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I absolutely, whole-heartedly hate it. However, I'm already at the end of my third year out of five, so I don't really want to drop it, especially since my parents would get really angry and I'd be left with nothing.
It's a kinda difficult major that requires a lot of studying and of course I'm a lazy piece of shit. I'm most likely going to fail 3 exams and this itself is not a dead end yet, I can retake them in September, but I'll have to say goodbye to my summer vacations. The problem is, I'm really disturbed seeing how susceptible...
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>>17259812
You should seek therapy. Immediately. All of us battle emotional hardship at some point. Many people struggle with mental illness. You are not well. Are you mental? Dunno.. But you are not okay. So you need help. Life does not stop because you need help. It keeps turning. You need to finish your commitment to school. But you need to take care of your brain first. Seek therapy immediately while working toward your degree.
bumpee
>>17259812
Just remember that most people who get degrees get careers that are only slightly related to their major. Just get it over with for now.
am i a piece of shit for going all-in on attracting my coworker, who is a married woman
if she decides, of sound mind and body, to go behind her husband's back with me, who is more to blame? how much moral blame for an act of infidelity rests on the person who was technically single?
>>17259770
If she cheats it's her fault. If she's in a monogamous relationship, she'll respect her husband.
Fuck her all you want, because somebody else will eventually.
Anyone who helps someone else cheat, knowing that that person will be cheating, is just as shit as the cheater. Even worse if they're purposefully trying to seduce someone in a relationship
>>17259770
90/10 split. And that's being critical of you. Me personally, I wouldn't fault you at all. But moralfags out there like to split blame, so 90/10 is fair.
It's her problem, not yours. Just don't involve yourself with her beyond fucking her. Do not fall in love and do not make plans to stick around. Pump and dump.
I'm throwing a thrasher tomorrow and the girl i wanna smash is coming. We are fairly close and i'm pretty sure I could pull it off, especially because there is gonna be plenty of drank and tree.How should I approach this situation.
just hang out with her the whole night
You're not going to lose your virginity by being that desperate.
>>17259764
>thrasher
>smash
>dank
>tree
are you 13 years old?
Today I admitted to my therapist I'm attracted to kindergardeners . He just sorta asked me about my child hood, what specifically I find attractive about them etc. He also asked me about what gender I find attractive and if I've ever acted out these thoughts. I said no ( Its the truth) and he said ok and talked about how I should consider coming back for more appointments to talk about it. He says that like many things of this nature, the more you try to bottle it up the more it becomes a frustration. He also says it's a slight worry how I lack empathy for others...
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>>17259757
He legally can't tell the police unless you say that you've hurt someone or are planning on hurting someone.
>>17259757
Well, you already told him. If he's going to call the police, you've already made your bed. Know what I mean? Going back and talking more about it isn't going to change whether or not he calls/called. He either did it already (he didn't, you're still around) or he has no intention to ( he doesn't, because you're still around).
So follow his advice and keep getting help. Society wants to cure pedophiles, not waste resources on them. If you can be cured, the therapist will...
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While it's legal to disclose that kind of information to law enforcement if somebody's being bodily or mentally harmed in some way, you are not doing that. That's the legal side.
On the other hand, if you disappeared after confessing your sins and never seeking any further help with it, he might be more likely to get chatty.
What is the ideal amount of time you should wait in between fap sessions? Right now I'm doing average about once a day but feel like I should lower it to avoid afterguilt and being more productive towards getting an actual gf. So whats the ideal time?
>>17259753
Try every other day if you want to cut down.
Occupy your time with other, real stuff.
1 year
Never masturbate. No, seriously. I used to be addicted to porn and masturbation which really fucked with my depression levels and made me an unproductive pity-party for 5 years, up until I quit.
Not only does it make you feel more confident but you become much more interested in getting a relationship and not just a quick fuck.
I don't mean to be preachy but this this seriously changed my life
What do you do when a girl "friendzones" you? Do I just say "whatever" and stop talking to her? Do I keep trying? Do I accept being friends?
Obviously I'd rather bang her more than the other options but is that usually even feasible? I don't really ever get friendzoned so I'm kinda at a loss. I also wouldn't usually care because I usually just bang girls and leave but I actually kinda want to be with this one
>>17259664
You can either accept it and have a really akward and shaky friendship that will drift apart eventually or you can accept that you made a bad judgement call and bow out with your dignity.
>>17259664
context is key. no two situations are exactly the same.
if you think there is potnetial, pursue it, but have an exit strategy. if you know its a lost cause but think it could work as friends, try it. again exit strategy if it goes south.
if you like her but just dont see anything positive coming out of interacting, then leave.
the question is what do you think is POSSIBLE and put that up next to what you are willing to do.
Accept being friends, but don't act like that. It will make her frustrated.
Does anyone here have any experience with la-roche posay cleanser? I was thinking of getting some because it is paraben free and fatty acid free and cereve products didnt work for me, they just brokeout my forhead and it really sucked. So now im considering this. It is 23 bucks for a bottle which kind of sucks but if you guys really think it is worth it then i probably will get it.
http://www.laroche-posay.us/toleriane-3433422406599.html
>>17259651
bump
>>17259651
bump
There MUST be a better place on the Internet to find out about this product, man. You really think some random person on /adv/ is going to be able to help you? Go read some reviews or go to a skin-health forum or something, damn
>Using Chrome OS / Ubuntu
I'm looking for a note taking program for use in a class room
More specifically a program that lets me hotkey font color changes
If I can hotkey change font size too that would be fantastic as well but it's just a bonus
Free or are you willing to pay?
>>17259632
Free
Good question, should have put that in there
>>17259652
OneNote has an online version that I believe you can get for free. I think the student version of the whole Microsoft Office suite is free, actually.
How do I forget about my ex girlfriend
I've tried hobbies, volunteering, meeting new girls, talking about it, you name anything general, I've probably tried it, and yet I still think about her every day from the minute I wake up to the minute I go to sleep.
I don't even know how long it's been but it's depressing and I need some new pointers how to move on with my life.
Learn to be happy with yourself.
>>17259622
mostly this. dont focus on distractions, and if you acknowledge its a distraction, you shouldnt do it.
do what actually makes you happy. learn to be happy on your own and break ups will never be more than bumps in the raod.
its okay to be sad, its okay to miss her, its okay to wish it didnt end. but it was the end of the relationship, not your life.
like 'vision' said in 'age of ultron'
>something isn't beautiful because it lasts
Don't try to keep it in, you need to grieve. Just binge eat and cry, you'll feel better in the future.
i'm meeting up with a girl for lunch tomorrow. is it 100% as friends or no?
>2010, basically go on a date with this girl (call her sam), but we just called it going to dinner together
>i was so retarded that i didn't realize it was a date
>i get a different gf, sam and i fall out
>i later discover that sam liked me, it was obvious in retrospect
>sam and i begin casually talking every so often over past few...
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>>17259608
to clear up potential ambiguity: sam and i were friends for a while but that date was the only of its kind
>>17259608
>>she mentions how long it's been since we've seen each other and proposes we meet up or something
Just sounds like you're meeting up as old friends. We're not mind readers though
>>17259620
i suspect the same, i think it's just my mind wandering
thanks for your input!
So, I just moved into a new town about 7 hours from the last place I lived. It's a college town, but it seems like the majority of the student body has moved away for the summer. This presents a problem, because I was really banking on the whole "college life" aspect to score some bud like I had previously. I don't know anyone that smokes and I've been asking around but haven't managed to find a single decent lead. I ask, is there any tips you all have for finding a dealer in a new town or getting a hookup when you don't know anyone? Any advice...
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Ask the pizza delivery drivers where the stoner apartments are.
>>17259565
Would they be cool if I just knocked on their doors? I've never had to do this before, as I've always had old friends who were dealers and don't really know the etiquette.
>>17259573
Once you find Pepperland or whatever the stoners call their building, try to met folks out front in the evening. Tell 'em you heard there was a party.
