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I'm 20 and I've never had a relationship in my life and I feel like it's seriously made me emotionally unavailable. Even on a TALKING level, I can't get past the "small talk" stage with a guy because the idea of small talk is so pointless to me, I can't even think of what I'm supposed to say.
At this point I'd consider myself a hookup slut more than anything; I've made out/done touchy stuff with guys and I can flirt no problem but when it comes to actually COMMUNICATING with a guy who's interesting I'm cold and...
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bump for interest
Do you have any friends?
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My little brother is being catfished by this person for 3 months adn he wouldn't believe me. She said her name is Donna Joyce Montenegro originally from the Philippines but now recently moved to San Francisco. I traced her IP and it showed a Phillipine IP address. My little brother is crazy in love with this "woman" who is sending him these cute photos ans some nude ones. Anyone here familiar with the woman in the picture?
Tried reverse searching these images?
>>17296788
>I traced her IP and it showed a Phillipine IP address
How?
my female friend's birthday is coming up, i want to get her something nice but im not really sure what to get her. she's not in to much except make up i guess but i don't want to get her something she doesn't want. any ideas?
anyone?
Maybe a makeup tutorial thing like at Mac they put it on you and you get to keep a product you like?
Give her a Sephora or Ulta gift card.
moving to LA in a couple months. I am 22 and I was wondering if you guys think is weird to live close to the ucla campus and hit on girls there/do college shit/bars? I feel like I missed out on the college experience and want to live close by to try to get a second chance. I just don't want to come off like some creepy older guy trying to stay young or whatever.
google maps says ride to work is 20 minutes from ucla. I hear about bad traffic, but leaving early in the morning doesn't sound so bad.
Why not just go to a bar closer to your place? College bars aren't going to give you the 'college experience'
dude if your 22 you will probably fot right in.
>>17296522
how did you get enough money to move to la anon?
Okay guys so what the hell is wrong with me
I went out clubbing last night, first time ever actually. I was told it would be an easy way to get over a breakup and that I should let loose. Got drunk enough that I vomited and also people were blurs. Texted like 3 female friends dirty stuff like I wanna be inside you and asking what they were wearing etc.
I don't consider myself very conservative or traditional, but when I woke up I just felt so incredibly disgusted with myself, because I got that drunk, the texts, dirty thoughts I had with people I felt absolutely...
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>>17296509
Congratulations, you've learned that "just get laid" is terrible advice for getting over a breakup.
Your problem is you have too much self-respect.
>>17296511
Even if it wasn't to let go of ex, I am still sure I would have felt just as bad minus the missing her pussy more
I thought only women experienced this
maybe i have pussy and im lesbian
So tomorrow I'm going to ask out this girl.
>Met her 3 weeks ago
>See her a few times a week since
>We talk a bit here and there nothing serious, but I never get the opportunity to ask her out because I always see her when I'm with a pack of friends, and its her work so I don't want to make things awkward
>But I think she is waiting for me to ask her out because she was eyeballing me hard the other day and watching to see if I checked...
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halp
>>17296372
>Any tips on how not to fuck this up?
Not really. The key to asking a girl out in any situation is building a report and then using that report to make her comfortable. On top of that, of course, she has to actually like you.
If you've concluded that she likes you then all you have to do is use the back and fourth you already have to your advantage. My suggestion is to not just walk up and ask her out. If she feels like she's being put on the spot she might turn you down on principal even if she wants to say yes.
Strike up a conversation. Chat, smile, laugh a little, let her get comfortable and when you see an opportunity, go for it.
>>17296499
So I talked to a buddy of mine and he said under no circumstances should I ask a girl out at her work. Is this the case even if she goes out of her way to speak to you while working, and multiple people agree she is into me?
This is the kind of girl where if I don't at least ask, I'm going to fucking hate myself.
Has anyone here dealt with having two roommates and only space in the garage for three cars?
My roommate just finally bought a car after nearly two years of living here. It's a used car, not as nice as mine and my roommate's cars... We really don't want to park outside all the time and expose our cars to the elements. I'm sure he doesn't want to either, but... Yeah.
Do I just tell him that my other roommate and I had first dibs on the garage and he'll have to wait for a space to open up?
>>17296346
Space for two cars, I meant... Not 3.
>>17296346
First come first serve.
>>17296346
Yeah, we pretty much just said if the garage is free, use it. If it's full, park on the street
Where should I take a girl out on a first date. We've know each other for awhile but have never gone on a date.
It doesn't have to be serious. Grab a coffee, go to a park.
I've read sokewhere that taking them somewhere like an ice skating rink would create positive memories of you afterwards and make an impression. Don't know how true that is.
not op, but what if we live in a shit city where there are really few things to do
>>17296850
OP here, same situation. We live in a small town with nothing to do.
What are the red flags I should look for when meeting someone new?
>almost all of her friends are guys
>abusive past relationships, or abusive childhood in general
>>17295956
I never understood why the
>almost all her friends are guys
is a red flag.
I have a lot of guy friends, and I always did, since childhood. What's wrong with it?
>>17295956
I dated one, had daddy issues. She wants to be dominated and be treated like a "princess." It's not bad, but that is what most likely going in her head.
>>17295963
At least in my experience, this usually means she's a drama queen that can't get along with other girls.
I'm not saying this automatically implies it, but for me personally this is what I've seen happen.
How do you allow yourself to be vulnerable and develop a truly deeper bond with a male friend?
Seems like a good starting point before women
>>17295897
Fight him for the title of Hokage
>>17295897
Can't you just acknowledge out loud, not even to yourself, that you love him and this isn't gonna end up in you furiously sucking his dick?
Must you rush that "-AS A FRIEND, OF COURSE, HAHA!" otherwise it automatically means you like it up your bum?
It's not like every breath you take is a test of your manhood or sexual orientation. Just start saying what you mean and mean what you say.
>>17296846
Oh absolutely I love him, I know that
I guess I want to show that and feel comfortable enough to be open and caring with someone I love, who is a friend
Any guy here have experience with varicocele veins? About a week now my balls havent been feeling normal, mostly the left one.
I made a doc appt for wednesday worried as fuck if it's cancer...
>>17295854
Bump
It's not likely to be cancer.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Varicocele
>>17295854
It is more likely just snoo.
How do I lose my emotions? I'm sensitive as fuck and the slightest things in life make me overreact.
> inb4 I need my emotions.
>>17295814
Pls respond
>>17295814
Bump I wanna lose my emotions
>>17295814
You don't. The opposite is worse.
Trust me on that.
How do I enjoy WoW? People have played for over a decade I must be missing something.
You grind endlessly for achievements and/or gear. This allows you to display your superiority. Displaying superiority is the key to this game.
>>17295695
finally a virgin thread
Yes you need to make sure you get the must have mounts like time lost proto drake and also have the best PvP titles to add to your name
Remember, raiding is for babies and arenas are for real skill
People have not been playing WoW for over a decade.
The player mass is constantly fluctuating. Old players left the game long ago, typically around when Cataclysm came and shat all over the place (technically "looking for raid" mechanic came in WotlK and laid down the coffin, Cata just nailed it). WoW player base would have been decreasing the last years if it weren't for chinese gold farming industry booming.
Apparently Mists of Pandaria blew some fresh air into the game, then Warlords of Draenor shat on everything again.
The biggest problem is...
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I just acquired $350 and I don't know what to do with it.
I am a high school student.
Save it
Buy all the cocaine and hookers you can
>>17295666
So im very used to drinking ,and im very used to smoking weed too. I dont ever mix the two,only a couple times and i just fell asleep. Yesterday i was at my friends house and we started to drink Jagermeister,we finished it and went to the city to go to a club. Halfway there i realised im not drunk enought to have fun in the club,so i really need to smoke(thats what i told myself,but i was buzzed from drinking). My friend rolled one joint and i started smoking and took lik 4 big inhales just to be safe to not be sober for the night. Everything was going great untill we were at...
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Also,i looked so bad on the floor that a guy actually checked my puls and wanted to call an ambulance(thank god he didnt)
Hahaha serves you right for drinking high school pussyshit liquor like Jäger
Pussy
>>17295342
And what do you drink? medical alchohol? Kill yourself
