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It's the summer now. What haircut should I get?
Learn how to rotate a picture first.
Really didn't think you needed the picture rotated. How about you turn your damn head
get asepsia make up anti acne, changed my life
Is it normal that the idea of performing cunnilingus myself on a woman seems somewhat repulsive to me, yet I find the idea of penetrative (both vaginal and anal) and receptive oral sex with a woman very arousing?
I should add that I have no sexual experience apart from watching porn.
i was disgusted by it until I did it, now I love it
I think most guys are like that. I enjoy going down on my girlfriend, but it's more about making her feel good than enjoying the act itself. I don't sit around fantasizing about cunnilingus, but it's not unpleasant and I like the way she reacts
But if you're too "disgusted" to get down there and get the job done, you're not much of a lover. It doesn't have to be your favorite thing, but good sex is mutual
>>17261193
I think that's normal.
I felt the same way about dick.
tl;dr new guy at work got in trouble for something I told him to do, what's the right thing to do?
>our office has bosses and their assistants (or secretary, whatever)
>an email comes in that concerned something for next week, new guy asks me if he should text the boss to let him know
>I tell him it's probably okay to do tomorrow morning
>it wasn't
>he is getting yelled at as we speak
Should...
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Yes. If boss finds you're partly responsible and didn't owe he'll fire you.
As you should be you spineless fuck.
You should go to the boss first you ninny
>>17261223
Yes.
Fess up to your boss and the new guy.
How do i find a place to fap in the dorm?
Why can't i concentrate on anything when i'm horny and don't fap?
Don't want my roommates know i fap, i'm a virgin female.
Should i stop doing this, the only thing that arouses me now is /d/ board or batshit crazy hentai.
>>17261155
>>17261166
>>17261180
This isn't /b/, you idiot. You don't have to bump this much. Just ask your roommates to have the room to yourself for an hour, which is common practice when you're having sex with someone. Just fap to your heart's content, wait about 10, 15 min and let them know they can come back. Or do it in the showers.
>>17261205
No boyfriend ever, it'd be obvious i'm fapping.
Showers are open and all girls see what other girls do.
How to stop feeling horny?
Is reading books a good hobby to get into?
>>17261088
It is if you like solitary hobbies that won't lend themselves to discussion
>>17261088
Depends on the books. I recently started reading books, and tend to lean towards the philosophy section. I'm reading Sun Tzu's "The Art of War" and Malcolm Gladwell "Outliers" at the moment.
I think it's a good hobby, as it can help you become more well-spoken if you read books that contain the right content, as well as more educated.
>>17261097
I do it very scarcely though (30 mins-1 hour a day) as >>17261092
is right.
is 4chan an unhealthy environment/past-time?
>>17261068
Only if you allow yourself to be consumed by the hivemind. If you go on the site to pass time without giving a shit about what 95% of the people say here then it can be very productive.
>>17261075
i was expecting you to say very entertaining... how do you see visiting 4chan as productive?
>>17261129
Well, you can learn a few things.
So my SO whom I've been with almost a year this month has been silently judging my drug habits. And by drugs I mean weed, Xanax and sometimes triple c's/DXM. I told him the other day on our way back from the park that I wanted to see if his sister had Xanax to which he quietly mumbled, "you shouldn't do those anyways..". I decided not to respond and now I'm left wondering if someone would ever want me as their wife. I like to smoke pot, not smoke weed everyday type of fashion and I also like to disassociate from time to time. It doesn't control...
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>>17260994
while im turned on by the idea of dating a stoner hippie dippie type, being the breadwinner and just coming home to feel them up while they get high on the couch and watch them play video games, but realistically i dont think the relationship would work. a little too dharma and greg if you catch my drift. looking forward to a fling with a stoner but beyond that it wouldnt work for more than a couple months.
i love the smell of weed and enjoy the stereotypes if the guy is cute, but i dont smoke it myself...
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Not all men are the same. Some care, some dont.
Personally i wouldnt care until it stats to become an addiction.
>>17261005
what defines addiction though?
if your girlfriend is literally saying
>i wonder if i can score some xanax off ur sister
in casual conversation, isnt that addiction? at the very least it implies that she doesnt want to hang out with you sober.
My fwb went and got a fucking boyfriend. We spent about a year chilling with each other. She always spoke about how she didn't want relationships, because they just held her down. I wasn't in love with her, but the sex was great, and hanging out with her was fun. I almost feel like I've been robbed. I had drama free, NSA sex with a girl that was laid back, who I didn't have to worry about losing, and now some asshole has stolen that from me. I don't have the energy to pick up women, nor to maintain a relationship. I'm just so annoyed. How do I get...
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You sure you didn't love her?
>>17261001
Certain. She was just like a cool buddy who was also into wicked crazy sex. I couldn't date her. I'm just so pissed ugh.
On the other hand she might end up losing the boyfriend because she's a slut?
How can I learn to deal with my snake of an ex girlfriend (who is now my buddy's girlfriend) always hanging around with us? It pisses me off, but there's nothing I can really do about it.
If it bothers you so much stop hanging out with your buddy.
if buddy cont dating snek
then say bud no can do will not hang with if with snek
else stop hanging with bud until snek leaves
>>17260996
>>17261003
>>17260996
Easier said that done. I live with him in my college dorm, and we're both part of a friendship group. Plus, he's still my buddy despite the fact that he's dating a whore.
22 and i still cant get more than this shit
Related to testosterone levels.
Guys who get a beard earlier in life also go bald earlier in life.
If you're desperate you can eat raw onions daily and only fap every 3 weeks for 3-5x normal testosterone levels.
Issue with that is you devlove in homo hornicus
Minoxidil can help if you apply it once or twice a day, based on my experience
>>17260976
It's all genetics. Certain races are more prone to beards. Or it could just take longer. Some guys don't come in until 25.
My dad gets manipulative and gaslights me when he is angry/frustrated. I'm a college student living with dad, and I am attempting to move out when our lease ends next year. But here's the scenario:
>car broke down when i went to visit grandparents last week
>i had to wait until payday to get car fixed
>then our trusted mechanic had family emergency
>my car couldn't be fixed for a week
>borrowed car from...
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Sometimes dad's get frustrated and sometimes they take it out on their children. He may not be specifically mad at you, but youre the only one there.
You just gotta show him you're not a doormat he can step all over when shit gets rough
>>17261095
And how do I not be a doormat. Honestly, my dad is a very pessimistic person. When he is happy, he is very loving person. We get along great.
When he is angry, all I can practically do is do what he says and duck for cover until it's over. When he is angry, reason does not exist.
Your dad is a massive cock and you should move out and live alone. Let him deal with his own shit for a while.
