>>17254480
Then later that day something broke in her house. I called a repairman and he had it fixed. I paid him out of pocket and she said she'd pay me back for it this weekend when she's back.

I texted her asking if she'd like to go to X or Y restaurant Saturday. 6+ hours she didn't reply, but saw she was on/off facebook. I sent a followup reply 6+ hours later. She didn't reply but an hr after I sent the message she made a facebook status & stayed on fb a while. I messaged her on fb (not...
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I will go straight to the point. Dump her. She doesnt seem very interested in you and the relationship doesnt seem to be going anywhere from what I read.

So, my advice is to wait until she comes back, talk to her, make sure she gives your money back, and basing you on her behavior, take a decision.

>>17254491
Thanks for the response. What makes you think she isn't very interested? I thought it was just me.

I don't WANT to jump to conclusions because once she went out of state to work for 2 weeks and she did the EXACT same thing for those 2 weeks. I flew to see her for about 5 weeks and those 5 weeks went really well and we were back to 'normal'. She's done this at least one other time when she was away for a week.

I don't want to jump to conclusions so I will see how she behaves...
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Lets start off with a list of 192

http://modernmachiavelli.com/psychological-manipulation-techniques/

>>17254479
Some of that is really cringy...

Interact with people.

>He starts to come over more
>Starts sleeping over
>While sleeping over, he starts touching me
>Very subtle, rubbing, slowly moving his hands over me
>Gets more rough, puts his hands down my shirt
>When this happens, I go into shock, at the time I just couldn't comprehend it
>As I look back, I blacked out a lot of memories
>This...
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>I'm 21 now
>At work, doing mindless repetitive tasks
>Thoughts always wonder off as what I'm doing is so boring and my mind is all I have to occupy myself
>Realise that what he'd done to me many years ago was sexual abuse
>Before then I always pictured sexual abuse as something out of the scene of irreversible (Brutal, forceful penetration, beating etc)
>As I'm going home...
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I feel like such a freak. I can't talk to anyone about this. My head is going to explode. I forget about it for a month or so but it all just keeps flooding back and I feel completely sick.

I have noone to talk to, nothing to truly alleviate this pain. The most horribly part is that I know for a fact that the experiences I faced have shaped me as person and that I'll never be able to change that.

I'm just fucked up /adv/, what do I do?

>>17254443
Tell her to think of how she would feel in your situation, and that you don't want her to talk to him.

Don't be passive, tell her what you want and why, if that isn't enough to convince her you need to move on.

What she's doing is "emotional cheating" - no, she hasn't been sexting or sending nudes or hooking up behind your back, but she's seeking attention from someone else because she's feeling unfulfilled in the relationship. I would definitely put your foot down and tell her to stop talking with this guy, but you're also going to have to figure out what it is she's missing with you and work on it. You can't expect her to stop talking to other people and make no changes or else she's going to do it again.

>>17254579
>>17254586
I understand what you mean and I had planned action for that , I want to make her happy but my point is that I didn't realise how unhappy she was... How am I going to know she won't do This again I want her to be honest with me ... I know she will stop talking to him as she does seem upset she did ... But it lasted months

>>17254423
>Was it always like that?
Yes.
Intelligence has always been associated with eccentricity and downright insanity because the more complex and powerful one's mind is, the more things that can go horribly wrong.

>>17254427
It's less about eccentricity and being like your regular chad, stacey, horribly pretentious facebook girl/boy.
It must be the media that i would easily accept people being eccentric, but i get disappointed when they don't fit to my standards.
It's some immaturity, i'm still young. Still remember when my first expectations of meeting with people who do science didn't match tremendously.
You are right, people are people, hard work and abilities have nothing to do with anything else.

Then...
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>>17254423
>So in the end intelligence has nothing to do with culture level it is an independent value
Yes.
>Am I moralfag or delusional if this seems like degradation to me? Was it always like that?
Yes and yes.
Why should smart people be more moral or more conservative or less interested in drugs? Why do you make that connection in your mind? Why does it matter that "some are girls?"

Being bitter and angry will drive them away.
Also come to terms with the fact that you still have 40+ years left to get laid and sex isnt the be all and end all of life

>>17254421
It's not just the sex. It honestly feels like if you get to your mid 30s and had no sex... You are fucked. Probably means you have no kids too. I basically feel like I am old and have done nothing. Despite being only 26.

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>>17254417
This but 25

Dont be afraid of the rejection. Its more normal than you think.

If you already know her, ask her out then. Ask her if shes up for hanging out at x day at y time, if she accepts, great. If not, keep on fishing, its that simple really.

One thing, be yourself and dont be scared, theres no reason to be after all.

Good luck sis.

>>17254426
Thanks, bro.
Asking her is the first step which I can probably manage. I think I've prepared less for if she actually accepts. What do you even do on a date? I'm just that sad.

>>17254434

You just talk, and be yourself. Try to know your partner better by just talking to her. If shes likes you, you will notice it.

Dont overthink it too much, the date would flow on its own pace, just worry about enjoying it if it happens and nice things might happen!

>>17254365
>when I walk in shes always on her phone untillll I tell her my order, then she makes the order and thats it finished, no time to talk

I would say avoid anyway, but this is certainly a sign she's not interested.

Don't make it awkward for all the times you have to deal with her in the future.

>>17254371
He can go to another chip shop

>>17254365
>asian
wew

>>17254365
>A cute oriental girl
Stopped there...

Who the fuck says "oriental" these days?

Never say that, OP. You'll probably trigger someone for sounding like you were born well before the vietnam war.

Just say Asian if you don't know their specific race.

You're an edgy kid. Media means nothing. Be worried when you start killing pets.

>Doesn't feel disgusted or shocked with fictional situations.
>Am I crazy?
Ask this question again when you walk down the street and watch someone get stabbed in front of you and just go "meh" and keep walking without calling for help or checking if they're ok.

>>17254349
That's pretty fucking up
But what if I ever think about me doing it (not thinking that "I should do it" but just in a dream-kind-of-way where I see myself doing it)

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Well, the first thing you probably want to do is measure it, to see how much penis you actually have (its limp length, limp girth, erect length, erect girth; all of it). After a while of doing the method you can measure it again to see if it worked,

Method:
1. Lubricate it.
2. Remove pubic hair because it will cause irritation.
3. Warm it up by wetting a short towel with hot water and holding it around your dick for 2 minutes. Repeat this 3 times then dry yourself off.
4.To warm down, massage it for 2-3 minutes. Make sure it is still limp.

This should...
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If there was any way at all to make your dick bigger, small penises wouldn't exist

>>17254338

idk people are so insecure about dicksize. I suppose I don't know shit since I have a decent dick. above average but not freakish. Most girls I talk to like average. Just gotta get good at fuckin'

>>17254335
You're not asexual, you have some serious issues though.
Go see a doctor. There are medications that can help with this, as well as therapy.

>>17254368
What the fuck do you know about shit?

>>17254382
>>17254335

an asexual doesn't masturbate or have any sexual desires, like a fetish or so. they are plain and simple not turned on by anything.
so you're not asexual but you should try stop masturbating and maybe talking with someone like a doctor or a therapist about your problem, cause it is most likely something that can be fixed.

You talked to her parents about how you haven't had sex yet?

>>17254316
I guess most simple way ti figure this out is to just ask her if she feels comfortable doing these things yet. Ofc as someone whos been virgin for long time I felt I needed to see if hes commited to me and I can trust him. Maybe make a very romantic date with no hints of sex or anything like that. Be sweet and give her gifts. Maybe eventually you can bring some vine in the play wich can make her more easy. But ofc its all up to her. If shes young I think you will have to wait and prove her longer than if shes in midd 20's.

>>17254326
Her parents and friend told her they were surprised and she should go for it...then she told me...
>>17254328
Im 25 shes 20...
I dont wanna get her drunk n take advantage but she does get more kinky when shes had a drink or two...
I guess she wants trust and commitment but how long are we talking? Is it evil that waiting for 3 months or more is too long?

>>17254304
looks like some dry ass skin, I would lube that sucker up with lotion for a month and if doesn't get better see a dermatologist

>>17254304
Could be scabies, they usually start on hands and fingers. Do they hurt? Are pimples full of transparent liquid? Is it itchy? Then it could be scabies. It usually goes away in few weeks.

>>17254304
I'm not absolutely sure, but I think it's called a "hand".

>>17254279
keep talking to him and eventually you'll figure it out
if you can't (or you're impatient) just ask him out

>>17254373
How do you tell?

How do I tell if a girl likes me or is just be nice?

Legit noone has a say?

>>17254273

How bad was the argument OP?

>>17254407
We always argue mainly because I refuse to let her control and manipulate me, we blocked a friended eachother heaps of times but she's the one usually animating the block orn unfriending