>>17264620

i personally love office work, so as a back up job / pays the bills, its great. i don't need to live luxuriously but most office work pays me well enough. so im lucky that for me a 'real job' also happens to be what keeps me happy (Though the office i work in is a bit unique, perhaps ill like it less when i move on).

for you, have oyu considered finding a similar career path? maybe go to the camps you worked at and try to apply to be a higher up, something that pays more, less contact with...
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>>17264824
My country (the UK) doesn't really have a camp culture like North America, or even any areas of unspoiled wilderness, so jobs like park ranger are very rare. Really I'm just annoyed that I wasn't a camp counsellor every summer between 18 and 22 - there were some summers where I pretty much just lazed around doing nothing. Of course, I could look at it the other way and be grateful that I managed to have that one amazing summer, but it's still a bit bittersweet looking back on it.

I have...
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>>17264948

you can still have fun though. i mean you liked the camping atmosphere so have you considered taking all that extra money and investing all your vacation time in little camping trips, and using the weekend to jsut generally go out and explore the way you like?

perhaps saving up and moving somewhere with more of a camping scene later on?

i dont think having a steady nice job means the end of fun. i love myo ffice job and while it requires my attention theres a lot i can do.

also wont you have...
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>>17264600

She was just testing you. If you had told her that it would bother you, she'd have turned up just to piss you off or would have thrown a fit that you can't control her anymore.

>>17264606
That's the part I don't get, why would she even 'test' me when she was the one who did the dumping and supposedly doesn't give a shit about me and wanted 'time and space and blablabla usual breakup bullshit' ?

>>17264614

Because she wants to see if you're still hung up on her. It's an ego boost for her if you are. You handled it well, so don't dwell on it.

Self bump

Threats of violence are never cool, but neither is antagonizing coworkers. Generally, threats don't materialize out of nothing (especially in the workplace). What did you do?

>>17264585
>implying bullies react to the bullied
People who bully don't need to be given a reason.

>>17264542
Nobody gives a shit and neither should you, just take it and run with it.

You're a woman. Women don't have defined sexuality, they don't have defined anything.

Bi with fetishes about your fiance fucking people?

Damn, that's tough luck.
Ever tried speculating artificial insemination?

These are dark days indeed. But, everything will be fine eventually. Trust me.

>>17264539
enough kids that are dropped off at the orphanage by unloving mothers that really want to call you mommy fyi

>>17264539
thanks for your fast reply!
I tried to look for different ways, but it all ends up the same. The price is quite high since I dont really have much money to spend on.
:(
I still dont know how to deal with that. And maybe there’s nothing more left to be said. And maybe my story is over. Like who’s saving me now as I slowly drown

Calm down. Don't obsess over this. You can't help the situation by thinking this way, you can only make it worse.

But in the long run - you know you can't trust this girl. You know she isn't solid. That doesn't mean she's going to cheat on you while you're out of town, but you've seen too many red flags to really believe this'll work out between you. Every time you turn your back on her, your mind's gonna go crazy with suspicion like this. This isn't how it's supposed to be.

You should probably think about breaking up

>>17264445
I don't want to break up. When we're together it's like we're married. Very sensual and intimate.
I just want to keep my mind of things until I get back to her

>>17264490
>When we're together it's like we're married.
>Very sensual and intimate.
Pick one, you naive little twat.

seperately:
1. yes.
2. yes.
3. maybe.

altogether:
maybe.

>>17264402
>Would you go out with someone who was planning to move away, possibly as soon as 6 months from now?
Yes, if I liked them really a lot, and they weren't going to move too far away, and there was a chance to relocate closer eventually.
Otherwise, no.

>Would you date someone who is at least externally less intelligent than you, or at least less ambitious career wise than you?
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1. Where to? Chances are no because I'd just end up getting hurt and there are thousands of girls who wouldn't leave me just after I'd fallen for them.

2. No. Why would I date a dumb girl? What's in it for me? There's an implication there that I wouldn't enjoy spending time with this girl or be able to really talk to her. Sounds crap to me.

3. Sure, I wouldn't lead them on if I didn't like them. But if I thought the date would be fun and they were dtf why not? Because of my lost love?

try something like cerave or st ives elastin collagen

I tried using nivea on my face before and it made me break out a lot, these are considered non-comedogenic and they moisturize pretty well

shea butter, light amounts of coconut oil, light amounts of tea tree oil

cant lose bruh

You want to use straight up oils. Lotions and moisturizers only contain a little bit of oil, and I find it's not that effective on their own.

I use Sunday Riley oils in my nightly routine, and it took my dry skin to normal. They are expensive, but in general more expensive oils contain less filler which is a good thing.

>>17264354
GO TO A FUCKING DOCTOR.
Holy shit. You're retarded.

>>17264355
I live in Sweden where healthcare is free but it takes 48 hours to make an appointment, got on tomorrow at 8PM but that's pretty far from now.

>>17264367
>hi im coughing blood
>see you in 2 days lad

Sweden never ever

Why can't you call home and ask them to help?

>>17264270
I'll give you £20 if you suck my cock.
I'll drive up (or down) to were you are.

>>17264270
What method of transport are you going to use mate?

Just move on.

>>17264268
Yeah, no.

What would make you want your ass fucked?

You hold different points of view. Both are possible. Once a civilization is significantly better structured and thriving all around, it would be hard for others to compete. You can argue that this is due to organic dominance, but it could be because of chance as well. Chance is a big element in Darwinism, there is a randomness to it all. The very idea of survival of the fittest is fairly random - it is about a good match between environment and organism, not about which organism is objectively the strongest or healthiest.

Either way, it's less that you are logically...
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>>17264244
History was not made by dice rolls. Not to throw your words to the side but these people simply were more organized then than they are now. These were intelligent and highly sophisticated people. Could you organize an entire army and ship fleet with carrier pigeons and random peasants to spread messages?

There is no reason to understate the achievement we've made. Overhead cost being an "issue" is quite a new concept. We used to shoot for the stars.

Your views are extreme by many peoples' standards. Better that both of you found out now that you have opposing views than down the line.

You have a choice:

Wallow in self-pity and self-hatred, accepting your fate as a social pariah

or

Ask yourself how you can change the things you don't like about yourself, set goals, and make every effort to achieve them

If you're not willing to take option number 2, then expect more of the same. Just know that you have a choice, and right now you are choosing to be miserable and pathetic. You aren't an unsavable victim of society

>>17264205
>victim of society

Of course I'm not. Aside from the independence issues, which may very well be me trying to subconsciously shift blame, every single one of my problems has its source in myself. I'd have to be retarded to fail to realize it. But that's really the problem.

I don't know, maybe I'm just too weak. It all seems insurmountable, just straight up impossible to deal with alone. Every time I tried, it got overwhelming and I retreated back to where I am.

All goes to prove my point. My death would be no loss whatsoever. Just natural selection, or some shit.

>>17264227

It sounds like you've already given up. Why bother coming here for advice? You know what needs to be done, yet you refuse to do it. Nobody is going to pity you or care about you if you refuse to help yourself.

We need a little more context than that man. How do you know her? Since when? How did you ask her to go? What is your history together? Does she ever talk to you about relationship stuff - guys she likes or anything like that?

>>17264155
I've known her since 8th grade (12th grade now) I got her to go the movie when she went to a concert and said I wish you would've came with me and I said "pay me back with a movie?" And she said "I'm down" and the only really other guy talk she told me about is about how cute Ed Sheeren is like once

compliments > flirting > touching (hand, arm, shoulder) > and then maybe AT THE END a kiss

don't rush it champ it's your first date

Like you kiss your pillow

>>17264158
That doesn't really help. Never kissed a pillow before.

>>17264114
Sadly OP this is one of things you learn yourself.

We've all been there and we've all got through it.