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I just don't know. Most of the time I just made what others told me to do, and when it came to the time of taking decisions, I just don't bloody know. What I enjoy now I may end up hating tomorrow, and what I didn't wanted to be is what I may end up being.
I feel social pressure, due to everyone doing the typically overly-discussed virgin/kiss bullshit, yet I don't know if I want to be in a relationship or if I just want to get rid of that tag, so that I can stop thinking about it.
I feel like I missed High School, since I was always anxious about somebody saying something in my back. Nowadays is the same, I just stare at people around, and what is behind me just makes me sometimes anxious. Anything can be behind, tresspasing the limits of reality, because it's something that you cannot see.
I get angry when I see people in a relationship. I think of the (boy I don't really want to say this, this is something that a virgin would say) rampant and violent sex that they must have. Screaming, screeching, tables and chairs slamming to the floor.
I just don't know if I'm more interested in what the outside world thinks about me than analysing myself and understanding who I want to be in the future, and where I want to stand on.
I'm someone that takes pills for when they feel like shit, due to having high pressure. Even then, I start to feel more like shit more frequently. It gnaws my mind.
I'm someone that hates his mother, even though she's spending blood and soul to be in the position we (my family) are.
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I don't know, I'd probably need to go outside more, but even then I think about all the shit that I have to do for college, and even then I end up procrastinating until the sun falls and the moon rises.
I'd probably need to ask that girl for once, gather some balls and ask to her. Even then, the only women that I mostly talked to (my mother and sister) take me as some kind of joke. Even then, the other women that seemed to start a relationship with me, I just couldn't say "Hi,...
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Look at all this mess. Look at all this wankstain. Why am I even bothering with this bullshit. If you call someone and say "this was written by an 18yo man" they would probably say that this guy is a manchild that wants life in a silver platter. Fool, using an anonymous image-sharing forum as a blog/diary. Literally everyone is/was going through this phase you idiot. You just sat on your lardass butt and did nothing to get rid of these problems. What a joke of a human being you are. The next year...
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>>17296219
That's it. This is all the text that I wanted to say.
If you read this. Thank you. I didn't wanted to do this but hey. I needed to get this out.
And yes, there may be other threads for this. Like the "Get it out of your chest". But I didn't felt like it was just one thing.
Anyways thank you. Now I guess I'll go back to being normal I guess. If I can...heheheh...
I feel used by my entire family. I do the chores for almost everybody, my mother and I are the ones that do mostly everything. I have to clean up after my step father and brother. The funny thing is that they both act like complete assholes to me. My stepfather is a sociopath/narcissist and my older brother recently got a girlfriend so he spends half his time either snapchatting, skyping, or meeting up with her and constantly puts me down. It's taking a toll on me and prevents me from doing the things I want to do like work-out or read, but I find myself exhausted by the...
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>>17296205
I'm also taking a summer class that is quite time consuming and difficult. My weekends are usually dictated by my mother/stepfather, so I have little freedom to just leave and such
>>17296236
bump
Life is absolute shit and will not get any better, so what is the fastest and most painless way to kill yourself.
This is my last resort, so do not try and tell me that i need to "wait it out" and that "things will get better". I am done. My life is only going to go down from here, so im just going to put an end to it.
>inb4 selfish coward
And water is wet
>>17296194
Do you have a garage? If so carbon monoxide poisoning is silent, painless, and odorless.
>>17296253
I dont want to hurt anyone else in my house on accident
That's my favorite movie.
How do I know if he really likes me?
My ex boyfriend and I are great friend and we still hangout regularly. He has this one friend, whom we shall call Matt, who we sometimes hangout with.
When ever I hangout with Matt, it gets physical quit quick. He lays his hand on my hip if we stand next to me, we usually sit next to each others and I can sometimes feel him trying to get to stand behind me, very near me. He has many times told me I'm beautiful (when drunk, that is) and we always end up making out, hugging and being like glued to each others.
My...
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That's some advanced mental gymnestics you're using there. He likes you so stop worry about it.
>>17296186
You obviously like each other, and this wouldn't be such a problem if you weren't trying to be friends with your ex like an idiot. Just get together without him knowing.
You guys hang out at bars?
That way your ex is going to know...
How much affection is there normally between couples?
A week ago I ended my fourth relationship for the same reason: lack of affection from her. To give you an idea, I'll explain how our mornings went:
>I wake up before her, as I usually do
>since it's the weekend, I just read the news on my tablet while I wait for her to wake up
>she wakes up, dresses and leaves the room, without saying a single word to me after walking around the bed
>later she comes back in the room and picks up her laptop to take to the kitchen so she can stay on Facebook
And that was it.
There was absolutely no external affection on her part aside from the kiss when we first meet, which is initiated by me. No hugs or kisses while spending the weekend together, no initiation on her part for sex, no verbal ackowledgement that I was even there, nothing.
Am I looking too much into this? Are my views on how two people in a relationship behave with eachother wrong? Am I expecting too much?
I'm asking because this is the fourth time it's happened. Either there is something wrong with me, or I'm just having terrible luck.
>>17296178
You're going to make a great first husband for some lucky young gal out there.
>>17296197
Is that sarcasm?
I don't even know anymore, I'm sorry.
>Am I expecting too much?
na, probably just bad luck
I had sex with my girlfriend yesterday.
I came once and then we started fucking about twenty minutes after again.
Both of the times I used a condom, but the second time the motherfucker broke. I didn't ejaculate inside of her but she is in fertile days and I didn't was my penis after the first lovemaking session. I really can't have a fucking babby.
Can someone tell my dumbass it's gonna be fine? I don't want to get her on the pill (cuz of the hormone shit). What do you reccomend /adv/
>>17296169
Children are the most difficult, but by far the most rewarding part of life. You'll be a great father
Morning after pill
I recommend not having sex if you absolutely cannot risk pregnancy
French here. Can apply for US citizenship.
I have a degree in computer science but no postgrad or work experience - my grades were pretty shit 'cause I skipped many classes but I'd say I’m pretty good.
What's a good non-shithole country to start a career ? Would prefer to stay somewhere in or around europe, but not necessary.
You have to live in the US legally for four years before you can apply.
Maybe look into Mexican citizenship first, then cross the border illegally. Then you can stay indefinitely
>>17296165
No experience, shit grades, skipping classes to me equates to poor work ethic. Good luck mate. You'll need it
>>17296196
>Maybe look into Mexican citizenship first, then cross the border illegally. Then you can stay indefinitely
are you retarded or what? a French citizen can visit the US on a tourist visa very easily. If they fly to Orlando Disney will even subsidize the flight.
>tfw got rejected from every university I applied to for engineering
should I just kill myself?
I'm in a university right now that offers a half program but not a full program (UPEI)
I don't want to work minimum wage for the rest of my life. my grades aren't even that bad (70s avg)
>>17296161
The vast vast vast majority of people in the world aren't engineers and yet reasonably content.
It seems as though engineering and contentedness are independent of each other totally.
>>17296161
Why engineering? Have you looked into other careers? Engineering fetishes are overly common and need to be overwritten. Look into other fields.
>>17296177
If you can't do engineering change to a Math major, since you probably have quite a lot of math classes out of the way already.
How do I inspire fear as a Dungeon master ? I want my players to shit themselves.
>>17296116
Are we talking about d&d or bdsm?
>>17296116
Put some bass in ya voice
>>17296116
>>>/tg/
And fear is a fun thing to work with. Firstly, before establishing anything scary, do let your players know or sense that this what is coming is supposed to be frightful. Then, find a way to "ask" them to comply with the fear - like saying "for it to work, you need to allow yourself to become susceptible to the fear", that kind of stuff. Hypnosis works the same way. Then work on building scary things, things you feel your players...
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Getting back together with ex but last night the girl he had sex with once said her period is one week late. Could she really be pregnant even though they used a condom and it didn't break? Also it didn't leak from top or anything like that, was put on before penis touched vagina.
>>17296085
Does it really not bother you at all getting back together with a guy who literally fucked another girl that recently?
>>17296093
I fucked another guy too so no
>>17296085
>Could she really be pregnant even though they used a condom and it didn't break?
Yes. 1 out of every 50 women who use condoms perfectly will get pregnant within a year.
I really need some help.
Ive been dating this guy for a little over 3 years now. Hes the only person ive ever dated, and hes pretty much my best friend too (and i guess only friend). (Kind of relevant, i am gay).
I met this other guy who ive started to develop feelings for. We have a lot in common, hes super talented, very attractive and he has quite a large following online. All around, hes just an amazing guy. Ive been talking to him a lot and hes been helping me through some stuff, so i think thats kind of what made me start liking him.
I really dont...
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>>17296082
>>and he has quite a large following online
Tf that mean? Is he your online boyfriend?
>>17296136
We arent dating, but he does live pretty far away. I found him through one of his social media accounts
>>17296145
>Ive been talking to him a lot and hes been helping me through some stuff, so i think thats kind of what made me start liking him.
Wow, imagine what your current relationship would have become if you talked to your SO instead
Title says it all
Anyone have experience?
Whats it like to sleep with a mature woman?
Any benefits?
Im 20 and have been with women older (21-25) but that seems normal. I am thinking of hitting up some cougar bars just for shits.
>>17296081
I'm pretty convinced that most older women have HPV. I'm a grill, but my mom and all her friends have HPV. And my mom has a very... vivid dating life. And she never tells anyone she has HPV (in case you don't know, thats warts breh). Which I often lecture her on, because she's had like 4 sex partners in the past couple of years, and she goes raw because she cannot get pregnant anymore (menopause).
Back in their time, people were not very educated about stds. She got HPV at a young age....
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>>17296081
They are just older women. I've been with a 37 year old and a 49 year old, just do all the same shit you would with a regular girl. They still want to feel pursued and beautiful and worthwhile, so give that feeling to them and be attractive and you're in
>>17296102
thats good advice, thanks anon.
I'm not the biggest fan of rubbers but in this case I will be cautious
>>17296117
did you do anything fun after? I heard about sugar daddies for women but is that a thing for guys?
While on vacation I fell deeply in love with a girl. She has a boyfriend but we have a lot in common and I think she noticed. I'm leaving the country tomorrow and I probably will not see her till next year. I already feel sad, what should I do? All I have is her snap chat.
>pic not related
Let her go
If she is truly yours she will come back to you
>>17296079
fuck her my man
>>17296079
what >>17296389 said.
fuck her brains out
How do I get over her, /adv/?
I broke up with her over a year and a half ago, I visited her two months ago and she's become a different person that I don't even like anymore.
So why is it that I can't do normal, daily things anymore without feeling sad and lonely and missing doing it with her?
We were together for over 3 years and we still chat occasionally. I've wanted to remove her (along with everyone I know, almost to the point of isolation with only one or two people left) but I can't make myself do it. I haven't found the perfect...
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This talks about how to breakup but I think the core argument still aplies: don't insist on being liked by someone you no longer like. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPXIzJcfAMk
You have to understand that she is not unique, not "the one". The concept of One True Love is false and you have to let her go. The person you liked already doesn't exit. Stop talking to her altogether, you dont need an excuse, it for your wellbeing.
You are mourning the loss of the person she was before and obssesing over "what went wrong with her". What...
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>>17296111
She's certainly unique in the sense that she's the only girl I've met in now over 23 years that liked me back. Not even my own mother has managed that yet.
These days though it feels like she avoids me, but when confronted she'll just blame it on being too depressed to even get online to chat with anybody, that she's distant with even her own family, etc.
Thanks though, I'll look at the video.
>>17296073
I'm internetfriends with this probably autistic ginger (16)and he just had his bday so i thought i'd send him something cause he seems depressed and soulless as usual. But the gift has to be baitish or so. I was thinking on rope, a diy fleshlight or some hair dye for obvious reasons. Or should i send an engagement ring box with a lable inside that says wanna fuk?
So any better ideas 4chan?
And I'm female if that matters.
>>17296064
Gift him the rope so he can kill himself on his birthday party, nobody is going to the party, so why not.
Send him one of your dildos or one from the store.
>>17296075
A fuckin rope? If you think that's a funny gift to send a possibly autistic 16 year old then YOU need to fuckin kill yourself. Fucking miserable sadistic bitches
