Revenge is for betas.

>>17251571
....revenge for doing what to you exactly?

what the fuck is wrong with you?

>>17251571
You're a chump

>>17251567
>Was what I did pathetic? Am I a cuck? Am I desperate? Was that inherently "wrong?"
yes, yes, yes, no.

it was probably a man though.

>>17251567

There was another time I was talking to this girl on Skype and I practically begged her to cam with me.

The most she did was put her hair in pigtails, suck on her fingers, show me cleavage and shake her ass.

And I'm here in my room showing off my dick to her while she is half interested in being sexy for me.

I just mean is this normal male behavior or do I have a problem?

>>17251572

Nah, I know her irl. but she lives a couple hours a way.

What exactly is the dilemma here?

>>17251564
>Currently in LDR
>Applied to attend College A & College B
>Gf plans to work near College A
>Planning to move in together
>Recent changes to College A has made it difficult for me to pursue education route
>College B is the better choice if that's all i'm interested in
>College B means...
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>>17251600
Well as someone who once thought of his lover as his everything, I can safely say you should become fiscally secure first and foremost. I'd say you should put your studies first. I shirked my studies, thought everything would be okay, and I was cheated on for several months. The end result was an awful break up that I have still not fully recovered from.

Complaining about your anxiety on 4chan won't help, go work out or something.

Yeah, no help here. A psychotherapist would help you. All that will really help you is living is and being thoughtful and trying to evaluate your problems. one day it might click, and you'll realize how to be a competent and loving human being worthy of empathy like the original ending to Evangelion. it's what a lot of people go through growing up. just don't murder anyone. that is something you must never do if you want a chance of living a happy life.

>>17251545

Did you just ride off into the sunset?

Meditate or go to church. Or do something spiritual. Sounds like you're getting disconnected from your spirituality.

>>17251500

>my mind races with all my longings but can't keep up with what I've got.

Welcome to the world of ennui. There is nothing you can do to stop it.

Get out in nature and immerse yourself in the physical world. That is what has helped me best.

Yeah this one drives me mad as well. Without purpose how do we define value and meaning? Purpose is often connected with a want or need, but in the absence of either we've got to try and find it as an individual. Previously why did I do something? I just had to do it. Why? Because I was trying to prevent myself going mad through self loathing due to inactivity.

>>17251410
>I know how I would feel if it was one of my co-workers
How?

>>17251410
They'll show you pity and look down on you. I hope you have some fine excuses prepare so you can save face.

>>17251440
>excuses
Don't, just don't. Shit happened and there is nothing to make it unhappen.
Excuses mean you haven't moved on; accept things as they are and try to make it a forced opportunity to improve yourself in any way.

No one said you have to.

Ecology.
We're in a closed system.
It's just not good to have shit flung around.
Other than that, I don't care.
I didn't care when Columbine happened.
I didn't care when 911 happened.
However, I get the fact everyone else PRETENDS to care [social climbers].
I'm honest though.
If people don't have their priorities straight, and they don't help each other, but they pretend to care, then they're psychopaths.
People like you and me? We're reactive sociopaths.
We'd care if people cared and there...
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>>17251370
To empathize. I wouldn't want that to happen to me, so I feel bad that it happened to you.

However, I don't understand why people overreact and post about it on social media, or say they cried over it and whatever when those people weren't their family or even people they knew.

Honestly, I feel bad, but not enough to do or say anything about it. Definitely not enough to make some boo hoo social media post about it. Honestly just happy it wasn't me or my family.

Yolo and do it

I put myself in the other dude's situation. do I want to find out my gf cheated on me? Probably not.

Hi, I'm the most fucked up guy in the world, and even I wouldn't sleep with someone else's GF.
First of all, it's stupid because it spells drama and conflict.
Secondly, it's also lame and pathetic... get your own GF... if you're too pathetic to win them over to be your GF, then you're no more a man than the loser you're cuckolding.
Also, sluts usually pass on STDs.
Don't do it, find your own girl.
Don't be pathetic. Be a man.

Keep doing that until she says otherwise.

You have to be 18 to use this site.

Now that you got her to open her mouth, put your penis in it.

>>17251300
Play scrabble
Play chess
Cook a meal
Bake a cake
Clean the house

Have sex

>>17251300
Try doing a tabletop game. Its better with more people but a one player adventure isn't bad if one of you are a good storyteller.

If you have a policy of being honest, just go tell him what you just wrote - that you feel hurt by it.

Don't try to use it as leverage or anything, just be clear about how you feel. If he respects how you feel, he will make more of an effort to not let it happen again.

>>17251296
I don't necessarily disagree with this advice, but if a guy told the same story about his girlfriend dancing with a bunch of guys and "one of them kissing her" the chorus of "break up with that whore!" would be universal. Just sayin'.

>>17251302
No it wouldn't. Seen it happen here many times. There will be those people, but they will be reasonably balanced by the "it was just dancing and a kiss and she was honest about it" people.

If it were sex, yes, the pitchforks would be hoisted and the torches would be lit. So lit.

where I live a verbal agreement is legally binding, if she didn't pay you back you could take her to civil court. Depends where you are I guess.

>>17251287
I doubt I could actually win a case for a verbal agreement since we discussed it in private

>>17251287
Where do you live? I have never heard of a verbal agreement being legally binding. It's completely unenforceable if there's no tangible proof.

What do you think will come across as a more confident approach?

>>17251241
Believe it o9r not, even in this age there are some people who have lives and do not spend every second of the day staring at their phones.

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>>17251246
Waiting to see her in person sounds like the better way to go, the urge to text ger is pretty strong

Do you remember the Berenstein Bears or the Berenstain Bears?

>>17251225
Write a journal of things you do. Take pictures. Literally anything that's shows you did something at one point other than memory.

I'm reading your post, and unless I drowned back in 1998, I'm still alive. Wouldn't that be something if we were both dead, though?

What exactly did your initial follow-up and 2am texts say?

>>17251216
>give her money
>expect constant attention in return

So your girlfriend is a escort?

Forget about responding. You need to come from a place of power and control, if you wish to unfuck your situation.

>do you honestly feel she owes you anything?
>can you value her freedom to be independant whenever you're not spending time together?
>do you trust her to be monogamous, if that's your agreement?

If you can't be happy with this arrangement, either get out or establish more clear principals with her. If you don't feel like giving her money,...
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