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How do I make my fiancée of 7 years break up with me so I can go back to playing the field.
You initiate the breakup yourself, pussy.
>>17254262
fiancee of 7 years? or my fiancee whom i've been dating for 7 years?
regardless you should just tell him or her that you don't wanna go through with it
>>17254265
Dating for 7 years. I fucked up my question.
Is mental illness always a dealbreaker when it comes to relationships?
I met someone who's otherwise really great this weekend, but he's on disability for depression and I'm not sure what that means.
>>17254244
Its not a dealbreaker persay, but depending on how unstable he is there will be days where your relationship will take an unexpected turn; it'll either be up to you to try and steer him out of a downspiral or it'll be up to him to try and regain control of himself. Either way, if its a real connection and you want to try, you should go for it, but just be prepared for him to make some of his insecurities pilot the relationship; unfortunately it may not be up to him to decide this on his own, depression can sometimes take control and change the whole dynamic of your relationship. There will be bad days, but who doesn't have those already anyways.
It means his mental illness is so severe that it badly affects his ability to work. Personally, I am mentally ill, and I wouldn't fuck around with someone who's too ill to work.
>>17254255
He seemed fine the whole day, a bit awkward but he did say he's like that with new people.
I'm personally an extrovert with no social skills and I end up overwhelming people a lot, especially those who are too nice to say "no" and expect you to pick up from social cues.
This might sound bad, but is there anyway to convince a girl to put her kid up for adoption? She has a hard time taking care of it, and I'm not mentally ready for kids.
>>17254235
>This might sound bad, but is there anyway to convince a girl to put her kid up for adoption?
Not universally.
>She has a hard time taking care of it, and I'm not mentally ready for kids.
No one is, at first. Doesn't matter. Take responsibility.
>>17254242
The kids not mine tho and I'm not in a relationship with her, just asking how probable it would be
her kid, her decision. how old we talking, can this kid yet clean after himself?
also you sound like a kid yourself, thinking a child is a pest. they can be trained to behave, give the right kind of stimuli and he is a servant until he is a teen
How can I stop fapping?
So, when you go to fap, don't do it.
>>17254212
physical exhaustion
do some sports
you will be too tired to do that shit
why is it a problem for you?
Is it faggy for a man to play volleyball? To me it seems like it's a "girls sport".
I played volleyball and from my experience it's a good way to get girls honestly. They seem to like when a guy plays with passion and intensity.
>>17254208
Men who play volleyball are hot. I can't think of any sport that would make you less attractive.
>>17254208
>get one chance at life
>afraid to have fun
lol lmaoing @ u fag
Is coconut oil good for the face?
www.google.com
Learn to use it
yeah i use it sometimes, it's not as good as my aqualan l, but i'd say it's second best
it will also get rid of a yeast infection btw
>>17254188
Just buy some neutral moisturiser. What's wrong with your face? Is it too dry?
About to fly to 'murica from bongland. What do I need to be aware of when experiencing freedom?
Avoid the poor and minority sections of big cities if you don't want to be shot.
Avoid wealthy suburbs, shopping malls, cinemas, nightclubs, and the states of Texas and Florida in their entirety if you don't want to be shot.
>>17254182
You can come from a cockney slum and chicks will still fuck you at the drop of a hat cause "le sophisticated British accent omg"
can anyone explain to me exactly what is a liberal arts degree?
Barista Competency Certificate
>>17254184
but seriously now
>>17254175
Non-Americunt here for an answer
Is there any way I can get my mom to have sex with me?.. I have been touching myself thinking about her a lot... idk why but I am attracted to her...
For fucks sake
>>17254189
Dont say that, he might actualy do it.
You could, but you would live with the fact you fucked your mom for the rest of your life.
why is everyone call a faggot?
Nice thread, faggot.
a fag, for all of you feel free to call it, what it is
>>17254166
90% of the people on 4chan are teenage dweebs who have been bullied in real life all their lives. Their only recourse is bullying others from the safety of anonymity. Unfortunately, they're not very imaginative or original in their bullying, so they rely on a small handful of all-purpose insults. Let's just hope that calling some stranger a fag online gives them some small pleasure. They have so very little else to their lives.
Has anyone here experienced taking a rape case to court? What was it like? Would I be able to do it somewhat anonymously or would I have to have my name public ally associated with the trial?
Also, I really feel like I was raped because this messed me up emotionally so bad but I also have a lot of guilt and regret.
I'm gonna explain what happened- could you give your opinion on whether or not I should pursue legal action?
>a boy from my class invites me to a party
>I go, chat with him and his friends and their dates, drink some.
>he does not drink because he is recovering from drinking the night before
>I go to the bathroom and leave my drink. Didn't eat a lot that day, start to feel a little more intoxicated than I thought I would have.
>ask for him to take me back to my dorm
>black out in the car on the...
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>>17254161
Note: I don't have any personal experience in this area, but unless this happened a long time ago, it sounds like you have a good chance. Especially if there were witnesses to you being drunk and him being sober.
Unfortunately, in cases like this it's really hard to stay anonymous unless you're underage. Additionally, the other side's lawyer will often go on the offense, defending the rapist by attacking your character directly. Look at the recent "Brock Turner" case for an example....
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>>17254190
This sounds like there really can't be any doubt about it being rape, and with all that evidence I think you have a pretty strong case. You should sue, if only so he doesn't do it again. Because if he gets away with this, he probably will.
I finally got my girlfriend over here to Canada as a visitor. Now I want her to go through the legal process to stay here permanently with me.
She says she wants to go back because that's where all her friends are.
If a girl truly loved you would she choose you over her friends?
This will totally end well
There's a lot of shit to consider here. How long have you been dating? How often have you met in person? What are your jobs like? What will she be able to do for a job? There's all kinds of stuff you need to talk about. You can't expect someone to just drop everything and leave with you.
>>17254134
>If a girl truly loved you would she choose you over her friends?
Maybe. Maybe not. But you're definitely a total douche and completely, 100% in the wrong if you force her in to that situation or try to guilt her for either decision.
I'm a huge sperg, despite having passable face aesthetics, a good body and average confidence. I sperg out a lot. There isn't a day that I don't sperg out, so obviously everyone is limited to being my buddy/friend. Basically no chance for a gf, since my spergouts cause women to see me just as a good guy to have a laugh with, nothing romantic at all.
That being said, somehow I've got a thing going on with 2 women. It's nothing serious at this point, but we're flirting a lot.
Here's the problem, though - one is a 6/10 (7/10 if I squint)...
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>>17254120
idk man
what are you looking for? just sex or an actual relationship? if you the answer to this question you already know who to pick
Mold the 6/10 into an 8. Ass is relatively easy to fix with squats.
>>17254129
I'm on the fence.
I'm not really ready to have a steady relationship to which I would have to commit 100% just yet, but I know I want to see myself in one in 10 years.
For me sex isn't really a #1 priority. It's important, but not that important.
If I knew the answer, I wouldn't be here.
Do you really think Ched Evans deserved a 5 year prison sentence for having consentual sex with a woman who intoxicated herself?
>>17254146
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>>17254118
the whole point is that she said it wasnt consensual wasnt it?
Is there an age gap that is too much?
currently I'm talking to a middle aged woman, but I'm 18. She is old enough to be my mother, in fact she has kids, much older than me
If it doesn't bother me, does it matter?
>>17254111
You lil shit.. stay away from men eating cougars
As long as both are adults it's fine. I'm 38 and my gf is 23.
there's a formula for this op
half your age plus 7
