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Okay, I need some advice, you mofos are the only people I trust. So here goes.
>$667.29 in bank account (poorfag)
>$290.33 in savings.
Coming to a total of
$957.62.
I have two payments I need to make before payday.
Credit card ($500)
Car (288)
I could pay both now by moving money into savings, or I could pay the credit card off, then use the credit card to pay the car. Then, when I get paid, I will just pay the credit card off again. Either way will leave me without about...
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>>17272997
Bumping with cool pics.
>>17272997
>>17272997
im not sure why you're making this such a big deal. just pay em both off in cash. you got 160 til your next payday (which i presume your next payday will handle your upcoming rent) and ur fine.
im so confused, why is this an issue
If someone breaks up with you without warning, over a text message, is it safe to say they never really loved you all that much? I tried being a friend but dammit, I wanted some answers, he didnt even ever tell me why and two months had passed. Wouldnt even apologize, just tell me I was blaming. Its just a sign of respect to tell someone why you wanted to end it, esspecially if you're not gonna tell them how you're feeling before it hits that point
>>17272972
Maybe he was just using you for sex and pretending to care about you just to get it.
>>17272976
That doesnt sound right because our relationship was long distance for quite a long time and he hung on
>>17272972
>is it safe to say they never really loved you all that much?
hard to say. he probably didn't care very much at the end, or he'd have at least called you.
you'll never know for sure, so you might as well believe whatever helps you move on. then continue the process of moving on.
I'm starting two new summer classes next week at my college, but I won't know anyone in these classes.
Every other class I've really been in I've had friends in and have made friends though just expanding that friend group. How can I meet people through these classes (especially girls)? I'm not a really unsocial person, but I just feel like a can be a little awkward around people when I don't know them at all
>>17272936
How old are you? Everyone is going to tell you the same advice you've ignored your entire fucking life. Talk to people next to you, discuss various assignments, find common ground.
>b-b-but it's hard and I'm weird
Fuck.
>>17272942
The thing is I do that and I make "friends" that way, but when it comes to actually doing stuff outside of class they sort of fall off.
I was friendly with this one girl for a coupla months last semester and we made plans to hang out after finals. Now I've hit her up like twice and she said she couldnt the first time and the next time she just didnt respond.
This happens with multiple people, when I think we are cool and nothing ever happens.
I am venting a little bit, but fuck is it that hard to just either say no or not led a person on?
Why can't I have a motivation to get a job? I'd rather waste my life away on laptop and with friends(all of whom have steady jobs), If i don't do these things I feel incomplete.. WTF is wrong with me? I'm 25 just waiting my life away,i guess I'm scared of outside world..
You have no aspirations and no wants beyond what you can literally reach within arm's length.
Everything you want is provided for you and so you have no need to go outside and work to get more. Whatever it is you have right now is what you feel to be the best your life will be and requires no improvement.
>>17272927
Holy shit, that's me.. How can I abolish this mentality?
Nobody works for the sake of working, they do it to pay bills and rent for a place to live and for life necessities. Then they use whatever is left to fund entertainment, hobbies and save for later.
I don't know what your living situation is or how you fund your lifestyle.
Hello, I came here to ask two questions.
1)Is /pol/ satirical? Also, why does it influeces me so much, should I stay away from it?
2)Is there a way to suppress thoughts or at least reduce the amount of thinking while idle?
Isn't pol filled with dindus now and completely ruined?
I left that tainted shithole along with the rest of the migration.
It's like panning for gold on a hill of shit.
For every good fact there's a bunch of horseshit to put up with.
>>17272906
sometimes pol is satirical. often times its not. many things that start satirical become not satirical because there are lots of people who are dumb. i know it sounds pretentious but trump has proven that there are people out there, a large large large group of people who are dumb and ignorant. now that isnt entirely bad they are not bad people for it, but it shows you that these concepts are not outdated, they are not even just dying. they are just facing competition.
if you feel taht you are influenced by pol id leave. i was influenced a bit by 4chan in general, we all are.
but if at the end of the day you can say 'a persons value is based on what they bring' then there isnt anything bad about what you believe, fact or not.
i do believe there are differences in the races. some are stronger than others. some are smarter than others. i dont believe that these differences magically balance out to amke us equal. im not educated enough to know with certainty what the rankings are. if i had to guess blacks are a bit inferior.
but at the end of the day there are many many many blacks who surpass me in many many many ways. being white did not make me who i am. even dumb white people can be respectable and 'educated' simply by putting in the effort and trying harder.
so i try to judge people based on how they act and what they bring to the table, regardless of race gender or orientation.
if someone wnats to live up to the negative stereotypes of being a nigger or a faggot, well tahts great, they can fuck off.
but despite my feelings about the gay community as a whole, theres a lot of ince gay guys. and black guys. and middle eastern guys.
etc.
Is it normal to miss high school seven years after you left?
>I'm 25 y.o
>NEET
>I miss my math teacher so much.
>>17272877
I miss it too and i'm 42
I miss it because of the forced socialization. It's impossible to meet people or make friends now, and as I get closer to 30 it only becomes harder and harder. Everybody just wants to stay at home with their SO or go on double dates.
>>17272915
This. High school was a great time. Now my friends have moved out of state or are married. It's really hard to socialize.
So, I've been suicidal for a while now. I really don't know what to do, and I don't know how to keep myself from doing it anymore. Does anybody have any advice? Have you everyone been in a similiar situation?
*ever been
Call a hotline or get yourself checked into a ward.
>>17272682
You'll either grow up or you won't, i bet its over some pussy
Try finding someone to express your feelings to
![prozac[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/UNhLkzi.jpg "prozac[1].jpg")
is it ok to take an ssri to deal with the stress of finding an adequate job to support your family with your first child on the way.
no, that medicine is only for single people with good jobs, breeder poors aren't allowed.
get an abortion.
>>17272696
y u do dis
Howcome when I'm online, people make it sound like Asian men are so inferior and would have lots of trouble dating women. For some reason, when I walk out into the real world and try, everything has gone pretty good. I even have lots of cute nerdy girls hitting on me all the time. At this point, I'm almost searching for the difficulty that I've never encountered yet. Was it all just a myth or something?
are you here to give or ask for advice, senpai?
>>17272656
>>17272656
It's not a myth. On average asian men are smaller and not impressive in anyway.
Gearing up for an 800 mile move in a couple weeks, what's the cheapest way to do it?
I looked in renting a U-Haul. They quoted me $800 for the smallest U-Haul, and don't have any cargo vans available
ABF U-Pack, one of those 'moving pod' companies quoted me a similar price
I don't even have a lot of crap, I'm going to ditch most of my current furniture. Mostly books, clothes, computer, music, electronics that would fit in a small van
>>17272648
I just moved 2000 miles away for nearly nothing.
>$200 plane ticket
>$200 for parents to ship my shit to me, or do this yourself if you already have an address, about 4-5 standard size moving boxes (I used assorted size boxes usually much smaller, but if I had packed like that it would be 4-5). One box camping shit, one box bedding, one box clothes, one box shoes and assorted stuff, and then some other shit that maybe would be half a box. Use parcel...
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>>17272862
Also I say $200 to ship my shit, I don't really know how much it will end up being. I told my parents to use parcel post but the fuckwits used 2-day priority which is exorbitant. Then they refuse to take my money for it all... I also had my bike to ship which costs 70 (bike is valued around 1400 as is, 1600-1800 new, I bought it for 200.)
rent an SUV from a car rental company
my supposed fiance ignores me when i am sad or crying or miss him. i don't understand how someone can do this to someone they supposedly love. i am very coldly ignored and treated like a nuisance when this happens. what can i do? are most men like this? why do men hate when women care about them and miss them? i just wish he was as obsessed with me as i am with him.
>>17272634
you have an ideal in your head. face the reality.. maybe hes not the one
>>17272664
that's how i'm feeling. it's not an ideal, because i didn't take him or men's supposed feelings seriously, precisely for this reason. yet again i am correct, meanwhile he tries to make me feel like, when i feel uncared for, that i am irrational or something, when he straight up ignores me. why do men try to sell a narrative of deeply loving someone when they truly do not? why do that? why?
>>17272634
Same position as you but a man, and I would love nothing more than having her care like you do. There's nothing you can do unless you get in to manipulation which likely isn't something you want to do. A relationship is a fit for both people, there are probably ideals you do not fit for his preferences and obviously it goes the other way too.
Personally, mutually returned love is something I've been longing for for a long time now, and I doubt I'll ever find it.
I am a temporary NEET. I am 24 and have 1-2 years working in a service/IT environment in regards to fixing customer PCs, order/ticket management, sales, team leading/department supervision, etc. from a certain large office supplies company and many, many years of pre-college schoolwork and personal work involving fixing, building, and refurbishing PCs with some [stale] electronics engineering experience fixing game systems, audio products, cellphones, etc.
I'm trying to find a help desk job, albeit I'd rather it be internal IT work than customer focused; I am...
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>>17272625
25 year old NEET, former web dev here. I did web dev for 1.5 years. I have now been NEET for 10 months...
How long have you been NEET for? I'm guessing a lot less time than me.
>I am a temporary NEET. I am 24 and have 1-2 years working in a service/IT environment in regards to fixing customer PCs, order/ticket management, sales, team leading/department supervision, etc. from a certain large office supplies company and many, many years of pre-college schoolwork and personal...
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>>17272625
>>17272651
Continued:
>Should I get into networking? Databases? Maybe just focus on IT? What certifications/paths are the best balance of easily milked/good pay/easy to find a job with?
Networking stuff is completely different. I've never learned anything about that. I assume you mean as like a network engineer, which is obviously a hardware role rather than a software role. You probably know much more about networking...
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Three fields:
Development
Admin
Support
Pick one. You don't need to program for a helpdesk role.
Native American male who's had long hair my entire life.
I'm about to go get it all cut off, but am clueless as to what kind of haircut to get.
Do I just go to them and ask them what they think would look best?
Fuck it, I'll just go ask and see what happens
Have you tried asking /fa/?
>>17272614
Why not just wear feathers and a headband?
Can a medical professional lie and deny the fact that they've received medical records from another medical professional? The patient did sign a form for the release of medical records. But can a medical professional deny the fact that they received medical records?
Anyone?
he can lie about it but if that lie interferes with patient well being than he can be sued
>>17272649
I just need to know if he ever received it and /or when. I remember telling my last medical professional if the new professional that I was planning to see wore a very specific type of attire and at one point diagnosed me with a specific diagnosis to label me as psychotic, to cover themselves that it could cause a panic attack reaction out of me. After seeing them a few times they wore this type of attire. A strong panic attack was created. I was later diagnosed with the mentioned diagnosis.
But till this...
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>tfw your mom is a milf
fuck this
I get too much shit for this
pic related
>>17272464
Why don't you give her your D? That way you won't feel so bad about it.
>>17272464
I see no milfs there.
>>17272464
Which hot piece of milf snatch did you come from OP?
