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Ok, so I went to the ER like 2 weeks ago because it was Friday night, it hurt like hell, and I didn't want to go, but I didn't know what else to do.
Turns out, having them say "Nothing we can do, here's some Motrin!" costs nearly 500 fucking dollars. What the actual fuck? How the fuck am I supposed to pay for this shit? I cant even afford insurance. I already have to pull 2 fucking grand out of my ass for a root canal, plus I have student loans coming at the end of the year.
>>17269930
This is a system built by people ignorant to the problems of other people.
We are all ignorant, in one way or another, to the problems dealt with by others.
I'm really sorry that I can't give you much help; money troubles very similar to yours are playing a significant role in my decision to off myself.
It's really just like this (at least as I see it): When the going gets tough, you either get tough or get going; the way out of this particular mess is to work your ass off to pay those bills to get your debt in order.
You can get tough and work hard, or you can get going and kind of give up. The latter sounds shitty, and it is, but you have to seriously ask yourself how often you can get tough because sometimes that's all life throws at you - situations like the one you're in.
Sometimes little shit that you can normally deal with becomes overwhelming when there is just too much of it.
Try dividing your issues into as many partitions as you're comfortable with and, one by one, work at solving them. Given that this is mostly money related, you're going to have to start paying off all of those debts simultaneously and paying them off over a long time may seem daunting, but all we really have in this world is time.
I guess that's my advice - give it some time.
If you really want to male it out of this, give it time and effort; reduce your spending, increase your income and work at it.
Take that for what it's worth, they're just the words of some guy whose going to kill himself.
>>17270456
Honestly, I don't see these debts going away. You're not the only one who's suicidal, and I'm not dealing with the burden crippling debt. I would rather be gone forever. Guess it's time.
>>17270578
Like I said, give it some time.
I gave myself a date.
I'm going to live until that date and, if it doesn't seem like I can turn things around, I'm going to end it.
So, if I'm not the only one who's suicidal, ask yourself this:
How long do you reasonably believe you can keep afloat in your current state (economically, emotionally, physically)? Can you extend that time by making certain restrictions?
If you can pinpoint a date or a month or a time-period that you...
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I want to torture my wife cousin.
He raped her while she was an 11 year old and never received any comeuppance or punishment. Her family didn't support or believe her and the fucker behaves like a saint in his normal life.
I can't live with it. What do I need (other than money) to torture him? What kind of medical knowledge, what kind of contacts, etc.
Don't tell me that I shouldn't do this. You all know that labeling him as a rapist on internet wouldn't do shit, and that forgiving him is bullshit. I just want help for my revenge....
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>>17269790
yeah she is lying bro.
Chicks love it when you make em feel like a princess.
I assure you if she really was raped she would tell the cops and he would be in jail in 24 hours. She would not be pandering to your white knight.
>>17269801
>she's lying
>she has had ptsd since I meet her
>she has been at terapy
>she has gone to police and cops already
what fucking part of "was raped when she was 11" can't you fucking understand? Do you do this all the time? I know how shitty her family is
>>17269790
>I know how shitty her family is
But you don't know she was raped. Now you want to commit a felony.
Wew.
I signed up with Tinder a couple of days ago, got a couple of matches but I'm not getting any replies. I'd like to ask you guys about your experience with this. Like, what's your "ratio" of getting replies in the first place?
Now I know I'm not sending them anything creepy in my first text. I'll be the first to admit that my first texts might not be too interesting (I guess I don't have the gift of the gab) though, but since they swiped right they should have been somewhat interested in the first place.
Or should I assume...
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What are you sending them?
>Or should I assume that a lot of them swipe right automatically and get swamped in matches?
Why would they do that?
Relatively good looking male anon here (been told I'm an 8-9/10 repeatedly) with slightly over 1200 matches
Tinder is literally all looks. Post your profile so we can help you, what you're doing in pictures/how they're taken will have a big impact on how successful you are
>>17269356
Unless you're literally 10/10, getting 1/3 replies is pretty good going. Getting 1/10 is not unreasonable if you're average.
Please remember that even though 1/10 girls might reply on tinder, in real life that % would be far higher - women are pickier on tinder and only really want to chat with people that are 10/10 looks or 10/10 conversation
Anyone have a crippling fear of their thoughts being logged and monitored?
Sometimes I wonder if I'm paranoid.
>>17269217
That's a sign of mental illness.
>>17269223
You're a sign of mental illness!
>>17269217
>>17269243
Okay. Seek help though, for your sake.
Have you ever cheated (not a one night thing) or been the other guy/girl? I'm currently the other guy.
What advice can you give to someone in my position?
Yes, I'm an asshole.
>>17269170
Break up with them.
>>17269170
>what advice can you give
depends what your goal is.
Advice: Don't. It's gonna get weird and awkward. And if she's willin' to cheat on someone to bang you, who's to say she'll stay faithful to you as well?
Guys I need your advice on a really annoying subject. There’s this kid in my class who is a total furfag who always wears this brown wolf tail to school. Whenever the teacher asks him a question he responds in a yelp or bark and he likes to whimper to himself a lot. It’s really distracting and whenever someone tries to talk to him or grab at his tail he pulls it between his legs and runs away while whining. Is there a way to get his ass transferred to another school without getting directly involved cause it seems the teachers don’t care that this freak is making everyone uncomfortable. The sad thing is he’s not ugly or weird looking but it’s his freakish personality that keeps everyone at a distance.
>>17269043
>Is there a way to get his ass transferred to another school without getting directly involved
No.
>cause it seems the teachers don’t care that this freak is making everyone uncomfortable
Deal.
Teachers are used to kids acting weird and going through phases. He's not hurting anyone, so there's nothing you can do. Just ignore it.
>>17269043
Deal with it, these people I'd take tenfold over sjws.
At least they mix life up a bit
My girlfriend lives a stupidly cushy life and doesn't have to do any work in college, and has a nice and supportive family to fall back on, everything good happens to her and I hate my life. I've just been stuck with physically abusive parents and severe depression, every 'chapter' of my life so far has just been really underwhelming and hurtful, after years of being together I just have a hard time NOT getting jealous of her life. I don't want to split up with her because she's a decent person and is usually understanding when I'm depressed,...
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>>17268939
>has girlfriend
>whines about banal shit
tip top lel
>>17268943
Having depression and being physically abused doesn't mean I have to live like a beta male loser.
>>17268939
>I'm depressed because pther people have better lives than me.
Liberals in the making.
But seriously, grow up. There will always be people with better and worse lives than you.
Last night I got DM'd by a dude on instagram and basically my long distance girlfriend has been saying pic related to him, I called her out on it and she says she sorry and wants me back. I'm beyond myself, I loved her so much but I think I should end it, she met this dude two weeks ago and she's been constantly having these type of conversations.
What do /adv/?
end it, neither she or you, for that matter, will respect you if you don't
don't even think about staying, she doesn't care for you nor your relationship
>>17267284
its over
once a cheater always a cheater
do you people regret who or how you lost your virginity?
I do. I always wanted it to be this meaningful thing with someone i care about and instead i just carelessly lost it to someone after getting screwed over really badly in a relationship, and i swear my biggest regret in life is losing it to this girl that i don't talk to at all or see anymore.
pic related, i lost it to this chick
I do. She pressured me, and she had much stronger feelings for me than I did for her, so the breakup was hell.
>>17267132
Lost it to a 7/10 blonde escort who let tie her up, gag her and melt chocolate on her asshole.
Would do it again.
Nah, don't regret it at all.
Lost it at 15 to my first love.
We have been together for almost 10 years now.
Hey /adv/, I'm gonna go to college in fall and wanted to know you you guys have any tips before I get there
>>17267002
study hard, secure a good internship, network and make friends with as many people as you can.
i just graduated and i can't find a job yet. i don't even have friends i can call up to help me out, because the small amount of friends i made were so insecure and anxious that they failed getting jobs and would stab me in the back for one if they had the opportunity...
Go to class.
>>17267008
This. It sounds like a duh kind of tip, but it's very easy to get lazy and not go to lectures. Just go. You will regret not keeping up 10/10 times.
I don't know if this is the right place for this but I feel like sharing the tale of a predator that lurks in /fit/
Maybe you guys can help
Is the predator carbs?
You know how the age of consent in Germany is 14?
Well there's this german guy from /fit/, he goes to the gym and on the way home he stops at the same convenience store, one day there's a group of little girls there too, another day they're there too, they're there many days. When he walks in they whisper to themselves, look his way and giggle, they like him. Until one day one of them walks up to him to talk, a pale redhead with glassed and freckles (he refers to her as a "petite lovesick nerd"), they exchange pleasantries, talk for a while,...
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