Try moving to a cheaper area. You should NOT be spending $900 on rent. More like 3 or 4 hundred. Spending that much on rent will really fuck you in the long term, considering that you're paying all your own expenses. North Alabama is pretty cheap for example. Three bedroom houses rent for about $550. You'll have to sort the costs yourself, I can't add it for you.

Check out craiglist and find a room mate because costs will be less. I say this because rent alone is a hassle but so is the bills, food, phone, insurance and other things you gotta look for.

Or grind through, work half a year and save up enough where you have enough cushion to fall back on until you get a decent gig.

Job paying? Construction, put in overtime and you should be good. Ask for as many certifications to move up the company ranks.

>>17249906
It's a very nice area, but yea, the cheapest I can find an apartment around here that's at least in a not-shit complex starts at about 650, 750 for something much nicer. I just went a bit high to compensate to give some headroom.
I don't want to move too far tho since I have friends and other, not shit family here.
>>17249910
So far, I have $3600 from that late aunt. But that's all I have right now.
I want to try and get one of my friends...
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>>17249876
welp that's sad, but it's not the end of the world


just forget about that people and start taking care of yourself,exercise and get a better diet then when you feel better start talking to new people so you can make new and better friends

>>17249876
Do you live in NYC? If so I'll be your friend.

I'm sorry to hear that this has happened to you. But it sounds like you're well rid of anyone capable of being that cruel to someone he dares to call his girlfriend. You did the right thing by blocking them. Resist the urge to have contact with them again.

Just drink prune juice. Over the counter laxatives are likely to give you diarrhoea, or at least feelings of diarrhoea every day and make you difficult to concentrate on work and other daily life.

Don't. As a former bulimic, I'm telling you that taking laxatives long term is a BAD IDEA. Lots of symptoms come with it besides shitting yourself occasionally, the most vibrant of which is called anal leakage. It's when your asshole partially stops working and you drip shit juice into your asscrack and down your balls thru out the day. DONT

Dont take laxstives long term.

Buy some fiber supplements, cost co has some gummies for 15 bucks.

Also stop eating so much bread, that stuff clogs u up

Holy fuck, you idiot why would you do that? Listen see a therapist man and get this shit resorted by a professional. Christ.

You probably didn't. Frankly if it was something you were able to run over, it should not have been there for you to run over at all.

First it almost certainly wasn't because of you so don't feel guilty.

Second death can come when you least expect it, it can't be helped.

Why the fuck would you bother with OKC for hookups?

>>17249784
I think Tinder is better for what you're looking for.

>>17249810
How do I make it clear on Tinder that I'm only seeking casual sex? After I get matched, what should I be saying so that it leads to something casual instead of endless blue-ball dates? How should I be asking them out?

Is your new girlfriend aware that she's a rebound?

>>17249766
Entirely. She still thinks the sun shines out of my ass anyways, and I feel like shit I don't love her like I do my previous gf.

First of all, don't depend on someone else to make you feel better because it makes you cling to them, when they aren't there you feel abandoned, and it doesn't help you learn to deal with your own issues. It was wrong for you to put that panic attack burden on her and it's still wrong that youre doing it to someone else you hardly like. I get panic attacks too, but I don't expect my husband to fix them for me. Learn to deal with that on your own.

Second, you need to work on yourself. Build confidence. Get selfhelp books and some new hobbies....
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I'm 24 years old

and I don't feel as old as you do

I don't understand what's the problem

>>17249753
Idk, the whole quarter life crisis meme I guess.

I used to worry if I was "too old" to do things a lot, and this what I've learned. If the idea still sounds fun/appealing/enjoyable to you, then you aren't too old for it.

When you're too old for it, you won't even bother going to a festival because the idea of going doesn't sound fun anymore, it'll seem boring or annoying and you would legitimately stay home or do something else with your time.

And if you go and you do feel awkward about your age, just keep in mind it's all in your head and other people won't...
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>>17249745
She's busy.
She doesn't have anything interesting to say.
She doesn't like you.
She needs time to think.
She is distracted by someone else.
She doesn't communicate via text often.
Blah blah blah.. Could be anything.

>>17249745
Don't waste your time on someone who's not going to reciprocate.

ye back off for a tick m8, see if she approaches you. if she does, reciprocate. if she doesnt, bugger off

This place so socially stunted.

>>17249736
she doesn't strike me as the type to ever approach first

i'm thinking back off for a few days, then maybe hit on her again and if she reciprocates. if she doesn't, i'll fuck off. plenty of other pussy out there.

i adbise u wears underwears then :DDDD

put your penis in your ass, so you'll leak pee in your asshole instead

>>17250100
Dis is also mys advoose

>>17249727
Just start carrying a gun

>>17249807
Guns are illegal here m8.

>>17249727
Well the capital of London is occupied by Muslim invaders so it looks like you'll have to fit into their world.

Try not to act gay in public?

>>17249720
on that note, she and one of her friends came to stay with me and my girlfriend in LA for four nights and she's spent the whole time acting like a scared animal but being fucking stupid, like not buckling her seatbelt in the car even after I ask her to, then apologizing like crazy and whenever I talk she just says "okay, okay, okay" in this cheerful voice. everything she does just seems so insincere, like she's literally mimicking every single thing she does from me or my parents.

She...
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Fuck it. Cut your losses.

If you can talk to her, and have common ground on some experiences as children in the same hometown, then you'll be alright. Yes, you two are very different. You're probably also pretty different from a lot of people you're close to also. She's never done anything bad, right? If her parents give her shit and neither does her big brother, who's she supposed to turn to when things get rough?
Talking negatively about her won't help you two become closer. Having a positive attitude is key.

>>17249676
Yeah, at 28 unless she starts making changes NOW, she has pretty much no future.

She needs to get her shit together immediately, or you're going to have to move on, unless you're equally as futureless.

>28
>cutting

LEAVE

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>>17249676
>>has social anxiety but happily goes on cam with other guys
>has almost no girl friends, but tons of guy friends
>>all on the internet though
Pffff, you're getting played like a bitch

Be honest with her about your feelings. The key to a good outcome in any relationship is openness. Ask her if she's alright, tell her the vibes you've been getting, and tell her how you feel. There's clearly some tension there, and if you take the initiative and be open, she'll respond with openness too. Then, you'll have your answer.
Go text her now, OP. Text the lady you fancy, and connect again

>>17249685
She says everything is fine, she just isnt ready for something serious.
But she doesnt want to cease dating exclusively either. I offered her the way out and to come back when shes ready, but she doesnt want to do that.

>>17249702
Hmm, that's interesting. She sounds a bit confused. I've been in that kind of situation before. She could just be scared of commitment, but hey, what do I know? I'm just an anon on an imageboard.
If she doesn't want something serious, but wants to be exclusive, then what does that make you two?

>>17249601
>I'm really just thinking about killing myself as a long term plan now.
You won't, because if you were going to kill yourself, you'd have done it already.

Fuck escort

>>17249605

I mean long term, just a long term plan to take a holiday somewhere nice but with easy firearm access.

Drive out somewhere isolated and end it.

Really if I'm in the same place at 33-35 I think people would understand it.

If I interacted with people on even a weekly basis but all my friends have sort of just "moved on" I guess. I can't blame them, I've no money because I've been doing college the past 4 years. They just always go out with work groups, and a lot...
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