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>texting a qt girl over a few weeks
>we seem to like each other, we have multiple-text-long convos with each other
(This isn't the sort of thing where we met online and never actually met irl, we know each other from school, and used to hang out at lunch)
>I say we should hang out again some time, she says she likes to go to the park and a bookstore
>no actual solid plans made, but she said she'd be free next week
>think...
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Bump. Anyone?
I'm a total n00b with relationships, but even I can tell you that you should hit her up again. Hooking the fish is half the fight, reel that bitch in. Try to send a text that doesn't pressure her too much ("You still free or will our trip to the bookstore happen another time?" or something).
>>17268651
Just text her out of the blue again and ask her if she'd like to hang out
Double text is still okay, but never go beyond a triple text
So sometimes, I get some really fucked up thoughts of me killing myself or another person, for some fucking reason
I don't know but lately they've just been coming in my brain and storming in and I just feel fuckign awkward, how do I stop having such thoughts, is there something wrong with me?
>>17268638
Express them through a murder simulator game
I'd suggest picking up Dishonored or Assassin's Creed Black Flag
>>17268644
I've played assassin's creed
Will ArmA 3 Iron Front mod with firing squads work?
do you think this is ok treatment by the way or will it fuck me up even more
>>17268652
Freud would say you're sexually frustrated
I bumped into a car last night. We exchanged info and went to the police station. It was closed. Guy said he would go back in the morning. He did. The cops told him to take care of it ourselves. He wants me to pay 200$ to take care of his damage and so that he doesn't contact insurance.
I didn't see any damage but I didn't have a camera and it was dark.
Should I pay ? He wants a check but should I insist on cash?
If I contact the insurance company will they automaticly put it on my record and up my rates.
It was my fault.
I have no idea what...
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>>17268636
Stop bumping into fucking cars
Every action had an equal and opposite ect, ect.
How much damage is there to you vehicle?
>>17268636
I'd probably pay the man. It was your fault. Now you know to take photos of all car accidents in the future so no one can scam you like this. He could go smash in his tail lights and since you're already admitting fault, the insurance company would up your rates.
Pay him, it's $200, and just not that much in the long run.
Not entirely sure why you'd care all that much about how you pay him. Technically a check would be better I think so you have some kind of evidence of payment rendered.
Hey /adv/
This girl is really fucking bothering me but I don't know what to do. I'll try to keep it short:
>good friends for two years now
>she fawns over me a lot--at the very least I know she wants to keep me around because she genuinely enjoys my company
>fall for her, of course
>she leads me on, but she drops (trust me) obvious clues that she wants no relationship
>at the same time she treats me as...
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>>17268617
She may have broken the touch barrier but she'll never break that autism barrier
Bump
You'll stop being so concerned with your romantic feelings for her if you find some other girl to get romantically involved with.
I'm 21 living by myself and outside of work I dont really leave the house. I havent had friends since 12 and I really don't know what im supposed to be doing at this age outside of my job. I need general life advice anything from hygiene to social skills because I am completely ignorant.
Fuckin' hell OP. Where to even start?
>>17268549
hey man you're living on your own and working a job, you're about 10 steps ahead of most anons here.
>>17268554
Dude i will take anything like a greedy shit
>>17268557
Thats nice but i need more
Is it possible to be friends with someone who disagrees with you politically? I have a childhood friend and since we've grown up, we've had very different opinions on feminism and what not (they can come off as outright radical sjw sometimes honstly). I don't think they're a bad person and I really want to stay friends but I've had several friends before where we begin to disagree with each other on those fronts and they'd get mad at me and in some cases, even successfully manipulate me into hating myself (I'm obviously not friends with them...
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>>17268548
Leftists are a disease and should be purged
sure, people have all kinds of friends. I would never be friends with anyone I disagree with, but people do it all the time.
>>17268548
I was you a couple of years ago. Even worse. I would pick fights with any sjw I saw, fighting the good fight.
But after some point, you will realize that just like how you are prone to them trying to change your opinions, they are prone to you as well.
So first off, congrats on being a fucking idiot and posting that 4chan shit on facebook. Don't you realize that people on FB don't even get the joke? Plus, of course, its possible to avoid politics.
How do I avoid it? I simply say it....
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My family has had an exchange student for one year now, a girl of 18. I stumbled some hidden pictures on my fathers laptop, and they seem very shady. They show her sitting on the toilet and smiling nicely at the camera. I've censored her face, so you can get an impression. The question if they've been screwing each other. I can understand he is tempted, because she looks good. I know they've had the house for themselves at times, so it's not like they didn't have the opportunity.
How should I approach this? Confront them? And If it proves to...
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>>17268542
you should inform your mother, it's very possible that he's forcing her to do these things in order to stay living there.
Aaand the other bathroom pic. She seems in a good mood, though. Would she really smile that way if forced to pose for the camera?
>>17268570
>>17268542
probably your dad's side chick, it doesn't seem like forcing and if it does, well they will admit it.
>hey anon, you're hot
>H--hi
>oh what? You're cute why are you so awkward.... Bye
>see another cute girl
>decide to be direct and make a move
>introduce myself
>"lol you're a fuckboi get away from me"
>sulk home from the bar
>go on tinder
>bang...
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what are you, 12?
>>17268443
You'll pull out your dick, she'll laugh at it, stammer through the giggles "I can't believe I was worried about this, haha ^_^" and you'll be too humiliated to get hard. There's your reason.
Really, piss off, your big complaint here is that you got rejected by a whopping two girls and then got laid but you're so hot that you were expecting them to treat you better? There's folks on here who've never had sex, fucking some random girl off tinder would make their...
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You take home the cringe award
Work related issue anons. Sorry for the long read but it has me frustrated and I don't like feeling that way about work.
There's this fucking cunt who I work with and even though she works at a different site she still manages to piss off everyone who interacts with her.
She often makes mistakes and other people have to fix them in front of clients at the last minute. She's usually 'too busy' to get back to her clients and when they get through to me instead all they do is complain about her. Bad impression of the company because of her...
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>>17268416
That was a funny rant op, alas you'll have to go higher up to make sure she doesn't fuck anything else up because if she screws up as consistently as you say then there must be some way to get rid of her through management
>>17268464
Yeah, it's a super delicate situation if I do that.
My direct superior doesn't seem to know how to handle confrontations very well.
And this woman has been with the company for well over a decade while I have for just a couple years.
In the past with other jobs I haven't been afraid to rock the boat and call people out because those jobs sucked. It never got me anywhere except hatred from upper management. This job however.. Apart from this bitch.. I really like it.
A small part of me wants...
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>>17268416
pro tip.
Keep playing catcher for problem droppers. They blame the catcher not the dropper.
I fantasize about punching, torturing and humiliating people, it doesn't matter if they are strangers or not, i get enjoyment from it, i have never hurt anyone in real life, is there something wrong with me?
Yes, this damn picture. Newfag
>>17268408
i'm a girl and i like small animals, what's wrong with that
>>17268387
Pay a homeless dude some money to beat the shit out of him.
Expect him to retaliate though.
I kind of live in a bubble, so wanted to understand a bit more about how more normal people frame their relationships. Specifically, what do people consider 'cheating'.
My girls friend just broke up with her guy, and I personally don't get it. She was hanging out with us and a hand full of other friends last wednesday, and we had some sexy fun together. The one who would later go on to break up didn't do anything but watch. Yesterday she goes to her guy in tears and says that she cheated on him at that gathering, and now they're broken up.
Is...
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No
kissing or fucking other people is cheating and she is slut for doing it to me
>>17268374
You write in a confusing way.
She did not technically cheat in any real way. Maybe she's a moral person and felt really weird about the whole thing and felt like she had "come clean" about it. Are you sure you're not leaving any thing out here OP? What is "sexy fun"? Talk like an adult not a stunted manchild please.
Help me out /adv/ice,
Should I see the Dark Web or should I get out while I still can?
I've already seen everything that can be seen above the level. and my twisted curiosity will never stop nagging me.
Pill my shit up please.
Please send help, I have no control.
>>17268289
Dark Web is overrated. Unless you really care about child pornography, drugs and hitmen, there's not really a point to go there.
What do you actually think the dark web is anon? It's literally just a bunch of websites that aren't linked to any other websites. Most of the dark web is just random garbage, and the other small percentage is just random criminal activity, and even then you almost certainly wont be able to access most of it due to the fact that people go out of their way to ensure people who don't know what they're doing can't get in. For the parts that are actually content its basically just child porn and drugs.
You sound like a teenager who's read and...
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I am so confused
Ps. bare with me
so I have known this cool girl for 5 months now and I am attracted to her both emotionally and physically...
We were in various levels of friendship we have been kissing/holding hands and acting as if we were in a relationship since day 1, but never actually were never. we simply are too busy with stuff going on with our lives, me more than her. I know she wants to be in one with me and so do I. She always complains on how I'm too busy. and I have good reasons to be 2 jobs trying to start my own business a younger brother...
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After work i chilled with her from 4 till 5:20 ish we had a few little friendly skirmishes nothing emotionally harmful (i think) (whenever we chill it's always fun and happy full of acting like we are together never a real problem.) at 7 i texted her asking what time she has work in the morning she said don't worry. from this text i can tell summing was up. I tell her I want to know if it's cool if I call her at 11, if that doesn't up her sleep. Then she gives me the time. we decide it's prob not a good idea, np maybe another time. she then texts me...
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I tell her I’ll call her, she said she doesn't want to talk. so i say ok fine and give her space. At 8:30 I pick up my friend to hang (she knows this friend and doesn't like him because he asked her out once, that’s another story I won’t get into) me my friend and my bro are all hanging it’s all good. She calls me at 10 I tell her I’m chilling with that friend can i call u back at 11 once we hang up she texts me telling me she was talking shit about me to mutual friend we met though(this guy alsos asked her out fuck me right lol, he talked down on me before)...
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Look I don’t care whether or not we work out to be honest but I am already over her but did enjoy her company she is the best kisser and we had some good sexual action, nothing too extreme but enough to keep me satisfied. I will have a free house in a few weeks and of course I want to bang this chick(she is a virgin and given me multiple signs of proof she wants me to take it), I haven’t had much if any sexual ation in the past 3 years when I lost my V-card to my last gf,not that sexualy frustrated. Obviously this girl will only give it up when she comfortable enough with me and I feel I fucked it up now.
Befor u say anything yes my 4 mistakes was 1. I should have stop texting her once she brushed the thing aside. 2. I should have not picked up the phone with my friend and give her the attention while my friend was there. 3. not have cut our bro time short because i need to call her. And 4. Not have called her at 11 in the 1st place given her space and called her today after she was done work. But shit happens
If you were me what would u do?
Thanks
I don't feel comfortable around women at all. I feel like my blackness is always readily known. I am not even "culturally" black either. I don't have thug qualities and what not.
Anyway, how can I regain confidence? I am 27 now and never had a girlfriend. Super desperate. What can I even do?
>>17268221
If it's any consolation, you being black makes women uncomfortable when you're around them too.
>>17268221
I am not black so I can't speak on that but I am pretty sure the answer lies somewhere in, "don't give a shit what you think people think and learn to love yourself."
>>17268221
Stop identifying yourself by the colour of your skin and just talk to them like a human being, that should do the trick. Anyone mature enough will judge you by your personality and relative attractiveness and not your colour.
I have in the past 5 years been aware of suffering from premature ejaculation and I have turned down a lot of good offers in that time due to that. I have been in a great relationship with such an amazing girl for about 1 month now. We haven't discussed sex yet, but we have referred to it a few times.
I think my premature ejaculation is due to the head of my penis being incredibly sensitive, so I have been looking forward to try out a pack of special condoms from Durex with the anesthetic benzocaine which should apparently numb the penis. I haven't tried them...
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It sounds like she is very understanding. Talk to her about it. Be honest and upfront. Just because you think you'll blow early, doesn't mean it needs to ruin sex for her. Just spend a good amount of time eating her out before, and if necessary afterward.
Also see your doctor, there may be something he can help re: your premature ejaculation.
>>17268233
do this OP. also have you tried jerking off before sex?
Circumcision my man, the only thing I'm worried about these days is if I'll be able to cum before I'm exhausted.
