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How do you deal with trannies that show up in college.
They try to challenge facts constantly and would rather bang their heads on the wall of a problem than use proven solutions.
How do you deal with this without getting raped by other tumblrites who jump on the bangwagon?
And why do they all look so damn ugly? At least brasil and other places step it up and look the part. These fucking trannies are literally pink flamingo tier trash.
don't get involved, ignore it and move on
>>17269437
Depends how hot they are i'd deal by fucking the but you stated they're ugly so maybe i'd.stand back and watch the drama unfold
>>17269455
They are not very good looking at all.
Think of your classic transitioning hambeast with dyed hair.
Last night my girlfriend came home earlier than she ever has and caught me, naked, watching porn, and stroking it with a mask and snorkel on.
There's not really much to say at that point. She walked right past me and went into the bedroom. I quickly turned the porn off, put on some pants, and took the mask and snorkel off. Five minuets later she came out of the bedroom and asked how my day was... it was like she didn't just catch me throttling myself with a mask and snorkel on. The rest of the evening went as normal. We had baked chicken and green beans for dinner, and then watched the simpsons.
I don't really don't know what else to say. Things seem really weird though. Should I bring it up with her or will she just move on?
>>17269420
>with a mask and snorkel on
lmao
why?
She's probably into it
Don't be a fag and ask her
Then have sex
>>17269436
Seconding this. Could be a new beginning. Don't be a pussy.
>Go to a party as a lone guy.
>Some bitch comes.
>Starts to be sticky
>Respond appropriately
>After a while it turns out she does that just because she wants to check out if her boyfriend/ex is still loving her
God fucking damn it. Why do they always pick me for this bullshit? Any advices you can give me, so I wouldn't end in similar situation in the future?
Pls respond.
>>17269419
stop reeling in the first bite?
>>17269419
Collect all 7 chaos emeralds and take revenge on your enemies. Do it faggot.
I fell in love with a girl who told me when we met that she had a two years relationship with a girl and that they broke up last summer.
In the last couple of months we've became the best of friends and I don't know how to approach her and open up to her with my feelings. We spend all the time we can together, we hang out and go out every day, we've tried acid for the first time in our lives together. I don't want to destroy our friendship but I feel like there will be no better SO I could be in relationship with. She's just perfect for me.
How to go about in this situation?
this is not going to end well
just leave things the way they are and if she makes a move then you can reciprocate
it doesn't seem like there's anything to indicate that she doesn't just consider you a good friend
>it doesn't seem like there's anything to indicate that she doesn't just consider you a good friend
Based on what?
>>17269463
based on the fact that all you've said is you guys hang out a lot
you do know what friends are, right
As a kid witness my mother stab my father, I just found this out a couple of weeks ago and I'm not sure how this has effected me up until this point. So I looked into it and it can cause all types of shit storms in terms of my psychological issues. On top of that I was also sexually abused in my adoptive mother's house.
I need advice on how to overcome all the tribulations, should I just seek therapy?
>>17269374
>I just found this out a couple of weeks ago
what?
well do you even have a problem? Sounds like you just found it all out now, and it hasn't effected you. It will start to affect you when you realize some things you may do or habits you have could stem from those past transgressions in your life. Now that you have something to base your pecularities on, you should definitely go see a therapist so you can talk with someone about that stuff in a psychologically secure environment. Talking to friends and random strangers about these events in your life can lead to bad advice and making bad decisions sometimes.
>>17269390
I've had depression, threatened to blow up my school, anxiety, I was slow at communicating with others, especially my mom, I was an extremely quiet child and when faced with dilemma I would burst into tears. Other than that it's been mostly panic attacks, anxiety, depression and drug abuse.
So this chick I knew from highschool just invited me to a water park next week. I'd just created a kik when she started messaging me. I used to have a class with her a couple years back and we would occasionally talk at lunch. Last summer we texted a bit and she invited me to hang out but I pissed out and declined. During my senior year, which just ended, I might have talked to her in the halls briefly once or twice but she would always say hi anytime she saw me. I've always been confused Whether she was into me or just really nice. But I guess she must be interested to some degree right? I mean, she's been the one initiating all the conversations, the one who suggested we hang out sometimes, it's just the two of us that are going. Today she mention out of the blue that she was embarrassed of me seeing her in a bikini because she thinks she has gained some weight, does that mean anything?
I'm 18, a virgin, kind of lanky, and the only good quality that I acknowledge it's that I have good hair, and maybe average to slightly above average face. Maybe. I'm pretty awkward and am probably going to have to get some klonopin before the date just so I'm not anxious and to act as a social lubricant. I'm not going to take a lot, maybe just 1 mg.
Any advice?
Sounds like she's into you. Stop being a baby and get yourself together.
>>17269327
Yeah, you're probably right. I'm just not very confident in myself and have never had something like this happen to me before.
Bump, any other advice would be appreciated.
How do you break a REALLY shit streak of bad luck?
It's just one thing after another, first I lose my job, then my laptop breaks, then my rent goes up and I'm just like what the fuck is this why is it happening to me
Finger in the butt
>>17269309
No such thing as bad luck nigger
Events happen, some good, some bad. You just remember the bad ones more because they often have a stronger/ more noticeable effect on your life.
>>17269388
Yes but how do I stop bad things happening to me
how is it possible that Valium dosnt cure my anxiety
I took 30mg today, still have social anxiety, I just felt like id had a couple drinks of alcohol
>>17269288
there are two types of anxiety. one is physical, and one is purely psychological. the two seem to effect each other. generally treating the physical side of things is what the pills do.
it doesnt stop people from worrying it just does waht you said, makes em a little drunk.
what you think of as social anxiety might just be not wanting to socialize. or it may really be anxiety, i dont know you.
regardless of what it is it would seem to me that your only option is tackling the cause of the anxiety itself.
two years ago i was a lot like you. last saturday i was naked on stage. gotta face your fears.
>>17269288
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_dypVv0NouI
Put this on full blast and masturbate to 4k porn
>>17269300
for what purpose
>>17269298
I suppose that makes sense, I feel more relaxed but still have the self conscious thoughts regarding social situations
I live from making money out of my Patreon. Im a well known hentai/adult art artist and I live happy with it. Maybe you even visited my tumblr or website.
Two days ago I found out my gf cheated on me and had sex with someone I know. And its been horrible since then and I know the worst still has to come.
So, the question is /adv/, I cant work anymore. Other people can rely on their jobs for keeping them away from their thoughts but I just cant. I make porn, I draw dicks, tits and pussies.
It might sound strange, but I swear Im too depressed and I still have to do lot of commissions. How can I handle this?
Did you confront her?
>>17269263
Draw me some Pharah
>>17269263
Honestly? Do the work. The difference between an ametuer and a professional is they can remove their personal lives from their profession. Be a professional and honor your contract of service to these people who paid for your product. Talk to friends, get out your frustrations outside the studio but in the meantime those cartoon ass and tits aren't gonna draw themselves m8.
She was my first girlfriend and we have been together for almost ten years. We have a long story together, but some years ago I realized I probably didn't love her anymore. Maybe in our third or fourth year of marriage. I decided to ignore it since not only we are married, but we were best friends before getting married, so I deeply care about her and her feelings.
However, as time passed, things have gotten worse. I've began to be more and more distant and cold, and she realized it. We began to have discussions from time to time, and I would make promises of being a better and more attentive husband. Since I've had a background of depression, she would always forgive me. Sometimes she would raise the question of whether I still loved her, and I would always answer 'yes'.
And now all is lost. I've got the job of my dreams (in a new city, far away from our previous home), which is, however, extremely stressful and as a consequence I became so detached and cold that we've began to have discussions almost every day. Eventually, one month ago, I told her all the truth - that I wasn't sure I still loved her, that I had doubts, that this was something I was feeling for some years, but that I wanted to solve this problem with her, maybe doing some therapy, because divorce was not an option for me.
Long story short, she is now constantly talking about divorce. Today she almost left. I managed to convice her to stay with me for the next weeks until she decides what she will do. She says that now staying with me is hurting her, that our whole marriage was a mistake and a lie, that she doesn't want to ever see me again and that I should let her go away.
What should I do? I'm 100% sure I don't love her anymore, but for her happiness, and for our families, I don't want a divorce. I feel like the most despicable human being.
>>17269209
>have loving wife
>have dream job
>piss it all away to teenage angst
shaking my damn head to be honest familia
>>17269209
You cannot be married to somebody that you do not have feelings for, and the very worst thing is to tell her that you are concerned about your feelings towards her. Your choice is to stay in a shaky, unhealthy marriage or to get a divorce.
>>17269209
I'm married, not for as long as you have been, so it feels a bit backwards for me to be giving you advice, but man, you have to have realized by now that love is at least partially a choice. Right? The 'spark' that people often are referring to when they say 'love' goes away eventually for almost everybody, but it comes back too, sometimes spontaneously, sometimes because you put real work into rekindling it.
You keep saying "I don't love her anymore," but what does that even mean?
Are you still physically attracted to her?
Does she still seem to be attracted to you? I'm assuming your sex life is pretty dry right now, because the words "I don't love you anymore" have to be the most efficient libido-killer there is, but if you hadn't been distant and disengaged for so long, do you think you'd have a healthy sex life?
Are you still best friends? Do you still enjoy her company?
What, specifically, are your complaints? Don't say "I don't know, I just don't love her anymore," that's a dodge. It's OK if your complaints are unfair, you're not culpable for how you feel, but you must have something specific.
I'm a 21 year old guy. I don't masturbate because the physical stimulation feels unsatisfying. It feels like I'm rubbing any other part of my body. When I watch porn I don't touch my dick. The act of rubbing it feels pointless and dull. What the fuck is wrong with me?
>>17269207
Nothing going find some pussy or butthole to stick your dick in. If not there is always pocket pussy.
you been watching too much porn my guy. or maybe you're rubbing your nips or something. or maybe your dick is actually made of rubber because it got cut off on accident when you were born? Don't know man.
>>17269207
I'm 27 and I've never masturbated or had sex.
I almost never watch porn either.
Welcome to the path of the wizard.
Benefits include not getting your judgement swayed by the opposite sex.
Sup advice.
The only thing I want in life is to be rich. Not millionaire rich but normal rich. Like having 150k in my bank account would be the goal. I know it sounds shallow but I already have everything else. Family, a hot gf, a job etc. I also have some ideas but I don't know how to start them. I know posting this on this website is a failure in itself but you are wise men and I know you can give me some hints.
Help a poor lad out adv.
>>17269178
Invest in water companies and property around the Great Lakes. The Resource Wars in the future are going to be fun.
Tommen Baratheon is gonna die on the last episode of Game of Thrones so bet on him in the deadpool.
>>17269178
Go to /biz/ and try to sort through the bullshit, occasionally some gems shine through there.
Lol no you don't
Do something important you loser
Only the lost and doomed proletariats want their only life goal to be rich
Help I think I might have borderline personality disorder but I'm not certain.
I'm very antisocial, whenever I get angry my mind becomes clouded with emotions, I've had 1 unsuccesful suicide attempt and I've already planned out my next attempt. I've been diagnosed with AvPD, codependancy, and MDD but I feel like there's something else fucked up about me. The next time I see my therapist is next week but idk if I'll make it.
My parents show signs and symptoms of BPD but they've never gotten a proper diagnosis so it's hard to say for sure.
I'm currently 21 trying to stay in school and working to save up so I can finally say goodbye to my crazy ass family but I'm at the end of my rope.
How fucked am i?
That's just a list of every negative trait a person can have.
Psychology is such pseudoscience bullshit. What an absolute joke.
Another self diagnosed teen... Summer is on
>>17269129
How does it feel to be perpetuating the stigma that mental health issues are fake and don't matter?
A-Am I going to get a gf?
>>17269116
not with that attitude.
>>17269128
>>17269126
why not?
>>17269116
Not necessarily. What you're doing may lead to a relationship, but generally, that's what friends do.
I have an option of banging a thicc chick, nothing serious, but I don't love her or find her particulary interesting, so I'm not sure if I should. Anon, help me out.
>>17269107
>thicc
Just how thick are we talking, nigger?
Don't do it OP, you'll get a paper cut.
Why don't you like her?
Go in safe btw. If you are still at the point where you are banging people you don't like then you need to get it out of your system.
