I wouldn't expect a person who doesn't have a similar lifestyle to yours to be able to tolerate it and be loyal at the same time. So if you're okay with that - go for someone who also fucks random people for money you fucking whooore
Lmao

Yeah find a guy who wants an open relationship?

I'm sure there's a guy out there who is thinking "gee I want to be with a girl who lets me fuck other girls, in return for this I'll let her fuck other guys"

It's not impossible.

Nope. I'd never seriously consider you to be anything more than a quick fuck and not relationship material.

>>17274635
Comepletely depends on the woman or girl. I would not kiss girls i met on tinder though, how many other niggas dicks they suck, i dont know, 5 hours after meeting them? Gross, OP.

>>17274635
Possibilty, these girls are looking for casual sex and you blow them away with the whole passionate crap, which really just sounds like your frisky, which to girls comes off as desperate, or clingy, or other bad things. Keep ya cool OP

>>17274653
I'm gross like that though ;)

>>17274621
>Any suggestions for how I can cheer up right now and get back on my feet? The self-pity doesn't help much but I'm having a hard time pulling out of it.

The people in your Facebook feed at presenting an idealized, carefully selected picture of their lives, with all of the bad moments and troubles removed.

Of course you can't compare. Not even them can compare to their own Facebook image.

>>17274621
Your actions have consequences, own the choices you make.

>>17274630

>Not even they can compare to their own Facebook image.

I guess so.

>>17274631

I think that's what I'm trying to do but I'm not sure how to without turning myself into a wreck.

These are traits of someobe who has borderline personality behavior.

If you can deal with being shamed, then "copied" after doing an action she doesn't like in a controlling matter; the relationship can work.

For some it's something that can be worked with, for others; it can be extremely difficult.

Be safe, anon.

>>17274600
Let me guess- you're a freshman in college doing his first Sociology course?

>>17274600

So is it worth even talking about? I find it rather annoying and a bit frustrated in the moment but i guess it's something i can live with. Obviously the best resolution would be if she could admit that it's not the best way of acting and try to reduce it but she just seems to act defensively if i bring light to her hypocrisy or spitefulness so it seems like a dead end.

yea try something

you will always regret it if you don't. but the feelings will pass and another will come anyway if you don't.

I feel like trying, even though i know a positive outcome is unlikely (i'm probably looking at 2/3 awkward days, but i'd rather have that than the regret of not trying). The thing is... How do i even do it? Randomly, i get some minutes alone with her. Normally, i just ask some questions about pacients or something like that. Like... Coffee?

Bump. Any anons can give me suggestions on what to do? Is coffee too date-ish? I suck at this

>>17274558
Not everyones lucky enough to have a mother op. Id be more grateful if i was you. I cant make decisions for you but if you were on your deathbed tomorrow, wouldnt you look over the pettiness and hope your mom was there for you? Be the bigger man/woman anon. Our loved ones can hurt us the most because we care about them the most but they are what matters most, at least from my perspective. Your mother loves you and it kinda sounds like your running away from her or yourself?

Women have a strange way of communicating, but a mothers intuition is solid. Maybe she talks shit because she wants you to do better? It could be her way of coping. Regardless of the reality of it, if you'd quit fucking up there would be no shit to talk

>>17274573
It doesn't seem like a little thing for her to talk shit about me and try to make me come off as literally retarded to anyone around her. It makes me very angry and makes me want to uppercut her in the cunt. I mean, should I just look past it? It just feels like such a betrayal, and a part of me thinks "fuck her, she did this to hurt me, so she did this to herself, I don't care if she worries or feelsbad when I cut contact"

At the same time, I pick up what you're putting down. She...
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Dude get a grip or get help professionally dont come to 4chan with that bullcrap

>>17274547
But this is the advice board. I wanna get these images out of my head. Maybe it came from me browsing /b/

>>17274542
Whatever it is youre doing, fuckin stop it now. Go outside and reflect or just talk to someone. You seem isolated, would you like to talk about some things?

Bumping because I'm shameless.

I just read through the Unsent letter / confession or whatever thread on here and I can't stop crying. I'm afraid I'm gonna end up with pure regret for the rest of my life If I end this. Like I'll have lost my one shot at real love and it's never going to stop hurting. But I also can't stop my brain from thinking these stupid destructive thoughts. "I want to be alone. I want to live alone. I want to figure out who the fuck I really am. I want to play guitar for ten hours a day. I want to be different...
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>>17274636
>gonna end up with pure regret for the rest of my life If I end this
Pretty much. If you think you should fight for your relationship do it and don't chicken out. You can lose jobs and material shit but there is little next to losing a person forever and holding on to their memory.

Having identity problems? Great. Tell your partner that in the best possible way and ask for understanding. If your partner is awesome, he/she definitely will.

It's gonna be hard...
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>>17274540
Fucking talk to her and work on things with her.
Relationships have ups and downs. It's normal. What makes a good relationship is not not having down, but being able to talk about things and solve them.Talk to her and see what you can do together to fix it.
It's fine to be alone even if you're together, it's fine to take time to take time to figure out who you really are even while staying together.
She will support you and help you through this process, if she loves you.

Don't...
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It's called compassion fatigue bro, thank the media for it

>>17274484
Stop playing with yourself!

Basically what anon said. At this point I'm so desensitised, I stopped giving a shit completely.

No. First of all, you know barely anything about them. One of them could be taking care of her dying mother every waking hour she's away from work, and you would be judging her for taking antidepressants because, uh, she has a boyfriend and is hot so what the fuck is your problem miss??
So that is the first issue. You have absolutely no idea of what their circumstances were growing up, how their health is (some - few - people sincerely have issues with their serotonin receptors and physically cannot be happy without help), and so on. Judging them is presumptuous because...
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Different people have different problems that they all deal with differently. For you it might seem odd that they have to resort to anti depressants at their age, however to them it's normal, and if you ask me; 18-25 isn't really that young to have to take medication to aid you.

>>17274488
This.
Also, some people suffer from severe anxiety or depression or whatever even if it isn't cause by difficult circumstances, and that's some of the hardest shit to deal with. When everything in your life is going well, from an outside perspective, but getting out of bed makes you want to cry anyway, that's a serious illness and medication can be a very effective way of treating that.

So yeah, don't judge because you aren't their doctor and you don't know what they're going through.

Cute shit like stuffed owls (her fav animal), cloth dresser, new mop, fan for her computer desk, etc etc. It really isn't that hard to think of small material shit to get them. Jewelry is a copout in my opinion. It's too original

>>17274482
Yeah but I want to give her something that she can keep for a long time that reminds her of me.
She's not going to be pleased if I give her a mop and a desk fan for graduating uni and she's too old for stuffed animals...

If its a new relationship and you don't know enough about her to know what a nice gift might be, don't get anything. A generic gift just seems tryhard af.

>>17274459
Either you're a dwarf or you are an idiot and nothing is to scale.

>>17274477
What makes you say that?

>>17274514
You tell me. Why would I write that? But sure, prove me wrong. Label the dimensions of your room and its furnishings.

She would have given you an answer by now if she wanted to be with you. Cut her out of your life and move on, it's the best move long term for you man.

The thing is Anon I can get over her, its just I am such good friends with her family, her mother always invites me over for lunch with the whole family and her brother and I always go out and gym together daily. If there's one thing she did also mention was and I quote " you're stuck with me forever - no matter what" and she always brings that up? Could she be fiddling me and trying to wrap me around her finger?

>>17274473
You're not stuck with her. Sounds like she is trying to friend zone you hard af. If you completely cut contact she'll see you're an alpha who doesn't care if she doesn't want you

Try to talk to people who speak English, read speeches, watch English news. Also, you want to make sure you learn either the U.K. English or American English. There are some subtle and other more obvious differences, some being cultural and others semantic.

>>17274398
>i'm learnig english for 3 years. why i can't speak english?
English is usually considered one of the hardest languages for non-native speakers to learn.

>i know the grammer %50-60, i know nearly 1000-1100 words but my speaking is terrible. and my accent is very bad.
It's generally thought that you need about 1500 words to really start to get good with the language. "Simple English" is a good list. There's a whole...
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>>17274446
Also, don't feel bad that you didn't know this. Even most native speakers don't know this. But it's real, and it really helps.

Get up when you need to piss. Stay up.

>>17274400
I've tried that.

I just get tired again as soon as I'm up and crawl back.

Take a shower and go learn to make a new recipe assuming you're not poor.