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How does one approach a guy in public?
"Hey"
>>17261881
how do I keep that from just falling into an awkward silence immediately?
I've tried including a follow-up question, something with a yes or no, or very simple answer, figuring he'll carry on from there but most of the time the guy will just stare until I go away.
>>17261875
just say hey then give him a broken jaw with a baseball bat
Using mew torrent, wanting to switch, what should I use?
>>17261851
qbittorrent
i switched from utorrent to deluge
much happier with deluge
qBittorrent, but any foss alternative is acceptable, transmission or deluge stand out. Have a Google of utorrent and the MPAA and never use it again.
I have reason to believe that my professor is into me.
How do I initiate a sexual relationship?
please respond
>>17261789
>ayy bb u want sum fuk??
ask him/her "hey wanna initiate sexual relationship?"
Any advice for someone who os going to jail? I do nothing heavy like rape, murder, or drug trafic/use or gang-ish shit. Just some cyber fuckery.
The question remains:
>How to Survive Prison?
>>17261738
Watch Get Hard.
Cyber fuckery meaning....?
>>17261738
guccifer?
Subject. I'm 23 and by now I expected to be out of college and of not having a job looking for a nice job with my degree. My girlfriend I never really cared what she did obviously as long as she was happy with her life. But I'm still in school part time, work a part time job, and I haven't done or learned or really made any progress towards my dreams (want to make video games/ do art stuff), and I'm feeling pretty shitty. It's getting to the point where it's affecting ting my happiness and thus affecting my relationship. I'm out of time to...
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>>17261685
Hope is the thing that's keeping me going, just try keep working hard. At least you have dreams.
I want to be a rich engineer/entrepreneur, but I'm slow af, my discipline is lacking and my physical condition isn't perfect for this type of work either. Still I'm always working on an idea, idc anymore if it fails, idc that it's taking me forever, it's whats keeping me going. When I find out it doesn't work, I'm always searching for a product I can improve or a small business...
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>>17261741
Thanks, you're right. I guess the problem is I also have depression and adhd. It's being treated now finally this year, but it's slow going, no where near fast enough. So I don't know, I guess I just still feel hopeless and like a failure and not sure if I can even start working on things again, I've tried and my life has gone to shit countless times. It's taken a lot out of me and left me behind and alone. I just don't know how to be okay again.
FURIOSO MELODIA
I see that a lot of you guys what certain girls just to fuck. I get that we put a lot of stress on you, when we are in a relationship. But how are we supposed to know. I am most likely not going to fuck someone I don't like and then when I fuck a guy I start getting emotional feelings. Sometimes I think I should only fuck douchebags that I have nothing in common with. But I can't bring myself to do that.
How can I tell if someone is just talking to me because they want to fuck me again someday? Or if they really like me.Personally I don't want to ever get married...
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>>17261547
Cool blog post
>>17261547
Stop giving sex away to just anybody. Enter a relationship, and if they genuinely like you, they'll stick around until you're ready. Guys that are looking for sex only will try to put in a minimal amount of effort so that they can juggle a few women at a time.
>>17261547
I'm taking the bait, but
> I would like to find a fuck buddy that doesn't also want to fuck other girls and would like to hang out
You want excusivity and emotional and physical affection. That's called a relationship.
And to answer your question, if you have a personality that a guy likes, are fun to hang around with, and share interests, then they are likely going to want to hang around you. If you are getting pumped and dumped it's because...
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How can I become a psychologist? What is the next step after high school?
just be yourself
Get 8 hours of sleep every night.
Eat your vegetables so you'll grow up to be big and strong.
As a very masculine-looking gir (born with a vag), should I get Facial Feminization Surgery + Estrogen supplements?
If you can afford it sure why not?
>>17261437
That's up to you. It will make you feel better temporarily, but you probably have some form of body dysmorphia.
>>17261437
You can't afford it on a NEET's salary.
I need to pick up just one more day a week. I have experience as a line cook. Goodwill isn't hiring and most coffee stands (I live in Washington) only seem to hire girls. What do?
Become a girl.
>>17261413
Great idea!
>>17261413
go for them next day pills
Alright everyone I'm back from my quest out of NEETdom. So far I'm actually being quite productive.
I have gotten myself into a routine. Starts around 4:30am-5:00am when I wake up. I've been doing this regularly so I can prepare myself for a slew of interviews and a small workout.
Ever since following that was self-improvement NEET thread I feel I have somewhat succeeded a bit it's just that I can't seem to get a job at all. It's discouraging the fuck out of me but I want to keep going.
Anyways tl;dr how does anon get job now?
Bump?
Apply for any jobs that you can do
Make it your job to find a job
>>17261551
Also it takes a while to get a reply. Give it a month.
People always say shit like, "when its the one you will just know it". No one else will matter and etc. Is this a real feeling or are you always bound to be unsure of things?
>>17261379
If it's a real feeling, then I've felt it for about two or three girls in my life.
Honestly though, it's just a feeling we get when we're really attracted to someone. But if you're feeling doubtful, she's probably not the one. That, or you need to figure out what's the problem. Is it them? Or is it you?
>>17261379
mostly bullshit.
Fuck, I know that is the truth, but not what I wanted to hear.
I can't decide if I just get bored and cannot deal with the hard parts of relationships or if they really are just not the person I should be with.
I guess I am the only one who can answer that.
Have any of you experience any kind of spooky/ghost happenings that made you question whether you believe in supernatural things?
Last week I was lying in bed at around ten to two in the morning, and I heard what sounded like my cat walking on the counter and knocking stuff over, which made me not question it at first, before realising that my cat had died recently. I woke up my brother because I was convinced there was a burglar downstairs. We went downstairs and found no one, and came to the conclusion that it must have been a mouse or some kind of pest. We chatted for...
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I'm not sure OP.
I'm not going to share mine, but I'll bump this for you.
>>17261295
Yes, I have had a few and my family members that live in a rural community have had a lot, I believe in the supernatural but the majority of things people experience are not real occurrences.
>>17261295
mehh, ive had weird things occur but I just think its usually my imagination or just has some explanation but I don't kniow what it is. I just brush stuff off like that
So how do I text a girl and ask her out as alpha as possible, without looking like a douchebag/beta. This shit is hard, can someone help me think of something to say to this girl
alfa/beta is myth perpetrated by undereducated fools with too many hormones
>hey I really had fun talking to you the other day
>how would you feel about grabbing a cup of coffee come time?
>how about getting frozen yogurt sometime?
>asking a girl out via text like a shy little insecure coward
>appear alpha while doing so
Good luck with that.
>>17261127
Second this one.
Talk to qt3.14 for effect.
My wife and I have been married for 2 years last month. For a while now I have been into the idea of cuckolding. I watched cuckold porn for months and it was (and still is) incredibly arousing to me. I talked to several people online about it as well. I finally worked up the courage to ask my wife to do it before our anniversary. She was reluctant because she thought it would end badly but I kept pushing because I knew that I liked it and eventually she agreed.
We found a few guys online, and after finding the right one we went through with it last week. He was a very...
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For the past week I have been doing my best to clench my teeth and try to forget about it, but I can't. The way she moaned, the way she grabbed him, the way she looked at him. I cannot get it out of my head. Knowing that I actually let another man, let alone a guy who's much more masculine and attractive than myself, fuck my wife makes me sick to my stomach.. I honestly want to kill myself and it seems like the best solution right now. I genuinely can't look at myself in the mirror without feeling disgusted. The worst part is that it's completely my fault....
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>>17261101
You let your memes be your dreams, and now you're living the dream.
How does it feel to take advice from the internet?
That fucking blows, honestly man you might have to get a divorce if you can't get past it. But maybe you can talk your wife into letting you have sex with another woman in front of her to bring some kind of balance to the relationship.
Something like that happened to me a long time ago, I got drunk with my best friend and gf at the time and we ended up trying to have a threesome.I couldn't get hard because I wasn't into it at all and basically got cucked. Luckily I'm much more attractive than my friend and have a much bigger dick so knowing that softened...
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Hey, so first off - I've never owned a mac. I haven't even used a laptop for quite some time. I have a decent PC and I just need something that I could work on when I'm travelling.
I'm not a heavy user, it will probably run brackets/sublime and chrome with some music player at it peaks so I don't need a performance beast, however I would like it to last me for another year or two, still being buttery smooth.
I wanted to get myself a ThinkPad but they are harder to get used so I'm leaning towards something like 13 inch MacBook Air/Pro.
Just...
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>>17260804
I chose the 13" Air. The Pro is too heavy and the battery is drained faster.
Personally, I went for an upgraded Air. Better CPU and more RAM. That's mostly so it'll last for a few more years, though.
Resolution was never really an issue, for me.
>>17260804
Yes the 13 air is ok, did webdev on it for a couple months before switching to an iMac. The screen is kinda shitty cause it's a TN panel and it has bad viewing angle.
The 13 macbook pro retina is good too and the screen is godly. Don't even consider the non-retina one.
In both cases just don't jew out on the SSD, don't get the 128GB, 256GB ones are way faster.
I really really don't recommend a macbook of any kind if you are:
a) going to code on it
and
b) going to UPLOAD the code you have on it from a mac to elsewhere.
I am not saying it's impossible, but in the case of the tech companies that allow you to do this, they practically give you a mac designated station fitted for this purpose precisely because it's such a pita.
>work on it comfortably for an hour or two
This is going to be impossible on any laptop, just so you know. The most you can do is probably...
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