>>17273267
Yes
Look up the oedipus complex

For me it wasn't so much an attraction thing as it was "we both acknowledge she's nuts and can talk about actual things", but I was closer with my mom because she was always home and acting crazy.

>>17273279
Pretty much I just felt closer to my dad because he was on my intellectual level and peraolality type. My mom is just a fruitcake but my dad loved the pussy so he stayed and procreated.

I know that feel right now.

I lied to mine, we broke up, and now I can only find girls who only want sex.

One time this girl told me that I am so handsome, I make her feel insecure I'll leave her for another girl.

My ex of two years left me for another guy.

That makes 3 women who left me now.

Ask me anything.

>>17273158
right now my wife has gone to bed because she works all day while i deal with our daughter that has cancer.

I will not lie. I feel pretty lonely right now. But sometimes doing the best you can to hold out is what you need to do.

>>17273202
Do you like hugs?


Also in my case, I'm in a LDR and we hardly speak anymore. I don't want to cut contact because he's the only person that truly cares about me in my life. In a world where nobody cares, he's really important to me

well, if she does not want to call it going out then just go hang out with her and don't be surprised if she blows somebody else near a trail before you evolve into being a couple, because it's way more likely.

You've imprinted on her. It's not at all rare to imprint on one's first sexual partner, and that's what's happened here.

Women who avoid older male virgins are often specifically trying to avoid being imprinted on. In fact, I suspect that this is what your friend is now trying to do. Problem is, it's too late.

I am sorry, OP. I know it hurts, but you have to end this. It is not your fault that you imprinted on her, but there's a reason she didn't want it to happen. This cannot work out. End this relationship, such as it is,...
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>>17273155
If I was to guess I'd say she probably has some self-loathing issues, either that or she dislikes relationships or some personality characteristic of yours. Pick whichever makes you feel better. Although, if she is genuinely your friend the last one is less likely.

If you want a relationship with her though, I'd assume it's the first one and try to learn if she has an self-esteem issues and try to boost her confidence if you suspect she does. Next time you have sex whisper some sweet nothings...
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>>17273144
How old are you?

I'm sorry that you don't have a mother.

>>17273150
19

>>17273151
You don't sound like a fuckboy, so first understand where you want to be in life and look for someone who wants to be in the same place as you.

As for where to meet girls...well
tinder?

I don't know, man, I'm very asocial for a woman and I actually met my boyfriend off of /soc/, and no, neither him or I are trash.

>>17273129
Just ask her to tell you straight up what's going on. Tell her you feel like she's been very distant and that you wanna know what's up.

You shouldn't worry about what'll happen if you do that and things don't end up going back to how they were. If you don't do something about it, there's no guarantee that it ever will, anyway. On the other hand, confronting her and getting answers might lead to you guys being able to working it out.

Leave her alone and give her space. If you're losing sleep over her then it's more than just friendship. She's a love interest now, not just a friend.

Why haven't you made a move yet? There was obviously a connection if you guys were texting/snapchatting daily.

>>17273129
She just found a guy she likes and is taking with him

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You sound like what I will become in the future OP. I'm 20 and dealing with the same shit except I lived on campus and just felt trapped.

What I did was try to tell them what was wrong but they didn't believe me or the story I told them. I never talk to them about shit like feelings since I know how they'd react and I was extremely correct when it came to talking to them.

They have threatened to kick me out with nothing to my name and I honestly can't blame them.

Anyways if you think you can talk with your parents about and really share...
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>>17273260

I don't know if I could, to be honest. It's not something I'm comfortable with, and they have enough problems to deal with on their own. I'm not willing to dump my shit on them or anyone else for that matter.

>>17273481
Them being in the loop is probably a good idea. Unless they'll use what they learn to hurt you more.

Depression is pretty heavy baggage. Depending on how severe it is it can literally affect every decision you make. You have a decision to either continue carrying that weight or finding someone to help you. Vent your frustrations or you'll just burnout sooner or later.

Did you told her about this?

>>17273299
She won't let me have the chance to say it!

>>17273088
i was a doormat to my ex as well
i say dump her and get with me bc u sound like a sweet qt

but on a serious note that shit is wack, either confront her about it or end it all together. if she tries stepping on your toes when you confront her she is mega manipulative and you need to get away.

Bump. Please.

get a different kind of job

>>17273113
You mean ditch tech completely? How would that be possible?

>>17273008
How on earth are you going to afford school if you can't even afford a vaccination?

>>17273008

look up free hepatitis B vaccinations and get one. also consider just joining obamacare, its borderline illegal not to havei nsurance atm

>>17273013
Student loans, that I can pay off after I get my degree. Also, I haven't been vaccinated since I was 12 and I've never had a serious ailment, I'm not a mega "anti-vaxer", but I've just been fine this long, so I see no reason to get a vaccine at this stage in my life. I don't wanna turn this thread into a debate tho, just looking for some religions that will write me a waiver.

I don't believe a buzzcut is going to appeal to your girlfriend or fix your image problem due to balding.

>>17272909
Get the cut that you like for yourself. Whether she likes your haircut isn't as important as whether you like it.

>>17272926
basically my thought process. I just want to MAX my appeal 2 her, ya dig?

>>17272846
Why would you sign a five year contract? Anyways, just do your duty, OP. If you absolutely must get out due to mental issues, go see the mental health officer. Other than hurting yourself badly or committing a crime, that's your only out.

>>17272846
why is it so bad

>>17272854
For some people its not terrible. Infact i would encourage it. But i joined for all the wrong reasons and lied my way to get in.now im a complete mess.

>>17272849
Thought as much I dont think i can go on though.

Other info.

The other guy is extremely needy, almost comes off as creepy, dropped out of high school due to reasons he won't say, and killed rabbits and squirrels for fun in his backyard.

Now is when you need to pursue her the most. Now or never OP

Ask her out faggot

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>>17272745
Hello anime girl i am here 4 u

>>17272758
There is someone i like and they live on the other side of the country and next time i can se this person is in 2 months at a festival we are both going to (we have only met once one month ago) and i'm thinking of asking this person out there but i just found out there might already be a special some one in this persons life.
Do you have any advice for me ?

>baby don't hurt me
Anyway no one knows what love really is and people will tell you something isn't love often but never what really IS love. A widely accepted but vague definition is that when you love something you feel like you want to take care of it regardless of what you get in return.
Love is a word people say too often and it's easier said than done. It's one of those things people think they know the answer but if they actually have to give you a definition they have to stop and think for a while.
It may...
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All 3 of my poly sci friends went on to grad or law school. presumably it seems like a springboard degree that sends you to become a lawyer or politician or civil servant. But honestly, all degrees are pretty much all the same apart from STEM degrees.

>>17272723
MA in History here and going for my MA in Poli Sci. I want to teach but most Poli Sci guys go to law school.

>>17272723
>>17272861
>>17272946

Every last person told me that the only use for a PoliSci degree is to get into grad or law school. That involves getting into debt and I'm already 25,000 dollars in the hole. Plus my parents are dependent on my income to live because theyre unemployed and I do not make a lot money. I simply do not have the money, and my polisci degree is worthless despite living in DC because everyone has it.

those words don't make sense together

What do you mean? Like are you like stopping stimulation as you build up and riding an orgasm? It should be safe but I'd probably talk to a doctor. Medical advice from strangers isn't the smartest thing to do.

No, switch to anal simulation