You're a beta

>>17260222
Have you considered that you are going after this a little too aggressively? The more you pressure her the worse she feels about it. (This kind of empathy can be a little hard to employ when you are suffering from blue balls, but I suggest you try.)

Also, she might be wanting a "special" first time. So think of some way to up the special factor - and don't let on that you are trying to seduce her. Let the evening progress as normal, and just have protection and lube handy for if/when she is...
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>>17260229
>You're a beta

How so?

>>17260164
It's gamer slang. It's thoughtless, stupid, and immature, but they aren't actually trying to be malicious.

Take it from a guy who was initially very uncomfortable hearing the phrase - these guys are usually huge nerds who couldn't bring themselves to actually hurt someone else.

It doesn't make the use of the word ok by any means, but they are not actually using the word in a way with intent - it's like a replacement for the word "owned" or "powned" or many other words nerdy people tend to use to describe a devastating event in a competitive game.

I can totally understand your choice to stop watching, but maybe you can suggest that your bf uses a different word a lot and see if it rubs off on his friends.

>>17260207
Yeah, he said he would talk to his good friends - the regulars - about it. But I don't think it's fair for him to constantly have this discussion with randos during pub matches either. But it's also hard to watch. Urgh. I might only watch when he plays single player, sad as that is.

He won't achieve anything meaningful by telling them to not use that word.
Even if he convinces some of them, he will inevitably stumble on other players who also use it.


However there must be ways that he could mute the chat so that you only listen what he says.

Vibrate your fretting hand just a little bit. Not quite a bend. Just add some vibrato to that.

>But the open string!
Don't worry my child. That string will vibrate ever so slightly as well.

>>17259166
https://youtu.be/2YZ_lIpG1XQ?t=30s

That's the part of the song that this bar is from. It might be me, but I don't hear any vibrato.

the squiggle stands for arpeggio.

>>17258957
Man here. Fiance and i have been together for 9 years and engaged for 5 have 2 kids. We have not gotten married due to our daughter having and fighting cancer. My wife seems to really want to get married, but keeps flip flopping about whether we should elope at this point or try for a ceremony. She clearly wants me to make the call, but i always figured that this was a big deal to women and it does seem like a big deal to her sometimes. ITs a magical time for a woman and she wants it, but after 2 years of living...
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>>17258985
Elope, them throw a party where you invite friends & family and tell them you're married then.

>Double digit EQ/IQ anons keep posting answered in FAQ questions
If you crave attention or are incapable of understanding FAQ use social media

>I don't understand my feelings/how to change them
Use briggs-meyers test/google mental symptoms/engage in regular sports/professional activity

>I can't communicate/make important life choices with my partner
/adv/ doesn't have the context or the ability to read your partner's mind (bis)
proceed to communicating...
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>>17252870
This thread is relevant to my interests seeing as I'm 28 and still a virgin. Considering driving to Nevada and hiring a whore or trying to convince a stripper to sleep with me. Normal girls are simply out of my league.

>>17252870
It's possible to lose your virginity at almost any age without the use of hired help.

>>17252881
>how would I go about it?

I forgot to add. Put yourself out there.

finally back into austin where we snuck into mount bonnell after hours with a bottle of wine and some weed and just sat together, talking, touching, just feeling each others chemistry - it was so overwhelming and powerful. Of course the cops found us and kicked us out, we laughed it off and continued into the night. she had totally abandoned her travel partner at this point and the rest of this trip was about us. we end the night around 4am and get ready for the next day together. She greets me with the sweetest smile and touch at 9am and makes me breakfast, coffee and rolls...
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our friends were in teh garage and i went and layed on the hood of my car outside and smoked a cigarette - she came and layed next to me and smoked one as well. we said nothing to each other but the silence between us said everything. I took her home, we shared our last goodbye, and it was over. her flight was the next day and their road trip continued.

I have never felt so alive from a woman, i was married at one time and never even felt like this for my wife. We promised that we would see each other soon. Life is too unpredictable to tell whether or not we ever will, but i miss her so much now. Its the worst. I am also really happy to have experience such an intimate time together with a woman who ive never met, who totally changed my outlook and who made me realize what feeling i need from a woman to be my match. Maybe one day, we will meet again.

i feel like i need to go after this woman, i dont know what to do.

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Take her out again to a club or something, do some grinding then take her to a more private place and fuck her senseless. This is very important, you need to make her cum until she goes numb so she will have more reasons to stick with you.

>drop degree because fuck that shit
start where you went wrong

Go get that degree. Take classes somewhere

No one expects a 19 year old to have a degree

>>17261839
>My wife will be extremely unhappy if I do not get a very specific job
The fuck does she care? All she should be concerned about is whether you can provide and take care of your family. If you can get an alternative position in a different field that pays the same or more, why shouldn't she be satisfied?

>>17261839
>Getting kids
>without economic stability
u went full retard

>>17261839
>My wife will be extremely unhappy if I do not get a very specific job, which I am unlikely to get.
Would she rather you had no job than any job you can get?

If you're asking this, you probably have suspicions towards the fact. The question then being what makes you unsure whether you're good or bad?

>>17261811
Mean or bad? Your friends even knowing depends on how you act around them. Mean doesn't necessarily mean bad and bad doesn't necessarily mean you're mean.

It's hard to say whether someone is a good person or is a bad person. You have to know everything about someone and then vaguely decide whether their actions in average are generally good or bad. It's a flawed process since some people only focus on positive things and other people give more weight to negative things. You might be terrible and consider yourself a saint or you might be a saint and consider yourself terrible, for all I know.

How about this: if you met yourself, do you think you would befriend yourself? A friend is someone who generally has a positive...
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Never heard of Maslov's hierarchy bruh?

>>17261772
Go to a bar every friday and saterday night, if you see a female thats alone, buy her a drink, if she accepts talk, after some time, ask her to go to your appartment, have sex.

Well it's a little more complicated than that. It's not the lack of sex that's affecting you, but the lack of accomplishment. Basically you see sex as a necessity and you don't get it, so you're depressed. It's not only sex either, it's also the need to interact with people, to have a social and romantic life.

Obviously you can fix this in 2 ways: get a social/romantic/sex life or convince yourself you don't need one. The former is easier and there are tons of books/guides/videos on how to do it. It is doable as long as you put...
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>>17261666
Stop trying to bait me you sad sack of desu.

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I dare
Y'ALL

Now pardon me while I put on my special ceremonial sache and cap and other marvellous clobber and parade the streets to inspect the progress.

>>17261675

you are bait. you're a stone on my marvellous marble staircase the fields of dreams. Oops, is that m'lady's manure I stepped in?

Are you looking for a single word that this defines? Otherwise you've already kinda said it in your first line - being aggrieved under false pretence.

>>17261706
I'm looking for something I can type into google to get more information.

Doesn't have to be a word, can be a catchphrase, a meme, some adage, some term from "psychology", any reference

Feel free to post anything that comes to mind (but seems/feels closely related, seems relevant)

OP again. Alright, you might ask "but what's the actual problem?" you might ask. As you might have guessed I'm the dumbass to has the tendency to fall for this kind of stupid shit and later feel like an ass.

>>17261636


if it really is 'just a hobby' invest in a good engine and just make simple games.

If it's a hobby, then you shouldn't need a 'fallback plan,' that would be your main plan.

If you're good at art/cg we can team up maybe?

I'm a professional C++ programmer and /jp/er living in Japan.

Less carbs, more protein. And have a cup of coffee after lunch

>>17261634
Thanks, I'll try those things.

Is there an option to work 6hrs six days a week?

On all the retarded fictional issues some people post here about this is one of the worst.

Because you have nothing to do with it. Asuming they did not try over a longer period of time, nothing special was achieved and you probably expected it to happen anyway.

>>17261596
the media you consume seem to make you think that it is normal to give giant fucks about what happens to other peoples lifes

to be honest i think most people would just say "good for you" and invest the "proper" amount of support for the couple and thats it

most people have own lifes that need to be managed
atleast thats how i see it