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There's this girl in my class who has a kinda dumpy body and she's a larger girl but she's has a really pretty face for a fat chick and a pretty great personality and I think we like each other.
Should I go forward with it if I find out she's single?
Are you worried that you won't like her body or that other people will judge you?
Because if it's the first, then you can be setting yourself for a failure.
But if it's the latter then guess what?
[spoiler]You stop being a fag.[/spoiler].
Go with it. After you start dating, subtly take her on jogs with you; you shallow piece of shit.
>>17256346
>Should I go forward with it if I find out she's single?
I dunno, you just called her dumpy. If I were her I wouldn't be super stoked about being with someone who calls me dumpy.
I mean, how jazzed can you actually be about someone who you describe as "real pretty for a fat chick"?
So I'm living with my family to save money for college, which is something I'm thankful for. But my family has this really weird issue with food.
For instance out of pocket I bought two pizzas for my brother, father and I with some chicken for my mother. My mother has celiac disease, the real gluten auto immune disease that the people with allergies try to mimic so I try to make sure to keep her in consideration. I was exhausted, went to bed early, and I found out my father ate all of the chicken I got for my mother and my brother managed to eat 1.5 pizzas...
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>>17256302
Your father/brother are just inconsiderate pigs. Until you're able to move out, keep your food separate and only make enough for yourself.
In the first instance, tell your mother to chill and explain to her you did consider her and you got her some chicken but your fat fuck dad ate it all.
For everything else, they're your family so none of this should be new to you. Leave them to their own devices and either get food for yourself only or ignore how they are and just get generic stuff and don't put in so much effort that you expect appreciation. You don't prepare a gourmet meal for a dog and expect it to do more than bark and shit.
ur twelve
go to bed, its getting late
How much is money supposed to matter?
It seems like its 90% of a relationship for many people.
Is it wrong I just want to make enough money to be independant and date people based on personality? Would I be memeing myself thinking that personality is worth anything?
Also im not marying and im forcing a girl to sign some contracts if she wants to have kids meaning I dont have child support if she leaves me.
>>17256282
>It seems like its 90% of a relationship for many people.
What?
predatory American style capitalism has made our world one that is ruled by the almighty dollar
People are products for sales and advertisements, and bank accounts are all that matter.
>>17256292
Wherever I go its all I hear
>does she actually work or is she a leech?
>She dumped me because I couldnt find a job
>i cant wait to get some more child support from this ape im dating!
Its disgusting. I want to sign like 800 prenups and make enough money to feed and house somebody so I dont have to be like that.
>>17256308
China is even worse. Women...
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so I'm 19 and just got a job at grocery store. the position they offered me was "quality assurance" which is basically fucking janitor
I hate walking around with the fucking cart all day in the store esp when hot girls walk by I feel like a slave. how do I feel better about myself and not sweat my ass off every day
Suck it up or get a better job
>>17256225
Work out and get fit. Impress bitches when you're one-handing watermelons and cows off shelves and into your slave-cart.
>>17256225
I don't have any advice for you, but I'd like to bump because I have a similar question about women at work and not feeling like a slave. I'm a 26 year old IT guy and when I'm dealing with fixing people's computers I basically feel like a retarded child. Two years ago around this time I felt like a champ around women and now I'm pretty much "the computer guy" and I feel like crap.
Help, what am I supposed to do when this happens?
I go to a restaurant, and the moment I step in the door, the people who prep my food shout over to me "hello".
As I get closer to see the menu, they ask me what do I want.
I don't fucking know yet, I didn't see the menu yet fuck!!
They proceed to stare at me, waiting for my immediate answer, I try to stand away from them, out of line and I still get stared at. Then another employee shows up to ask me if something is wrong.
When I'm clearly looking at the menu!
Can't...
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You can't. But you can be communicative and tell them you dont know and to hold on.
>I act like an autist and people treat me like I'm an autist
How hard is is it to fucking say "still deciding, won't be a minute"?
This is why I don't go to restaurants.
Are there any jobs in things like baking, farming, blacksmithing, folk arts, or landscaping that can get you enough money to live on?
I ask because I hate the idea of being in some office building working at a computer for the rest of my life. I've been in development and IT jobs following a CS degree for the past few years and it's a nightmare.
>>17256166
Welders make pretty good money.
baking/pattisserie/kitchen work in general is definitely enough to live on
>>17256166
Baking and landscaping - definitely enough to live on. How well? Depends on how good you are. You could start your own business and become very successful or you could tank.
Black smithing? Don't think there's much call for that sort of thing. If you want to be a craftsman, look at machining. A CNC machinist will earn six figures.
>long story short, be friends with a girl for two years while knowing she was in love with me
>led her on very much, despite my saying I didn't feel the same way
>she's leaving the country and will be gone for a while
>made me realize how I took her for granted this whole time
>about a month ago, we get drunk and I kiss her; we've had sex a few times since that night
>feel like...
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>>17256165
Accept that you missed your shot, went too far with someone you shouldn't have led on, and move on so she can get over you and find someone worth her time.
Two things:
1. Love grows. You could perhaps come to care for her very much.
2. Then again, you might not - in which car is only fair to let her go.
Why did you kiss her and have sex with her? Did you have any feelings at all or did she just happen to make your peepee hard those times? No judgment, they're are friends whom i would not have minded boning if there were no real world repercussions - but be clear headed about why you did what you did.
>>17256165
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9GkVhgIeGJQ
Ok, so in short I failed a class in college and dropped four of the other ones I had and passed one class with a C.
I haven't told my parents about it but recently my mom set me up with a client of hers (she's a lawyer) to work at their office. I literally hate this environment and the people are all really robotic. She thought since my first year of college is over I would have to immediately start interning. Only problem is is that I'm not learning or gaining anything that I can put on a resume that employers would be impressed by. They literally had me organize a fuck-load of papers and staple things for just above minimum wage. Worst part about it is that I explained to her that this is a waste of time but her rebuttal is that I will make money and that's all that matters.
My fear is that if I blow this off she will find out out about my grades, which is ultimately inevitable, and then force me to work there. I don't care about the money, I would work unpaid if I could gain experience or just have meaningful work to personally gain from.
>>17256105
Also, my parents argue that I often don't do anything when I'm at home during the summer, which i don't, but I can't see why I should dump away my hours at a place I don't like just to be "productive".
There are many productive people who put on a strain on society constantly doing they're bullshit (con-men, scammers, career criminals)
this pic serves as a deterrent maybe.
my apologies.
last bump
