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I don't want anything. And never did. I am 25 and I didn't accomplished anything. I have no money, no job, and no desire to find some. No desire to live or achieve something. I don't know what to do. Am I just a garbage?
>>17260751
Everyone is garbage.
If you're not satisfied with your life, just pack your shit and leave.
Bumping. This is relevant to me too.
>>17260751
>>17261032
Become a monk. You will have a chance to escape this cyclic world.
How do I remove these suggestions from Amazon? I'm a closet anime fan and don't want people to see this. I already tried deleting all Amazon cookies and disabling personal advertisements but that only effects ads on other websites.
Log out of your account and only login to buy stuff?
Dude it's not even bad. Quit worrying. You should only be worried if you were looking at anime body pillows. It's just dvd's. But yeah only login to amazon to buy stuff. i don't like them tracking me either.
>being this autistic about what people see
Either own it or stop being a weeb. Dumbass.
My brother has confided in me and I told him he was being a parasite for wanting to start taking estrogen
He apparently does not like the feeling of being a guy, or growing into one, and in turn feels he must become a female to achieve happiness
My mother of course tells him she loves him no matter what, etc. but I'm at a loss here
>>17260734
How does that mean being a parasite? What exactly bothers you about this?
Not quite sure what you are asking here. He will mostly still be the same person, just with a different appearance. Hes just not comfortable with how he looks or what he might be in the future and wants to fix it. They will still be your sibling.
>>17260758
Because I'm an asshole who can't assimilate with current year phenomena
It bothers me because you're taking what makes you, you, and altering it completely because you're unhappy about the current situation
I get that I'm supposed to be supportive but I've never been that kind of person
>>17260771
Girls suck, dude
How do you tell if a guy is just slightly awkward or violently insane?
>>17260684
What does he do that would make wonder that?
>>17260696
Seriously consider having sex with me.
>>17260702
No, but I'll give you a handie so long as you aree to letting me keep the googly eyes on.
Hi guys. I found out something.. disturbing?
A year and a half ago, I was dating this guy. Let's call him Bob. It was kind of a rebound relationship, but not on purpose. I was in a bad place from the relationship before him, and Bob was someone who introduced me to a lot of things - good and bad. We dated for around 7 months. I slept over at his house probably 5 times a week.
We liked drinking. He introduced me to xanax as well. I have constant anxiety problems and the first time he gave me one I felt amazing, and I quickly became addicted.
He would...
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>Xanax and liquor is terrible combination
>hurr durr he made me do it
>hurr durr let's repeat after blacking out
>hurr durr he was penetrated me while I was blacked out
>hurr durr let's take Xanax and liquor again
>did I mention he made me do it?
Getting sick of this shit, man.
>>17260729
Well, yeah, I agreed to do the drugs. I was in a bad place. But a lot of the time he'd kind of be pressuring me to do more and more, and he manipulated me into believing he was doing the same amount as me, but he was just pretending to.
>>17260670
you should press charges so people dont think ur a slut or stop talking to those people thy will only make u feel like shit for the rest of ur life
Any reasons to not end it? Going through a serious depression face right now because of pretty much everything... Girls, school and not having anything to look forward to.
Any reason TO end it? don't you think it just makes things even more absurd?
>>17260649
I've just been going through alot of depression for along time now. I always kept telling myself that everything will eventually get better but now i've lost that hope.
Same boat as you. Fucked up big time in college and dropped, I was so close (1 more year). Not even vidyas please me anymore. Just chugging along hopping things will change but I doubt it.
I'm wondering when my life is going to start to take off. I hear stories of peoples journeys, about how they were bankrupt or basically had nothing and now they've done all these amazing things and they've had all these amazing experiences.
So far my life has just been cycles of working or being NEET.
I don't think there's going to be any crazy opportunities that suddenly appear in front of me, but I wonder when my life will explode and i'll start doing good things
any advice?
People who achieve things are self motivated. Sorry faggot.
>>17260636
GO OUTSIDE FAGGOT
>>17260661
Yes...well, I'm currently in school because I thought to myself "well...why not go to school" and now I realize I hate it. There aren't any people in my class and I'm finding it hard to keep going after everyone practically dropped out.
I'm choosing to transfer to the city next term so hopefully things will be different there.
I've been looking for casual work so I can move out but there really isn't anything going around. I don't want to crawl back to my...
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Mom has hit a rough spot again.
It seems the Alcoholism and Deflated Ego has come to a point.
I've consulted her since I was a young teen but it seems it's out of my hands at this point.
I know this isn't really /DIY/ material,
but how would YOU go about helping/treating YOUR Mother whilst knowing that you aren't putting her through unworthy programs or simply not letting her put herself out of misery?
I'm personally looking into a co-dependency program..
but how far should I take this?
I'm worried of making...
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Also the cops have already been by tonight so no need to blow it up bigger than it already is.
Definitely doesn't belong in /diy/
R9k has a few guys in there looking to help.
YOU can talk to a counselor to see if they can help you help her if she doesn't want outside help.
It is obviously getting to a point where you feel you have to seek outside help through an american cordless tool shilling forum
Hey /adv/,
I haven't been all that bright concerning maths, but that was mainly because I missed a lot of basic stuff you would've learned in grades 8-10 or so, because of puberty and difficult family situation then. Now I realise that for most decent career/education paths, you will need a fairly good knowledge of maths, so I'm trying to catch up on all I've missed. I tried looking into the /sci/ wiki:
https://sites.google.com/site/scienceandmathguide/subjects/mathematics
but i couldn't even understand the basic stuff of stuarts book, because...
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i'm in the same position as well.
i've failed differential calculus and analytical geometry due to basic stuff because i was like dennis the menace in my high school/school years.
right now i'm trying to watch lectures as much as i can, seeming as mathematics as a language is something i haven't fully dominated yet.
I'd be interested in that too. Also in german.
OP, i have "algebra für dummies" and "mathematik für dummies". They are pretty good. Maybe start there
>>17260632
>dennis the menace in high school
lol
Where do you watch those lectures? Youtube? Mind listing some good channels?
I'm 21 years old. There's a girl that I've never been able to get out of my mind since I was 15 years old. We went to high school together, but she transferred a year after we met. After we graduated, she went to college and I enlisted in the military. I'm out now, and she's on summer break from college. I deleted my facebook recently, which was the only way we could communicate. I would really like to see her again even just to have the closure I never got. Is there any way I can go about getting in contact with her without seeming like a creep? Should...
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No just no
>>17260613
care to elaborate?
>>17260611
by the way, she would message me on Facebook every once and a while to ask how I was doing. Sometimes I would respond, sometimes not. The last time was about a year ago.
I need your help /adv/
It's been a few months that my boyfriend insists on making me cum through penetration alone or even "just when he sticks it in". How do I tell him that's absurd and most likely will never happen? No matter how much I enjoy it, I just can't do it, also because we don't even have enough foreplay (5 minutes at MAX) before intercourse, since everytime we have sex I'm always really dry and he has to bruteforce his way through as well.
When I talk to him about this, he just bullies me because I'm not in the 20% of...
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Tell the truth. I would want it if I was in his shoes.
I've been in a similar situation. The guy eventually felt really shitty about himself and cheated on me "cause i wanted to make someone cum just from my dick".
Luckily not all guys are that insecure. Just tell him over and over again that it is not physically possbile for you?
>>17260587
literally every girl needs to rub their own clit during sex to cum. Like, the guy will do the rubbing with their thumb or something while thrustin away but when it comes down to cumming.... the girl needs to be doing it themselves.
Sex is just better that way.
So all my life I haven't been able to figure out what to do for a career... Every time I sit and think about it nothing comes to mind.... Does anyone have any advice on how to figure it out? I'm tired of being broke at minimum wage jobs.
http://news.efinancialcareers.com/uk-en/199934/want-job-high-frequency-trading-pay-career-prospects-15-key-firms/
>>17260578
>what am I interested in
>what do I want to major in
>what fields can I go into with my major/interests
>what careers are in that field
>what are the employment figures like for the careers I'm interested in
And so on and so on. Just Google and research. You can take a careers test too.
Are there any "crazy" dreams you have? Or do you just want some career where you are guaranteed to have a job and decent money?
So, my husband has a way, way higher sex drive than I do. Which is why, early in our relationship, we found it was easier if he had a secondary, usually a girl that he'd date for a few months and then drop, which was a mostly sexual relationship, as opposed to ours which is mostly an emotional relationship.
It's been working pretty well for the last four years, but now it's gotten a bit icky. I just found out he had anal sex with his current secondary, and it just squicks me out. I mean, it's not like we've stopped sleeping together. And I'm...
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>>17260545
>he's probably done it before
>you probably sucked shit particles off his dick
>your vagina is lined with traces of feces
>>17260545
Does it taste like shit? If not, why would it even matter?
Honestly, it doesn't have to be any harder than that! If anything, you could always tell him to shower his junk.
>>17260545
Are you sure it's the shit you're disgusted by? He's probably had a myriad of different bodily fluids on his dick, but you draw the line at shit?
Is it normal to feel like you've achieved nothing with your life, even though you have? I got a nice degree with a great GPA. I got accepted into med and law schools (but put off attending them because I don't know what I'm doing with my life). I've toured in a hardcore band, recorded and released albums. I've had my writing work published in local magazines and websites with great traffic. I've got trophies from when I was a state level athlete as a teenager. I've appeared on TV and done some acting work. I've slept with around 15 women...
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Who knows. Maybe this is just post-college depression. Ach.
Bumping for big daddy
Maybe it's a mindset thing.
What's your outlook on the past, present and future?
&Did u do all that shit for you or yer parents
Yesterday while running on the track I got a gnat caught in my eye and it took me about an hour to get it out, To get it out I had to fill the bathtub with water and open my eye. I got a fat gnat out and I instantly felt relief but now being the next day it feels like there is still something in there. I hurts to try and look right at all which is the side the gnat was stuck.
Also I had previous had an eye injury where an airsoft BB glance that same eye.
Question is what do
>>17260521
Wash it with saline solution, and put an eyepatch over it for a few days, or if you are really concerned see a doctor.
Thanks Anon, just now due to my gut feeling I felt like there was something still in my eye so I flipped my eyelid and so there was another gnat. I got it out with help an all seems to be good
>>17260521
You should get yourself off to the hospital mate. It's entirley possible that you've scratched your cornea - I did the same thing a couple of months back with a fleck of sawdust at work. Over the course of two days I went from "this is a bit sore" to "jesus christ why are there razor blades in my eyeball" to not being able to see anything at all out of my injured eye. Turns out the scratch had got infected, and if I'd spent the five minuites to get it treated with some antibiotic...
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