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Alrightie so about 3 years ago I got friends for the first time in a long time. >Friend introduces me to other friends >Talk to one friend for like 2 years >Hang out irl too >Talk almost every day Life is good. >Develop feelings for friend >Ask her out >She says yes Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>17265067 >I though I was over it but now I'm relapsing. That's why the "let's just be friends" thing ever works. Not immediately after you break up. Either you try and fget back with her, or you cut all contacts and stay away from her until you get over it. If you keep trying to be friends it will just be depressing/awkward for the both of you
Hmm I guess your right in a way. It just sucks because all my other friends aren't in my timezone so for most of the day I have no one to talk to. I think I'll just wait it out until she is ready to talk again.
>>17265215 don't wait for her, don't you have any irl friends to go out with? If you keep "waiting" fo her she might never come back, and then you'd feel even worse. Try to move on.
I don't know what the fuck is going on. >period starting may 10, ends on 15. >have sex 1 time on the 28th >start bleeding the day after and ends on the 5th >now bleeding again on the 16th
The fuck just happened to my cycle? I just had sex wtf? My boyfriend is freaking out thinking he did something because I never bleed the day after we have sex... I was visiting him and this shit kinda ruined everything...
>>17265026 I'm usually on 28 days, sometimes irregular but this shit just fucks me up. If it continues I'll be living in hell. 10 days between periods is not cool.
This happened to my gf recently. It was like she just started bleeding out of nowhere less than 2 weeks after her last period. It was during sex too, which had never happened before. Sorry I can't offer you an explanation, but I can at least say I know you aren't alone in experiencing an irregular cycle
Problem is, I don't want to die. I want to live. I don't want to hurt people that love me.
I've tried so many medications, I've tried about everything, but every day is constant pain and I haven't been able to hangout with my friends in 6 months now. Last year I was perfectly healthy and in February I kept going to the ER for awful stomach pain and got diagnosed with IBS.
What should I do? For the first time in my life I think I'm genuinely scared. It feels like the walls are closing in on me.
You need to go to a gastroenterologist and find a treatment that works for you. It's also very important to keep a food diary in order to figure out what your 'trigger foods' are.
I have Crohn's disease which isn't far off from IBS. I was living in pain for years until one day it got so bad I was taken to the ER for an emergency bowel resection. That's when I was diagnosed. Since then I have found a medication that is keeping me in remission, and I am careful to avoid any of trigger foods. It is very rare that I have any flare-ups now. You... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>17264961 >You need to go to a gastroenterologist and find a treatment that works for you. I've been seeing one for months now, trust me. I'm currently on linzess which makes me shit my fucking guts out in the morning (which really doesn't help my stress considering I hate using public bathrooms.) At first it was working. It was like I never had IBS, the only side effect I was even having was diarrhea 5-6 times a day. Suddenly, it just came back. I don't know why. My GI doesn't know why. The ER doctors didn't know why. My colon just decided to get backed up again for no reason. >It's also very important to keep a food diary in order to figure out what your 'trigger foods' are. That's another thing. I can eat anything and it doesn't upset my stomach. I mean of course there are foods that I could eat that would upset anyone's stomach (eg spicy foods) but otherwise, food doesn't hurt my stomach. It's just a constant pain. It doesn't matter WHAT I eat. I've went a couple of days without eating to see if that would help. Nope. I ate very bland, safe food. Nope. I ate regularly. Nope. >Hundreds of thousands of people live with IBS - it is manageable. I understand that plenty of people have it, yet it seems like every time I try to search up advice on it, it's always people being negative. I never see any positive stories about it. The only positive thing I've ever heard about IBS was from a friend who has it. He manages it and never has flares up anymore, but he's had it his whole life whereas I've been recently diagnosed.
I'm just very scared and confused at this point. Like I said, nothing seems to help.
I'm also sorry to hear about your Crohn's, but I'm glad you're doing a lot better now.
>>17264979 Funny. Irritable Bowel Syndrome. You bring up another topic: I hate my condition because of how embarassing is. No one understands it and I've been made fun of for having it before.
For the past 5-6 months I'be tried to be a more social person and get out more. It worked well, but I had to stop going out because of college entrance exams for the last 2 month or so, and now I'm back at being cripplingly afraid of talking to people. It feels even worst than before, any advice on how to get back on track?
>>17264885 Remind yourself that you did it before, so what's there to be afraid of?! Take things in steps and just try to get back out there...forgive any setbacks, but keep trying! You're definitely not alone in feeling anxious or feeling afraid, but BEING ALONE is not much fun and you've been there, done that--what do you really have to lose?! GL!
Went to an interview for this tech support position near my house. They were they only ones that called back. They promise $11 an hour for my first month of paid training after which i'd get bumped to $12. The human resources guy said basically i'd be working 40 hours a week on call. It seems like a sham job, what's the catch? Also has anyone worked at a call center before? What's it like?
>>17264899 >>17264921 when i say 'sham job', i'm not disputing the existence of the actual job, but the labour, if any. it's supposed to be a positive thing
Guys, I do not know if I am crazy or anything, but I moved away in the last months for College, but I think I am being monitored or something. Everyday, when talking to my mother in the phone, she lets something weird slips. Last week, she knew I was sick before I told her or anything, then the other day she asked if I slept well in the only night in my life I had insomnia. Yesterday, when talking about some assholes that that live in the same place I live, she said: oh, they are annoying you and all, but they arnt bad folks, it is not like they are going around with whores... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
She also only calls to my cell when I am in my room. It is very weird, she does not know my class hours or anything. I am really desperate. Tried to find cameras on the room, look it any VNC software was installed, but nothing, and I do not know how to check my Ipad or my phone.
I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're not mentally ill. Stay with a friend/motel for a week, only answer her when no ones around and see if she picks up on it.
OP, a lot of what you're describing sounds like you might have schizophrenia. That is far more likely than your mom being a secret agent spying on you and plotting your death. I would advise you to see a psychologist.
So I really suck at conveying my emotions towards anyone in my life right now. There's something I'm afraid of and still don't know what that is. Sometimes I feel like my thoughts will lead to an argument. I'm scared to feel? Has anyone had this problem before? I can tell someone how I feel more efficiently when done on paper..but verbally I don't know how to even begin..how can I get better at this? It's taking a role on my relationship with my boyfriend and he means too much to me for me to let this go like water on the bridge.
consider writing how you feel. then redraft that, then more or less read that to him. over time you get better and need the paper less. thats how i did things for awhile.
you cannot be perfect. ou can work towards being better and writing out your feelings will help. considering you can memorize it for the most part, writing it out just helps you organize the thoughts.
its kin of like scheduling. i know theres a shitton i need to do but i cant ifgure it out til i write it down. some people are the same way with math. they need to just write it down to understand it, even if it doesnt offer anything other than a visual of what they already see in their head.
Is there another way to get laid without pretending to love a woman? I run into too many women who say "I'm not that kind of girl" "I don't do those things"
So I take them on dates, tell them I like them (even though I don't.)
Tell them they're special, help them out, drive them to places. and then..we finally have sex, and then I slowly give them less attention and move onto spending that time on another woman, and just fucking the girl that I pretended to love.
But, the last 2 girls went crazy on me when I... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>17264830 Just go use hookers everyday anon. Clearly you aren't fit enough to be a part of a family so worry about making enough to fuck hookers instead.
>I don't get it, how are people having sex lives without making women angry or pretending to love them? By being upfront about what they want. And that usually means sticking to stuff like tinder and parties where everyone is drunk.
Why are you surprised that women get angry with you when you manipulate them, are dishonest about your real motives and then dump them once you've gotten what you want? That's pretty fucking straightforward. You -were- just using the girls. You -were- being an asshole.
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There are women out there who do want things besides a sentimental relationships, be upfront about what you want.
I mean you ARE manipulating and lying to people otherwise.
And yes sometimes someone you want to shag might want to have an emotional relationship, sorry to tell you you shouldn't fuck everybody you want to fuck, it's a though world.
Anonymous Cutting someone out that you've been helping for years2016-06-17 18:05:42 Post No.17264716 [Report]
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My friend has a 6 year old son with her now recently ex bf. For the past 7 years he's been with her. He's been helping her by supporting her. She's been helping him by watching their child while he was working full time establishing his career, she has worked a few part time jobs in between those 7 years.
He says he hasn't been happy in a long time and is leaving her. She currently has no job. He's not waiting for her to get a job before he leaves since he already has a plane ticket to leave in a week. So I guess he's giving her "one... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Is that really the whole story? She did nothing to make him turn on her like that? I've seen previously nice people act heartless like this, but it's always some form of "revenge"
Does she have any family or anything that can help out? You're a really good friend for letting her stay with you when she needs help, but it doesn't really sound like she has any plans or abilities to get her own place anytime in the near future... are you really OK to just take on someone's family like this, even if it might be semi-permanent?
>>17264741 She's looking for a job and doesn't plan to stay with me for longer than several weeks.
Yeah, it's the whole story. She did nothing bad, didn't cheat on him, didn't steal from him, etc.
He said he just wasn't happy for years. That's what he told her. I've read the texts between them also. The ones she sends and he knew he sends her.
He's not doing anything bad besides helping her the smallest way he can, with the smallest amount of money. But considering... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Yeah, I mean, what would've happened if you couldn't/wouldn't take her in? He would've let his own child be homeless until a judge orders him to pay more? It's his business if he wants to break up, but you're right, for the mother of his child and HIS CHILD he could've been a lot more considerate.
Girls often seem to refer to multiple traits they are looking for in a boyfriend: >funny >driven >patient/attentive >loyal >...
Although they say this, the fact that they often fall for relationships which are (to an outsider) abusive / bound to fail / not following the above guidelines, shows that they are intrinsically very irrational. Possibly even more so than men. So if these guidelines are often empty... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
97% of women really just want a man who will step in and tell them what to do. 90% of the men who understand this, and know how to do it, are selfish jerks who know they can get more than one woman.
Most women don't really know what they want, or at least they won't honestly express it in a conversation with a man. Stop trying to appeal to their logical, sensible side. Aim for her emotional, impulsive side and you'll do a lot better. Women want to be thrilled. The checklists are meaningless
all relationships are bound to fail, stop acting like you could make a life long commitment work.
>chemistry is not clear or concrete
have you ever had chemistry? if you had you know thats as clear as it gets. there are people you are naturally interested in, for reasons you cant explain. sometimes they arent even your type or you might find them ugly in a way. often times their good looks help push that chemistry.
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Chemistry has to do with both how you are alike and how you are different, as well as some subconscious stuff that may have to do with your parents and upbringing, nationality, and even a little bit of genetic influence
I'm 24/m/usa, I graduated art school a year and a half ago and am currently living with my parents. They always told me growing up they'd pay my way to school, and I always knew I wanted to be an artist, and that finding a way to make money off it after graduation would take time, so here I am a year and a half later living in their house. I expected this to happen, and I was prepared to deal with it.
I just had a job interview go really well for a full time job at an autobody repair shop, and I could start working there in a month or so once the owner gets... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I don't know what to do. On the one hand, I really, really love the idea of living independently and being responsible for myself and so on. Every older person I know has always told me to take my younger years and be as selfish as possible, only focusing on bettering myself and my career. To never bother with getting married until I'm at least thirty, if then. Work hard now, get a good job, then relax and settle down later, etc. But on the other hand, I'd feel guilty leaving my parents to deal with my sister and their grandkids all on their own,... Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Yeah, thats what the original plan is. The job is only a 10-15 minute drive from their house, and whatever nearby apartment I can get (I've scouted a few cheap ones) will hopefully be reachable on bike, so if they really need me I'd be like 20 minutes away absolute max. I think my mom knows that, but she's still apprehensive.
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