-3 years.

You just got to say the right thing, hope you're lucky with when you say it (if she is free to talk at the time) and not wait too long to meet up. If things are going well usually in 8 or so 'back and forths', just ask to meet up.

But true, people's shallowness really comes out on those sites/apps

Op here

This applies to dating sites not fuckbook.

I get messages 24/7 on fuckbook.

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>>17271797
You sound like a turkroach.

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I'm slightly ashamed at how turned on I am by this

What about your girlfriend herself?

>>17271816
Shes very attractive, shes nerdy but not as nerdy as her friends. I love sex with her but she doesn't seem to enjoy it nearly as much as watching me