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Hello /adv/, ever since High School, I've begun to pay attention to the fact that I'm 5'4 more and more,I always wanted to be like the alpha jock in school but couldn't because people realized how much of a manlet I was and didn't take me seriously.
I've become more and more withdrawn from my life ambitions because I always have this feeling that whatever I go on to achieve in life is moot when someone else taller would be seen as better.
I got fatter since and I have this inner dilemna within me of whether or not I should even care...
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>>17258022
I'm not going to give you some bullshit or anything. I do t know what it's like to be short.
However, I do lift.
At the gym, I see these short guys.
Guys who aren't even as fit as me.
But they're short.
And it makes them look jacked as fuck. It makes them look like a fucking iron monster. I would never fight them. Too dense. I think that's one of the pros of being short.
>>17258022
We had a similar thread yesterday. Basically, there's such a thing as limb extension surgery (but it's risky, painful and expensive) and you can move to a place with lower average height.
I'd at least take the advice of working out and suggest taking up a serious martial art (no flashy moves bullshit) so that you develop self-confidence.
Finally, learn to reframe shit in your mind so that you're not defeated by your own games.
If you haven't yet you should make sure you have good posture. I got about 3 more inches of height out my body from fixing my slouched spine/overly-tilted pelvis. Went from 5'6 to 5'9 in a few months
>be friends with a girl for two years while knowing she was in love with me
>led her on very much, despite my saying I didn't feel the same way
>she's leaving the country and will be gone for a while
>made me realize how I took her for granted this whole time
>about a month ago, we get drunk and I kiss her; we've had sex a few times since that night
>don't know if I'm...
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You're a dick for leading her on. She clearly deserved better. Let her go and forget about you
>>17258049
I definitely don't. She tried once (we didn't talk for two weeks), but she came back because it was too painful for her to leave. I don't know what else to do, anon. I don't want to lose her but it's wrong to stay friends with her and keep her in this limbo.
>>17258109
Stop being selfish. You're clearly leading her on and making excuses not to cut her out of your life like you should, since she can't do it herself. You can't have your cake and eat it too. If you stay with her she'll fall into depression and go crazy with you being wishy washy towards her. And you can't even say that you like her...
Do broken/cut nails grow back? I was shaving my balls and accidentally went with the razor over it.
ouch.
>>17258004
nah it didn't really hurt but it looks like an ugly cut of 1mm.
I'm wondering if it's permanent or it will be growing back over time. Google only shows results for "damaged" nails, not broken.
I crushed my toenail once, it turned blue and fell off and a new one grew back. You've already seen a doctor, right?
I'm pretty much fucked
I got in an accident yesterday that was my fault. There was hardly any damage on the other guys car but mine wouldn't drive afterword. The car got towed and I find out my registration was expired. This happened when my insurance ran out, I got new insurance but I didn't get it in the time frame to keep me from paying a fine.
On top of this the tow is charging me everyday my car is in their lot.
I owe so much money and I can't afford any of this
What do I do?
Is it worth it to take out a loan to pay the stuff off? Loans aren't ideal but it'll.probably be cheaper than paying for lot space in the towing yard.
>>17257989
I applied for one but I doubt I'll get it my credit is shitty
>>17257974
You're a retard. Your insurance doesn't just "run out" you stopped paying, also you should know your vehicle registration expires every year, in the same month. It's really not hard to stay on top of these things, they're required to legally be on the road, and the fact you got into an accident while illegally operating a vehicle on the road is just karma.
Pay your taxes, you fucking nigger. I hope you never get your car back, and have to bike to work at McDonald's for the...
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for some time now. An to make it short there's been a lot of drama in my family and with random girls he'd text. He admitted to asking for some girl to get naked over camera when he was drunk. He stopped using his phone and his kik. But I still get very paranoid and I don't know what to do..
>>17257933
Drop him, or anyone who does shit behind you back.
My ex girlfriend treated me poorly, and did shitty things while we were talking before we started dating. Never waste time on someone who doesn't understand your worth. If they're willing to do that shit, at all, then fuck them.
"I was drunk" is a shitty excuse, because they put themselves in that position and can't handle their alcohol. Find someone new.
>>17257945
I already dropped my 'friends' and everyone else who treated me badly.
All I do is work and talk to him mainly.
Throughout all the problems he's been there. And the girls he'd text were trying to break us apart
>>17257951
Verbatim "the girls he'd text"
He would text
HE WOULD TEXT
are there any lawyers/ lawyers on?
my mother passed away very recently. and my brother as well (4 months ago). my mom had a life insurance policy in my brothers name, and she was named the beneficiary. i do not know if she named a secondary beneficiary ( i had hoped she had named me), so now we have an unclaimed policy that my step father thinks he's entitled too (he already got the house and the rest of the estate)
it is my understanding that in a life insurance policy that it should go to next of kin if the claim was not processed before the death of the...
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Sounds like its going to the Father, does he like you?
>>17257922
well considering i was suppose to get half of the estate and im left paying for my mothers unused car not really
If you get half of the estate, you should get half the policy.
Lawyer up.
Do you just walk in any random wal mart/restaurant/gas station and ask if they need help, or do you apply online, or what? I want to move to the Los Angeles area and get a job ASAP.
>>17257872
>go to store
>'hi are you hiring'
>'yes'
>give them your résumé
>>17257878
How long does it take to actually start working?
>>17257881
Well depends on the store mostly, if they need people you'll get hired fast, just look the part act the part and you should have no problem. Also sometimes they drug test
Pic for attention.
Kk, so I'm a 19 yr old dude in Texas and I'm on the run for violating deferred probation for 3 misterminor charges and I'm currently still actively fighting a DWI charge against me.
My charges: Unlawful carry of a handgun (misterminor in the state of tx), 2 counts of possession of marijuana 0-2 oz, and the DWI.
My question is, how much jail time could I be looking at for violating probation ?
>bump
I laughed at your spelling of misdemeanor.
>>17257837
Misdemeanors aren't life altering like felonies, you shouldn't have violated your probation.
Hey /adv/,
I don't have a problem with starting conversations with girls and have always been a conversationalist.
When I start talking to girls (or anybody for that matter), I tend to see what they are interested in, hook on to that and subtly steer the conversation into that direction. I have interests in many things, from music, art, science, etc., so most of the time, as long as I find something to orientate myself toward, I can keep the conversation up (even if i know fairly little myself, i adapt and learn).
Mostly letting the other person talk,...
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Women are designed to talk a lot and not convey important information. With guys, it's easy - you just ask for the information and they give it to you. Steering away from this formula makes you lose out on male friends. With girls, what is "important" is actually "what is important to them" - so you can never really get anything relevant or objective from them (here come the feminists). Girls don't really operate well outside of emotion and selfishness.
That's always a good thing to keep in mind - to consider not only WHAT the girls...
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