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I feel like despite us being in relationships, we are going to end up together.
Tbh senpai
All the laydz ina house say yea
M.
I don't know why, but I still have a gut feeling that we will end up together in the end
D.
I can't keep get her off my mind no matter what I do, this is the first time I've ever felt this way. I'm 18 years old. I can go on and on about how this is affecting my way of life. I just want to come to an understanding. I'm a pretty shy person, I've talked with her and hinted if she'd like to go out. Found out she has a boyfriend, and 5 months later I cannot stop dwelling on her. highschool is now over. I'm afraid of doing stupid shit. I work on my hobby and it temporarily works, but I always come back and dwell on her. Every morning I...
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>>17259058
Have you tried drugs?
That's what most of us do whether it's beer or heroin
>>17259074
stfu, there's gotta be good people on here.
>>17259074
Good people so drugs. Drugs are a spectrum. Some are nearly completely harmless while others can kill us the first time. Most humans use them to some degree in shitty situations whether it's having a few drinks with the guys, smoking a joint and listening to music, taking an adderall and being productive, or an oxy and preventing life is okay. Just saying. It may help to some degree, normie
Had these for around a year and have no idea what they are, anybody know? Thanks before hand!
Warts.
>>17259060
Hey man, are you sure? Don't wanna go doctors as I'm on minimum wage and I have 2 kids so it may be a waste, any way of getting rid of them?
>>17259082
there are treatment kits at pharmacies.
>have had two girlfriends
>first had been molested as a kid, second had generalized anxiety disorder and a lot of emotional issues
>current girl has technically been raped
>don't seek these girls out but it honestly appeals to me
What's wrong with me? I had a fairly normal childhood myself
>>17258989
Heroics.
Don't fall for the white knight bait. One day if you are lucky you will find a girl who really does need a hero to save her and then you will find your place.
>>17259000
This.
These girls want to princesses to be saved.
Ignoring these 'issues' takes the reward out of cries for attention.
Its actually getting harder to not find a person that has had that stuff happen. Its the kind of messed up world we live in. 1 in 5 girl and 1 in 20 boys with have some kind of sexual encounter like that. Its not the victims fault either.
I myself have been touched sexually by my grandfather. Hated every second of it and didnt understand what he was doing, even at age 12, which was when it started. But i dont dwell on it and i have moved on. I wasnt able to talk to boys for three yrs afterwards though.
How do I ask a girl if she wants to meet at her house? How do I make sure her parents won't be there?
Rape is the way to go
You don't. You wait for her to invite you. If she's interested, she will.
Any medfags here?
I'm wondering if it'd be safe for me to drink after not taking my welbutrin for 24 hours. It is NOT the extended release kind. I've taken my Zoloft and levothyroxine today, Zoloft says alcohol will just make me tired, not dangerous. I just want to get buzzed with my friends.
I've also never been drunk before, so I won't be able to tell if I'm having any different from usual sort of reaction. There will be sober people along.
>>17258930
Drinking while on Welbutrin increases risk of seizures. So don't.
>>17258959
But would it be out of my system by now? It's been 24 hours.
Hello /adv/
I was curious about if the feeling of being alone or unwanted is just a common thing for most people. I never really had many friends that I always hung out with, occasionally there has been times, but it has slowed now that I'm well off alone as an 'adult'. I try my best to be friendly to people to a degree, and I help out those who seem like they could use it. Yet i still feel like I'm just a background character in everyone's life. Is that just a forever thing? I haven't had anyone contact me just to catch up in years, let alone...
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>I was curious about if the feeling of being alone or unwanted is just a common thing for most people
yeah, now fuck off you whiner
We get several threads about this every day if not every hour.
Yeah, it's common
I know that feel all too well OP. It's awful; here's hoping something raises you out of the crap we're both trapped in.
>have cold
>/adv/ suggests i use a neti pot to clear nostrils
>i do
>nostrils clear but now there is pressure like liquid in my right ear
how do i stop this? iot got in it can get out right? how should i lay?
>>17258841
my presonal cold killing combo.
cup of chamomile tea
chicken soup
multivitamin
glass of orange juice
2 nightime cold pill
Hot shower to flush sinuses
and right to bed by 9pm
As for your sinuses and ear, just stop fucking with them. They naturally drain while you sleep and trying to pop your ears and poking around just increases chances you will spead it around or cause an infection.
>>17258862
just to clarify you believe that the fluid that built up because of the netti pot will drain while i sleep? to do this would i want to lay on that ear, or on the opposite ear?
>>17258862
also that is not a cold killing combo, that is jsut basic symptom treatment
hi /adv/ I found these bongs under my son's bed an hour ago and I've been staring out the window of my study wondering where I went wrong. Is it my fault? I thought I was a good parent. What do I do now? All I have are questions
lol stop it
Well, for one thing, that's what happens when you snoop.
Two, you have no idea why he has all of these. Pranks with friends, fetish that won't hurt anyone, curiosity run rampant....if you're that bothered, ask. You haven't gone wrong unless the kid is out murdering people.
>>17258833
I suggest we begin writing scenarios.
I'm 25 years old and have no direction in life
I work a shit job for barely above minimum wage pay and have no profitable skills or knowledge
What do?
>>17258794
Realize that this is really what life is and what a majority of people do.
And if you don't like it change it yourself.
Use google to find a job you'd love to do if you had the skills.
Take your time to learn/fund degrees to get there.
Same as everyone everywhere m8
>>17258794
what are your interests, goals, hobbies?
we cant help you if we dont know
Thinking he was cleaning our apartment before he moved out, my old roommate threw out a pair of sneakers of mine. They were expensive initially but we're pretty worn by the time he threw them out. I ripped him a new ass hole.
He then sent me an emailed apology and asked me how much they were worth. I guessed about $400 and told him so in my reply thinking he might offer some compensation. He went straight cuck offering to pay me $2,000 for his fuck up. He's pay it over time but give me a down payment of $500.
Do I:
A) Forgive him and tell him to...
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>>17258768
B) would be my call. Don't fuck over friends, but don't be a doormat for them either.
>>17258788
He's not a friend, just a roommate. However, point taken.
>>17258788
And not a current roommate. We are no longer roommates
Should I stop going to the therapist? I'm not getting anything out if them anymore and it feels like I'm not achieving anything by going to them.
No. Therapy is a lifelong treatment.
>>17258753
There are many different approaches to therapy. Talk to your therapist about the possibility of changing approaches.
>>17258755
Not true. I was cured of severe depression over the course of a year, no relapses after nearly 10 years.
However, don't just stop. Therapy is something you need to see through.
At work today I was talking about the haircut I got this weekend and my boss told me I had a few grey hairs. I thought he was kidding, but when I got a chance to inspect myself in the mirror I found I had dozens and dozens of little silver lines all over my scalp. I'm only 25! How is this happening? Is this common!?
It seems to be localized to the top of my head, my beard is still obnoxiously orange, but what should I do in the future? Should I dye my hair to keep from looking 50 when I'm 30? Or should I just let it take its course?
My cousins are 23 and 29 and they have salt and pepper hair. It looks pretty cool, to be honest. I wouldn't recommend dying it, but then again, I'd be too lazy to keep touching it up
>>17258747
>Is this common!?
The same happened to me and my uncle as well. Idk if it's common but it happens. Hey at least you aren't balding in your 20s, that can happen too.
Your options are to dye your hair, cut it short, or just accept it.
I started getting gray hair in my beard at 23. I have a few in my scalp at 30 now. Get over it.
I'm a janitor at a hospital and one of my co-workers is an older lady, maybe 62-63 years old. We'll call her Janet.
Anyway, she's generally my partner on our floor (each floor gets assigned 2-3 workers for the day), and instead of just taking care of her agreed-upon sector, she follows me around and is constantly micromanaging me.
>did you do x yet?
>why did you do that instead of doing this first?
>you should do xyz
>don't...
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>>17258736
>most workers there are women, and all they do is gossip
its never gonna get better anon
find a new job
Sounds like a terrible work environment. I think you should either man up and tell her very firmly that she is overstepping her bounds and needs to stop, or quit. I'd probably just quit
Working with women is terrible. Try looking for another job.
If you want to do damage control on your current job, then get your supervisor to call for a meeting and straighten everything out.
What do you do if someone you care about is being abused?
>>17258710
stop abusing them
Contact police?
>>17258710
Tell us more op.
There isn't much you can do, just tell the one who is at the receiving end that there are things he or she could do to get help and make it stop.
